Hello, I m a 17 year old, just graduated student who lives with my father. I m currently visiting my mother and the living situation here is completely different than my dad s. My mother is a hoarder, so the house is constantly a mess of random junk, this most likely plays into the bigger problem we have. In no way is my mother making bank, but she is making enough to where she should be buying fresh groceries every couple weeks... but she won t. I ve been here for a month now and we haven t gone shopping ONCE. There s expired chocolate milk in the fridge, a **** ton of tortillas for no reason, bread, and a thing of biscuts and gravy I got from a diner a week ago, taking my brother out to eat because there s nothing left to cook a decent meal. My brother has to ASK to go shopping for a few things, just to eat for the next few nights. But even when he asks, most of the time he gets yelled at. I had asked her a few days ago if I could go buy lunchmeat and cheese so I can at least make some sandwiches for everyone but she yelled saying "We have food!" What kind of meal am I supposed to make with enchilada sauce, canned carrots, boxed macaroni and cheese, and bread? I ve used all the money I ve through with me just to make sure my brother is eating daily. The first night I was here I made macaroni and cheese dinner for us with the rest of the good milk and butter we had, but that was the last home meal I ve had since visiting. What should I do?

Both of my parents have blue eyes, my boyfriends mom has brown and his dad has blue.

If same sperm from my father had fertilized another woman's egg and same egg from my mother was fertilized by another man's sperm, which of those two kids would be me?

At times we fall in love, but it is not reciprocated. But in this, we grow tremendously, and I think the takeaway is the growth that comes with that love. When we slowly heal, would you say that is the time we are actually ready to love them? That calm, selfless acceptance compared to the once intensified rush? But wouldn t you also say that when we reach that moment, we have moved on? I d like to hear your take on this. I know things never go fully as planned, but I always wondered if life could do a 180 and reward us when we have mastered loving ourselves as we loved another.

I ve held this in for so long I feel like I m about to explode. Everything I do is wrong. I m 13 years old almost 14 in a few months and I have no freedom. I m not trusted enough. My brother picks on me and then he lies and says I do the things to him. Yes, I do punch him and stuff but it s because I hold the things I do to him in for so long. Then with my dad, he yells at me for everything. I pick the wrong seat when we go out to eat, he yells at me. I go into my bedroom with the door locked because I m 13 I would like to be alone sometimes and he yells at me forcing me to come out. He yells at me because I m always on my phone or computer. Yes I understand that one but when your stuck inside not able to leave the yard I am going to do that. And with my mom, she s so overprotective. I know it s to help me out but when my phone goes of she asks who I m texting or when I m playing a game on my phone she asks what I m doing. But I have to say she is really nice to me. Just too protective of me. She says she doesn t want me to grow up to quick. I m half way to adult years I should have some freedom. Anyway I don t know what I should do about it. I ve thought about killing myself several times from all this. Should I keep quiet or speak up about it all? Please help me.

I feel like it'd be cool to have someone I could cuddle and nerd out with someone to talk to someone I can buy chocolates and kiss on the neck. I've talked to a handful of girls but it's like I overthink and i end up ghosting on the phone. I'm a Latino guy but I'm lightskinned I've got dark brown hair brown eyes I'm pretty skinny I'm six foot two 18 in September I look 14 though. I'm surprised when girls are into me the first time a woman called me sexy I couldn't believe it I thought she was lying but she was serious but she had a boyfriend plus I was 16 and she was in her 20s. I speak English Spanish French Italian and Arabic. I learned Arabic for a girl I had a crush on but that went south. I'm quiet sometimes but when I talk about my life traveling around America and Mexico people are entertained and laugh I even made someone laugh so hard they cried. I guess my life is interesting but I feel lonely just like everyone else. I'd love to cook for a girl i took home ec a lot of the girls thought I was gay I guess cause I wear skinny jeans and was around females. If it's worth anything I'd kind of like to date an older woman but it's like I just want to be happy. I don't even know my identity cause growing up I didn't fit a stereotype i liked Star Wars but listened to Wu tang i talked like a white guy and look like one but my parents are brown

I graduated high school 2 weeks ago and as a gift I asked my parents to buy me my own condo in NYC since I will be going to college there in the fall. They told me instead of that, I can stay at their condo instead. This is not what I want at all. They told me since they bought me a car it would be a little too much to buy me my own place too. How can I convince them to get me my own condo?

I feel highly offended at this.

Not sure whose the father. One is a ex of2weeks.The other was school friend. John from school ignored the situation,never followed through w/DNA so the courts got him for childsup.The ex sean has a secret past of home invasion Robbed a lady roomate@ gunpoint with a mask on infront of her kids, ransack the house& approached the kids with the gun&mask on kissing the kids on the forehead. Also was a pimp. The toddler never met sean due to the fear of sean or his family environment hurting her. He has been stalkin on social media, figured out new&old numbers,calling saying nothing.then leave text messages. she decided to meet up with him to end it all.They met at a public place. him rubbing his hands together looking into eachothers car windows. He was hostile&sarcastic. Keep in mind my friend just had a loss&he didn t care because after she let him see the kid thru window he didnt say much but started cussin"I understand you lost someone today(started laughing)then said, "but why the f did you wait this long." He Didnt try to find a solution& he dwelled on the past. She said she had to leave then he told her,"dont leave".now he messaged my friends fiance & sister.she doesn t feel safe,feels like she has to hide in life. She has a fiance who raised her daughter since birth. She tried but now realizes she doesnt want him around she feels he has something mentally wrong with him. She fears him getting courts to approve him having the child alone.

- Oscar Wilde Because they are in denial.

Okay, so yesterday my cousin married her fiancé "Greg" so now he is her husband. My cousin is a older sister to me, friend, role model etc. Her wedding was really nice but now I feel a little bit of sadness in me that it's over and that she is going to be gone for a bit (meaning I can't text, call or get together until like middle/end of July. I love my cousin with all my heart but I really do not like the man she married. He is a bit cocky he talks down to me and it's just really annoying. I feel like things won't be the same with me and her and I'm just neededing some advice, I obviously can't approach this with my other family members so someone please help with what I can do. Thank you!

I always notice that women love to nag men, wives love to nag husbands, girlfriends always mad at boyfriends, women in relationships always act weird and kind of unfriendly to the friends of their partners. Why is that? Not saying all women here! but from what I noticed from daily interactions that many women/girls always have an issue, always have something to complain about, enjoy being mad and enjoy creating unnecessary drama, hate the friends of the husband/boyfriend Am I alone on this one?

I was at someone's house for dinner. It was my mom's friend's house, and they were inviting a whole bunch of other friends over. My brother's friend, and his parents, including his mom who is my mom's other friend came over. My brother's friend had a little sister who was 8 (I'm 18 and my brother and his friend are 2 years my junior). I hung out with her, and keep in mind, I am very socially awkward and very introverted so I haven't had any friends in years. But I hung out with her and it was fun, and the thought popped into my head, "she's pretty, and feisty, and ADORABLE!!!!!! maybe when she gets older I can date her." At first I saw her as like a little sister, but then my feelings started to change after I left, and it's been weeks now, and the thoughts often pop into my head. What should I do? Also, P.S. I am autistic.

If same sperm from my father had fertilized another woman's egg and same egg from my mother was fertilized by another man's sperm, which of those two kids would be me?

I feel like it'd be cool to have someone I could cuddle and nerd out with someone to talk to someone I can buy chocolates and kiss on the neck. I've talked to a handful of girls but it's like I overthink and i end up ghosting on the phone. I'm a Latino guy but I'm lightskinned I've got dark brown hair brown eyes I'm pretty skinny I'm six foot two 18 in September I look 14 though. I'm surprised when girls are into me the first time a woman called me sexy I couldn't believe it I thought she was lying but she was serious but she had a boyfriend plus I was 16 and she was in her 20s. I speak English Spanish French Italian and Arabic. I learned Arabic for a girl I had a crush on but that went south. I'm quiet sometimes but when I talk about my life traveling around America and Mexico people are entertained and laugh I even made someone laugh so hard they cried. I guess my life is interesting but I feel lonely just like everyone else. I'd love to cook for a girl i took home ec a lot of the girls thought I was gay I guess cause I wear skinny jeans and was around females. If it's worth anything I'd kind of like to date an older woman but it's like I just want to be happy. I don't even know my identity cause growing up I didn't fit a stereotype i liked Star Wars but listened to Wu tang i talked like a white guy and look like one but my parents are brown.

I've had a fling with a commited person but we were in love and I didn't know her boyfriend but I'm attracted to the girl one of my friends has been trying to get with we're from the same town in Mexico but we're all in America. Bro said I stopped him from killing himself he was sad cause a girl rejected him but I hung out with her later. I also got this one not friend but acquaintance he's got a baby momma I think is really cute and my whole thing is I fell like I can save these girls. Their men don't love them hard enough I want to show them the real deal.

I m getting a little girl a charm bracelet for her birthday that I ll add a charm to each year, but I don t know what to do for her brother. I thought about an engraved pocket watch, but I want something that I can add to each year like his sister s.

I know I know I should never have done it but if u just saw this chick u'd immediately understand how my judgment became so clouded. She just came in and said she was looking for him so I sent someone to go find him and in the meantime she started asking me questions about the workplace and I'm a smart Alec so I started teasing her about the car that dropped her off. One thing lead to another and by the time her husband walked in she was leaning over the counter (low cut top, ahem) and we were both laughing so hard and we weren't touching or anything but he saw the way we were looking at each other which was really intense. Now he's giving me the silent treatment. Should I just ignore the situation?