My son and fiance both woke up earlier then me&I could hear my fiance asking what's wrong with the baby. So ofcourse I woke my tired behind up.the baby just was hungry and needed a diaper change. My fiance saw it in my face that I was annoyed and said that he'll change the next diaper "since everything bothers me" exactly what he said. After that I asked him when he woke up and why he couldn't atleast change the baby since that have been up for almost an hour already.  he says that for him to change the babies next diaper &to give him a "heads up" I asked what he means by that.he said to let him know that the baby needs to be changed. Now am I wrong for getting mad at him and telling him how come he can't seem to ever change the babies diaper without me letting him know? He got irritated&he started saying that he has two mom's sarcasticly&that he guessed he's his sons brother now because I'm acting like I'm his mom.the fact that he is belittling me made me upset and before you know it he's bringing up my mom into the conversation and calling her all types of names including b****. My mom and him had a argument about 3 weeks ago and he can't Seem to let it go. He basically said I have to pay the price for it.Once covid 19 is over I'm packing my bags and leaving with our son. 

I went through his history back all the way to 2013... I saw three VARY concerning searches on Google....  1. How to tell if your pagan mom did something to you as a baby? 2. What does it mean when your mom takes off her underwear in front of you? 3. How to get your mom to have sex with you? ...... Ok now he has admitted to being molested as a child by his stepdad. He also said that his mother knew about but was too afraid to do anything. He is now 24 and his mother stop talking to him when he was 18 after kicking him out. He still believes she loves him even though she 100% ignores him even after driveing 11 hours just to see her... To this day I could never understand why he stands up for her so much even though she chose a pedophile over him. Her and the pedophile are now broken up and moved on, but she's still talks to the pedo and still ignores her son. So after being with this dude for 2 years I know what he watches.... He ONLY watches a few things... MOM PORN, STEP SISTER PORN, FAMILY PORN. Now I've show not much concern and even anger considering he has like 20 step sisters and you would think after being molested by someone you thought was your dad family porn wouldn't ba turn on. Right?? Ig not. And now I think he was molested by his mom as well... And now maybe it's became a sick twisted fantasy.  There was a point we're he would only have sex with me after we discussed having a baby.... He also said he wanted nine kids like his mom... We now have a 3 month old.

I am 21 years old in a long distance relationship, i am considering bringing my girlfriend to the USA, but the issue is that i want to go to university and study engineering. How will i be able to support her? i have always wanted to have a career but this is a hard decision because i want to be with her, at the same time she says i will not have time for her and wont manage relationship and school. They are some factors to like the fact that i am a male my role its to protect, provide and procreate