I"m on a competitive track team.I recently switched to a new team, new environment, coaches,people and haven't competed since May. We all went to a competition over a weekend and stayed in a hotel. This was also the FIRST competition of the season, according to the coaches, we are supposed to have fun, don't worry about to results and it is a practice meet. That next day I competed and not to a surprise, I did not do well, as well as everybody else. The fastest runner on the team which qualified for top world meets), did very bad too. So it was understandable but everyone had fun. However, my mom sent me about 5 paragraphs worth of texts like: "Why are you doing so shitty?" "You might as well just quit!" "Congrats! You went from 4th to 6th place" "You are embarassing the team!" "It looked like you couldn't even run!" "If you keep this up, we're sending you back to your old team" And so much more that made me so discouraged and this was after EVERY run. She yelled at me in the car ride home. The team went to a birthday dinner that Saturday and we came home around 10:30, so my mom blamed that for the reason I didn't do well. I told some of my team mates and they said it was very inappropriate. My mom is usually hard on me like this when I do bad because she never did sports and expects me to do well in every competition. I can't talk to her about it because she is VERY stubborn and will compare me to everyone else. This happens every time and I don't know what to do?

The people to your face might be nice to you up front but when you try to have something to do with them or get into them they'd change faces and be all mean and spiteful to you up until you back away and leave them alone and then they change faces again and all are nice to you again.  They would be nice to you up front, and you would begin to hang with them, or try to at least, they would get their friends to bully and harass you up until you turn on them and not be friends with them any longer, then they'd change faces and revert to normal with you.  Their friends are usually exclusive and the same and them and their friends stick together. They don't want to get to know you and will be at best acquaintances with you.  I lived all my life here and it sucks.  Also the women here carries attitudes that should only exist within a prison, The city is cloistered with manly masculine women who are devoid of anything feminine. They carry misandrist attitudes and keep on hating men. The 'normal' women are hard to find but are claimed by all the guys here to be 'bitches' and i have to agree also. One 'normal' woman here, would have a follower group of guys that would come after you if you try to talk to them or say anything to them. These guy followers of theirs are usually jerks and bullies.  

1/64th is very little, but still, your grandchildren would have some black ancestry in their DNA.

Always be walking without any clothes on smh 😤

My sister and I are in the same friend group. She's getting close to 32 and has a two year kid with a guy she dated after her divorce. They're not together anymore.  Apparently she's been dating this guy in his early 20's. I doubt it's serious and I'm certain she doesn't have him around her son but our friends are teasing her about it because she works at a hospital has a nice career and this guy still wears Jordan's & sags his pants. Plus one of our friends showed me his Instagram and one of the pics is him with his hand cuffing my sisters butt.  He seems like a player. 

We had first time sex (wasn't for him though) and now he wants to have it daily.

I can not figure out why she tries to start argument over petty things, and when I point it out to her by logically explaining it for her I'm always wrong every time even though she knows that shes in the wrong. And when I finally get angry and verbally loud (not screaming) she acts like shes done nothing wrong and acts like tries to change it to where I look like the aggressor. She is 18 and I'm 4 years older than her. She also makes me verbally demand her to admit she is wrong sometimes. Now I am not perfect either i will always admit immediately if I am in the wrong or have done something wrong its not a issue But for her jesus its crazy its like shed rather die than admit.  For instance I had just sat down from working on my car jeans soaking wet. I finally take them off keep in mind she knew they were wet, she seen them in the garage with me. I'm sitting in my boxers and shirts the only dry things on my body, while smoking a cigarette finally. She asked me to get her something to drink and I say " I'm already in my boxers babe and busy smoking near my window". She scoffs and says with anger "it would be easier for you to put your cloths back on and go into the kitchen and get me a drink" because she claimed she couldn't because she was in her underwear as well. We go back and forth she she eventually sees that she did have attitude and did not say sorry. well i ask her why she did not and she say because "I did not think i had to".  does she not respect me or what?