My first child father left me and doesn't see our buy for 10 years now  and now my husband abused me. Why can't I just have a long fulfilled relationship with a man ? Why do all my relationships end in turmoil, pain, abuse or abandonment. And cheating . How can I find a good man?

from the husband. But if the husband is a virgin , then how difficult will be for him to satisfy her being inexperienced compared to all her exes? So, till the husband reaches to that mark, will the wife keep on fantasize about her good experiences with all her exes therby insulting the virgin husband from inside, as its a human nature to compare and fantasize past good experiences with the present ones, so willshe ever forget the good experiences with all her exes ever for them

I'm still young but my view on marriage isn't great. I come from a home with both parents, I've seen how a good marriage works. But I just don't think I'll find someone I can spend forever with. I have BPD and relationships are extremely difficult for me, even though I wish they weren't. I hate cheating and that's how a lot of relationships end. I just don't see how I could make it with someone without getting divorced, so why even try. I know this very negative and I'm really not giving it a chance, but I have never had a very good relationship and even as much as I want one, I don't think I'm capable. Is it weird to want to just not? I want to give my parents grandchildren and I want someone to be happy with but it just doesn't seem plausible. I've also considered that maybe I just am more comfortable being single. I am very used to it by now, so why add something that could potentially mess that up?

Not two people. Just my husband and heroin.

My son and fiance both woke up earlier then me&I could hear my fiance asking what's wrong with the baby. So ofcourse I woke my tired behind up.the baby just was hungry and needed a diaper change. My fiance saw it in my face that I was annoyed and said that he'll change the next diaper "since everything bothers me" exactly what he said. After that I asked him when he woke up and why he couldn't atleast change the baby since that have been up for almost an hour already.  he says that for him to change the babies next diaper &to give him a "heads up" I asked what he means by that.he said to let him know that the baby needs to be changed. Now am I wrong for getting mad at him and telling him how come he can't seem to ever change the babies diaper without me letting him know? He got irritated&he started saying that he has two mom's sarcasticly&that he guessed he's his sons brother now because I'm acting like I'm his mom.the fact that he is belittling me made me upset and before you know it he's bringing up my mom into the conversation and calling her all types of names including b****. My mom and him had a argument about 3 weeks ago and he can't Seem to let it go. He basically said I have to pay the price for it.Once covid 19 is over I'm packing my bags and leaving with our son. 

so I'm not stupid and I'm just trying to prove a point to my wife so let's see what everyone on here thinks. Every day I got to work and if I try to call my wife she won't answer when I come home she gos for a walk "that last anywhere from 4 to 6 hours" I am 46 she is 40 when she comes back from her walk she then needs to for for a drive with her friend and thats another  3 or four hours then last night she asked would I care if she spent the night at her friend's again she's 40 years old I said it looks like your cheating she said it doesn't so let's see what you guys think thanks for helping

Would you think there is a hidden meaning or message behind it? Or that he just likes the song.. ? 

In a divorce, husband and wife are co owners of 2 homes  of equal value and equity. The court orders house 1 to be given completely to the wife and house 2 to be given completely to the husband. Is that court order good enough to put each house in one spouse's name?  or do the spouses need to formally quit claim to the other? what if a spouse refuses to sign over the house? as far as ownership of the house (obviously legal consequences for defying a court order).

62 is just a number but my parents are not bright enough to understand that. He has kids and I would love to be a parent as I would be. One is my age but it is okay as we get along fine. His 2nd wife was younger also. His 3rd wife was his age and it is why it did not work out. He and I are perfect. I may lose him at an earlier age but it is worth it for the love. We are going to get married this fall. How do I break it to my narrow minded parents? He has been divorced several times but says it was meant to be so he could have me. I know he is meant to be also.

My parents are 36 and 39. How likely is it that they still have sex?

A few days ago, my BF said I'm the best one but he is not ready for marriage. He says even when he asked me to be his GF, it took him long (back in January) to finally decide. But he says he is committed as BF/GF. Then yesterday, he suddenly said to not worry about the future and that he likes everything about me. And he doesn't like to talk about future a lot, but he said after summer we will travel to so and so. Does this mean he gave it a lot of thought and was expressing that we are long term with possibility of marriage?

He's 45 mins away & I've been moved out for two months and we went a three week period of not speaking at all. I feel like I dont want to jump the gun and go to his house where hes going to expect sex and quite frankly he doesn't deserve it. He's also been letting my three year old step son sleep in bed with him every night since I've been gone and I'm not about to be the one to kick him out of the bed or be the reason he has to sleep in his own bed all of a sudden! He's going to associate me being there with him not being able to sleep with his dad. But I'm pregnant and can't barely sleep comfortably as it is much less share a bed with my husband and a three year old that kicks me in the back all night. I told him he should make an effort to take me out of eat after work or something and he never does. He says he "doesn't have time" because he "has a kid to take care of since I left him to do it alone." Yet my husband's mom keeps my step son half the damn time! (My husband has full-custody of my stepson, his bio mom only has one day a week visitation.) We text every day like boyfriend and girlfriend; say we love each other, hows your day going, etc. But none of our communication is about our problems because it always turns into a knock down drag out fight. Which is why I feel we need to see each other and talk about things in person. Should I just stop communicating with him all together until he makes an effort to see me? I feel like he's just playing games at this point. 

My son had his girlfriend over for dinner yesterday and they displayed way too much affection for my liking. Is this normal nowadays to act this way in front of your family? She was rubbing his leg under the table and he was biting her hand and feeding her. I certainly know my daughter wouldn't act this way in front of her boyfriend's parents . 

girls in america think a doctor is the ultimate choice for a husband and carries the highest status. are doctors admired with such high esteem in other countries as much as they are in america?

Where I work is being taken over by another company and they are eliminating the department I work in. This will be a disaster as jobs are very hard to find in this area. The new company told us they have openings in other departments but you have to have some very special training to get these jobs. I checked and this training is very expensive. Losing my job would be a disaster. I tried to borrow the money for the training from everyone I knew but no one would loan me money. I was down to the last name in my phone book, my ex husband. I finally got up the courage to call him. We had a friendly divorce but I had never asked him for money before. He said I will get back with you tomorrow. I thought I would never hear from him. MUCH to my surprise he called back and said his current wife Joan would give me the training for FREE. I was in shock. Could this really be happenings? Joan did give me the training free and I got one of the new jobs that paid more than my last job and I had a great new boss. Joan was the nicest person EVER. I can not say enough good things about her. All my friends that I told about this said I was the LUCKIEST PERSON ALIVE because usually the new wife wants nothing to do with the previous wife. She must be a saint to do what she did for me. I know I owe Joan big time. Please give me some thoughts on how I can repay her for the kindness she gave to me. Kind words are just not enough for this EXTREMELY NICE PERSON.

... or does that depend on the understanding that a couple has when it comes to the man's need to release his sexual frustration?  If she's pre-occupied, is it okay as long as they're not in public, and on the condition that she's not being forced into sex, but instead just getting stains on her shirt and ear?

My Wife Wants A Lot of sex every day and 2 to 3 time in a row i don't know the heck i got my self in to after marriage for one year i was good i was be able to keep up with her but now i cant even if i want to i get tired i told her that we need to have a time table for sex otherwise i wont be able to keepup but she wont listen so now am here asking you guys asking for solution please help me i realy appreciat you help

My son married his wife I did not want to share and I tried to keep him from her but my son went against my wishes and married  so I decided to make her life hell I pretended to be ill and my son found out I was faking and told me that he was moving 900 miles away from me with his new wife and that he hates me I don't want to share my son he moved 900 miles and called me that I am not going to see my future grandchildren and he filed a restraining order against me How can I force him to divorce his wife just so that I don't have to share him 

Why did my son have to get married? It's not that I wanted him to? I never wanted my son to get married. Why did he have to marry this women? I just want my son all to myself :( and I hate seeing her face her voice is soft and mousy like her families I tell my son to leave her just so I can have him all to myself but he won't and he cut of all contact and moved across the country with his new wife. What do I do? Oh and this is not a troll and no rude comments please

We have been married for 8 months now and recently my husband keeps accusing me of having different energies/personalities of other people. He keeps telling me I am not the same woman he married and that he only wants that woman from the beginning which I am the same person but he keeps saying I have other personalities and it's really making me go insane and I feel very upset that someone is saying I am not who I am and says I am someone else. We have many issues that have led me to change feelings towards him due to him being a sex addict who always wants and looks at women and porn a lot specially in the beginning of our marriage this made me believe that he really never wanted me or loved me because his obsession with other women. He just admitted to me few days ago that he truly hasn't been in love with me and has started to and has been thinking of having sex with other women since we been together and this has dramatically made me feel very depressed because I have always told him that I know he wants other women and that he thought of others while being intimate with me and he kept saying I was wrong and that it wasn't the truth and now he is admitting this when I knew it all along but he is constantly assuming I am going to cheat on him or that I spiritual Astro project and cheat on him with other men which is ridiculous and also that I am 5 different women throughout the day. I need to know what is going on with his head and why is he saying these hurtful things

It is currently 12:49 am and I am sitting up waiting for my husband. I am 24 turning 25 on in a couple of weeks, he's 31. We will be together for 7 years in July and married for 6 in October. When he disappears, he doesn't answer me whatsoever, mutes me on just about everything. Doesn't talk to me at all! But would show up the next day on his break and want to talk. At first this was only when we would fight because he didn't want to deal with fighting after working all day. But last year he disappeared for two weeks and couldn't care less how I felt, freaking out thinking he was lying in a ditch somewhere hurt or dead! And we weren't even arguing about anything. Throughout those two weeks, he changed his number, and the only way I could get a hold of him was through the family members on my side that he has talked to. Moving forward, here we are more than a year later at 1:08 am and he has not come home and disappeared again, not taking into account about how this makes me feel and what goes through my head. I'm sick of him not even thinking about me or how something could affect me like he doesn't care but he's supposedly loves me and in love with me! I think about him every time I make any type of decision that I know will have an impact on the both of us! I'm losing my mind and I don't know what to do!

I have been dating this woman for 4 years, and even worse, we have a business together. The issue is that she is insanely jealous and distrustful of her daughter. She yelled at me recently and asked why do I give her daughter anything wants. Every 3-4 months she will snap and ask me why am I so nice to her daughter and call her bitches. She tries to embarrass her in front me, and says mean things about her hygiene. We were laying in the bed and she asked me why does her daughter get so giddy when I am around. She says that her daughter will probably try to give me some one day and that she would kill both of us. I then have to reassure her for hours that I only want her. She gets angry and calls her a slut, and screams at her for bouncing around in front me. She watches my eyes anytime her daughter is around. The daughter is 15 and pretty, but she's a kid. She seems to resent that her daughter likes me too. I thought that it was normal to be friends with the child of the woman you are with, but she has made it so awkward. She often comes into the room and ask what are we laughing at, and if we are talking about her. She then will sit in the room by herself, drinking wine and crying. I walk into the room and she say you and her can have each other. It is crazy. I am very respectful and nice to her, and i treat her daughter like she is my own. I just don't get it.