So me and my ex broke up about a month and a half ago, it wasn't a bad break up. It was civil and we've hung out a couple times after it was over. We had problems neither one of us could control or do something about so it was best to just pause the relationship. But this last time we hung out & we had 2 other people with us & we went on a canyon drive and it was pretty late, I was tired and just wanted to take a little nap. I moved things from the seat next to me to the floor so I could lay down without touching him. He said I could lay on him but I said no thanks. Then I ended up just putting my legs on his lap and he started to grab my thigh and continued to go up. I didn't mind I guess, I would purposely move my leg so his hands would slide up some more and then his hands were cold so he spread my legs and put his hand in between my thighs and was also holding my hand, I just laid down and was kind of turned on about the whole thing and I could tell he was hard also. I'm literally so confused on what this all means.!

I always wondered how older people viewed those in their 20s. For instance even though I am only a few years older than teenagers they look like children to me, like really young kids. So how do people who are 20 or 30 yrs older see those in their 20s?

If there is a chair around and a guy stands with one foot on the ground and the other up on the chair, drawing attention to his crotch, what does it mean and is it subconscious or is it on purpose? He also practically stares right into my soul lol hard to explain, but have you ever had somebody just look at you like they can see inside of you?

Background. I am a father of three sons age 20, 18, and 14. Back in 2015 when my 20 yr/o was 18 we took his 17yr/o girlfriend (both senior in high school/ college freshmen) on vacations with us to Chicago, Disney, the Florida Keys, the cabin, and Vermont. They went on their first vacation after 8 months of dating and after 2.5 years of dating they have broken up about two months ago. Now it is 2017 and my current 18 yr old son wants to take his girlfriend (18) with us to New York for a weekend and they have been dating for 1.75 years. We said no because we believe things are moving too fast and he is too young for a girlfriend but he brought up that he took the other girlfriend on all the other vacations and that we are taking his 16 yr old cousin and his girlfriend after a year of dating. Wife doesn't seem to have a problem with taking her but I do. So should I tell him that the reason we aren't taking HIS girlfriend is because I simply don't like her?

Ive known this guy for like 3 years and he s like my guy best frand we hangout at my house and stuff. The other day we were talking and he said he liked me i like him too, but my sister has a huge crush on him and I don t want to hurt her feelings. Idk what to do.

I've been with my boyfriend just over 10 months, my last relationship was long distance and toxic so this is my first normal relationship. We spend a lot of time together and we are close and he honestly has become my best friend, however the past few months some days we don't feel so close some days we are together we barely talk and it feels uncomfortable. I have noticed we have less sex also and at times I think doesn't wanna be with me and I've asked him but he's like why would you think that? That's silly? if I'm feeling down he wouldn't try to comfort me or talk to me he would sit in silence. some times I feel confused because he can be off with me for a few days but there's also times were things are perfect and I know he loves me just by the way he looks at me but some days I'm confused.

Asked her why and she says that she "looks around sometimes". We sit basically next to each other and I see her looking at me often with a blank face. She stares for a prolonged amount of time and occasionally won't stop until I look over at her, at which point she looks away immediately and pretends it wasn't happening. She says she looks around but whenever she "looks around" she stops looking around when she gets to me. Often her eyes just go straight to me. Why?

I like a guy, and I know he is taken, but there is definitely chemistry between us. I am not going to over step the boundaries, but I wonder if this is something I just need to let go and forget.

I met this girl, we went out and had an amazing date. we would text and sext almost everyday and made plans to hang out again. Suddenly i find out she gets back to her ex through social media, she didn't even tell me anything, but now she just doesn't talk to me at all, which hurts. is that a normal thing? should i just ignore her?

She said she needed time "saying no grass is greener other side" but we broke up two months ago.. almost 3 and we went to the movies together a month ago but two weeks ago I got mad at her for following someone on social media and she went on a trip to her friends so I know she added a guy cause she was going to the town and I called her out on it and she said I should move on.. she said she didn't like the guy but idk what she was up too.. she was married before but.. I was with her for a year in a half and I blocked her on social media but I view her stuff by googling it how pathetic I know.. and she keeps posting her going on hikes and things like that.. I don't think she's dating but who knows right.. and I've been dating too.. the first month I felt like this isn't real I was fine.. but now it's hitting me.. I mean it has been hitting me hard but.. I'm so defeated.. I'm so so sad.. I've never been this sad in my life.. the person I told everything to the only person in this world I was that close to someone that I actually liked.. is just gone I hired a break up coach the first month on how to get her back and that's how we went to the movies and made out.. but after that I was so hurt with what happened knowing I deserve better. Deep down I feel it's dead and gone I have slept with four girls randomly and I see her face when I did then I see her curves .. the last girl I couldn't finish cause I played with myself to me and my exes sex videos.. will she Change her mind? i don't want to hear your stupid A$$ comments about theirs plenty of fish in the sea I already hooked up with 4 other fish and they sucked! I like what I like.. so if you're going to tell me to move on you obviously don't know how I feel on the inside do you know what its like... I worked on myself so much not for her but for me... and to be a better version of me.. and the person i love just turning their head... that sort of pain is unbearable.. so honestly.. i feel like life may not be for me.. Im contemplating purchasing a gun and ending it with one shot to my head.. I don't want to tell anyone that though because I' m trying to live but man... the epitome of it all.. all I feel is hatred... I don't like people I don't ant new girlfriend I think I should just disappear forever.. because when she was no longer in my life.. my existence is done this world isn't for me i can't even talk to my mom she would probably think I'm a little btchh..

I am a 21 year old from Europe and im looking for a romantic, loving guy. Anyone interested ? :P

It seems like they could never fall for someone who is unpopular or is seen as an outsider and I think it's quite unfair

Hello all, so basically, one of my best friends has been "talking" to this guy for 3 years now. (she's a 22 year old female, I'm 20.) Now, to be clear, he has treated her like **** the whole time. never follows through with plans, fights with her, uses her for sex, clearly doesn't want to be with her. he's never even taken her on a date. they dated briefly in the beginning of the 3 years, thats it. She keeps on talking to him and her life like revolves around him. she freaks out about when and what to text him. i can guarantee he doesn't give a s***. (the guy is 30). I want to be her friend, like help her write out texts and listen to her vent about him, but I'm honestly done with it. she NEEDS to move on. its ridiculous. her self esteem is just so so low i think. she says nothing ever works with other guys or she isn't interested in other guys. she needs to move on with her life. Ive tried telling her but she doesn't listen. I don't know what to do. How can i tell her that i don't want to help her anymore with him, but also be her friend? I'm just so sick of it. I don't know what to do. she deserves better.

We hooked up once last summer (no sex, just oral and hand stuff). It was at his house, when he invited me and one of our other friends (a guy) to spend the night. He came on to me that night for sure. He initiated everything. We waited until our friend fell asleep and then got to it. He asked to be friends with benefits after which I agreed to, but then he never tried to do anything again, even when he had opportunities. I tried texting him to see if we could "hang" again but he always claimed to be busy working. Then I went to college, and yeah. It was as if it never happened for awhile, until he brought it up a few months later during thanksgiving break when we were alone, just to reminisce I guess. Now it's been almost a full year. The weather is now warming up, and I saw him the other night. He was being flirty and touchy, just like how he was that night we hooked up. He suggested another sleepover at his house to me and my friend, but hasn't followed through yet(he's not very good at following through with plans). When he suggested it, he looked at me in this way that made it kind of clear that he wants to do it again. I'm totally down for it. But I'm confused about why again now, when he had so many chances this past year?

reasons women go out of their way to pop them up and out, or even get surgery for fake ones. Reasons?

We recently started talking again, I forgave him for cheating a while ago and I said some nice things to him, to which he aaid some nice things also. But as of late we've kinda been sexing a few nights a week and that's bad, we used to do that a lot but now I feel that it's all he wants. He snapchats me pictures of his face only and no words and it's soooo boring. Why is he being boring? I'm trying to get conversations going

I'm 17 and my boyfriend and I have been having sex using condoms but he doesn't really care for using condoms neither do I and I feel we are both very mature. Sadly I don't have a license to travel around... neither does he & he's 2 years younger than me and I don't want my parents to find out. What's the easiest method?

He's a cool and laidback guy. We work together and i notice that if a guy shows interest he interruppts or gets really nosey. Its almost like hes jealous. One time he text me and said me and another guy have this flirtatious thing going on..Im like no we dont..Then there are times when I text him and he wont text back..lol Hes always asking for pictures, idk why lol Im confused

My crush's name is Miles. He was the first boy I knew that actually treated me like an equal, like all of his other friends. Once I got to know him, we became official friends...doing the friend handshake and all that stuff to be qualified as friends (lol). After I became friends with Miles, his other friends got to know me from him and they found out I was actually pretty awesome :). So then all his other guy friends became friends with me and then I got pretty popular with the guys. I had a crush on Miles from the very beginning, but I didn't even realize until my girlfriends pointed out how I acted different around him. After a while, it was very obvious we had a crush on each other. But we never told each other how we felt about each other. PLOT TWIST! On the last day of that school year, Miles went to a new school. I didn't even ask him for his number or email, so we'll probably never see each other again. I am so dumb, I totally should have asked him for his contact info so we could keep in touch -facepalm- I really miss him. I'll never forget the many laughs we shared and what we have been through together.

My boyfriend is definitely emotionally abusive. I noticed after a friend talked to me about it, I was always blind to it. He's always controlling where I go, who I hangout with, etc. He gets mad at me for every little thing, it's like I'm his puppet. The thing is, in the beginning of our relationship it was so perfect and I fell deeply in love. He gradually got worse and worse, yet I still find myself in love with him. I know he doesn't cheat or anything like that, and he really can be a sweetheart towards me, but lately I've found myself crying most nights due to him ignoring me for hours on end for the stupidest reasons. For example, right now. He gets mad about things i do, yet he does those exact same things and I can never say that to him because he wont understand. I partially think some of these controlling factors come from issues with his family, but I feel like if he really cared about my mental health, he would know not to be like this. The emotional abuse has gotten me to stop eating daily, and I barley ever leave my house. I can't breakup with him, I love him too much. Even though i can feel this relationship slowly breaking me down, I can't do it. Please just tell me your advice.

I really need help. I was very intoxicated last night and said EXTREMELY aggressive and rude things to my friends over text... While I was drunk, I thought it would be a good idea to delete ALL of my most recent texts (so now I don't even know who I texted or what I said because all of the texts are deleted). I also blocked about 5 of my coworkers on instagram (for no reason) so now they are going to be very confused as to what they did that made me block them. I have ruined a lot of relationships (temporarily) and made other relationships very awkward because of what I had texted these people. I really need help on how I can pick up the pieces from last night! I can assure you I won't be drinking anytime soon.

I've been with him for 7 years I have been loyal to him I cook for him I wash his clothes I care for him when he is sick He doesn't work so I get him everything he needs & wants I show him affection For the life of me I can't figure out why he it's so hard for to tell me he loves me or even appreciate anything I do for him. He doesn't show me any affection he doesn't even kiss me!! If I don't wash his clothes on time he shouts at me and tells me if I don't do it another woman will and he says this everytime he wants something done and it isn't. I found out recently that he will text other women 'good morning beautiful' it may sound petty to be mad at that but has never said that to me!

So this girl is my supervisor and sometimes she is cool with me & tells me something about her new dude. But at times she has an attitude. (She has one with everyone sometimes.) When she passes me by her hand ALWAYS has to graze my butt.At first I thought it was cause of lack of space but one time her hand really grabbed my butt and there was definitely space. Anyways one time recently when I was having a private conversation with her about an issue. While she was talking to me, she kept moving really close to my face to the point that I had to step back and she still leaned in even closer so I took another step. When I come to my job on my off days she doesn't say anything to me or greet me. I find this to be very odd. What do you guys think? Btw I am a girl.

A. Sex B. Time C. Friendship D. Love

Do they think they're too old? Feel intimidated?

Ok. I have a boyfriend whom I love very deeply. we've been together about 7 months now, but i also secretly have feelings for another guy, for the last three years. Neither of them know about one another. But dream 1- i was in a traphouse or like a rundown house and it was dark and there were a ton of people over and music blaring. well, my boyfriend was here but we werent with each other at the moment. i was overwhelmed, and i remember looking down and i was coated in skin tags, head to toe. I was kinda scared but not bothered Dream 2- my boyfriend died in a car accident, and my crush was there to comfort me at our martial arts class (only time we see each other), i woke up crying. Dream 3- I was at a funeral, i cant remember whos. but there was a playground behind the building. I was walking with my crush and he had a girlfriend? as far as i know hes single. but she was a foot taller than him lol, but we were walking and the trail was extremely viney and overgrown. the playground looked like part of my old one from my elementary school. but the three of us were swinging or something and we were talking about death and how i liked him and he liked me too and his girlfriend was like "yeah he likes you. but you two cant have each other" or something like that. I'm v curious, idk how to interpret them. can you guys help?

At work there's this female delivery driver that comes by for pick ups. First me and her had small talk here and there. Then she was gone for awhile bc she was sick, when she came back she asked my coworkers where I was. Me and her talk now we talk more on a personal level. We have exchanged numbers bc she wanted to know how my golf outing went. Then she texted me telling me she couldn't make it for pick ups bc she was backed up. Does this mean she's becoming interested in me?

So basically this guy and I were friends for two years. Hung out a few times and had a lot in common. We sent some dirty pics at times and I secretly saved them for my pleasure. The boy found out I saved them and he opened to me vulnerable and told me his mom doesn't love him how she tells him everyday how he is a mistake. She hates him because of it His dad doesn't care he is an acolholic. His siblings don't get along with him well. He does extra stuff at school and is in harder classes he said this girl broke his heart. He said he has trust issues and he never opened up to people about this stuff. He sent me a picture of his puke and said are you happy? He missed one day of school because of this. Is he emotionally attached to me?

So this is what happened, I went to this party with my mom and my mom's friend was there who has a son. Some other people were there too. So we played manhunt and we were hinding together, and he was all over me(hugging me A LOT) and after that he was there at the other party I wen to a month after. So before he came, my friend comes up to me and tells me that they dated for a week and that he broke up with her after that. And I was really hurt because I liked him. And when he got there he was basically ignoring me. But then a week ago, I saw him at another party😂 And we played hide and seek, and he kept on going in the closet with me, and I was even sitting on his lap since there was no space, and he was all over me AGAIN, and after that I tried talking to him on Snapchat, but it seems like he doesn't care. So HELP! I know you guys are probably going to say he doesn't deserve me, but I really like him, and I honestly do not know what to do😭

Personal experiences please.

I know I'm not that ugly , I know I'm a nice guy , so what could it possibly be?

Well every time I am in a relationship with someone my sex drives gets really low but a few days after a break up it comes back really high after a few days by that I mean I don't want to have sex as much in a relationship but when I'm single I sometimes to and masturbate often when I'm in a relationship I don't masturbate as much I am a female is it because maybe I'm not as attached to guys as I think? Maybe I'd be more attached to females? Or something else? I just think it's weird.

And it keeps happening. At first I thought may be it is coming from the outside. May be it is the neighbour's hair or may be it is coming through the windows but my windows are shut most of the time and there is only me living in my apartment. I do not have girls over neither are there any of my friends who are bringing girls in my apartment. The landlord comes over once a year. I moved three times and it just keeps happening, what do you reckon is going on here?!!

It's been a week 3 of those 7 days I talked to her and told her about all the good things we had. I genuinely love this girl she is almost perfect. I lll admit I broke up with her a lot but it was more like we fought and I just wanted her to realize that what she did was wrong. Anyway, she basically said she couldn't take it anymore and said she was moving on. So I kicked it into gear and revved that ****** till the engine blew. I think she wants to take the car to the shop. She apologized for hurting me KINDA she sent me s tweet that someone else said. She has a problem admitting she's wrong. But after 2 days of hearing she doesn't want to be with me I think I struck a chord in her somewhere. So, she said sorry but she also said that she didn't say WE were getting back together. She uses WE a lot. I think she wants me back but just needed space and wanted to be sure I loved her. All I can say is I feel so happy and this girl is getting that ring in time.

I am 24 he is 27. We've been together for a little over 3 years now and we've been going to weddings and we often talk about our wedding and living together. He is very caring, takes care of me/protective of me, and is very loyal. We don't really fight and we have a lot of fun together. We share many of the same interests, nerd stuff, video games, tv shows. He often cooks for me and surprises me, he has his own place and is a pretty responsible guy and really smart. I am constantly worried because I am very sensitive and he is very critical and blunt. He doesn't even realize that what he says could hurt my feelings. He is also very negative about life, and I have a lot of empathy and absorb this, while he doesn't really understand empathy. I get in my head and am afraid to talk to him about it and I don't know what to say. It's like I forget everything positive and just spend all day ruminating about whether or not we should be together. For those of you who know about Meyers Briggs, I am an INFP and he is an ISTJ. Also, my parents just got divorced, so that isn't really helpful either. What should I do?

I just answered a question from a husband whose wife complained she felt neglected, and I'm already feeling neglected and saw a lot of similarities between this poster and my husband. The thing is, I'm even worse off. My husband works 6 days a week, I'm in charge of 3 kids. We hadn't been on a date in 10 years and he just took me to a concert two months ago. We never have sex anymore, it's been a couple weeks, even though he keeps telling me he has sexual dreams about us. He's affectionate. But after he kisses me home from work, he goes to his man cave and watches tv until I call him up for dinner. Then he's back down to his man cave until bedtime. In the meantime I'm bathing the kids and watching cartoons until bedtime. He doesn't watch tv with them or read to them or do anything on an average night except watch them in the yard from the deck while vaping while I'm cleaning up from dinner. Our teenage daughter has anxiety and told her psychologist, and me, that he doesn't care because he spends no time with her at all. He doesn't ask how any of the kids do in school. He will ask if someone is sick, if they've gotten better or what, but he doesn't show the boys how to ride a bike without training wheels or how to hit a baseball. I did all of that with our children. I've talked to him about it over the years to no avail, and right now I'm considering what to do. He acts completelu clueless like there's no problem. He literally works, mows the lawn once every week or two, sleeps until noon on his day off (usually up at 6 am workdays) and watches tv. He will take the boys swimming at the neighbor's once or twice a week, and feels really put upon to have to do that. He forgot our anniversary this year. He's never given me anything me mother's day, but at my daughter's suggestion takes me out to eat, never makes reservations. Has forgotten my birthday tons of times, or just gives me a card, never cake, never a gift.

I apologize for the disgusting topic but there's a wide variety of information on this topic on the internet. Some sites seem to recommend eating your own feces.. others say the smallest amount will send you to the hospital or worse. So with my situation I don't know if I should be nervous about getting sick or not? Seems like such a small exposure should be fine though. When I did lick a tiny portion of my finger and realized my mistake I immediately spit to clear my mouth a few times also. My girlfriend is STD free also. Thank you for any respectful input!

Say if there was a guy that has approached 15 girls in the last 2 weeks, some with friends, and the girls he approaches are mostly at like coffee shops and shopping centers. Say if he's approached 15 girls in the last 2 weeks and hasn't settled anything yet. They give him the "I have a boyfriend" excuse or just flat out decline to give him their number. What are a few words you would have for him?

Although both can be considered bad by some, I still believe its worse to sleep with a friends ex girlfriend or mother of his children than to sleep with his adult sister. Whos wrong, me or him? I think hes trippin.

what makes them say that