I've been living with my boyfriend and his family for 2-3 years now and it's time to move out because in the beginning when I first moved in there were no problems nor issues , I babysit for her every single day until she gets off work.. Um , I have noticed that her & her husband are having "Conversations" and when I'm around them the subject changes ... and I also notice that his mother has come home and the whole entire mood in the house changes with in the snap of a finger. I'm unemployed because I receive disability monthly and she knows that from what I was told about it in the beginning she's fine with it and for a long time it felt that way , But now it's weird , My boyfriend & I have a room in the basement and we get privacy. I have 0 friends here and the only person I call to "Gossip" to is my best friend I tell her about the mood swings my boyfriends mother has along with other things. I've tried to tell my boyfriend about it and he doesn't listen to me he thinks I'm lying about it to him is family "Would never do that or gossip" etc .. I'm just trying to figure out did she or someone hear a conversation over the phone and didn't agree with it.. idk what it is because his mother isn't the type to talk. But little bitty hints have been shown like some days we don't speak like we use to she use to gossip to me about a lot of things and now we sit in the same room and not speak its awkward 

It might be my fault for having them in the house, I don't know how to ask without her getting defensive then using her authority to avoid it. I could be wrong, and the small amounts I've noticed missing aren't at all. It would explain why she's working so "elaborately," though. How do I approach this? Or do I need to ask a professional? I'm scared and going to live in denial, especially because of it possibly being my fault. We used to be such a great family, please help!

For example two sisters . if I tell the older sister 'I don't like when you call my house late at night can you please stop ?' She will react w something like 'well **** you ***** ! Who you think you are the queen?' And she will run to everyone and talk a lot of crap about how she aught to teach me a lesson etc. But if I say this to the younger sister ..she will react with just agreeing but will cry and talk about how I hurt her feelings etc.

My grandpa put a laxative in her drink to prank her and you can guess what happened. She now wants a divorce. Do you think she is overreacting?

I will be moving to VA from NY in September to be with my boyfriend. I have tried to talk to my mom about this and everytime she got really angry and upset. My boyfriend has a really stable job there and I have been applying for jobs there. We are both very serious about this relationship and have talked about starting our lives together. My mom has nothing against my boyfriend personally, she just really don't like I'll be moving away from her, especially to another state. I told her many times, even before I met my boyfriend, that I want to get out of NY, and I do love the atmosphere in Virginia. She just thinks I'm being influenced by my boyfriend and listening to everything he says. She's just not taking anything I say, calling me selfish for wanting to move away from her, abandoning her. My boyfriend and I plan to tell my mom together about me moving down around August. Would that be too late? I know there will be a lot of yelling and anger from her regardless of when we tell her.

My ex and I broke up a few months ago. We lived together and were using drugs..but when I felt our once good relationship had started to become ALL ABOUT the drugs ..I suggested we stop ..maybe even try counsling together. She did not think it was that big of deal and didn't want to stop ..but when I said I would no longer bring them home(I worked w my dealer and was was the one supplying us) and I basically cut her off..she kicked me out . Here is the kicker..everyone (including my own family ) assumes I'm the bad guy cuz she made way more money than me and she owned the house and they think I was just mooching off her and she is just the innocent victim. My friends and family won't speak to me but they love her and I hear they all complain about me together ..yet the last few months she's been messaging me playing sweet trying to get me to hook her up w drugs again. I can't just show my family the texts as she's very smart and just texts things like 'hey can you help me out w some groceries ?" That was our'code ' word between us for drugs so I know she's asking me for drugs..but if in tell my family and show the texts and explain this..she can just easily say I'm lying and that she is just asking me to help her out w food after all the time she financially supported me ! She's got everyone against me while still trying to use me to get drugs..and now she even won my whole family over ! This is a 43 year old woman who owns a nice home w a good job etc.

It hurts to hear this and breaks my heart but is she right? She left him because he did not love her, only the alcohol. He won't get help and says she is the problem.

My younger sister hasn't spoken to me in over three years. She moved out because she was dating a married man and obviously my family didn't approve. She just had spine surgery and needs help financially. Instead of reaching out to family, she started a gofund me page. I can financially help her but she hasn't spoken to me in 3 years so why should I? I'm torn on what to do. 

My mom won't even let me walk around the block and I'm almost 18. If she lets me do one thing, like hang out with my friends, I can't do anything the next day, or at least for a week. This applies to time before the virus. I'm well aware of what's going on and I have been keeping myself home. I know this will apply to when the virus ends as well.

I grabbed her by the shoulders and shook them because at age 26 she was being a complete idiot. She was blocking the bathroom door at the family beach place and mad that she had to share with me. Mad I wouldn't go downstairs at night to use the restroom. I have to use the restroom frequently at night so not going to walk all around the house to go. I called her the B word and shook her by the shoulders. She claimed I choked her and has not spoken to me since. My parents sent her home from the trip and assured me I did absolutely nothing wrong. I do think grabbing her may have been a mistake but most of it was on her. I was bullied as a child and sometimes can't take it or segregation from family events. So what do I do about this? The sister is 26 with the maturity of a four year old. I am 37 but with learning disabilities probable about college aged in maturity. This same sister had just texted my brother's wife a message from my Mom saying "please clean up after yourselves for Grandma, I know you will but David and Lauren never do". David and Lauren are the brother and his wife. Luckily my brother saw it and did not show his wife or seem to mind. What do I do?

I know they gave me life and all but their absolute slobs and hypocrites my mom is a total idiot my dad has anger problems they didn't really raise me right and when I miss behave they go mental at me can't wait till I'm 18 I really wanna live on my own I hope that happens .anyone else hate their parents 

Do I just pretend she is not related? Do I just treat her like an estranged relative? Her mother is the same way but at least the mother is divorced from the family although the mother follows my sister on Facebook. I tried adding her to Instagram last December and same thing, I was immediately blocked. Her mother, the ex-aunt, did the same. I understand the ex-aunt since she has been out of the family for some time but the cousin isn't supposed to. My social mistake was sending more then 1 friend request on Facebook when Facebook was new in 2008. At the time her parents were divorcing.

I am 20 but live at home for right now so can't sneak out and the aunt will run her mouth if I see her and if I say "don't tell my Mom" it will make things worse. My mother had a mental breakdown in February and her sister has been very ignorant about it as is the sister's husband who is the most ignorant person God ever put on earth. However, I want to be able to see my cousins and they live with the aunt. So while I am not a fan of aunt and uncle's ignorance I don't want Mom sucking me into it or aunt. Aunt went off about my Mom the only time I did see her in recent months. Her husband called my Mom a pill-popper so as you see they are no saints. So what do I do? I am upset with Mom and aunt for using me. My step-Dad is using me also and wants me to refuse to speak to them for the time being (he said he doesn't mean forever or anything). My Mom did this when I was little and her brother, now deceased, was an alcoholic. At least there maybe she was being protective.

I feel like he is a teenager who misbehaves with Mom and Dad but is wonderful to his teachers.

Black women say their is a shortage of educated well to black men.  Since their are more black women who have professional jobs compared to black men. Plus black men can and will date out side their race.  Does this put the black men in a position to be demanding on black women? I am thinking it would be easier for him to replace her than for to replace him.

i am in the uk, i am a man in my early forties...i live alone with no support network except my elderly parents who are divorced and live far from me....i have severe mental health problems, i also manage type 2 diabetes...and i live in a council flat which ive lived in since 2005... i am exceptionally close to my mother, but she is shielding at the moment, but before the lockdown she used to visit every 3 weeks and stay with me at my flat for a week...and we would spend quality time together.....my mum is in the vulnerable category that is why she is shielding......... i unfortunately had a disagreement and fell out with my mum early last week, it was my fault, i put the phone down on her because she kept pressing me to open some NHS letters regarding my physical health that im frightened to open...so i said to her '' im sick of this '' and i hung up the phone. my mum used to phone me 4 times each day, so now we are not talking, im missing that contact by phone as im completely on my own now apart from my father who lives very far from me.. so im wondering, when me and my mum make up, i'm anxious to know when she will be able to visit and stay with me again?  - i am really depressed, lonely and are missing my mum.

When i was an adolescent i had a close relationship with my mom, i hated my dad. As an adult i have grown and respected my father much more, for all that he and my mom has done for me. 

So I got a really great job offer that I 100% wanna take. It's 13 hours and two provinces away though. I'm just starting to realize how far that actually is and I'm starting to worry about leaving everything I know behind. Like I'm 21 and the furthest I've lived from my home town is 3 hours. I could just really use some advice on how to make the move easier and how to cope basically. Thanks! 

This is so unfair!!!!!!!!! My dad is a monster,he is always so mean to me!!!!!!!!!!but I still love him!!!!!!!!!!!! Today during lunch we were discussing and i didn't want to eat,my dad told me that if i didn't eat there would be consequen then I told him that i didn't care and he got furious and said that he's gonna teach  me respect and he had a long and boring talk with me. Im not gonna have dessert for a week,that's a horrible punishment!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!that's so unfair!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My dad doesn't know my birthday, how old I am, where I work, what I do or where I used to live for the past 2 years, he never visited or called. I'm living with parents while my mum is ill. What are basic things a parent should know about their kid?  I've just turned 24

My daughter just graduated from college and got her first real job. At a family dinner she told my dad about the problem of using public transportation to get to her job. My dad said problem solved. He took her to a car dealer and bought her a new Kia Soul. He told her is was her college graduation present. She was very happy. Then I had an unexpected problem. My son graduated from high school and he told me it was unfair for his grand father to buy his sister a new car and not buy him one. He is not going to college. He also has a new job. He complained to my dad and my dad told him when he graduated form college he would buy him a new car. Since he is not planning on going to college he thinks what my dad did is unfair. Was it?

I have 2 neighbors that live downstairs (Shane and Melissa who are both 24) and moved in about 2 years ago. Shane used to regularly bash Melissa and neighbors could hear her screaming for hours, then she starts swearing and bashing his doors and windows in. Police were called but nothing happened. Neither of them work and seem to be home all day everyday, Melissa often hangs in front of other neighbors doors and told a neighbor she got pregnant and had an abortion. She ended up getting pregnant again and had a baby 3 months ago. I'm 22 female and currently staying with my mum, Shane and Melissa have repeatedly gone outside when we walk past me and my mum don't want to talk to them because we think they are trouble and we don't say hello. Now for over a month Melissa has been having another female friend staying with them and the both of them sit on the bottom of my stairs drinking and smoking all day (which is around the corner from their unit because I am not directly above them) they have a front way and a back way where they can sit, I only have a back way. Me and my mum have to go to work everyday so it makes it uncomfortable for us and now every time I walk past their back door one of the girls makes screaming noise. Sometimes as soon as I open the front door in the morning they come and sit on the stairs and start smoking. They also talk loudly, play music on their phones and play hide and seek games on our stairs. Why are they doing this and what should I do?

Hi.. She used to like me quite a bit.. to the point that she would give gifts on my birthday and try and get to know me when I visited. We've been together four years and recently got into an argument where we weren't talking for a couple of weeks and I kicked him out of my apartment because I felt disrespected..we made up and he brought up marriage. When the COVID-19 got pretty bad his mom wanted her to be with her and family until things got better. But he chose to stay with me since I live alone and she has four other sons and family members who were there with her.  Her birthday just past and I got her gifts to be kind. She emailed me thank you but when we went to visit her this past weekend she didn't say one word to me. My fiancé told me not to take it personal because that's just how she is towards him too sometimes. But I think she's still mad that I kicked him out and that he chose to stay with me through the pandemic. It's kind of hurtful but the rest of his family including his grandma are nice. It's just his mother that usually is quiet with me or standoffish. I'm not very talkative at all and it's hard for me to open up and be myself around people so this could also be an issue. My fiancé is a man. I'm a woman for the person who asked lol

My sister and I agreed to share locations with each other on our phones because we trust each other, or so I thought. Because she is young, not using as an excuse, she may throw a lie here and there about where she's really going to our parents, but I would know where she really is and vice versa, which I thought was at least trusting to me and good, just in case. My sister and I were talking about rock climbing, and I mentioned how I wanted to go one day during the summer. A week later, for some reason my sister lies to my parents and to me about going to work to fill in for someone. Since she usually does this in the past I got a feeling that she's not really going to work. Turns out she's going rock climbing with her boyfriend using the 'Find My' App. Not sure if I have lost trust, but it hurts to see that my sister lied to me, making me question her trust towards me. I've done nothing wrong to her to have her lie to me. So of course I feel discouraged to be how I usually am and now another week later, "no location found" is what shows up on the 'Find My' App by her name. She hasn't mentioned the rock climbing or the app through the next week. Am I overreacting? Should I just let this go? Or am I just being a big brother? Most importantly did I lose her trust? I don't know what to do Come to think of it, I hope she's not getting used to this becoming a pathological liar? Maybe I'm overreacting

My dad is still bitter about his divorce and my mom got married to my step dad my mom did cheat on my dad with my step dad For 3 years before she finally left him for my step dad my step dad has always treated me like his own he supports me both emotionally spiritually and financially and he is a great father figure to me my step dad and I have a great father and daughter bond which my dad is jealous of my dad tried to turn me against my mother by telling me that my mom loves her husband more than me not true my mom left him not me my mom is happily married to my step father ever since My dad also got remarried to my stepmother and and is happily married to her last year I got married and my father told me that my mother isn't allowed to come to my wedding but I invited her anyway my dad got angry and started throwing things and name calling I got pissed and angry and yelled "YOU RUINED MY DAY FATHER AND YOU KNOW WHY MOM LEFT YOU YOU ARE A SELFISH EVIL B*ITCH GET OVER YOURSELF" I asked the security guard to kick my dad and stepmother out of the wedding and I cut him out of my life after that and my dad drove his entire friends and family away with his crap but my dad thinks he is right and everyone else is stupid I suppose he is a narcissist I have two kids that my dad and stepmother haven't met after cutting them out of my life and my step blamed my dad and told him to deal therapy but he refuses I also cut contact with him after the wedding  How can i cope with this 

I'm 18 and recently had to leave my parents home for many reasons. I've been living and supporting myself ever for almost a full year now. Right now I am living with a friend and her family but am getting to a point where I do not think I can live with this family. Now my next option is to find some where to live if it had to come down to me leaving. I'm trying to think ahead and figure out cheap living alternatives I could do. I've looked into motels and such but it seems very expensive to live from room to room. Especially when I don't make that much. I also have a dog I have to keep and he needs to be able to stya with me too. Anyone have any ideas? 

I grew up in a emotionally physically mentally and verbally abusive household I was Treated like trash I was told I could never do anything in life I was reminded of this daily and my parents yelled at me everything I have done wrong My brother would hit me slap me yell at me and belittle me and bully me my sister would talk bad about me to her friends and laugh at me I was desperate for attention desperate for love I did everything that my sister wanted me to do I covered and lied to her at the end she called me an ugly stupid ***** and laughed about me with her friends I was 11 years old when I told my parents that my brother started hitting me when I didn't do something that they didn't like they threatened me to get my brother to hit me and to yell at me when I was 12 my parents got me a bike and expected me to know how to ride it they got angry at me for not using it so I asked my bff to know how to ride a bike when I was 13 I started choking on water I looked at my mom and begged her to help when I stoped I looked at my mom and asked her why she didn't help me she yelled at me and asked "how do you expected me To help you" I told her that she could have held me and then she stormed off later that night she told my father I was disobedient and rude he yelled at me too I tried to explain myself but he took it as me talking back and pushed me to the floor and beat me with a wire coat hanger and told me that I should learn from talking back  Continue : on the outside world we looked and acted like the perfect family but no one knew how things were behind the scenes as soon as I turned 25 it was the first time I ever stood up for myself and I packed my bags and I told my parents brother and sister " I am moving out you guys ruined my childhood and I am never going to see you ever again you can kiss me goodbye" and I left I moved 10000 miles away and started a new life far away from my family  Continue: I am 70:years old I have a wonderful husband and two children and 3 grandchildren my husband treats me better than my parents brother and sister ever did and he treats me like a queen and he loves me spoils me cuddles me and he has been there for me he helped me heal from the abuse I was going through in my childhood Continue: My mother is still alive and is living in a trailer in Florida alone a lonely old miserable women I will never let her meet her grandchildren and great grandchildren My brother died from lukiemia and my sister died from old age i never let them meet their niece and nephew and Great niece and nephew my dad is dead as well from cancer  Continue: I was so angry that my parents never loved me so I broke the tv by accident 

Its just i failed a subject REALLY badly (it's maths) im thinking that maybe if i had cheat it would have been better....its just I got the lowest score in maths and I feel so ashamed...

My mom is Asian and my dad is white. My dad went to Thailand and he met my mom, married her and moved her to the US to be with him. He can speak Thai rather well and is obsessed with the culture. I grew up in the States and was and am still quite embarrassed of my parents. I look mixed but more white, however my sister looks just like my mother. Don't get me wrong I love my parents but I am so embarrassed especially of how they get on. The Asian woman and white male stereotype really plays out in my parents relationship, actually quite exaggerated. My parents don't 'see it' or at least my dad doesn't, my mom is conscious of it because when I told her how I felt she said 'I know'. My sister feels the same way and I see her get fetishized  and hit on by white guys all the time. My father also makes references to my sister's appearance saying how beautiful she is because she looks Thai. My problem is that this is embarrassing, his behaviour is embarrassing and I am embarrassed and I also feel sorry for my sister. She hates white male attention and is really into black guys and that would break my father's heart because he wants her to marry someone like him and I know my mother wouldn't like it.

I hate my dad, and I believe my reasons are justifiable. Take today for instance. He enters my room and asks if I have any dishes and I say yes and then he asks me if I want him to take my dishes and put them in the dishwasher to which I say no. Then, for some inexplicable reason he insults me by saying that I have a tendency to put my dishes on the kitchen counter instead of inside the dishwasher, it was so uncalled for and in my view I did nothing wrong, he's just an asshole towards me in general. About two months ago he blamed me for using up all the remaining car shampoo even though he had no evidence to support his claim. He had already made up his mind and there was no changing it and thus I got the blame, in reality I had used some car shampoo but I did certainly not use up the remainder of the bottle. I don't know what his deal is. He always finds things to blame me for and they're almost always things that he cannot prove or support and it drives me insane. I hate him with a passion, he's a horrible father. Why does he behave like this towards me? He's always been like this, even when I was a kid he would find ways to either insult me indirectly or other ways of passive-aggressively taunting or humiliating me.

My selfish vengeful fiancee left me because I was too jealous. It was a uphill battle to keep that relationship going. She always had one foot out the door to leave me. I hate my job and the people I have to deal with. I want to quit it but can't. I'm trapped. When my parents die of old age, I will be one lonely man with a job that I hate, and some money in the bank. I have no friends. One idiot which I call friends only calls me when he needs something for me. And I dislike people in general. I"ve tried so hard to change things but I can't, so I'm at a stage where I accept that there's a destiny and let it unfold. It cures my anxiety to some extent, but doesn't solve the problem.

I'm off to live on my own ( i have a job , my own apartment and am all set),and never done it before, and was hoping you guys could give me some tips on what to expect?

When I was 11 my mom got so mad at me she threw me on the bed. I was standing still and she grabbed my arm and I lifted off my feet and floor and landed on the bed on my side. I've only ever seen people guys throwing people to the group like pushing them down or picking them up then throwing them to the ground. Never by moving and swinging just their arm they go flying off their feet into the air and land on something.

recently my dad and I have been having problems. Up until now, I have always been a Daddy's girl. He's always been an inspiration to me.  My parents are divorced and my dad has custody. I stay out of trouble and I'm an honors student at school.  As of recently, my dad has been finding any little thing to start a fight. Usually, that my room isn't the cleanest. (I admit it isn't, but I always get around to cleaning it.) When we do fight, he usually threatens me to not pay for college.  All of the sudden, he starts ignoring me. I try to talk to him, but he brushes me off as if I don't exist. He only talks to me through my younger sister.  So a week later, we ask if we can stay at our mom's and he loses it out of nowhere and tells me and my younger sister that we never help around the house, which we do all the time, he basically cuts us off. He tells me I'm not going to see a single dime for college.  So my sister and I leave to our moms house. He says that if we want to come back, we have to earn everything, get jobs and pay for things on our own. When he talked to my mom about it, he said that I never listen and I never do anything. What really hurt me was that he said I was a terrible influence on my sister. That I don't do anything to help him.  It hurts very much knowing the man that I've admired and worked so hard to make him proud of me think so little of me after everything I've done for him. What should I do? Am I at fault for this? 

It still bugs me that people still consider hell a cuss word. Hell, a word said in a few G-rated TV episodes and G-rated movies, is still a cuss word in my 8½-year-old brother's mind. He was on his headphone playing a game on his XBOX speaking to one of his friends that someone called him "annoying as...well... H-word." He will use frick or frickin with no problem, but I don't see how hell is the worse one? His dad even cusses and calls him a sissy or wimp in many situations that I can recall. When I was 10-13, I knew that freakin (which sounds too close to the F-bomb) was worse than hell because I actually got in trouble in the 5th grade for saying it, but only got told not to say something when saying helluva. But people seriously think hell is worse than a euphemistic "freak"? American language guidelines are a joke 😂😂😑💀

My sibling is an adult and out of control. My mother and I aren't sure what to do! This is very scary when he gets out of control of anger, he's controlling the whole family. I constantly have to check up on my mother, and my mind is running wild through worrying trying to hold everyone together despite, my siblings' behaviors, and other family issues. I feel like the only normal one, and forced to become like a parent figure.

Mental weakness does not mean mental illness but just a moment that we are not thinking about properly.

We have been dealing with this for over 5 yrs. she is 83 and thinks she can take care of herself. She has her other 19 y o grandson living there But he don't don't **** to clean and she still does his clothes. She uses raid spray and will not clean because she doesn't have the energy to. She's been living with roaches for 60 years so she thinks it's normal. She will not call maintenance to fix nothing in her house because she doesn't want to be a pest. How can I fix this for her before her visiting nurse calls adult services? She doesn't want an aide. I live 6 hours away so I cannot be there all the time

I'm literally fed up with it, every day I have to eat alone to avoid them screaming in my ears!

I was talking to my friend about sex and apparently I was talking too loud and then my step mom came in and told my dad what we were talking about. I know that talking about sex is normal but what we were talking about was a specific kind of kink, and since me and my stepmom don't get along and she won't stop telling my dad what a ***** I am and how he needs to get rid of his abortion. I honestly cannot stand her. I am really young and I feel like a little tramp for talking about this stuff. Now my dad is pissed and says he will talk about it with me later, but I don't ever want to talk about it because it is private especially with my dad, yuck! I am 100 percent a virgin because I am only 14 and I am not irresponsible. I want to die right now, and I know one day my stepmom will bring this up again when she is mad. I don't feel ashamed but I feel violated that she was listening in on my conversations. I am not going to say specifically what kind of kink we were talking about but it is not really considered "normal" and I don't care, but btw it does not always involve sex WHICH I WANT NO PART OF! I hate her so much right now, and wish that she would stop embarrassing me, I know I am young but just know that I am not doing anything irresponsible. How can I get over this?!  We were talking about if for when we are older definitely NOT right now.  I just want to die!     Now my dad thinks I am a whore could this get any worse?!  Why did she have to hear all of that and why does she keep embarrassing me?  She says everything I do out loud  and I honestly believe that she enjoys embarrassing me, that *****!  I hate myself now, that stuff is private why does she have to barge in on it?  I hate this and I hate being hormonal I feel like a little whore I hate my body and I hate this I should have every right to fantasize about whatever I want, am I right?!  

ok, so, I live in the far south and i'm getting sick of my home life. I have an online friend that said I could stay with them but they live in the the mid-west and it would take around 12+ hours by car but i can't drive, so its probably going to take me days, maybe even weeks . And before you ask, yes i have verified that my friend is who they say they are. To go in depth a bit, my mom gets me any thing i ask for, but she uses that against me, so i haven't been asking her for much, she is also extremely raciest and isn't supportive of me being gender-fluid, she refuses to call me my preferred name, and refuses to call me anything but she/her and when i correct her she starts to yell and sometimes she hits me.    

For example a relative is terminally ill and he promises to let me go to the funeral but I know he will deny making that promise or admit to it but say "things change". He is a deceptive man.

My Mom said she was abducted by aliens. This was about 20 years when I was little. There were no known details about what happened to her, she kept quit about it. Then months after her possible abduction, she snaped and went into a trance of sorts crying "unity, la, la". I didn't what was going on at the time, but it was beyond unusual. While she was in this trance, she did some strange things like randomly took things out of the fridge and even grabed me with a blanket and took me outside. I managed to get away, After that, my Dad called 911 and they took to a hospital to receive treatment. Months after the incident, she was eventually released and at first my family and I were happy that she was home with us. But then as time went on, she turned to religon and spout some disturbing things like the apocalypse, government conspiracy,new world order, hell and even took away some of my favorite video games. In addition, she even wore a helmet that she said prevented the aliens from controlling her. I never got used to it and I think it affected me in a big way. My Dad, sister and I didn't understand what was going on all those years. Her visions of the future really freaked me and I couldn't tell if it was real or if was a delusional. My Mom is not a lair, but that fact only confuses me as one of the visions also included a brother of one of my Dad's best friends betraying him. Needless to say, something like that did happen. It was freaky.

When my brother plays his Fortnite or Minecraft game with his cousins, he complains about hating being name-called and crying. My stepdad tells him to basically stop developing his emotions. He is forcing my brother to have a far-right, Christian indoctrinated propaganda mindset even though my brother LITERALLY rejects that. He is a smart kid as even my stepdad admits. Btw, he's 8, going on 9 Answers from trolls will be reported. I don't f*** around

Hi, My name is Kaitlynn, I'm 20 years old. I have lived with my grandma, my whole life, she never pushed me to do things on my own, I always had her to lean on. Currently, she's sick with cancer and I know I need to learn how to do things on my own. I have anxiety and depression and other emotional issues. I want to go to college but I'm a little afraid and I know it sounds stupid but I don't know how, what I mean by that is I have signed up for college but I had to contact my old high school with my transcripts and I had difficulty with it. I want to go to college (obviously I would have do it online with covid) but I need a little help if you understand what I mean. If anyone could give me some advice, let's just say I've never had to really be an adult in my life so I don't know how to deal with things. please no negativity, i understand that it is partially my fault for not trying to grow up but I know I have to and I need help with that. 

My mom loves me too but my dad REALLY loves me. He tells it everyday and I really know he does. My parents were 21 and 23 when I was born and not even married so I was an accident.