I met my ex's mom for the first time in March. My ex is supposed to be getting an arranged marriage to some woman in Cambodia. Long story short, my ex thought, she wouldn't like me because I'm a black woman. Here comes the confusing part... The mom (who's pakistani) and I exchanged numbers and now she's communicating with me all the time, she wants to go shopping, she wants me to go to dinners with her son and her husband. (All four of us, like we are one big family..confusing right?)  She calls me to check up on me, ask me what I'm cooking. I'm supposed to pick her up and go shopping with her in a few days. What does she want? Is she trying to get me with her son? Is the arranged marriage still going to happen?

He said he'd say we should get a drink. But, he won't know when that would be bc of corona after we were joking around about trying to safe.

I know many relatives they hit their wives and yell and insult them for hours every day. Why dont some men just do something more useful with their time instead of yelling? 

This might sound like kind of a weird question, but, if your husband cheated on you with a woman and started a relationship with her and you got really really upset and started fighting with the woman, and she disrespected you, but then later your husband decided to get back with you and he publicly humiliated the woman by telling her in front of others including your friends that he chooses you over her, would this make you feel better and would you be more inclined to take back your husband? Would this make you feel sort of satisfied that this woman who was so mean to you now got dissed?  Really think about it. Pretend this is a man who you are madly in love with!

I started dating this guy a month ago and he started posting stories about us on social media... then he posted an actual photo of us after only dating a month. Then in the comments, he was asked by his friend, "Is it official?" He said stay tuned!  Then he left his phone open one night and found out that he has been messaging his ex to go on a date with him, how his sister misses her, and that she needs to fight for him. Also he kept telling her that she was "bae", oh and calling her pretty girl.   He said all of this after posting the photo of us.  Well it looks like she found out and she deleted him, yet he posted us again this past weekend, despite her not being able to see it! I get the feeling that she ignores him long enough he will try to reach out to her again.  Am I just the rebound. They were together for 2 years and broke up in March of this year. 

My husband and I have recently made an agreement that if either of us wants to sleep with anyone else they're allowed. The only rule is we agreed not to tell one another when we do it...unless the intention is to pursue something more with the third party and break our marriage.  My husband works with a woman who he often travels with and I know he wants her badly.  The problem: I don't want him to sleep with her specifically because if he does, he'll definitely want more... so my question is: am I allowed to restrict who he can sleep with even though we mutually agreed to this arrangement? What are the rules and limits of an open marriage?

If no, then how do they control those thoughts that naturally comes to their mind whenever the do those same sex and romantic acts with their husbands that they already did with all their exes with them?

As a virgin husband, how to get past all these thoughts that pops up in the mind after knowing the past of his experienced wife after marriage? What can he do to control the images and imaginations that comes to his mind as a natural human act?

A few days ago, my BF of 8 months said I'm the best one but he is not ready for marriage. He also said even when he asked me to be his GF, it took him long (back in January) to finally decide. Then yesterday, he suddenly said to not worry about the future, that he likes everything about me, and that he loves me. Does this mean just to give time?

My wife is currently doing everything and anything to not think about problems (example: Coronavirus, BLM, our adopted daughter who moved out, our blind cat, our bills, her job, etc) so to do this she's coming up with a billion ideas/projects to improve her life. Sounds good right? But they all cost money and that has me upset because she never finishes anything at home; she starts a project and then she leaves it unfinished. Plus there's the debt problem... We have $15k in debt right now (new van, xmas, adopted daughter was a brat and demanded a lot, vet/dental bills, etc) and I want to pay that off. We can't increase our income any more without ignoring/neglecting the kids; so the only other option is to decrease our expenses - thus not doing ANY of her projects. So when she told me she wanted to paint a wall in our kitchen I told her no. She said it's only $20 and I said no still. Am I being petty or does she have a spending problem?

Oh god I gave birth to my son a few days ago and my husbands ex wife found out about it and wants my baby she said that she wants to raise it with abuse with her and her new husband she plots ways to take my baby and she even went to the police and tried to accuse us of child abuse but the police never fell for it she texted my hubby last night and said while we are asleep she will sneak into the house and kidnap  my child tonight  What can I do can I take her to the police this isn't a troll

My wife does not get along with her mother. Her mother has some form of an anxiety disorder and goes off at the flip of a switch. It's gotten so bad my family wants nothing to do with her. My wife has gotten into physical altercations with her mother, she's shoved her mother, her mother has shoved her, her mother put her hands around my wife's neck once. It's constant f*ck you no f*ck you. The disrespect between both of them is unbelievable. Her mother is very difficult to deal with. One time I was driving and her mother got me so stressed out I started screaming at her myself and I do not anger easily. The dysfunction of her family really worries me if I decide to have kids with her in the near future. She's never been disrespectful towards me, my family, her father only her mother. In the 8 years we've been dating/married she's never laid a hand on me. Last nights fight got out of control and now I'm just not sure I want to be married to someone like this. Her mother is nasty constantly will say things like "what's wrong with you are you stupid" over trivial things like where my wife chooses to park her car. I've talked to my wife she told me they will never get along and this is just how it is. Should I file for divorce? The constant fighting I can't take it much more. 

Or just in general if they text or call or send non-important texts saying "hey" "how are you"? Or if they wish you a happy birthday/holidays but you choose not to return the favor and not contact them at all and ignore their calls and texts? Do you think they have a right to feel no obligation to speak to that person especially if they have been dumped and friend zoned which they did not want or do you think it's selfish and childish?  And this NOT does apply to those with children together only regular couples without children together and who don't live together, own any type of property together, co-workers or in any type of situation where they must communicate and are forced to get along for whatever reason this question does not apply to those in any of these situations.  Just wanted your take on that? 

Hi! I was hoping to get peoples opinions on this as it has really been affecting me and I'm unsure how to approach the situation or if I should... Basically me and my S/O live together, and both have very different work schedules, I work a 9 - 5 job and they work on a rota. Meaning sometimes our sleeping patterns are very different. What I've found is that my S/O will not be tired for the standard 9pm that I am, and wants to watch TV/ play on games in bed on the PlayStation while I'm trying to sleep. Such as Call of duty which isn't the quietest of games, especially as he is on the phone to his friends while on the game...  I find that I have to take myself into the spare bedroom and then he comes to wake me up when its "safe" to get back into my bed. Last night my SO came to collect me at half 1 in the morning from the spare bedroom and then continued to watch TV while slurrping on a potnoodle, (I have to laugh at this as it sounds so ridiculous haha) so I had settled in the spare and now was wide awake again, I asked why they had brought me out the spare when they are still not planning on going to bed to which I was given the silent treatment and they turned off the TV and turned over to go to sleep. then felt bad for saying anything! But I feel a bit upset that I'm expected to leave and go to the spare bedroom just for wanting to get to sleep at a reasonable time on a work night... should I approach this? Or is there other things I can do?

He is a lazy bum who stays home all day and does nothing. My mom works full-time then comes home and cooks, cleans and waits on him hand and foot. He doesn't work because he has heart problems and has to take medication, but I know a few people like that who work strenuous jobs. I feel like that's an excuse! I love my mom and want someone to take care of her and help her out, but he's just a bum without a job and can't even help around the house. I want better for my mom! But she says she's in love and he makes her happy. I think she just doesn't want to be lonely anymore. She's been single for over 10 years. I don't talk to her husband and I just pretend he doesn't exist, meanwhile I vent to my mom about how I feel and then she gets angry at me and looks at me as the bad guy. All I want is for her to be truly happy and to be treated like the queen I believe she is. How do I handle this? Should I accept her husband and pretend like I support their marriage?

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If a guy jokingly said to you he could picture you having a pretty specific tattoo near your butt? Is he flirting or being an a$$?