Family: Question: I need some serious advice please?

Question: I need some serious advice please?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 01:48 PM PDT

I'm a 28 year old woman. I currently still live at home with my parents. Initially I was trying to save to buy a house but I helped my parents out with some debts and now all my savings are pretty much gone. I have a degree but currently work as a sales assistant. I really want to move away and do something but I don't know what. When I talk about moving out and just renting for now my parents tell me to stay in town and rent somewhere near by as rent is cheaper in this town. I don't want that though. I want to move far and to get new experiences and learn on my own. But I don't know where to go and how to go about it.

Question: My girlfriends grandmother died today and I don't know what to say.?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 01:48 PM PDT

My girlfriend texted me after school today and told me that her grandmother died. I said the usual thing ( I'm so sorry, Are you ok, I'm here if you need to talk and So on) she said that she didn't really want to talk and that she was ok now she's not responding to my texts and I don't know what to do.. I know if I try to call her she won't pick up I even sent her a snap chat what should I do?

Question: Me and my brother were sitting on the couch watching tv (my parents weren't home) and he sat really close and started touching me.?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 01:29 PM PDT

Question: How come she spread lies about me and refused to apologize?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 12:49 PM PDT

I overheard my older sister saying some really bad things about me to a guy she used to mess around with. She literally spread lies about how I had sex for money. She also talked about how terrible I looked at that time because I lost a lot of weight. I couldn't believe it. I was in too much shock and pain to say anything when it happened.    When I finally confronted her a few months later, she denied everything. She refused to apologize and said if I change my mind and wanna talk to her again, I have her number. I know what I heard, why wouldn't she just fess up?

Question: What do I do?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 12:43 PM PDT

Ok first I will tell you the story. When I was 7 my Step Brother started touching me. He said If I told I would be the one in trouble, I was scared so I didn't.(It was all over my clothes until this point). He kept doing it for about a year, then one night I woke up and he and one of my blood brothers were on my bed (we all slept in the same room on bunk beds) He had his hand in my pants touching me. I screamed and kicked them off of my bed, i guess my mom heard it cause she came running out of her room. Anyway she saw him laying on the floor (not my brother) so He got kicked out and sent to his moms. soon after that My brother started it up again but worse he would rape me, He said if I told I would get kicked out this time, I believed him. He kept doing it for idk how long then brought my other brother in on it to. They kept taking turns, I was so scared and couldn't tell anyone i felt so ashamed.... (I started self harming when I was 11, And ive tried to kill myself 4 times. )

Question: I feel like slicing my 3 year old brother's head open! ���������� Why is this little twerp so annoying?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 12:32 PM PDT

Question: Can somebody help me figure out what to do? I need to stay in MN this year.?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 12:09 PM PDT

To give a little backstory, I went gallivanting through the united states this past winter, because we sold our home and couldn't buy a new one in time. It was fun, but I really missed my friends and home school was pretty much hell. So, here s my request: I don t want to go again, but my parents want to go again this year(2017-2018). Is there anything I can do to convince them to let me stay? For medical reasons, I can t stay with family in the area. (I get really sick when I go to their houses) I live in a motor home. I m 16 and going to be 17 in September. I care about my education, but I don t want to go to summer school 2 years in a row(going this year, 2017). I will be a junior after this summer. I NEED to stay in MN this year, with friends and better outlets than my computer. If you really want to help and are genuinely concerned, please talk to me. Thanks, M.L.R.

Question: Is my brother a cuck?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 12:03 PM PDT

My brother married a girl with a ton of emotional baggage. The biggest problem is that my brother is an associate pastor at his church but his wife of two years won't attend with him. He admits that he would like for her to go to the same church as him, but he feels that he can't force her to. He doesn't even know why she won't go to church with him, because she won't tell him. He knew she had problems self-esteem issues and other emotional problems before they got married, so I'm trying to figure out if he's just being a white knight beta-male cuck.

Question: Is it normal for him to treat me like a real uncle?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 11:37 AM PDT

My mom died six years ago and last summer he remarried. My step Mom never married before and doesn't have kids. So I don't know if she treats me any more than she would her real kids. She has two brothers, one is married and lives aways off and I haven't seen him since the wedding. Her other brother had just finished college when they got married (late May last year) and then he went in the Navy in August. So he's not been around a lot. Then when Mom and Dad were on their honeymoon he took me on a weekend fishing trip just the two of us to welcome me to the family. I had a graduation party and he couldn't made it but he sent me a card with a $100 visa gift card. When my stepmom's niece from her other brother asked how much I got from Uncle Bryce I told her and she said No fair! That's what he gave me and he knew me my whole life. He also sent me a $15 gift card to McDonald's for my birthday and at Christmas gave me a sweatshirt which is kind of what he did for his two other nieces. There's a blood connection between him and his nieces and he treats me just like he does them. Is that normal? My real mom's brother and sister don't have a lot to do with me since dad remarried. For graduation one sent me $50 and the other gave me a watch. So here's this guy I've only known for a year, and he came better for me than my Uncles and Aunts who knew me since I was born. So is that typical or is he just a really great guy?

Question: Is my brother a pervert?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 11:35 AM PDT

I forgot to lock my bedroom door and my brother walked in as I was changing clothes. He said "You are the most beautiful hot and sexy woman ever". "If you were not my sister I would have a b0ner the size of Texas 24/7". Is that a compliment and/or not something appropriate to say to your sister? How about my saying "In your dreams "shorty"?

Question: Is my mom being unreasonable by not letting me get a job?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 11:27 AM PDT

I've been wanting a job for a while, and my mom was okay with that until today. I didn't do a good job cleaning off the stove/there were crumbs on the table and she basically got mad. I washed the dishes last night and she got mad about that because the dishes are supposed to "go inside container not beside it." Then she got more mad because "only some water bottles are supposed to go on the counter, and the rest in the closet." Anyways because of all of this //and not keeping my room clean// she thinks I'm not ready for a job, because I'm not responsible enough. But I've had one before, where I didn't get paid and I was really good at it. I just feel like she's overreacting a tad. It's not unusual to leave crums on the counter or not keep your room clean. I want a job. I know how to be committed and I have a 3.8 GPA, with just one B last year. So what I don't keep everything clean?

Question: A few hours ago my mother-in-law sided with me over her own daughter-could they be setting me up for something?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 11:21 AM PDT

Question: Am I in the wrong?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 11:13 AM PDT

I am 19 years old. I am going to college, and I am a double major and a double minor. I have my own house and pay rent on it but my house is 2 and a half hours away (closer to my school than my family) near my school; so I am back home for the summer. That leads me to live with my mother and two brothers because I wanted to come back and work my serving job I ve had for the past 3 some odd years. I have my own car a 2015 Buick I paid for full out myself, my mother pays for my insurance, I pay for my education, my food, my bills and phone is not paid by my mother. THE PROBLEM IS. My mother treats me like a child. I sometimes will go out on Friday night and drink a little and if I do I will text my mom and let her know I m staying at a friend s house. My Mother doesn t know my friends and I don t feel as though she needs to know where I am going if I m going to be home. I text her and let her know if I will be gone but she says I m disrespectful. In my eyes I feel like she doesn t want to let go of her child. Which I understand and I respect my mother. On the otherhand I want my freedom. I believe I have the right to do the things I do. I really am only staying here at my Mothers house for financial reason and it is only 3 months. So my question is. Am I in the wrong? Even though I pay for most of my own things and tell her if I m not coming home am I disrespectful for being an adult?

Question: Absent father coming to my 8th grade graduation?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 09:43 AM PDT

Ok so my father lives only like 15 minutes away but he only like calls me on my birthday he has a 7 year old and a wife and I just don't like him and he never makes an effort to be in my life. I'm about to graduate 8th grade. He texted me a couple weeks ago and said it would be really cool to go to my graduation and asked if he could come. I said that I had to go. Then a couple days ago I wrote out a text telling him the date and time and he could come if he wanted, I waited a day then sent it as like a just get it over it will be fine kind of thing. Now I am really worried cause I tried to ask my mom if I should let him come and she just told me it was my choice instead of helping me. Every time he's doing anything with me he tries to resolve things and makes everything about him and to be honest I just don't want him to embarrass me. I want to spend the day with the people who have always Been there for me. I could have lied saying that I could only bring a certain amount of tickets but it says on my schools website everyone can come. It's a really small school. Your also supposed to get roses for every member of your family and I ordered before he asked I don't want my step sister to feel left out. I really have tried in the past for him to be there he just isn't a good father and I'm better with out him. I don't kno what to do

Question: If my mom marries a man, then divorces him, and has me with my father, what does that make the man she divorced?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 09:29 AM PDT

Question: Are teenagers really so difficult or are older adults just rigid control freaks?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 09:20 AM PDT

Sometimes I think teenagers get a bad rap. Many of the adults I know are ******* idiots who take every opportunity to be petty authoritarians over others. I'd hate to have any of them dictating my life. It's crazy that kids don't have any legal self-determination until they're 18. Am I the only one who thinks this? I'm in my early 40s btw

Question: My sister likes to gossip. How do I stay safe from her gossip that people might tell her about me?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 09:18 AM PDT

She is worse them my mother about gossip though not as bitter as my mother.

Question: My Dad is not good to his elders. So when I get to be old should I ignore him like he does to his elders, especially the women elders?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 09:16 AM PDT

Question: Is it really selfish that I want to spend 2000 dollars and travel on my hobby and travel?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 08:38 AM PDT

I have a disabled child who lives at home and she wants me to spend half of my money to help her get a car. And since we are poor she wants me to save the rest for emergencies or to fix the house. Is it really selfish?

Question: Should a 14 year old girl still sleep with her 10 year old brother? She is a 9th grade highschooler and he s in 5th grade.?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 08:27 AM PDT

Question: Please help my girlfriend is moving 4 hours away! Having a very hard time?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 08:16 AM PDT

Next month my gitlfriend is moving is moving. She is all set to move into an apartment on the 1st. It's 4 hours away, and she is very excited about it. She has a lot of family where she is going. I don't know how to deal with everything! She already lives an hour from me, and it seems to far now. I don't have the money to move right now, and she told me not move there right away by her because i may not like the area. I'm scared this is the end of our relationship. I want her to stay here me, and get a place together but she wants to be there She said it's a lot cheaper. She found a 2 bed room for her and her daughter that is 600 a month with a garage. All she has to do is pay for her electricity, and laundry. Here is 750 on the low end for appartmennt. Its sti cheaper together. She likes that is she about 10 mins from the beach too. And her pArents are going to live there 8 month later. She says she is going now so she can learn the area, and she will be all set for when school starts for her daughter. But here we place is she not really by stores. They are a good 10 min drive, but She likes that the school a mile away. Now I'm also worried about her. What if somethings happens? Apparerly she think everything will be okay because its 60 unit apartment building, and she has family near by. How will everything be okay? She's moving !

Question: My cousin has multiple kids from multiple guys. Now she is getting married. Should she have more kids?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 06:22 AM PDT

She is 32

Question: I had to see my toxic and disgusting mother last night. How do I clear my brain from this (I feel almost like I am sick)?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 06:21 AM PDT

Had to see an equally disgusting sister of mine.

Question: Is it normal to get a raging ***** when watching Cody in DaddyOFive get abused?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 06:16 AM PDT

Question: How can I overcome this bitterness / jealousy involving half brother reaching out to my family?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 05:34 AM PDT

I m going to try and make this as short as possible. I am really close with my father and by sister, however my father was married to another woman a long time ago and had 5 other kids before he met my mother. I only met my half siblings maybe 2 times on my life ( I am 25). Due to some life events my little sister was offered a job in the state/town were most of my half siblings live. A couple months before this happened, one of my half siblings had been reaching out to my dad and sister, but not me, Idk why. My sister moved there, and I can t help but feel jealousy and bitterness that my real sister will be spending more time with her half brother, who she barley knows. I can t help it, I m trying really hard to not feel this way, after all he is my brother. I have not told anyone how I feel. Has anyone here been in a similar situation?? What can I do to overcome these dumb feelings. Oh and incase I didn t address it, my dad was entertaining in their lives while we were growing up. It s only been recent that some of them want to start talking with my dad.

Question: How to be kinder?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 05:26 AM PDT

Lately I've noticed that I've been getting very frustrated and short with my mom and older sister. I've been going through some emotional stress lately and I know that has to do with it, but I have a hard time controlling my temper. I absolutely adore my mother and sister, but I want to be nicer and less short with them. What can I do to remind myself to be nice? Please don't call me immature or rude for asking this. It's a genuine concern of mine and I really do want advice on how to be better.

Question: Why does my 50 yr old mother feel the need to comment on everything I do? I'm 25?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 05:13 AM PDT

Question: I am so mad that my mother bans me from knowing my Dad. How do I get my anger and hate towards my mother out?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 05:11 AM PDT

Question: How do I get the world to see how horrible my sister is?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 05:10 AM PDT

Question: Who's in the fault here? Dad or me?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 04:31 AM PDT

Basically, 2 day ago, I was having a fever and Dad walked in to ask me to check whether something he'd ordered online was ready for collection already. Prior to that, he'd been asking me every day and I had to keep telling him not yet. So on that day, I was sick and exasperated and I curtly told him "Why don't you call them yourself?". He walked out of my room and has not been talking to me since then. Why is he so petty? GOD!

Question: My father is so ignorant it makes me resent him. How do I stop resenting him?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 04:20 AM PDT

For example when my mother died he said "you need to get over it now" after the funeral was over.

Question: What to get my 68 year old dad for Father's Day?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 04:19 AM PDT

He has all the tools, computers, etc that he needs! What's something interesting that I can get him this year that won't cost me too much?

Question: I have no Dad. How do I not feel depressed on Father's Day which is the day I feel like dying?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 04:14 AM PDT

I hate that holiday more then cancer. He never wanted me, I guess I wasn't good enough as he kept his two kids from his other marriage. Politically Correct · Trust me I have tried to find him. To the point I was accused of stalking. I finally had to accept I was not good enough for him. I did, he said he did not want to have me in his life because I was too much a symbol of what happened (his divorce). I tried again and finally he said "stop or I'll have to get a court order for stalking" and that was 2012. Since then I have tried to accept I am not good enough for him.

Question: I have a sister who is abusive and spoiled. How do you unspoil a spoiled 23 year old brat?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 04:09 AM PDT

Question: My Dad is a liar. He will say one thing and then go do the other. How do I lower my expectations in this man?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 04:08 AM PDT

If he says something to me that he will do it means 2 in 3 chance he will not.

Question: I'll never be useful in life...?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 04:04 AM PDT

No matter how hard I study, I always fail at everything. From school to doing something simple as the dishes. Ever since I was little, I've always failed school no matter how hard I tried. When report cards come in the mail, I'd always get Ds and Fs. My parents would compare the grades I got and compare them to my siblings and they'd yell at me for saying how come I can't be like them.. Here I am, 21 years old in college and currently on suspension due to poor grades. It's better off if I was killed the moment I was born. I don't deserve to be with anyone or any family. I should just die in an ally where no one would find me not even help me. I deserve to be alone and always will be. I tried asking my parents to see a therapist but they refused. I tried killing myself multiple times because I'm just a burden to this family. All the stress created is because of me. They'd be a hell of a lot happier if I wasn't created. Nobody will ever love me and no should even try loving me. I'll always be alone and disgrace wherever I go.. I should just end it here and now. The world will be far better without me because...Nobody wants a failure in life, nobody will ever love a failure, I have no purpose in this world..

Question: Is my kids father sleeping with his cousin?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 12:27 AM PDT

This past weekend, I called my kids father when I got out of work to see how the kids were doing. he wanted me to pick up the kids cause he said he had to make extra money by helping out one of his neighbors fix his car. As i showed up to pick up our kids, his cousin drives up. He acts surprised and says he is gonna tell her to leave cause he needs to make money. Me and my kids father are buckling the kids into the car seats and talking to one another and I notice she is standing there watching the whole time which is weird. He gives me a kiss goodbye and tells me to call him when I get home. The whole night I felt sick to my stomach like something wasnt right. Once the kids fell asleep I asked my dad to watch them and I drove to his place almost around 1am. Her car was still there. I walked to the side of his apartment near his bedroom window and the blindes were shut, but I could hear noises. It made me sick and I left back home. I couldnt sleep and woke again at 4am. Again i drove back to his place and i could hear them both talking in his bedroom. I text him later that day that he was gross and I didnt want to ne with him anymore. He called and said what i wrote was rude and not true. His response was she was waiting at his place for her uncle because she couldnt drive on expired plates. I just want to know if I am being paranoid with this sick feeling :(

Question: Can you spot the difference between Obama and his ape brother?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 12:09 AM PDT

I sure can't. http://www.free-funny-jokes.com/funny-pictures/******-joke-pictures.jpg

Question: Can you spot the difference between Obama and his ape brother?

Posted: 05 Jun 2017 12:08 AM PDT

I sure can't. http://www.free-funny-jokes.com/funny-pictures/******-joke-pictures.jpg

Question: How do i convince my sister to let me live with her and our grandma.?

Posted: 04 Jun 2017 11:03 PM PDT

We live in the country (me, my dad, my mum and my 5 sisters) so my older sister stole my idea of going to live with my grandmother (in the city) for half a year, this means getting enrolled, doing the dishes, going shopping for our grandmother. My parents say i can go if my sister allows me and she won't let my go. I've been nice to her and it didn't work... What can I do?

Question: Girls : my step sister "pantsed" me?

Posted: 04 Jun 2017 10:49 PM PDT

I'm so embarrassed, because she did it in front of some girls, including one I like (named Stephanie). She pulled down my underwear too! And now every girl in school knows that I'm small 'down there' too. And my step sister calls me "little man" lately. Why would my step sister do that? And then tease me about my size? And why has Stephanie (the girl I like) been ignoring me since I got pantsed? She used to flirt with me, but now she seems like she has no interest? Does size really matter? (I need to know) Help!

Question: How to deal with this person or rude people in general (Storytime)?

Posted: 04 Jun 2017 10:42 PM PDT

So I sometimes work with my dad in his shop and there is this old guy who is one of my dads best customers. He is always talks bad about the other customers saying things like "that person smells bad" or "they talk too much" when its him who smells of alcohol and doesn't know when to shut up. Like today he let my younger brother who is 4 borrow his walking stick and he said "hit your sister with it I tell my brother not to so my brother swings the thing almost hitting a lady then he hits me with it. I'm sitting down pissed tf off (I'm the type to be expressionless). He comes to me saying "you don't seem to be mad at all" I just Ignore him because at this point I'm really pissed. What actually got me mad about that situation was that it almost caused my brother to hit someone. Like how stupid can you be to give a kid that thing. He likes to blame things on me. he told me "thats karma you shouldn't of told your brother to hit me instead" when I didn't even tell my brother to. I know that this might not even matter but because I'm an over thinker I just had to share it somewhere since I have no friends.

Question: My birthday is tomorrow please help?

Posted: 04 Jun 2017 10:26 PM PDT

I'm turning 21 and it's not that I care about getting older and since I have a disease were I age slower since I look like I'm still 16 but I hate birthdays because people give me things and wish me a happy birthday.I feel ungrateful to it. My brother and step dad are taking me to the bar and I never drank before. Any advice on drinking and stuff?

Question: I am in a life crisis?

Posted: 04 Jun 2017 10:07 PM PDT

Im 26, I feel like I just wasted my youth years. from age 22 to 26 I was with a woman and she left me,I lost her,my job,money,and my house. I have no degree and I had to live in my car for a bit before asking my mom to move in back with her because I didn't want to ask for help, but i had no choice because i had no money. so now im back with my mom, im going to school for pharmacy technician but I realized I do not like it at all,I suffer from social anxiety and I have no friends. I've been searching for a job ever since I moved in with my mother but I still cant find a job. I feel stuck,its been over 9 months since everything and im literately traumatized. I lack life and I just want to know why im here whats my purpose?

Question: Daughter keeps taking grandsons away from me and putting them in bad situations.?

Posted: 04 Jun 2017 09:54 PM PDT

My 36 yr old daughter married 10 yrs..husband can't keep job. They've been evicted 5 times in last year..daughter and grandsons who are 8 and 4 moved in with me. She does not work, has no car. Over the years I bought their groceries, paid phone bill, paid car insurance, bought clothes/shoes for boys, paid for haircuts. Everytime she gets mad at me she won't let me see the boys anymore. I take the 8 yr old to and from school. She and I started arguing about her lack of responsibility and she moved out with the grandsons and now living as a lesbian. She just keeps putting a knife in my stomach and twisting it. They are living in a bad neighborhood, no car, all the boys things are at my house, I don't care what she wants to do with her life, but I don't want my grandsons in that situation. She's gone from bad to worse. I'm so worried about the boys. What should I do?

Question: Why does my mom hate me and favor my twin sister?

Posted: 04 Jun 2017 09:54 PM PDT

So, I m a basic 14 year old boy. I have a twin sister who everyone loves. I m always compared to my sister and looked as a disappointment. My sister is the first girl my mom ever had. My mom calls me names and belittles me. When I confront her she acts like she ve never done such a thing! I m always in the background trying to avoid everything. I had cancer when I was 11 and up until after cancer my mom loved me! Now I m cancer free and depressed. I was truly happiest when I had cancer.

Question: A couple questions about the custody of my niece?

Posted: 04 Jun 2017 09:46 PM PDT

so i've got a couple family problems my niece is being sexually abused by her biological father, so she says. But the police and C.P.S wont listen to her we've filed 2 C.P.S complaints and 2 police reports and have evidence of my niece saying she was sexually abused but no one is believing her because she is 4 years old and i know she doesn't like seeing him but im afraid of losing my niece because i love her and also when we showed the judge that was reviewing our case the video he dismissed it saying she was too young to make claims and is now making us give her to him for overnights at her biological fathers home and im now turning to yahoo answers because i cant figure anything else out

Question: How to deal with my inconsiderate mom?

Posted: 04 Jun 2017 09:36 PM PDT

I live with my mom and siblings. My boyfriend and 14 month old child lives with us too. My boyfriend works full time and pays the rent, cable and light bill. All these bills then take care of our child and I. He barely has any money for himself. Our child is disabled so I can't work she had a lot of appts and therapies and I'm very hands on. Anyways my mom got offered to babysit a cousin of mine that is 9 yrs old.. the whole damn summer. I literally never leave the house unless there's an appt. Now I have to deal with my 9 yr old cousin all day long. She literally never stops talking and has a smart mouth. When it's time for her mom to pick her up, her mom always come inside and chills for 2-3 hours. I can never have my hair wild or just have a lazy day. I tried locking myself in my room but I hear them looking for me and my cousin saying she hasn't seen me the whole day. My mom didn't even ask me if it was okay. It's my mom apt but she pays nothing!! I feel like crying cuz I need my privacy. This is the only place I have and I don't want to lock myself in my room all summer. She okay with me being stuck in the house even going as far as telling my boyfriend we don't need a car when I was trying to convince him. I explained I'm depressed stuck in the house and I wouldnt have to ask my mom for a ride anywhere or even to hang out with her. My boyfriend had doubts and she helped him decide that it could wait. I told her to mind her business but the damage was done.

Question: How to deal with my inconsiderate mom?

Posted: 04 Jun 2017 09:16 PM PDT

Question: Am I a Bad Son?

Posted: 04 Jun 2017 08:29 PM PDT

So I'm a 20 year old guy turning 21 in a couple of months and still living at home with my parents. The thing is I want to move out. I feel like I don't have much freedom when living at home with my family. Don't get me wrong, I love my parents to death. My mom is amazing and my dad is a very good husband and father to me and my brother (He's 17). I want to move to a different state about 20 hours away from my current state. I talked to my parents about it and my dad was very happy and excited that I'm moving forward with my life and living on my own, my mom acted like it didn't bother her in front of my dad but she's really heartbroken. She started talking to me about me moving out a few nights ago while I was laying down next to her then she started crying about how I'm gonna leave her all alone. I love my mom very very much and I hate seeing my mom cry it just breaks my heart. It's not like I'm never gonna visit them ever again. Once I get things sorted out in the new state I'm moving to I will come back and visit couple times a year if I can. I will not be living alone. I have a family member that I will be staying with I don't know how long though. also My girlfriend will be living with me once I get my own place in there. Did I make the right decision of moving out of my parent's house? Also is it wrong for choosing my girlfriend over my mom? ( I'm planning on marrying this girl in the future) she's not just any girl. But I feel like I made the wrong decision when I saw my mom cry

Question: I want to go home?

Posted: 04 Jun 2017 08:18 PM PDT

my parents have been divorced since i was in third grade, and my dad has always lived far away since then, so basically he wants me and my sister to stay with him for the summer. i used to not bother me, but now he lives in Ecuador and he wants me to stay for a whole month. i ve been here a week and i m absolutely miserable. all i do is sit around and watch netflix, and i feel like i am missing out on so much at home. i can t go anywhere alone and when he gets home we all just sit around and are all on our computers in the same room. i told my mom i wanted to come home early, and she said she doesn t have a problem with it, but she knows my dad will be mad about it. my question is should i just try to tough it out and just stay here, or just risk him being mad at me? and if so, how such i approach the situation to him?

Question: Is it wrong for me to be upset about my nephew??

Posted: 04 Jun 2017 08:07 PM PDT

Ok , so I happen to live with my sister and her son my nephew . Lately he has been staying in my room while I m at work . Which isn t too bad. Problem is my sister let him use my laptop my new MacBook air laptop which is kinda expensive as well as my beats headphones .he s only 6 and it kinda pisses me off that I ve already said he can t use my laptop and my sister is gonna let him? Like what , I already dont like people using my stuff . He could mess that stuff up. But then I don t have a good explanation as why I don t want him using my stuff and I really feel like he thinks my room is his. It s starting to make me mad. But then he doesn t have a room , so I can understand. But I feel uncomfortable with him being in my room while I m gone. So am I wrong to feel upset. My nephew isn t a bad kid, but he has thrown my stuff on floor and taken stuff out of my room. So I don t trust him too much...

Question: How come my emotions get the best of me?

Posted: 04 Jun 2017 08:02 PM PDT

If someone does something different than what I do normally, like when my Grandma was staying with me and my brother, she told me I have to go to bed at 12:00 P.M.,I went out of sight and started to silently cry and get so mad over small things that I don't like. When I told my friend, she laughed, and said "It's not a big deal!" But in my mind that was a big deal. Sometimes I just break down crying and I think that happens because I bottle up my emotions. My parents don't know and they don't know why I get so mad over all things that people say and do. I just want to yell back but I can't because I'm to afraid to stand up so someone and tell them how I feel, or else I feel that they will yell back and then I will start to cry. Peoplecall me sensitive, and I am sensitive. but one thing I notice is when something happens I don't treat it the same way other people treat it.Grandma told me to feed the cats their "meat", AKA: wet cat food, I told her that that food makes me gag last time I did that. She laughed and told me I would not die. When I did that I broke down silently in the kitchen, and felt light-headed when I did it. THE CATS WERE NOT EVEN HUNGRY! Please help and tell me why this happens!

Question: I am 18 i am leaving home so i was wondering what you need to get into a homeless shelter and can they pick you up at some place?

Posted: 04 Jun 2017 07:44 PM PDT

Question: How should i tell my mom i want to move back in with my dad?

Posted: 04 Jun 2017 07:32 PM PDT

Okay so i am having a really big probllem and i am gettin really stressed over it. My mom and dad got a divorce and so my mom moved and she wanted to go to a different state sooo i had to pic if i want to go with her or stay with my dad.... so i went with her (btw i am in high school and this was the middle of the year). I really dont know why i chose to go with her but i did. Now i visit my dad on breaks i have and i really just wanna live back with my dad i am more happier here but last time i told my mom i wanted to move back she said "no you need to give it a chance and stop living in california and live in Nevada" meanwhile i was crying i shook it off and thought i got this maybe (that was during Christmas) nowwwwww it is summer and i really really wanna come back to cali but i dont know how to tell her. She just gets so stressed out over little things so ig im kinda like her little therapist. But the thing is my little sister is there for her she 13 (im 15) and my brother is at my dads and i have a older sister that just graduated and is moving out but shes staying in cali. I feel that my mom is gonna hate me if i tell her i wanna go back and then her not let me. But i got less than a month to tell her and im so stressed idk what to do. Someone helpppppp!!!

Question: Politely went over to neighbors house to tell them that they were a bit noisy in the morning. Now, they are even noisier. What should I do?

Posted: 04 Jun 2017 07:21 PM PDT

I politely told them that they were a bit noisy in the morning. Now it is evening and they are even noisier. They have two kids boys. How can we take naps? The only way I see is if we stay in the living room instead sometimes. One toddler and one baby.

Question: If someone gives away something that was not really theirs and the reciever refuses to give it back, what to do?

Posted: 04 Jun 2017 07:05 PM PDT

Some inheritance that was rightfully my families was stolen by my Step Grand-Mother's children. It included a watch that belonged to my father that my G. Father borrowed. My Grandfather had a will that everything be divided equally and my Step Grandmother and her children took everything. She hid the will from my father and said she never saw the watches.

Question: How do I get my parents to respect my desire to avoid anxiety triggers?

Posted: 04 Jun 2017 07:04 PM PDT

They think I should quit worrying but do nothing to help me avoid the triggers. My Dad especially is ignorant. I am an adult living on my own so it is not like they have to help me a lot. But sometimes I want them to see what they are doing. They are just absent minded, especially my father.

Question: I don't think I love my sister, what should I do? (Please help!!)?

Posted: 04 Jun 2017 07:01 PM PDT

My sister and I do not get along at all. Every little thing she does really annoys me. I honestly don't think that I love her. My parents always tell me to open my heart up to her but I don't want to. Every time we have an argument, my parents are always on her side and I don't think it's fair. They just took my phone away because I yelled at her to shut up. I love my parents very much and I hate that my sister leads to so much conflict between me and them. I just wish I could erase her from my life because she makes me miserable. I don't know what to do. It's actually really hard for me to be even relatively nice to her because she's so aggravating.

Question: I think it's time for me to give up on women?

Posted: 04 Jun 2017 06:51 PM PDT

26 years old, 5'1. I had a girlfriend when i was 16, but it only lasted a month. High school was great, but never went to prom, because no one wanted to go with me. College was a pretty lonely time, because I was very much into my studies.I'am not that good in the looks department. Now I have a good job, and a great income. I've realized that women in their 20's have a hard time getting over my height. I've been good at being single for 26 years, how hard can it be to go for another 26 hahaha?