So when I was together with my "then girlfriend", one thing I can remember when we were together was she wanted to go out to eat at a local buffet. It would be expensive for me since I knew I would be the one paying for it. I was on a budget at the time, and I told her no. I did offer to go someplace else where we could still eat and be on my budget. She wanted to go to the buffet still and called me mean for not taking her to where she wanted to go.  I am not about to be getting the better of by a complaining, whiny little brat that she was because things were not going her way. Was I right, or no?  By the way, if anyone is wondering, no... that was not the reason for our breakup.