So my fiancé and I are working on our wedding guest list and trying to keep costs low. Is there a specific rule with plus-ones? If I give some people a plus-one, do I give everyone a plus-one? I'm asking specifically about my coworkers. I was planning to give plus-ones only to those who are married, but then the other people who have boyfriends might feel slighted that they weren't able to bring their S.O. Help?

I'm getting married next May and I'm trying to finalize my wedding party. It is going to be small. 2 on my side and 2 on the grooms side. My younger cousins (11 and 9) are so excited about everything that's going on and I really want to include them in some way. I think I am going to have them hand out the programs at the ceremony, but I also thought of giving them the title of honorary bridesmaid as well. Is that rude or kind of saying like their not good enough to be in the wedding?

Does it ever get any easier dealing with the inlaws? My fiancée lived 2 hours from his family and is in the military so we did not see them very much when we first started dating. He has always said he isn t close to them, but I have encouraged him to go see them, send them presents and even call them more, Once we got engaged it was like a light switch went off.. his family refused to come to the surprise engagement, when we went to our dinner with them a few days later his mom wouldn t even speak to me, no congrats or anything. All she talked about at dinner was his sister and herself. I just brushed it off and kept my mouth closed. Since then she doesn t talk to me at all if we go to dinner or over to their house. If she has to speak to me it s short and occasionally will be a rude comment about me or how im horrible....She recently said I am a liar and can t be trusted. All because I told her the dress she s wearing to my wedding is fine and my fiancée told her it needs to be dressier. At one point she was telling me I can t invite people to my wedding that she s not paying for...and said I m doing it to be spiteful which isn t even the case. My fiancée tells me not to worry about it. I can t say anything to him about them because he gets very upset and defends them.. it s almost like he s blind to the whole thing. We are supposed to be getting married soon and im in a dark place over this. I m not sure if his family is something I can handle. What would you do?

I really do love this girl and we talk about getting married all the time. We are planning on going to another country for vacation the up coming 3 to 4 months and she wants to get married there in a church and not tell anyone about it. A little bit later once we buy our house we will have the engagement and wedding with our families but it will be our little secret. I find it quite hot lol. But i am not sure if she is crazy or just crazy about me

My boyfriend of 2+ years (we r in a Long distance relationship) decided to postpone the wedding by 1 year's time since he doesn't have the time to help me with wedding planning (which I can handle alone) since he is too stressed and loaded up with work currently and unable to support me. On top of this he wasn't too happy with the venue selected (though in my opinion it is ideal) and wanted to visit and check out the venues himself before we go ahead. He did visit his home country once for the purpose of checking out venues but got sick a couple of days later so we weren't able to do this. He also mentioned that after marriage I might have to stay back at my home country while he returns abroad (Singapore) to work as I might not be able to find HR related jobs there (which is my profession), which got me very upset as he underestimated my potential without even letting me try. I now hate the idea of wedding parties and he does too. I proposed the idea of registration of marriage (legal marriage without a function) and he too agreed upon it and we decided to hold it in around February 2018. I'm pursuing my higher studies and will only complete it by June 2018 (4 months after registration) I will have to remain in my home country till completion of studies even if he has to return back abroad. I will join him after my studies. Am I being forceful about this whole marriage topic as we r in our late 20s now or does he seem to genuinely want the same things I want too?

My fiancé is Greek and I'm not so I'm not sure all the rules. Are the bridesmaids allowed to have short dresses? Strapless?

what is provisional merit list

I mean what's up with all of these unqualified people?

Whenever we spend time together, he asks me if I miss him. It's as if he wants to hear it all the time. He says to me "Kiyanni, tell me you miss me." So I tell him that I do although sometimes I feel forced to say it. I love him, I do. When I told him I miss him of my own volition, he told me that "it felt good to hear you say it without me asking you first." This was over the phone. Then when he came over and I spoke to him, he said "I just want to hear you say it first because I'm always asking you to say it." I didn't really under stand that but I just said okay. So we were not talking for two weeks because of something he did. He told me he missed me and wanted to spend the night on the day that I missed his call. Then he asked me if I was still his baby. He's 33 so I wanted to know why is he so obsessed with me telling him I miss him? I know he's been hurt before but I'd really like some answers. Thanks!