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My room mate decided to invite his girlfriend from Cincinnati. At first, I did not think much of her as she seemed reserved and respectful from first impressions. She was a very questionable choice for my room mate because she had a double chin and a large gut that made her look pregnant. The first week in the house I noticed something very strange. Somebody had left a crumpled toilet paper with poop on the toilet seat. I asked my room mate if he somehow got to flush after himself and he denied all of this. I've lived with him for a year and he has never been filthy. Two days pass and I notice that someone had left toilet paper on the seat, but it wasn't crumpled or covered with poop. She also has a habit of constantly claiming the bar stool seat next to our kitchen island. I had to eat my meal several times on the floor because she wanted to take the seat. On top of that, I've noticed that she has a conniving mindset. Within the second week, I wanted her out and she must've found out about it because she asked my room mate about when I was going to leave the lease. She found out that I had a pressing problem to take care of and wanted to know when I was going to leave the house so that she could have the place to herself. She does not even pay rent here or the meals !!!

I have cut a girl out for many years and I have become her friend again. We grew up together but I found out that she has a bad side of turning people against each other. She is a great fun and takes me out of my comfort zone when we are friends like holidays etc. But she has a side where she is just copies me and also is very envious where she gets jealous of everything. I think she is also narcissistic and when I wasn't talking to I didn't realise at the time that she was indirectly making me jealous by becoming friends with everyone I know and going places with them so I can here about it. Should I take this girl out of my life completely.

A tall, always serious and never smiling good looking guy, eastern european looking, and a girl with long hair who goes around in floral dresses and collects flowers for him and writes poems and notes for him.

i'm a male in my forties who has lived alone for 15 years in a council flat...i have had severe mental problems, had a hard life and never achieved any relationships...and my life never went how i wanted it to go.....by now i wouldve wanted to be in a relationship with a loving girl, preferably a natural busty blonde......but my only support system is my elderly mum and dad, who have been divorced 26 years and they live far apart.. they are my only support, the only people in my life....i have suffered terrible loneliness and desperation in my life, desperation for company....a neediness for other people....a lonely neediness for comfort and for another person to fill a void within me? living alone is hell at times, even though i'm a reserved introvert....its a lot harder in this lockdown as i can't go out to the gym, to do my swimming...so i'm stuck in doors in my flat.....feeling this emptiness and neediness, which even i find awful, let alone other people.. i also manage type 2 diabetes. what can i do to stop this neediness for someone to come into my life and make things ''better''? a neediness for someone to comfort me and a neediness for intimacy....i hate it in myself and want to stop it....as i realize others will find it repellent and unattractive and wont want anything to do with me......so i must do something about it.

I knew this guy for a while. I havent seen him for 8 years. We have been texting back and forth all this time. Last month we have been on facetime. He confessed he always liked me and I started to fall for him fast. He asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. I havent seen him for a month because he said he will see me when he is done with teaching/ ends at the end of june. We didnt communicate all the time because he was busy. Hes going to see me soon and I started to rethink maybe I should get to know him better before calling myself his girlfriend. I told him I still feel the same way but im feeling a little anxious because I did come out of a long term relationship 4 month ago and I feel like i jumped to fast telling him Yes to be his girlfriend. I told him I still want to be with him, and make this grow, I just need to take my time, and lets start out as friends first and then move up from there. He told me we can just stay friends. He doesnt want to start out as friends. He said i hope you meet someone one day and how he just wanted to stay friends with me. Im hurt because I wanted to make this work I just needed some time.

Lucky for me almost everyone I know is very nice to me and I'm friends with a lot of people but there are certain people like one of my bosses who always takes full advantage of me no matter how nice I am to them and they lie to me and take advantage of me and I don't understand how they can do that . Is it someone I've done wrong? I'm very kind and loving to everyone so it hurts me that someone would lie to me like one of my bosses does and she cuts my hours for no reason because I'm a good employee.

*stupid my friends (mostly sally) are always calling me dumb stupid and annoying, and sometimes they mean it, but I don't want to leave them since I'm a turtle... any ideas of what should I do

How many friends have you had where things ended badly and you don't associate with each other anymore? Like this doesn't include when you don't keep in touch/grow apart and all. Like it's more where they block you and don't want to contact you again and all. 

We had a falling out almost a year ago because I said I didn't want to be his friend anymore after he really betrayed my trust. I hate that I miss him so much, and he was a good friend before that for the most part, I just feel such a strong connection to him. I miss him with all of my heart but I'm so split up. Honestly, would I be stupid to let him back in (but with caution)? I feel like I've changed a lot and grown, and part of the reason I miss him so much is because he's a huge part of who I am today. I just can't get over him specifically, but I've had no trouble getting over past friendships/relationships. He's apologized for his mistakes. I've never met anyone like him and we have such a strong bond, and I just don't want to miss out. 

We had a falling out almost a year ago because I said I didn't want to be his friend anymore after he betrayed my trust. He felt I overreacted at something he said, then got a bunch of our mutual friends to take his side and turn against me by painting me as a bad friend. He also sent screenshots of our private convos to them for context. I hate that I miss him so much, and he was a good friend before that for the most part, I just feel such a strong connection to him. I miss him with all of my heart but I'm so split up. Honestly, would I be stupid to let him back in (but with caution)? I feel like I've changed a lot and grown, and part of the reason I miss him so much is because he's a huge part of who I am today. I just can't get over him specifically, but I've had no trouble getting over past friendships/relationships. He's apologized for his mistakes.

For introverts?

Hi. I don't have any mental illnesses that I've ever been diagnosed for, nor a reason to be diagnosed. However this is different for my friends who are all suffering from a kind of depression or anxiety. I've known for about two years, and been helping the best that I can, but it's getting much harder to help as more of my friends get diagnosed. I think I have 7 friends off the top of my head that are mentally ill , and it's gotten to a point where I have to tell them daily that they're not a burden, that they're not ugly, that they're not responsible for every problem I have. I'm starting to not be able to keep up with it. Today I learned that my friend was bulimic (did I spell it right?) and I tried to tell her  I would have helped her had she told me earlier. They've cut and starved themselves and I wish I had helped sooner. But instead of that being a positive, I've learned that my friends think it's hard to tell me what they're going through because I try to help them. And it ended up with her saying sorry and me asking her why she is. She told me she stressed me out, which I didn't want her worried about. They blame themselves for everything. I want to help them and they've told me they've gotten better, but I worry as they get better, I'm slowly getting worse. I want to help them. I don't feel obligated, I want to since I'm their friend. But when a friend says they're  depressed, I'm no longer surprised. I want to help, but I'm slipping. I can't keep up. Any ideas?

In a world of love, there would be no misery and no people in need of help. How to talk about good people when it is difficult to have real amgs?

What to do if your "best friend" says they are happier without you and when you guys stopped talking she was the happiest shes been and forgot about you? Even though you really need her right now and shes my only real friend should I just ignore her and feel happy for her?

Yesterday me and my friend was out. It got late so my friend called a guy who said he could drive home. I didnt know him. We sat in the car, there were two guys and then he all of a sudden started speeding and driving real fast and drifting with the car. We got scared but at the same time it was fun at the moment. I came home safe and I lied to my parents that my friends mother drove us home. I have very bad feelings in my body and I cant forget yesterday I dont know why. Please help me what should I do and what is this feeling I'm feeling. It feels like something is in my stomach like something very bad has happened or that Ive done an awful thing. Please help im having a mental breakdown 

If a person always helps you out at work. and  they took a picture with you at a Christmas party. and have u as a friend on Facebook. & they always say hello and bye to you  does that mean that they like you as a friend or not.?