So this was a little awkward and I'd kind of hoped to get some input. Long story short, I have a fwb. We have been together in that sense for awhile now. I have tried to strictly enforce some rules. Overall, I'm ok with most things. I'm ok with sex obviously, I'm fine kissing each other on the lips or neck during sex, and I'm ok with groping (especially if it is to lead up to sex). Well, he did the weirdest thing during our recent meet up. We were having sex as usual. We always take turns being on top to be fair. So it was my turn to be on top. At first, it was normal. Then all of a sudden, he started being weird. He told me to stop mid-sex and I got confused and thought maybe something was wrong (like the angle was uncomfortable for his penis or something). So I stop and he says to just lay down on him. I was slightly weirded out, but I did. I stopped moving and just laid down on him as he asked. He proceeded to wrap his arms around me as tight as he could and kissed me gently while running his hands along my body real softly. He whispered in my ear and asked how I felt (which I found even more bizarre) and I just said "good" because I didn't know how else to react. He didn't say anything back and just kept holding me. He ended up going to sleep, still holding me like that. We had to finish the sex we had started in the morning. Why would he tell me to stop randomly just to hold me against him like that and whisper asking me how I was feeling? It was really weird. When he asked how I felt, he said it so soft. If he hadn't whispered right in my ear, I probably wouldn't have heard it clearly. And he literally just said "How do you feel?"... nothing else. It was just really weird and unexpected. I didn't know why he would say something like that or ask how I was feeling in that moment when we weren't even having sex since I stopped.