I will put this short and as sweet as i can. I had a child with a deadbeat mom of which i won full custody against. i am now remarried and she has two kids a 5 year old boy and a 7 year old girl. My wife and i share one child that is now 2. My child is purposely causing every bit of havoc he can muster up. He will not listen to simple basic commands of which are usually the same ones over and over every day. He is very smart and knows just how to push every button he can find. He quite literally is causing a rift in our family. My wife can no longer handle being woke up by him at 6-7 every morning and not going to sleep until late at night. He had his own room upstairs with the rest of the kids. Now he is sleeping down stairs because he will purposely wake the rest of the children even we tell him not to. He is causing so much turmoil in our family. Every day we are so into keeping on him for everything he does that we tell him not to that the other children are being neglected of the attention they should be getting. My wife and I are always on our last nerve every night and anything will end up causing a fight. We do not do it front of the children. We both stick to punishments that are threatened. We both keep on him every moment of every day. We both are trying very hard to make him listen he just will not. Any body have a clue on how i can turn my negligent child around!?!?!?!

Yeah ok dudr whatever. I would date someone I didnt want to bang because theres more to life than sex and if they asked for sex every day in marriage I'd learn to get turned on by things other than their face.

I used to pick guys based on their chart. Turns out communication is a priceless thing in a romantic relationship and even someones chart cant tell you if they have that...or can it? :)

I currently have joint custody of my 4 year old daughter. Her mother and I have not been together at all since she has been born. I ve had joint custody for around 8 months now. I got married over a year ago and my wife has never meant my child s mother. As my child s mother refuses to meet her. She doesn t want her near her daughter which is impossible since we are married and have two children together. My daughter absolutely adores my wife. The change I want to make is to no longer go to my child s mothers home to pick up my daughter since her mother does not want my wife on her property. She isn t with me every time but sometimes she is and it s always an issue so I d like to get it changed legally. How do I go about it?

My best friend has been married for seven years and they have a 6 year old son. Over the last year her husband started using drugs and staying away from home. He does not work, clean, cook, yard work or take care of their son. In fact he only comes home while she is at work and leaves before she comes home. She was told her only legal option here in Florida is to file for a divorce but it could take years so she puts up with it. She always asks me for advise and I don t know what to tell her. Any advise you can give me would be great.

If you don't have kids and never been married, would you marry a woman with 3 kids if you two had a strong connection. Kids ages range from 8-13. Not bad kids either

So I am 24 years old and I feel completely hopeless with my life. Right now the only good thing in my life is my wife. My career is crap. I have a degree working as a graphic designer, and I don't like it. I want to find a new career, but I don't know where to start. I don't really have any friends. I hang out with my wife's friends, but they'd never want to hang out with me if she's not around. There's no one that I can hang out with without her being around. I don't make very much, and I'm constantly worried about money. Not so much right now, but when we want to start a family. I hate where I live, but I'm stuck here because my wife and I bought a house here, where we literally signed on the same day I was fired from a job. I just don't know what to do. Any ideas? The firing happened a year ago, I am currently employed in a decent job, just not a career job, as a designer. The firing happened a year ago, I am currently employed in a decent job, just not a career job, as a designer.

So my friends husband is locked up currently they can only get visit behind glass she called me to see if I can give her advice on how to get her vibrator in the jail so that she can put on a show for him behind the glass. So my question to Yahoo land is, would it be possible for her to get the vibrator in in her vagina through the metal detectors if not what do you guess it s just she do to get it past the detectors.

I am 30 and my wife is 29, married 7 years, dated for over a year before marriage, neither of us ever had sex of any kind before marriage. While dating, my wife enjoyed kissing and being close to each other a lot. She would even become very aroused and even "wet" while we were close. Again, this never lead to sex of any kind, although we wanted it to (we are both very religious). After 7 years and two children, my wife still doesn't enjoy sex. We have been sexually active our whole marriage. I have never asked her to do uncomfortable things and I do my absolute best to take my time during foreplay so that she is ready. She admits that it is a mental thing for her because she has never become as aroused or "wet" as she did when we were dating. I bought a vibrating back massager for a birthday and tried it on her sexually. She likes me to use it on her but she only lasts for about 30 seconds max and it really doesn't even do that much. I'm happy she gets to enjoy something but it's not enough for either of us. She wants to do better but there is no motivation for her it seems. I feel bad basically begging and am tired of being rejected, especially after I just spent 30 minutes massaging her and trying to show her love and affection. I usually don't just ask for it. I start massaging her and then kissing and then try and get into it but generally it does squat. Please help with only SERIOUS answers. Thank you!

I feel like a cheating spouse can still love their spouse... even they aren't "in love" anymore. Should I just assume that my future wife is going to sleep around behind my back?

I mean why put yourself and your spouse through all that extra pain?

This is a long story and I know I shouldn't be with this guy anymore but it's been a 6 year relationship and it's hard to let go. Moral of the story is that I've been there for his family for 6 years feeding, taking care of, you know being a good girlfriend and loving his family when his family knew he had cheated on me. He had brought other girls over before, and never told me. There was a temporary time that I did leave and found someone new and he left to Mexico and apparently was with someone else but it didn't matter because I was happy. When he came back he kept trying to come back that I eventually gave in. ( the guy I was with had kids and his baby mom started drama saying that she wouldn't let him see his kids if we were together so I guess it was mutual anyways) I got back together with him and same thing I felt backstabbed but I was willing to work it out. I found out he had gotten married and he was married for 3 years.. his family was there at the court and knew the whole time. Now that I moved out and have been doing things my own way it seems to me that he is pushing me out his life. His divorce is final in July but he yells at me and treats me terrible like if I ask a simple question I get yelled at. I know the answers but I can't let the man go. Im moving in August and want to start a new life. But he keeps telling me to live with him again. I'm scared because I haven't talked to his family since I moved out.

I've had my husband's last name 28 years. I want to legally change it. Example: Jane Denise JOHNSON Hough Name in caps NEW. Reason: I never had my daddy's last name and he is dead now. (I miss him so much.)

We've been married for almost ten years and he's always been there for me, provided for us and supported me. The problem is, he has a hard time with honesty. He lies about little things because he doesn't want to get in trouble and deal with the resulting conflict. He tells outrageous stories that are just not plausible and then gets angry when I don't believe him. He is constantly on his cell phone and his computer. I know he does online school so it's somewhat understandable. He always tells me I have 'open access' to any of his email accounts or social media, but I also know how easy it is to delete things and hide things. I'm getting sick of living in a marriage where I cannot trust my spouse, but I do love him and besides the lying, he is an amazing husband. Not abusive or rude..always willing to help out around the house and works really hard at his job. I'm so conflicted. He claims he's 'stopped lying' but the stories continue. What would you do? *Please do not leave stupid answers. If you aren't going to leave a legit answer, move along and pass this question up.*

My family is new to our area, and have had considerable discussions regarding meeting people. Prior to moving here, we have searched for a lady to join our family (poly-fidelity) so we have (now old) bio's on multiple sites. Well, it is our 14th Anniversary at the end of June and I started looking for a nice place/people/persons to do a couples massage... so I restarted one of these sites. Well, a young lady contacted me, I told her that while we were not looking for something, my wife is looking for friends. She was interested and wants to meet my wife. However she is 1 1/2hrs away so they couldn't just "bump" into each other. (I also would like to avoid creepy status for trying to set my wife up, however that is what I was doing). How do I tell my wife I found her a friend? Thank you

gets angry. I dont wash dishes with enough soap gets angry. I don't pour beer right gets angry. I don't tell him where i am going at all times gets angry. He told me he is better than me because he is a man that can do house chores.

Only a few months into our marriage, wife cheated on me and physically assaulted me on several occasions. I immediately ended things and now I am finding it impossible to move forward with my life as I am still having to pay her for rent for the home we lived in together (even though I don t live there), it is in my name as are most of our bills that she now refuses to pay. She also refuses to return the engagement ring that I still have to pay several hundred dollars a month for to pay back. I don t want my credit to be destroyed and because of this, there is no way I could afford a good lawyer. But I can t keep feeling like she is controlling my life I may be able to move forward. What are my options?

I use the word "let" with caution as I'm aware that a woman can make her own choices, but I think you get the idea. My cousin did this. His wife was a stripper and I lost any respect I had for him and started seeing him as less than a man. Am I wrong?

Im a pretty small guy, 135pds and 5'4. My wife is the same height and about 15pds less. She has anger issues and had a rough childhood (no excuse) but anyways, she gets so upset over the dishes not being clean or the laundry not being washed and she just swings on me. I made her dinner the other night and she shoved the plate on the floor. I iron her clothes for work, massage her feet and write her sweet messages and she still beats on me like a junkyard dog. I need help In my moment of despair and distress on top of being emotionally and physically abused by my significant other, i would like to thank some of you for pointing out my abbreviation error. It means so much to me that you all corrected that for me. You just don't know how blessed i feel knowing that there are such caring people in the world who are selfless enough to go around correcting grammar online. Again, i cant thank you enough

My stepdaughter 's mother went on vacation and brought back two shirts for my husband. She told him that they were free they happen to be his exact size. She also told him it was an early father's day gift from their daughter.....but their daughter did not go on the trip. In general is it OK to use children to be inappropriate?

I m 21, and I m so incredibly lonely. I haven t had an exclusive relationship since high school, if high school relationships even count. We were together for years, and when that fell apart I truly felt like I would never find anyone. It s been almost four years and although I ve had a handful of men that I spent a few months with casually dating, it never really turned into a committed relationship. I know I m young and it s ridiculous for me to be feeling this way, but both my parents and their parents had already found the loves of their lives by the time they were the age I am now. I just want to hear stories of love found in everyday places when you weren t expecting it to kind of reassure me that I won t feel alone forever. There s a guy in my life right now that I ve been seeing for a few months and I can feel myself falling head over heels in love, but part of me feels as though his feelings aren t as strong and he doesn t see this turning into anything long term. I m sick of this cycle.

Turned out in counselling that my wife gladly did anal with her boyfriend, she never would for me, now we are reconciled she still won't. Can anyone tell me why this is? Is it a treasured erotic memory she is protecting?

Me and my husband had a huge argument day before yesterday and he decided not to come home that night, when he did show up yesterday at 6pm he entered the door and acted as he did nothing and started to play with our son cheerfully. I have not said a word to him due to being very upset and feeling disrespected so I've been sort of doing the silent treatment so that I won't say something out of emotion that I might regret. He knows I'm not talking to him because he has asked me random questions where I have chosen to leave the room or not to answer. I really want to be mature about this but I'm so upset that I don't want to talk or see him at the moment, is what I'm doing wrong or how would you handle this as an adult

I love watching porn while having sex with my husband he enjoys it as well.. but after we finish i feel horrible for it