My wedding colors are mint and blush but the most convenient time to have the wedding is in December. It's too late to change the colors, is it okay?

so my ex dumped me this past sunday after church because i said i wanted a bottle of wine for our sunday dinner when went to the store and he showed his id and asked me if hes paying for it i said well ya your wallet is out and then he did it and stormed out the store like a manic (mind you the wine was only 10 dollars and he makes 65,000 a year so it wasnt breaking his bank lol) he's speeding to his house running red lights almost getting us T-BONED so i asked him whats wrong and he said "YOU IM F**KING DONE!!! YOU EXPECT ME TO PAY FOR EVERYTHING AND DONT APPERICATE SH*T" which was a complete lie because ive cooked for him ive brought food and alochol over his house ive bought his dogs christmas gifts ive kept them while he was on business trips but i was the "ungrateful one" so he demands me to get all my stuff out of his house and he'll take me home to my parents but i call my parents cause he was acting crazy to pick me up they pick me up and then he tells the im an ungrateful child and he's done with me (he's 31 and im 22 and we were together for 10 months) anyways i felt so bad i had a pizza delivered to his house that night and wings the next night then he starts talking to me like he wanted me back telling me good morning and good night then randomly asks me if i can go on a weekend trip to his moms house next month and im like "does this mean were back together " and he yells at me saying "NO I NEED TO BE ALONE I DONT WANT A RELATIONSHIP!" So should i go or not? and he tells me he never told his family we broke up and im like so they think were together and he says "yes why get them in our business?" then i go on to tell him im not going to be used as arm candy and for sexx and he tells me "im not going to make you back me in a corner with ulitmatiums if you want me to make you my gf again because of that nevermind then dont go" mind you his family and my family thought we were getting engaged now he's ignoring me, im missing him did i mess things up? and he started ignoring me after i told him i wanted a relationship or no vacation like he was angry that i was doing what he said and my birthday is the week after this "vacation" and i asked him if he was going to see me on my birthday he said "possibly i guess so" wtf

If you wear your wedding ring on your middle finger, then that gives you the excuse to flip all of your friends and family off when you show them that you are engaged or married.

Proposing after fighting and gf knows about it because I told her

Weddings are expensive and I know that everybody doesn't have a lot of money to give as gifts. What I want to do is have a cheaper dinner for those who give less and a more fancy dinner for those that give more. That is the best way I can afford to invite more people this way and they won't feel pressure or guilt about not giving me enough

My first cousin is getting married soon. My sister were invited and most of her other first cousins. I wasn't invited not for any reason other than we were never really close. My sister who's gonna be her maid of honor told me that she would've invited me if she didn't have so many guests. Well I've been dating the grooms cousin for a little bit and he wants me to come as his plus one

So I've been engaged for a few months things started off great. Then my future husband didn't know how to make time for me. So a few days ago I talked to him about about how I was feeling and asked him about work. He reassured me everything was fine. Do the next day after he got off work he got a call at 8 pm he told the person on the phone he'll be right there. So I thought it was his mom. So we get in the car and I ask him who was it. He told me it was a old classmate. So I just was going on about do he gave feeling for her ge said no I'm trying to make money for us . The thing that got me is if I ask him to go somewhere with more after work he's tired blah blah blah. Should I break off the wedding or not.