Hello. I currently live and work on Maui in Kihei and am filing for divorce soon. I am reading the paperwork and it states that I have to have been physically present on Maui for a continuous period of at least 3 months prior to application but I have been going back and forth to the mainland to get my kids to safety from my abusive ex. I also have to go and tend to a rental property in Georgia for the entire month of July and maybe August as well. Though my job is allowing me to work remotely in Georgia servicing Kihei (so still technically working out of Kihei, HI. This is very complicated but I want to be sure to file properly as to not get in trouble. Would I be able to file on Maui or do I have to wait until I am back here fully and wait an additional 3 months. My soon to be ex husband has lived here mostly with me since January (6 months) but he planning travel back and forth to as far as I know. How can I get divorced?  FYI: we have been abiding by the quarantine laws and have been safely traveling only when necessary.

We have a great "sex life". Neither of us have any complaints. I never "ask for it" from him because whenever he's wanting, so to speak, so am I. However, one odd thing he also likes to do is wait till it's inconvenient and push me for sex. Inconvenient as in, very. For example, last night his abscessed tooth puffed up his face some (he got it taken care of today), he was moaning it was hurting him, but in between moans, he was pestering me for sex. Am I the strange person for thinking that's strange? Am I mean for turning him down at those sorts of times? I can bet when we go to bed, he's going to pester me, as he was given a few medications due to extraction he had today. (Medications that make you drowsy)  Also, he has a habit of laying there, when I am extremely tired due to my allergies being bad that day, and he'll wake me soon as I fall asleep, pestering for sex. Again, we have a great sex life, we don't deprive each other of anything ... but I am concerned I'm being rude.Thanks in advance

How can you tell if she will stick around in a marriage and raise kids together, or if she is just going to abandon you immediately, collect child support, and only let you see the children through the power of the court?

He asks her to dye his hair, tells her she looks like a doll, jokes around with her. I've confronted him about it and he swears he is not flirting with her. How should I handle this?

I can't get over a 32 year old married man who has a step daughter that's my age. He told me he's in an unhappy marriage and wants me as a side in secret. We would always meet up at his workplace (he owns the place) I agreed but then one day I saw him and his wife at a store and I was super jealous and upset. I cried for sooooo many days. I went to his workplace the next day. He smiled and welcomed me with open arms but my hurt-self couldn't help but cause a scene because I was really upset about the fact I saw him together with his wife. I realized I actually love him and don't want to share him with his wife. I think it's because we were intimate too which made me feel an attachment. I felt bad afterwards because he trusted me not to tell anyone and i did :'( i feel guilty til this date and think about it 24/7 honestly. He told me to never go to his workplace ever again and to stay away from his wife. I'm so sad. He even threatened to call the police which hurt me even more. Am I wrong for feeling this way ?  Btw I'm not the average looking girl. I literally have no friends. Every time I go out there would be at least 5 different guys approaching me and everyone would tell me im beautiful. I always ignore EVERYONE literally. Idk why I like this guy so much :'(

My husband's parents are cold, not welcoming and very pushy (admittedly, even by him). My parents are over the top jovial/friendly and welcoming and not at all pushy. My husband recognizes and admits these things easily, but tells me he doesn't like being around my parents because they're "too nice" to him. He also has no problem any time his parents come around and wants to spend time with them, when they treat me like crap. This is very frustrating to me and I don't know what to do or how to handle the situation. Any advice? We've had numerous arguments over it.

It also shows that women prefer lesbian porn over any other category of porn, and that the most searched result that married women made about their husbands on google was if their husband was secretly gay. How sad is this? Source: " Everybody Lies: Big Data, New Data, and What the Internet Can Tell Us About Who We Really Are"

Ever since I got back from my last deployment my wife has started blaming me for her life. Last night she got drunk and started saying how I bring her down because I don't take her to clubs or dancing. I personally find those environments to be disgusting and have brought this to her attention but she tells me that I am boring. She never seems to listen to me when I talk to her, she only focuses on what she herself says, and when we argue she constantly repeats herself, it's like it never goes anywhere. She can be very loud when discussing subjects and is upset when I ask her to lower her voice because it's like she's yelling at me. She will constantly be changing her mind about her life, such as what she wants to do for a career and where she wants to live. I've told here we're too old to be searching for things and we need to start now. (We're 24 btw) she gets mad that I don't like her to leave in skimpy clothes, why does she need to go in public barely dressed? While i am usually wearing a suit. The biggest thing she's mad about is that she says we don't have enough sex and she gets in depressed moods and constantly asking if she's pretty. I don't want to have sex sometimes because sometimes idk who she is, it's like she can be a completely different person sometimes, she was also writing about another guy in her notebook (that she read to me) I feel like she is bipolar and I don't know what to do

Over the last year my parents went through a bitter divorce and I was in a tough position for most of it.  Through their marriage my mother was always physically and mentally abusive to my father and there were quite a few times where she was abusive to me too. And a year ago is when my dad left.  And since my dad has left my mom, she has dumped all of the anger and abuse on my head just as she did to my father.  She has punched me in the face, been emotionally abusive and has attempted to control me just like she did for most of my childhood. And I've learned how to stand up to her but now I'm contemplating cutting all ties with her.  Please help. What should I do?  It is extremely difficult to forgive her for what she has done to my father and to me. 

Hello wonderful people! So my plight is this. I have been seeing this man for about 6 years on and off. Four years ago, he asked me to marry him just soon after my divorce. I said no because I was not ready yet. Almost a year later he got married and within a year he filed for a divorce and got divorced. He showed back up in my life asking for another change. I have him that chance. Shortly after that he was transferred to N.C. I would love nothing more than to move from Indiana to continue our relationship and of course get married. However, I have an 18 year old son who is refusing to go with me. My son is not ready to be left without a parent. He wants to stay with my mother who is partially blind and not able to care for or offer him adequate guidance. He says he can fend for himself but as his mother I know he is not ready to blossom into the wonderful adult man I know he soon will become. He says he wants me to go and be happy but of course kids say anything. And no matter what he says I just can't see leaving him while I run over 8 hours away to be with the love of my life smh. HELP! Any advice. Your honest opinions would be helpful. Thanks! 

Can I sure my parents for an arranged marriage to a bum that will not work? He says work interferes with his meditation.

I grew up with my mom doing everything. She's very independent and so am I. I like doing everything. I want to get married and have children someday but I hate when someone does something for me and I'm very possessive so I fear that when I have children, I'm going to see my husband as an annoyance when he does stuff for the house and for our children. Any tips to not feel this way. 

I am an Indian and I got an arranged marriage my friends are calling me a loser because of it why are my friend calling me a loser just because I had an arranged marriage and I am happily married because of it 

Why did she have to exist? I never wanted my son to get married. It's not like I wanted him to. Why did my son have to get married? I just want him for myself :( and I hate seeing her face her voice is soft and mousy like her families. I tell my son to leave her just so that I can have my son all for myself but he won't and cut off all contact with me and moved 9000 miles away from me with his new wife what do I do  this is not a troll what do I do? no rude comments please

eh notado que muchos animales se bañan, lo que me pregunto... ¿es algo impregnado en la naturaleza? ¿es parte de la biológia? Yahoo es una mierd4, puse "bañ4rs3" (solo quitenle los números y ponganle su parecido a letra) y me lo censuran... ¿son idiotas o que? ¿tan sensibles son? ¿en que mierd4 se transformó yahoo?

How can I help her to spend her days after her bitter loss .Her husband used to make her feel safe and cared for her . She is a lonely house wife . No work ... No activities ... Too old for work ..I love her so much and I try to spend some time with her watching movies and so on .  Can you suggest things  or activities she can do to overcome her deep sorrow?  She cooks and tidies her home only 

My husband and I have been seperated off and on our entire marriage due to repeated reoccuring issues on his end. He has repeatedly gone on dating websites to flirt and talk to other women and ex-girlfriend's intimately knowing I am not happy about it. He apologizes and says he'll stop but he continues to do it again eventually everytime I take him back. His financial irresponsibility and reckless spending habits has left us both homeless off and on for our entire three year marriage. I am getting tired of running in circles now. I am now staying at a shelter and he is at his mother's house because we got evicted from our apartment before the epidemic started. I do not feel safe going to his mother's house because she is toxic and emotionally unstable. We both stayed there when homeless before and she ended up kicking us out. She is trying everyway to sabotage our marriage by manipulating and controlling her son and doesn't want us to be together. She mistreats me badly. He is trying to force me to go there despite many times of telling him I have a job I'm trying to maintain and I feel uncomfortable going there. I don't want to put myself in another situation to end up homeless back out on the street. He is trying to make me feel guilty and almost said, "Come on and stop being a *****. He says if I loved him I'd leave the shelter and go with him. He says I should go there to see that he has changed his ways. He thinks I'm being selfish.  

Over the last 10 years I've had a problem with finding happiness. Every time I've gotten close to someone in any way, it's ended with me being alone and them finding their perfect person. All of them have ended up getting married. I thought I finally found the one for me. No matter what happened between us, she wouldn't ever leave. Unfortunately she lives 1200 miles away. But we were planning marriage and moving in together. Been planning it for a year. Then i messed up and she found someone. She tried to say the nothing would change between us. But I knew it would. She met his family and decided she's too in love with him to let anyone interfere. And just a few hours before she was telling me she still loves me. I had hope that we could still one day become something more like we planned. I was planning on uprooting my entire life to move to her. And now it seems that she has joined the rest of them in leaving me behind. If I lose her completely like the rest of them, I give up. I can't give my heart to anyone else. I can't take the pain. I almost committed years ago. For being alone. I wouldn't be able to go through it again and make it out without the person who saved my life last time I tried. 

So I'm a straight guy but I like women's jeans especially bell bottom jeans. I recently bought a pair of awesome long bell bottom jeans. The jeans are really long so they drag on the floor. I'm planning on buying a pair of platform wedges to wear with them. Would people think that I'm gay if I were to wear women's bell bottom jeans ?? Would people be able to notice the platform wedges if the pants are covering most of it ??? Below is the picture of the jeans that I bought

We want a child but don't know how to get/make one. We know that married couples can get them but how?

I really hate marriage. I love single life! But all my friends got married and always ask me why am I still single. People act like everyone at my age should get married and have kids. That makes me nervous. Advice?

Just generally speaking , if a guy still thinks or have a crush on a woman he hasn't send in almost a year is that a love ❤️ or something else  Vice Versac if a woman thinks about a man every day or has a crush on a guy for almost a year without seeming a certain guy , would you consider love ?