Who do you text back within one minute when you are at work dealing complicated issues and talking with people. You could be bending down examining equipment etc. Would the person be Husband wife Boyfriend girlfriend Children Sibling Parents Friend Aquaintance

So I've started to notice my wife's g string popping out whenever she bends down and I've even noticed the straps visible when she walks. Every time I see I tell her to pull her pants up or get a belt to no avail. She's only 25 so I'm worried this could be for attention. Is that what's going on? or is she just simply not realizing her butt floss is showing?

Okay, so I got married two years ago at the age of 19. My wife was 7 months pregnant at the time and I met her and just fell in love with her. Till this day, I love her. Before we got married I told her that someday my dream would be to live in Alaska, because I would really love to be a state trooper up there. She told me that I had big dreams and she supported my decision. That eventually when things get better, we would move up there. At the time we lived with her parents. Since then I managed to convince her to get her General Education Diploma, move out to our own apartment so we could live comfortably, enroll in college, purchase our own vehicle. The baby is now two years old, and we will both be done with our Associates Degree next Spring Semester. The opportunity that I have been waiting for presented itself as I got accepted into the University of Alaska Fairbanks. It means that my goal would finally come true. However, now my wife wants nothing to do with the idea. She says that she does not want to leave me but that she can't be with someone who wants to live up there. I understand her point, not everyone loves -40 degree weather for most of the year. So, I compromised with her. I would willingly give up my dreams of becoming a state trooper in Alaska, just as long as she agrees to go up there with me until I finish my Bachelor's Degree which is two years. Just so I could get a sense of what I dreamt my life to be like. She doesn't, is it fair to me? Should I go?

I have this older, married friend who I have had feelings for, for a bit. We used to work together, he was my boss. Back when we worked together, he was very flirty with me. I don't think he meant anything by it. Even on his last day there, he was looking at this clipboard with the schedule on it and I kind of peered over the clipboard to look at it, too, and he playfully poked me in the nose with the top of the pen. Anyways, he got a new job and left. He invited me to his church after he left so I've been going for almost a month now. Whenever our (guy) friend is there, my crush, our friend and I will chat for a good 10 minutes (his family will sometimes be hanging around, but they're usually elsewhere). When it's just me and my mom there, my crush will come say hello to us, but won't even say goodbye when he leaves. He'll look at me, but then just leave. Why won't he talk to me when it's just me and my mom? Does he feel awkward because he doesn't really know her? He's a very social person. Even somebody I work with said that was strange and that it wasn't like him. I am 26, he is 37. No it's not a joke. He's not a gross person lol you're ridiculous. You only say that because you don't know him. If you knew him, you wouldn't think he's a creep or gross. Nobody has ever gotten that impression of him. By the way, this is a nondenominational church that is very casual and friendly, so people tend to hang back and chat after the service is over. We (him, me and our friend) chatted for a good little while after service that first Sunday I went and he even introduced me to his wife and one of his closest friends. It's just for some reason, when our friend isn't there, he won't come chat after the service. houseofyum-Excuse you. I don't have any STD's. And who said anything about having "relations" with him? We're friends, that's all.

Bonus: Did you do this knowing she had just lost her job, and give her a talk about how both genders are equal now so she should have no problem fixing her own vehicles and saving money for her husband who could not fix cars, without asking about her personal beliefs?

I met a guy I REALLY like. At first we took it slow and he'd contact me daily for the first week, but then I'd see he takes hours to get back from time to time and recently he's becoming more scarce. So, I gave him space and we recently had our first date where he laid on the moves like there's no tomorrow. So, he made sure I got home and all that and alluded to a "next time." Done. Doubt I'll entertain it again. I like this guy far too much to fall for him and it's happening rapidly. For whatever reason HE took his time, whether he didn't really like me or whatever, he said he doesn't really need the phone and just gets back whenever. But I felt he was not serious (he even made a joke about how he doesn't fall for anyone) and being that I can tell my feelings are growing I felt it wasn't right for me to continue. Today however we haven't spoken and I am NOT reaching out. I just want to know if it's possible this is the same reason he isn't reaching out. Mind you, I don't know his intentions but I doubt if he were serious it would be this scarce. Btw, I know he'll definitely reach out again.

Okay so I used to live with my fiance. But we've had very bad trust issues so we decided to go on break and I went back to live with my mom to save up and he lives with some friends. Anyway the break lasted two weeks and were back together now Anyway were talking about staying together. However I predict I should be moving out of my mom's in about a month and a half to almost two months. I have no idea what to do with my fiance'. One of my friend's asked me if i would allow my fiance to move back in with me but i seriously had to think about it... I have trust issues with him and in the past we would get noise complaints because we would always argue and i don't want that again. If I want him to move in I'd want to go in with everything positive. but i still have negative feelings I also feel selfish because he actually doesn't like living with his friends. He always complains on how bad they treat him. he has nowhere else to go. My friend said i'm being selfish because i shouldn't let him live like that. What should I do? Update: Like I remember sometimes I would wish for him to not be home after I get off work so i can relax and be able to be free and let go and i fear i wont get that with him living with me again

Why is it that I have to pay an ex? And does this go both ways regardless of gender?

It's been 10 years next Thursday since I broke up with an ex girlfriend from college and her mom is still sending me hate mail and death threats in the mail. Is there a way I can get a restraining order on this woman? Her daughter is married and has moved on and so have I and I'm not married as well and her mom is still mad at me for hurting her daughter.

If he keeps coming back to her over 7 years?

It was originally going to be my husband and his dad. And now his dad has invited 3 other people to come along. In total (including myself) 6 people. I would prefer just me, my husband, and his dad so that we can focus. And I was unaware until now that other people were invited.

No woman marries a rich man for anything but money, even if he's handsome it's all about the money I could never be with someone I didn't think genuinely loved me.

His name is Harry Alexander Gomez de La O. Mine is Jennifer Dominique Herrera-Rozi. I like my last name but If I have to take his I d rather have his maternal last name as his paternal one Gomez sounds so basic and ugly to me. Jennifer Gomez reminds me of selena Gomez And Jennifer lopez ): Also could he just change his name to takr out Gomez?

I'm a 19 year old female from NY that grew up with two parents whom have never gotten married and never saw my parents as a couple (they called it quits when I was born) A girl who's always seemed to get her heart broken because Shes had a terrible taste in men growing up - never had a male father figure and my moms terrible at this too- has finally set her priorities straight.. For me, I've always said if two people are happy then why get married? It's a piece of paper than can easily be torn apart because lets face it..it's not forever. Divorce is a thing. But Now that I'm getting older, do see myself getting married. It's a commitment, a joining for two lives and never having to say goodbye to the person you wish to share your life with. But I'm also so terrified of the word, terrified of getting hurt or cheated on. I'm dating a man now who is very sweet, but I do not see myself marrying him. He's too much of a child and a mamas boy. What are your tips? And what does marriage mean to you?

I have three degrees, my last one being a master's in counseling. My wife doesn't have a degree but she hates when I talk to her on a level that maybe she can't understand. I've always wanted to constantly learn things. It's hard to have a conversation with someone who isn't on your level but should I dumb myself down to make her feel better or am I wrong for trying to push her to do better? We're almost 50 years old and she still watches shows like the BET awards (not saying there's anything wrong with that) but after a certain age I think a person should grow beyond things our kids are now into. My wife feels that having a master's degree doesn't make you smart. She feels that her "street knowledge" is far more valuable than a piece of paper framed on a wall. The other day we got into a conversation and she actually thought a few mounds of dirt in the front yard were cause be rabbits whereas I had to show her that the mounds of dirt were just ant hills. Should I dumb myself down for her or do I not try to get her to a level we can now talk? No, education may not make you smart but the last thing I want to do is debate the merits of an ant hill to a rabbit hole or discuss what Two Chainz did at the BET awards. Am I wrong?

Feeling overwhelmed by the transition, I took to the booze and then lied to my wife about it. She took my wallet so I wouldn't buy more, then kicked me out. I'll be going to an AA meeting today but I am worried she'll want a divorce and I don't know what to do.

My husband and I have had lengthy conversations about porn and our views on it. He sees it as a way to relieve stress and to get off when sex isn't an option (I'm not home, he's out of town for work, etc). He knows that it makes me fee inadequate and insecure. I don't understand how he can't see that. Why do I have to be ok with him looking at other women and fantasizing about having sex with them? Why do I have to accept that? How is that selfish on MY part?? It's not like I'm saying "I don't like football, so you shouldn't watch football". I've gone from being hurt to being kind of pissed off. I NEVER turn him down for sex. Like ever. Am I too available or something?

I was discharged from inpatient treatment for an eating disorder last week. The transition getting into the swing of things have been really challenging. I took to the vodka last night and when my wife asked if I had been drinking, I lied to her. There is no excuse for lying to your wife. She took my wallet and money and had her daughter drive me over to a friend s to stay for who knows how long. The worst is going through my mind, mostly that she is going to divorce me. I don t know what to do.

My wife calls me daddy when we kiss or make love. Why does she do it ? Is this normal ?

My sister was married to her husband ... and they bought a house with his brother, where his family would stay too... She contributed to their house as well, and although the house was only in his and his brother's name the judge said that she would not get any part of the house. I don't know how divorce works, but should she have gotten something, she paid for a lot of things like the washer dryer, fridge, oven.. but the judge said without a receipt she can't claim anything. should she try to get her share of the property?

And vise versa? Would love to hear your stories I am feeling really alone right now!

We fight all the time. But one night as I was driving home he grabs my hair and pulls it then he grabs my face and tell me that I have nothing and he is the one with all the money. Accuses me of looking at other men. Whenever his drunk am always afraid that is going hurt me. Has done this more than 3 time already. The last time he did it he left a bruise on my face. I left that night with my son but was back at the house in the morning. Of course he was sorry. I have forgiven him. Been patient with him. Some month he doesn't work, he doesn't contribute to my son expenses. I love him. He is the father of my son and my son adores his daddy. I know that relationships are hard. I have become this unhappy person who nahg about everything. I hate coming home after work. He is supposed to be my best friend, my lover. We fought last night again. I was not having a good day. But food was ready when he came home. He told me that we were going to be moving to a master bedroom. No kitchen just a room and a bathroom. I lost it told him that I refuse to live in a dame room. (Right now We live with his brother, wife and 5 kids.) I want a home! He got upset and told me he couldn't live with all the fighting that goes on. He didn't speak to me all night. This morning I got up fixed his lunch and he left for work. He probably won't speak to me the next couple of days. I had this dream of a happy household and I want to try to make it happy but at this point should I just give up?