I don't want her to find out I've cheated on her.

I want to be the only one to give him children?

But that is the roll that God has assigned to us. I'm young and married, my husband is the breadwinner and a strong emotional and spiritual leader in our house. Why do people see that as a bad thing?

I really don't know what to do knowing my wife used to be a hooker. Her online ad on backpage is still up. She is completely different person and has a different number. It's just something, I don't know, I feel numb. Inside I am hurting, really. Part of me wish I was never born. Truth is I love her more than anything. So we're still together. I like her so much. And also, I always remember what Jesus said, "a sparrow is sold for 2 pennies, yet none of them will fall outside of God's care". That's really the only thing that keeps me going. It's so much hurt.

My male friend says that since he's not married, he's pretty much allowed to play the field even though he has a girlfriend. He's open to finding his "wifey" which is why he still talks to other girls. He's implying that he can simply shut off his philandering ways once he finds his future wife. Is he delusional or is this actually a thing that happens? I'm not like this at all so I have a hard time understanding this logic. I don't know if you can simply choose to become the perfect faithful boyfriend/husband/girlfriend/wife at the flip of a switch. Doesn't this mean he's also actively choosing to be a "cheating scumbag?" I don't know... Faith, "he has a girlfriend and hes still looking for a potential wife? so what is she to him?" Pfft, I have no idea. From the sound of it, it looks like she's the "insurance" until someone better (and that wants him) comes along. Akeath: From what he told me (if he's not lying), he and his girlfriend are allowed to talk to others, but not engage in sex nor go out on dates with them. So, it's "semi-open" I suppose. Yet, he hides the girlfriend from other girls he likes for as long as he can. This puzzles me.

Just seems like everything is all about "curves" and thicker women to even fat women, but it seems being thin was in in the 90's and early 00's and now it's in the past. Fat and curvy is in, even on sites like Fashionova all the models for the outfits are thick and curvy and some are just plain fat. Where can I find men that like thin girls because am pretty thin and have a hard time gaining any weight at all. Am like Kendell Jenner thin, not curvy, not big chested etc. But I am seeing that thin is not in anymore and that guys don't seem to be into thin women, they like the big breasts and big butts they see on Instagram

I live in Fresno and don't want to travel today far. Central and Northern CA are preferred :)

So my ex-fiance's girlfriend found me on Facebook and added me. My ex did cheat on me with her so we obviously we broke up. At first i thought she was going to message me and brag about my ex and i was prepared to show her how happy i am without him but instead she messages me about their sex life and how horrible and miserable it is for him. like when they have sex he tells her to do it like me and often says my name during sex... my question is how do i respond to this? What's the polite thing to do? Should I give her tips? She doesn't know he cheated on me with her, so should I tell her? please help!

are on the lookout for "wife-material" by talking to other women while you have a girlfriend? (He believes in marriage. He plans on marrying & having babies one day, but he just doesn't want it with the woman he is with.) 2.) How will the great "wife-material" girl even want you when you're with another woman--and hiding her from her? I don't see the logic of starting a relationship with a lie already. 3.) What can be a reason(s) for not thinking a woman can be "wife material," but will do enough to get the girlfriend status? If you could answer those 3 questions would be great. Thanks! RP: Thanks for answering all my questions. Much appreciate it. Just for clarification the girlfriend wants marriage one day linkus & Blueberry: Thanks! Berry, I LOVE your analogy in your first paragraph. Hope you don't mind me using it around others! Sorry you went through something like this. I went through something similar to this (this post is not about me) 10 yrs ago, and like you, suffered IMMENSELY. My self-esteem never went so low as it did during that time. My self-respect and dignity went through the window too. I cringe. Dark times, indeed. But hey, we're still here.

I don't see how this is fair. My step-dad works his butt off for not just his own kids but my brother and I as well. She sits on her butt and uses that child support money for cigarettes and mountain dew. She lives off the state and gets food stamps and free medical cards. I know this isn't really my problem but I just don't understand. She should have a job to up the child support, right? Or is the US court system just bs

I had no idea not even the slightest guess my wife of 3 years was a homosexual. We had a great sex life, everything was fine and she just came back from vacation in Florida and I thought she was visiting Her mother but she told me she cheated on me with another female and can't keep lying about her sexuality anymore. I understand we will have to get a divorce, the way she came about telling me and letting me know she can't hide was so cold. As if she had no emotion or feelings towards me or care towards what we had. I plan on filing for divorce soon, just feeling betrayed, , curious, sad, grief, anger....how do I cope? I want to be happy for her but I just wish she accepted who she was sooner to spare me the heart break and misery. Any ideas on how to cope? I'm so lost and emotional right now.

Wife is pregnant , since we are married can I sign the birth certificate also ?

So years ago now, I cheated. It started before I met my husband but one encounter happened when we were engaged.he found out and still married me and I never saw the guy again. This was over five years ago now and we have a happy marriage filled with love and everything I need. ... but every now and then.i think about what I did, how bad I must have hurt him and other people involved. He never ever brings it up, even if we are rowing. I'm sure he must think of it too now and then as he's the victim not me and I just can't get over it. Do you think it will ever go away or is it there for life.

I have a very unusual problem at least I think it is a very unusual problem. My soon to be husband wants to meet my ex husband. I can not see anything good coming out of this meeting. Both my ex husband and I have moved on and don't have much contact with each other. We did not have any children but we parted on friendly terms. Why would my soon to be husband want to meet my ex husband? I hope they do no want to become buddies. That would just be too weird. What does my soon to be husband want to do? Compare himself with my ex? All my friends tell me NEVER mention my ex husband to my new husband to avoid problems. Should I arrange this meetings? People with ex spouses (and others), please give me your input.

single black moms suck off their sons.

Should I tell her? Or move on and never do it again?

I was snooping around my daughter's bedroom where my wife is currently staying (we're in divorce proceedings) and found two envelopes, each with some cash and a deposit slip, with twenty $100 bills total. I would like to be able to prove it belongs to her in court, as she wants me to pay for her attorney fees, because she states "she doesn't have sufficient funds," even though she works seven days a week at a nail salon (which she will probably deny). I found more deposit slips and calculated that she has deposited $2000 within only 2 weeks (9/5/2017-9/19/2017). That's more money than I make and she wants me to pay her attorney fees! Please help me prove that the cash is hers. Thanks. Also, I pay the mortgage, utility bills and I pay for food. She buys clothes for the children that they don't really need and that's it. I know it's not really relevant...just venting.

My mom keeps texting some guy she used to go to high school with and I saw the messages. The guy said if she would have gone out with him, he would've been a real man compared to my dad. My parents aren't together anymore. All my mom said was ikr. The man was married for 13 years and just got divorced in guessing which is why he's bothering my mom. They both know I'm alive. She's an amazing mom and I love her. I guess my mom wishes I was never born because if she never met my dad, I would have not been born or been the same person. She doesn't know I've seen these messages and thinks I'm just having a severe mood swing and sobbing. I was having an up day earlier, I knew it wouldn't last long. I have depression and I'm 14. I feel pathetic and worthless, like a burden, and have no one to discuss it with. What should I do? How do I feel better? I can't talk to her and I feel like dying. Yahoo answers is my last resort. Thanks for the answers! BTW, for some of the answers I received, there seems to be a misconception. I did NOT snoop, what I meant was that my mother did not think I understood, comprehended, and was affected by what she said. We were driving, and operator read off text messages on her phone, that is how I heard. I had on headphones, thus, making her think I was not listening. Also, anon, no, I would not be in a foster home, I have family. You seem to perceive me as ungrateful. Never did I state my mother and father do not love me, what I said was that she agreed to an idea which implied me not being here as my individual because of my father's genes. As I expected this type of answer, I'm glad I don't give a flying f**k. Thanks for the kind answers. Shows there's still some kindness out there.

Well I love my husband, we have a gorgeous son together whom is a little over 3 months old. We have been married almost a year but we had some issues at the beginning where foe the first whole month he had been talking to his ex, during that time the Gas Station that I work at I started having this regular customer come in and we would talk and kinda of silently flirt with our eyes and unspoken words. Just recently this customer and I have started talking more and more. He too has a son whom he has full custody of so he doesn t mind that I have a baby of my own. Well, my husband and I have been having more and more problems lately because I had found out he had lied to me about a few things straight to my face. And the problems that we do have we have tried to sit and talk about and come to a clear middle ground somewhere for the both of us, it goes great for the first week and then it s right back where it was like we never talked about it at all. He says he is sorry but there is only so many times you can sorry to someone before they start tuning it out. I want him to be part of his sons life, I can t take a man s son away from him because he is a great father, but I m just not as happy as I used to be with him anymore. When we used to argue about things once in a while we would work it out and change it and it would stay that way, now we argue over the same things all the time and I m just exhausted by it. I don t want it to be ugly, I just want to be happy again. Help?

it's her fault. she publicly humiliated me, multiple times at work.

I had a friendly divorce. I know some people think that is impossible but we did it and remained friends. I did not realize how friendly until I started getting checks for a few thousand dollars form my ex husband randomly. He has became quite wealthy since our divorce. His checks have a note that says "Without your help and encouragement I would never had the courage to start my own business. This is just a small token of my appreciation. Thanks". When I tell my gal friends about this they are divided into 3 groups. One group thinks he is trying to buy me back with his money. He has never mentioned us getting back together. Another group thinks he is trying to control me after the divorce. They say I will get addicted to the checks even though I never know when I will get one and not remarry for fear he will stop sending them. The third group which is mostly divorced gals say he is just being a nice guy and I should enjoy the money and get on with my life. They wish their ex's would do something similar. They also asked me if I minded it they ask him for a date. Please give me you input on what my ex might be doing and what I should do if anything. THANKS

What do you think? I am a 41 year old female and have had a friendship with a male for over 16 years. he has a beautiful relationship with his wife and family and has been a great friend over the years. We talk tv shows, bs going on at work and his family and my pets. When I first started dating my now husband, he was less then interested in any of my friendships, now he learned of my friendship and cant handle it. I never hid it - just never talked about really any of my friends to him bc he would say "i dont care what you do, I trust you". As my husband, he now wants to meet my friend, which is fine - i threw it out in an email and didnt quite get the response I was looking for. I want to write back and ask again and my husband wanted me to wait it out to see if he brought it up again. I told my husband I didnt like his way and I will handle it my way and if I then still dont get the interest from him in meeting up, then i bow out of the friendship (side note...no clue why he wouldnt want to have dinner with us. I have met his wife and family on a few occasions). but he feels I have chosen my friend over him...and for the life of me I cannot see how. I dont feel like throwing away a 17 year friendship because he didnt pick dates to meet without trying again. Am i missing something? Thoughts...

My husband always deletes texts from his ex wife whom he is very friendly with and also always deletes texts from a female friend of his whom he went to visit whom I caught him bad mouthing me to her once. My husband looked thru my phone and made a big deal about me deleting texts from an older male coworker whom I never replied too who is gross. Why does my husband even care?

Will she find out for sure, guaranteed? The first time? Will she give me another chance, or divorce me and take me to the cleaners?

I've been married to my husband for a month and we got in a very bad physical fight and he called me a whore and a ****. He said he's very sorry for calling me that and doesn't want to get a divorce only after one month of being married. I'm totally miserable and part of me wants him out of my life but the other part wants me to work it out and stay married. Am I just wasting my time or should I try to work things out and save my marriage?