Friends: Question: How do you turn acquaintances or strangers into friends? |
- Question: How do you turn acquaintances or strangers into friends?
- Question: What does this sign mean?
- Question: How to make proper friends in college?
- Question: Is she my friend and does she care about me?
- Question: Why is this weirdo being annoying?
- Question: Should I cut contact with everyone I'm associated with?
- Question: Was this wrong of me to do? (Short)?
- Question: Am I really ugly?
- Question: My parents force me to play soccer???!!?
- Question: My friends are going to hang out together and lied to me so I wouldn't come?
- Question: How do I get out of this?
- Question: I did something bad and it's affecting my life?
- Question: Help with conversation?
- Question: I made a few bad mistakes which has ruined my reputation and turned everyone against me, everyone hates me?
- Question: My friend just broke our friendship?
- Question: Can someone give me a real advice?
- Question: Película de mafia donde un capo tiene una sala de bronceado, y pide prestado droga a un gefe que nadie sabe su identidad pero es muy cruel.?
- Question: She always lies to me?
- Question: Should me and my best friend act differently?
- Question: I need friendship advice :(?
- Question: How to find friends in yahoo?
- Question: I need some friendship advice.. I don t know what to do?
- Question: Does this mean that guys don't care about their male friends ?
- Question: What if you want to stop being friends with someone in your group?
- Question: Película de mafia donde un capo tiene una sala de bronceado, y pide prestado droga a un gefe que nadie sabe su identidad pero es muy cruel.?
- Question: How to rekindle a childhood friendship/bond?
- Question: How do I properly keep in touch with these people?
- Question: What to do this summer if I have no friends?
- Question: Can you top this one, if so with what?
- Question: Conservatives are a bunch of racists this is why I stopped talking to all my conservative friends?
- Question: Have these people use me?
- Question: How to get these harassers to stop?
- Question: Feeling under celebrated?
- Question: Okay so a friend of mine is being forced to stay at her parents house, what should I do?
- Question: Why are my friends worried about me and friend going camping together?
- Question: Is it bad to not let people get close to me ?
- Question: How do I tell my friend I don't like to swim in the deep end or I can't?
- Question: Does anybody know what the difference between a slug and a snail and a liberal is?
- Question: I suffer from severe loneliness?
- Question: How can I make this girl cry?
- Question: Should I forgive them?
- Question: Some one at my school is a jerk that puts ants in people s hair. I want to get her expelled/suspended. Anyone have any ideas?
- Question: Have you ever been so attracted to a guy that your voice trembles slightly when you are in his presence?
- Question: How do you set up boundaries towards people so that all of the faults and blame cannot be on me in the end?
- Question: What do you do if you and a friend admit you want to have sex?
- Question: I'm tired of my best friend?
- Question: Didn't get invited to party?
- Question: How do I stay in touch with a friend that has moved to another country? (Please read)?
- Question: Is my friend stealing my money?
- Question: Who do I choose to be friends with?
- Question: Friends at school?
- Question: How can I get over trust issues from my childhood?
- Question: Why did my sister tell me it's my fault for letting my "friend" treat me like a doormat (please read)?
- Question: Do people with less money have more friends?
- Question: I had sex with my best friends sister?
- Question: Should I attend the social gathering even though someone might hate me?
- Question: Should I tak to my friend about his masturbation habits?
- Question: How to back out of a draining friendship?
- Question: My friend is 16. She got in trouble by her mom and is grounded for 3 weeks. She won't tell me what it is!?
- Question: My friend is 16.. recently she got in trouble by her mom and she won t tell me what it is!!?
| Question: How do you turn acquaintances or strangers into friends? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 05:42 PM PDT Generally speaking I find it hard to make friends in part because I'm currently unemployed - thus no money to go out to meet new people - but even when I'm in employment I found it difficult even to make friends at work too, also I'm in my thirties and it's much harder to make friends then when you're a kid. I'm Autistic so I'm used to it taking time to make friends, I've had friends before but they were via school or work and I wasn't able to maintain them once I left school or the workplace. I've never understood how you go from stranger or acquaintance to friend...I'm not entirely sure how it happened when I did have friends. When I try to socialize via meetup I don't seem to establish any acquaintances or friendships there, it's just random conversations, and I don't know if it's at all possible to gain friendships from casual encounters. |
| Question: What does this sign mean? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 05:36 PM PDT 8====✊️===D💦 What does it mean |
| Question: How to make proper friends in college? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 05:31 PM PDT I haven't always been the best at making friends, and I've been alone for most of my life, and now that I'm (almost) out of High School, I want to know: What can I do to make friends, like actual friends, not those guys who'll turn on you in an instant, the second you're in trouble. |
| Question: Is she my friend and does she care about me? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 05:26 PM PDT she accepted my friend request on facebook and I sent her a message with a picture saying "is this how you look now? is that how you look now?" and she replied "yes" |
| Question: Why is this weirdo being annoying? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 05:26 PM PDT I know this guy from last year. We used to have almost every class together and now, we don't have any classes together. Last year, he was so annoying. He once asked for an eraser and I gave him one but the next thing you know, he tore it apart. Annoying jerk face. He's the annoying 'cool' quarterback and I hate most of the jocks because they're so annoying. I was studying in class one day and he's like 'oh, you actually study?' LIKE YES I GOT A FREAKING HONOURS! We often see each other in the hallways.This day, I remember how I was walking to my next class with my friend and he just jumped in front of me while I was going down the stairs and went like 'Zoe! Your name is Zoe!" Like I'm sorry, but I never knew my name was Zoe, thanks for letting me know. Another time, I was walking home with my best friend and suddenly he appears and goes like 'My name is Zoe! Ladadada' and just starts dancing, right in front of me. He literally swears all the time and then tells me not to swear/YELLS at me and tells me to not swear (even when the cuss words aren't directed towards him) like 'Can you not swear? I f*cking hate it when you swear' like look who's talking and what about all the other people that swear AT YOU? The only time we talked like normal people was when we were working as partners on as assignments and we were talking about video games, when he kept on playfully hitting me on the arm. Just today, my friend, who has a class with him told me that he was talking to this other girl about me like 'Why is Zoe's hair so long? Long hair are annoying." and the other girl replied with 'oh but she cut it', which I did. He just grunted and went back to work. HE IS SO ANNOYING LIKE WHO THE HECK GAVE YOU THE PERMISSION TO TALK ABOUT ME!? And I still don't get this weird thing about swearing. Like he swears in every sentence but I can't swear? Wow, amazing. My best friend cusses at him and he never says anything about no swearing to her! Another time, I was walking in the hallway with my friend and he bumped into me. I got a little mad when he didn't apologize and muttered "Dumba**" under my breath. He heard me and turned it into a lecture "Oh, I'm the dumba**?" "Can you not swear? I hate it when you swear!" I couldn't care less if you hate it or not. |
| Question: Should I cut contact with everyone I'm associated with? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 05:23 PM PDT My family doesn't really care that much about me. No one calls or text me. The only person that does is my mom. I feel like I don't really matter to these people. I just feel as if maybe I should just drop off the map. Just discover myself stop worrying about what they do. |
| Question: Was this wrong of me to do? (Short)? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 05:10 PM PDT My boyfriends friend and I both follow a fan page for a band we like that's pretty big on facebook. Someone in the group posted a picture of the lead singer choking a fan so I made the joke "at what concerts does he choke fans? Asking for a friend..." and my boyfriends friend saw it and reacted with a surprised emoji. I'm suddenly paranoid that he will try to show my boyfriend what I said and accuse me of being a cheater or something when I'm not. Was this wrong of me or if you were in the situation would you understand that I was joking and brush it off? |
| Posted: 06 Jun 2017 05:08 PM PDT Am I really ugly? |
| Question: My parents force me to play soccer???!!? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 05:02 PM PDT im 15 and i hate competitve soccer. For the past three years I have been asking my parents to let me quit but they keep forcing me to play. I cant take anymore. I have told them ill go to the gym all the time and ill play any other sport like swim or tennis that are so much cheaper and way more fun. they keep saying no. i dont wanna be sucked in to ANOTHER year of this.. advice pls? |
| Question: My friends are going to hang out together and lied to me so I wouldn't come? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 04:51 PM PDT |
| Question: How do I get out of this? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 04:46 PM PDT It's the last few days of school and my teacher made us do free rice the whole class. The winner got a chocolate bar, I figured it's the end of school so me and my friend lied about our score. The highest in the class was bout 4K and my friend said he got 5k and I said I got 4.6k. The teacher was surprised at the top 3 (me,my friend, and the kid who actually got it) she gave my friend the chocolate bar and the day was over, I didn't think much about it. Until today when she called us all up to her desk to get our score. She was going to put our names and send an email to all the other history teachers. Now me and my friend are kind of worried that we will get in trouble and that they will make a big deal about our scores. I know it seem stupid but I don't need to get in trouble especially with Asian parents. This is weighing on my conscience. I can't stop thinking or worrying about this. Anyone have anything to help me? |
| Question: I did something bad and it's affecting my life? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 04:25 PM PDT so i slept with one of my best friends ex boyfriend when i was very drunk and didn't know what i was doing. i feel so guilty and bad and everyone hates me and says things to me and i don't even want to go to school anymore and i just feel so isolated and lonely because i'm hated by everybody and i would never intentionally want to hurt anybody like that and nobody understands that i was very drunk and that's why it happened, they don't believe me and i feel so horrible and down about it, i hate this and i know it's my fault but there's no way of getting out of it. |
| Question: Help with conversation? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 03:50 PM PDT So my friends Mom and I had like a few text conversation about my friend and she told me that she had a successful operation and then right now she sent me a picture of her sleeping (I think? She just had a surgery) which I believe was taken now or something and I m not too sure how to react towards that. The last thing she said like two texts ago was her saying she could pass a message along to her and I responded with one so uhh yeah... |
| Posted: 06 Jun 2017 03:38 PM PDT okay so i'm 15 and i had lots of friends and was liked by many of people but it all changed last month when i went to a party with all of my friends there and obviously everybody was drunk and so was i. i was very drunk which resulted in me doing something very bad. that night i lost my virginity to my best friends ex boyfriend. the next morning i was in shock but soon enough she and everyone else had already found out anyway, all of her friends were being so nasty to me , i had apologised and said i didn't mean for it to happen and i wouldn't have done it if i was sober but her and everybody else is just saying i'm using 'being drunk' as an excuse when i'm genuinely not. i understand why she would be upset and angry and i don't expect her to be fine with me but now everybody hates me and just to make it even worse me and the boy are now together. the reason being is we both lost our virginity to each other and couldn't help catching feelings and i knew i shouldn't go there with him but my friendship is already gone with the girl so i thought why not. but she hates me and i hate being in this situation because she sits next to me in class and her and her friends always make comments and say things to me and i know i'm in the wrong and i just feel so lonely and isolated because i'm the most hated girl in the group and rumours have been going round about me and everybody is speaking about me and i hate it so much but all i can do is blame myself. i don't know what to do? |
| Question: My friend just broke our friendship? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 03:23 PM PDT I don't understand I've done nothing but be there for him, we did have an argument (he said something racist towards me) and then we didn't talk, I wouldn't have minded if he would've just apologised to me, but he hardly apologised to me. He never tells me his business like the last time I asked where he was going in vacation and he told me it was none of my business. But we can also be really good friends sometimes like he says I'm one of his best friend's but I don t know. So just now he said "bye have a great life" and I said "cant believe you've forgotten everything jve done for you, you obviously don't care about us." And then he said "I care? Obviously I don't if I'm doing this" and then I just blocked him. I was still willing to still be friends with him but.. I admit when he didn't wanna tell me where he was going on vacation I did get mad and then he got mad and said something racist to me. When he also told me "he doesn't care" he sent me a quote that said "just because I'm cutting people out of my life doesn't mean I hate them. I respect myself." But I don't get what I've done wrong I really did like him and he was my favourite person but people dk tend to switch up . |
| Question: Can someone give me a real advice? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 03:22 PM PDT I dont have any one to talk to anymore. Because of that i hope you guys will listen and advice me, cause i feel lost.... I have written about it before, but no one actually gave me a real answer. Maybe it is because it is to hard to explain what is going on in my head in here. I have been friends with a group of girls. But in that group I was close to two of them. The thing is I always thought they was my best friends. They know everything about my personal life. I mean everything. When i think about it today, while I am writing this, they have never told anything about their life to me. They always talked about it when I was not around to each other. If I should give you guys a hint about what I am fightning in the moment, is child abuse (not sexual). They knew about it. Because of that I haven't been that social in life, but they knew it wasn't my fault. Through that time (the last 4 years) I did see them as my closest friends. The thing is, they haven't never contacted me to do anything. I have many times asked them to do something with me, but as I looked at it today, not one time we got any social together. Instead I always watched them on social media have fun with out me.I know I haven't been that social, but I need it. I am human being, and they knew it. They only time they did contact me was when they needed help from me. That is it. I am lonely and I am angry at myself, because I had other friends before this and they same thing happened. We ended our friendship. |
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| Question: She always lies to me? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 02:33 PM PDT So I have a friend (let's just call her Sarah). She's a good friend for the most part, but she ALWAYS lies to me about almost EVERYTHING. Whether it be something big or small, she lies to me. I was on her phone once, and I looked thru her snap messages with her crush and she talked **** behind my back. When I confronted her about this, she got mad at me for snooping through her phone. I'm depressed and suicidal and she knows this since I told her a while back. 2 days ago, she gave me her phone and I was in snap again. I had some beef with this other girl who's my friend. Long story short, that other girl doesn't know about my depression since I never told her. She did suspect it though. I looked thru their messages cuz I was curious and both my friend (Sarah) and that other girl discussed my depression. I gave Sarah her phone back and asked "You and her didn't talk about my depression, did you?" She said "No." I asked her multiple times in different ways and she denied. I'm just so sick and tired of her aleads lying. I have confronted her about her lying before, but she just says "it's fun to lie to you." I know it's also wrong of me to look thru her phone, but if I didn't, I wouldn't have known all this. What should I do? I'm honestly so done with this bullshit. |
| Question: Should me and my best friend act differently? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 02:23 PM PDT Me and my best friend have been friends since 1st grade and we became friends as soon as we met each other. Though we might seem different, we think very alike and I think that's what makes us such good friends. It's like we complete eachother. She's the one who gets us into trouble, and I'm the one who gets us out of it- that's how our parents always discribe our friendship. There's a problem though. We go to a fairly small school, about 600 students or so, so rumors spread quickly. Apparently there's a rumor going around that me and my friend are lesbians, and there are people who point it out quite often. It's not true, but I think I get where this is coming from. We are together pretty much all the time. We sometimes hold hands, because when we were in 1st grade we would always hold hands whereever we went and it would kinda stick with us to this day. But the thing is, we are still so young (we're 14) and we don't think of those things like that. People see what they want to see and everyone only seems to be thinking about dating. It just feels so irritating. I've also noticed that when I hug my friend she sometimes pushes me away(not violently) and laughs it off and I can tell by her behaviour that it's bothering her too. Anyways what I really want to know is if our behaviour really is sending such a message and should we change it in order to avoid the drama? |
| Question: I need friendship advice :(? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 02:14 PM PDT I have these two friends, let's call them A and B. Recently A has been messaging a bunch of guys when she already has a boyfriend. She even calls them and talks to them. They send her pictures too. It did bug me and B because A has a boyfriend and it just wasn't right. We didn't say anything to her about it, we thought it would be better if she figured it out on her own. Plus she did tell us that her and her boyfriend are only friends with benefits now. I guess that made it better? So me and my boyfriend were talking and I just told him that A and her boyfriend are friends with benefits and that she has been talking to other guys. I forgot to mention that her boyfriend and my boyfriend are childhood. I trusted my boyfriend not to tell him because he never tells anyone the stuff I tell him. So fast forward to this past weekend. My boyfriend goes out drinking and hang outs with A's boyfriend (or fwb?) and tells him everything! So of course he goes and confronts her about it. Then she messaged me saying how she doesn't want to hear or see from me for awhile. Then B starts messaging me asking what I told my boyfriend and that A called her crying. I sent A a long heartfelt apology because I do feel horrible about it, I know I made a mistake but I would never do anything to intentionally hurt her. She didn't reply, so I messaged B telling her my side of the story and how I'm really sorry. All she says back to me was basically my apology wasn't good enough. What do I do now? |
| Question: How to find friends in yahoo? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 02:01 PM PDT |
| Question: I need some friendship advice.. I don t know what to do? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 01:37 PM PDT |
| Question: Does this mean that guys don't care about their male friends ? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 01:16 PM PDT If a guy doesn't hug any of his male friends does that means that he doesn't care about his male friends |
| Question: What if you want to stop being friends with someone in your group? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 01:11 PM PDT Im sure you can see how this situation might be complicated. Basically, i have this friend group and one of the girls is very kind when you first become friends with her, but once she feels as though she can, she starts treating you poorly. She is mean to me all the time and CONSTANTLY stirring up drama. I find myself wasting countless hours fighting with her in long paragraphs over text. Her friendship is honestly draining me and i dont think i can do it anymore. Multiple others in the group seem to feel the same way but dont do anything about it. Rather, they just say somethinf like "yeah, she can be a b*tch but we still love her!" But what if i dont want to take that crap anymore? I mean i feel like i would have to leave the whole group and then would be left with no friends. I mean if i stay in the group then i will have to still deal with her drama and seeing her at group gatherings (for example, shes coming to my schools graduation for me and our other friend (alhough probably only for my other friend now) and i know she will be petty there and stir up drama. I mean, can u give me a break??? Its my high school graduation!! |
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| Question: How to rekindle a childhood friendship/bond? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 01:09 PM PDT So I'm 15 now and so are my two friends. We have known each other our whole lives, and I rarely see them anymore. I went to see them last year when I revisited my home town and it was almost awkward. We barely talked the whole day... do they hate me? I'm seeing them tomorrow. |
| Question: How do I properly keep in touch with these people? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 12:48 PM PDT So I went to a prom for an online high school, I met some great people, we ended up exchanging phone numbers etc... anyways I want to keep in touch with them, however I am often awkward I wan to hear from them often, but i am afraid of saying something rude or spamming them. how do i keep in touch with them properly? |
| Question: What to do this summer if I have no friends? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 12:45 PM PDT I have no friends, literally. I go to camp in 3 weeks but until then I have nothing. so I don't know what to do cuz that's not enough time to gets job or something |
| Question: Can you top this one, if so with what? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 12:36 PM PDT I know a woman who frauds Social Security, runs around with a married man. She knows she does this and says to me the other " ( my Name) I dont want you to think of me as a bad person." Omg how much worse does it get? Has anyone you know personally ever made such a ballsy statement when you know damn well what they do and they know that you know it too? This only pertains to people you know personally. We all know politicians and stars are nothing BUT scandal bags |
| Posted: 06 Jun 2017 12:21 PM PDT The moment they started trash talking about muslims is the moment I cut ties with anyone remotely conservative. They are a bunch of racists and this should not be tolerated by anyone in America |
| Question: Have these people use me? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 11:53 AM PDT Ok long time ago back in high school a girl ask me to borrow $40 and I lend it to her and she never gave it back. And now is a new story long time ago I lend my 2 enemy money and they never pay me back or treat me for birthday. Every time when I used them they say you better give back the money or I beat you up. Then I forget about them. Now I have a new friend and he always say he going to pay me back but never happens is only me that treat him dinner and he never treat me back. And he kept saying he going to pay back all the food money and hotel money back to me but never happen. |
| Question: How to get these harassers to stop? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 10:26 AM PDT They are at my school. I don't know how one of them got a picture of me in my underwear but now it's all over school. Before that they catcalled me. I've read tons of articles about witty things that women have responded to catcalls with but I never have the nerve. The teachers know and nobody has ever done anything to stop it. My friends don't want to be friends with me because they're included in the harassing if they're my friend. The boys used to just do it verbally but recently they've been grabbing my butt and getting physical. I don't know what I can do to stop it. I've told them to stop but they just laughed. Help? |
| Question: Feeling under celebrated? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 10:04 AM PDT So I returned home from the West Coast & happy to celebrate starting my masters degree & reconnecting with old Highschool classmates. I guess I felt it was a time to celebrate obtaining a new degree & new chapter. Some highschool classmates back home have already started or are finishing their degree. I went out one night with 2 classmates & felt judged by the one saying "oh she just started" & was making faces about it to the other classmate. I was disappointed thinking we had all grown since highschool ext & their wouldn't be this back stabbing attitude I guess I was wrong & mad at myself for even getting together expecting more from these people as adults. |
| Question: Okay so a friend of mine is being forced to stay at her parents house, what should I do? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 09:56 AM PDT So basically she's under constant watch by her parents. She no longer can talk to any online friends. She can't leave the house, and her email credentials were given to the aunt to look over, just in case she talks to someone. The WiFi usage is also being monitored. I want to help her, but I don't know what to do. If I contact the authorities will that help? If so, what do I even tell them? Also I'm in a different state as of right now does that matter? |
| Question: Why are my friends worried about me and friend going camping together? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 09:31 AM PDT Me and my friend Alex we are going camping and I'm a girl he a boy we both 15 and my friends are worried about that duh our parents go to so what's the problem with that we are just friends we have known each other since we were 6 and honestly idk what my friends are worried about |
| Question: Is it bad to not let people get close to me ? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 07:47 AM PDT Lately I've been distant people and when ever someone gets close to me I push them away I get weird feelings about people and friends in general and I feel I'm not good enough, I try to not cry instead I hold them in. |
| Question: How do I tell my friend I don't like to swim in the deep end or I can't? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 07:44 AM PDT I know they're going to be surprised and I don't really have an excuse so...help? Please? |
| Question: Does anybody know what the difference between a slug and a snail and a liberal is? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 07:09 AM PDT I googled it and could not find a response. Please help! I am asking for a friend! |
| Question: I suffer from severe loneliness? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 06:54 AM PDT |
| Question: How can I make this girl cry? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 06:49 AM PDT I met this older girl in an online game and i have been chatting and playing with her since a few months now. she's like 17 and yeah she is nice and everything but sometimes she is so ******* annoying. she always thinks she knows everything better and from her perspective she's always doing the right things just because she is older. it's just stupid and makes me so mad. i cant stand it any longer. what can I say to her so she will start crying in real life? |
| Question: Should I forgive them? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 06:26 AM PDT Basically this person and i have butted heads for awhile. she kissed my ex and did it out of spite I forgave her. I've said stuff about her in the past and shes said stuff about me i forgave her. shes put up mean things about me and my friends online I forgave her or I've at least tried to forgive her for this stuff that isn't very nice. Don't get me wrong I've been a ***** to her but not to the same extent i feel she has towards me. All I've done is ***** about her. She still heavily dislikes me even though i'm nice to her. I think I forgave her because I put myself in her shoes shes very insecure and unstable but should I be forgiving her for posting mean things about me online kissing my ex and bitching about me. Where is the line when i comes to forgiveness. |
| Posted: 06 Jun 2017 05:29 AM PDT She has 3 friends that somehow don t see how she s a jerk, one of which also bullys me verbely and physically And another one of her friends is my friend so any time I try to spend time with her I get bully d. I want to get the 2 bad people expelled/suspended any ideas? |
| Posted: 06 Jun 2017 04:44 AM PDT Although you are normally a confident and outspoken woman. |
| Posted: 06 Jun 2017 02:53 AM PDT Like when a girl might mistake my friendliness for her as romantic relationship or when some friend asks too much favor to me and that I felt pressured that I take them and might just screw up and disappoint them in the end. |
| Question: What do you do if you and a friend admit you want to have sex? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 02:46 AM PDT |
| Question: I'm tired of my best friend? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 02:40 AM PDT She calls me ugly, tells me I'll never find anyone just because I don't date (my parents don't permit it). This really cute guy asked me out and she made a long rant of fb about how she didn't understand why a hot guy would want an ugly girl. She didn't say it to my face, it was an indirect post but I knew it was for me. And one of our other friends said she was gossiping about me and she (our friend) asked her to stop. Most of our friends like and respect me. I get higher scores than her in school but I never rub it in her face and when i try to help her, she refuses to understand. Yes, refuses. I know my explanations are clear and straightforward but she just won't even try to understand or ask questions and shuts me up most of the time. When she fails a test, she swears and curses the teachers and blames it on me that I was unhelpful. She switches boyfriends every month or so and because of that she tells me that I'm a loser and i can't find anyone. My cousin passed away and she told me to go f*** my cousin because she was angry that I wasted her time by asking her if she could follow me to just buy a black skirt for the funeral service. I'm tired of her, I just wish i could end it. |
| Question: Didn't get invited to party? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 01:01 AM PDT My friend is throwing a party and he is one of my good friends, but he said that he wants to invite me but can't because some people at the party really do not want me there. What should I do? |
| Question: How do I stay in touch with a friend that has moved to another country? (Please read)? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 12:09 AM PDT I have a good school friend who is moving to another country very soon this summer, and I want to continue to be friends with her. I was wondering if anyone out there has any good tips for staying in touch with long-distance friends. I know that all of my mutual friends want to stay in touch with her as well, and I think any tips ya'll have to give will definitely be helpful. Thank you! |
| Question: Is my friend stealing my money? Posted: 06 Jun 2017 12:04 AM PDT I'm 13. A while ago, 2 $5 bills were on my shelf when I went to the toilet. I came back, they were gone. My friend said my brother stole them, but he's too scared of me to come in my room. My sister steals from me sometimes, but she wouldn't take money. Friend had two five dollar bills in her pocket, said she earned it from a lemonade stand. This weekend, she came over. I have a piggy bank and I know for a fact that there was a 5 dollar bill in there. I had to loan it to my mom and I went to get it. It was gone. Im calling her L. She's lied to me before. She took an art project I made last year, maybe by accident. My art teacher has us scratch our initials into our clay, and when I thought it looked oddly familiar, I looked at the bottom. My initials. Today, I confronted her about it. My other friend took her side. Friend: Oh, L wouldn't do something like that. Me: She was present during both occurrences. Friend: How are you sure it isn't (other friend)? Me: She wasn't there the first time. Plus, she has plenty of money. Friend: A few weeks back she mowed her lawn to GET money. (How is that a valid argument?) Me: She's lied to me in the past. *lunch is over* Friend: Great job, (name), you made her cry. I felt guilty. But I'm upset that my money went missing. I worked hard to earn that. My allowance is 25c a chore. I like her, but I don't want to be friends with someone who lies to me and maybe steals. Is it a toxic friendship? If so, how can I end it. Is she stealing? |
| Question: Who do I choose to be friends with? Posted: 05 Jun 2017 11:22 PM PDT All my life, or at least what I remember of it, I ve been friends with these girls. We do the same activities, go to school together, even live really close. Our parents are all friends, and up until recently they were good friends. The past few years, and I guess the last year or so, they have started to exclude me from everything. They don t invite me anywhere, respond to my texts, and when I invite myself over because that seems the only way to get myself included, they say there are already too many people over. These girls have been my friends for forever, but recently I ve started talking to other people in my classes. These people are so genuine and nice, and I generally like being with them. The obvious choice would to be friends with the latter group; however, it s not that simple. The first group of girls are much more well-known than the latter. I know that social status doesn t mean anything, but when your in high school you care what other people think about you. I ve also been friends with the first group for so long that I don t want to break what we had. I just don t know what to do, and need some advice. |
| Posted: 05 Jun 2017 11:17 PM PDT i have a friend group at school and 2 of them who are bffs, convince our other friends to run away from a few of us, and they do it, my friends and i who get left alone will never stop being friends with them because they're too stubborn. I hate going outside to recess and i only have until the end of the year and ill never see them again, but who can i cope till then? i feel scared to go to school and i have no other people to make friends with because they have their own... |
| Question: How can I get over trust issues from my childhood? Posted: 05 Jun 2017 11:11 PM PDT So I pretty much had a grade A crap childhood. The whole nine yards, parents had a horrible divorce after my dad's company went under, extreme bullying at school, church, Boy Scouts, etc, both parents were functioning alcoholics. Mom was emotionally abusive and serially unfaithful, Dad was emotionally neglectful. My "friends" spread rumors about me just to rave something to talk with people about (like X has herpes type rumors) and made a point of sabotaging every female friendship/relationship I had. People even tried to pull a prank on me that consisted of 20+ people trying to convince me that a good "friend" of mine was a addicted to crack/cocaine. To give you some idea, things were so bad that I was taken out of public school for year because of the bullying. I've actually had people come up to me years later and apologize for how they treated me. Anyway, fast forward to now, after college. I can't make friendships with people for crap since I don't let anyone get close to me, and I don't have the slightest clue how to have a relationship with a woman. I NEED to get over this childhood crap, I can't move on on my own and it's destroyed my life in every way except professionally. Help me?!? |
| Posted: 05 Jun 2017 10:31 PM PDT Everytime I meet up with my friend, I try so hard not to have her yell at me for things going wrong, but it always happens. She always wants things to be "perfect" and her way sometimes. Like she always asked me how much money I will be bringing since she has none. I keep telling her I can't always bring money and she needs to get a job. She gets disappointed when I say no or I can't bring too much. When I try to help her, she appreciates it, but gets ***** and tells me I'm not doing enough and she claims that she is doing all the work. I told her I didn't want to argue and she knows that I'm helping. She is so bossy and every time we want to do something, she wants ME to bring money. We always have fight when she calls me names for getting things wrong and not having it her way. She even hurt me by calling me a fat cow when I try to fit into a small place to clean up a spot when I was helping her. This past Saturday when we hung out she got angry at me for being slow at looking at the bus times and expects me to know EVERY bus route. Friday she yelled and pushed me out of the way and said, "GET OUT OF HER!!!" When I was trying to help her move her mom's exercise bike and almost broke it. We're hanging out again next Friday but honesty, I'm not excited at all. She is. My older sister said blutly it'd my fault for letting her treat me that way and I'm too much of a coward to let her run over me and I need to stand up for myself. My best friend told me the same thing bluntly. My best friend said nobody respects doormat or people that people run over then and I'm a big baby for letting it happen. My sister and friend were suppose to say to me "Poor thing" but they had to be blunt and tough to me. |
| Question: Do people with less money have more friends? Posted: 05 Jun 2017 10:10 PM PDT Every person I encounter wheter a man or woman that mentions hoe they are struggling financially seem to want to be really close friends with me. Growing up poor myself, I remember how I liked hanging out with friends but in the back of my mind I was also comfortable knowing that there was someone I can trust and rely on if I ever needed a favor. Now that I have money to take care of most problems, I just hire someone to fix the issue. Today I almost met a new friend since we had a great conversation but she mentioned financial problems in her life. When I encounter other people with great high paying jobs, we just have small talk and that's the end of it. Whereas those that are struggling want a relationship with me. Is friendship more about survival? |
| Question: I had sex with my best friends sister? Posted: 05 Jun 2017 10:08 PM PDT So one night I threw a party at my house. Everyone was drinking and smoking weed. Once the party started to come to an end, I was in the living room with my best friends sister. My best friend was passed out on the couch behind us. Then his sister started coming on to me and we ended up having sex in front of my best friend while he was asleep. Now I feel completely guilty about what happened hat night and I m too afraid to confront his sister about it becuase I want to avoid the awkwardness. I don t know what to do about the situation. |
| Question: Should I attend the social gathering even though someone might hate me? Posted: 05 Jun 2017 10:01 PM PDT So for my team, they're hosting a social gathering. The JV and the V players are invited too, even though I didn't do it this season I'm invited. But someone named erm...lets call her Clare is really hostile to me. We were fine before but now she's super mean and the last time I tried talking to her she gave one word answers and quickly left. I'm friends with 4 other of her friends and I guess you can say Clare is like the 'queen bee' so they sort of follow her bidding. I haven't really talked to them in 5 months so I'm not sure if she convinced them that I'm 'evil' or whatever. These 5 were my only friends for this sport and I'm still deciding if I will go back. I'm afraid that if I go then she will be super rude and the others will follow. But at the same time I'm REALLY hoping that she has cooled. Or how about if she's mean but everyone else is nice... Should I go? I will update y'all on what ends up happening...lets hope for the best So...I went and Clare wasn't that bad. She avoided me but I went up to her and started talking. She wasn't as mean as last time towards me but it wasn't like we were friends. Anyways I'm going to do the sport now, I'm glad I went. |
| Question: Should I tak to my friend about his masturbation habits? Posted: 05 Jun 2017 09:43 PM PDT My friend has been staying with me for four months now. Late at night, he tends to go into the bathroom for a few hours to masturbate, which I have no problem with. However, when he goes in the bathroom to do this, he turns on the dryer (the washing machine and dryer are in the bathroom). When the dryer is on, not only is it burning electricity, which I solely pay for, it also interrupts my sleep and raises the temperature in my small condo. I want to talk to my friend about not turning the dryer on and reassure him that he will still have his privacy to do his business. However, my friend does not like to communicate. We have gotten into several heated arguments before when I have brought up other issues and even gotten into a physical altercation once and now there is lingering tension between us from these previous situations. This makes me nervous about approaching the subject with him because not only is it awkward, I want to reassure him that I m not angry with him nor saying he is doing anything wrong, but would just like him to be more considerate since I pay the electric bill. I m worried that he may take this the wrong way though and we end up in another argument adding to the existing tension between us. He is leaving in two weeks, so should I bring it up or let it go for the last two weeks to keep the peace? |
| Question: How to back out of a draining friendship? Posted: 05 Jun 2017 09:25 PM PDT My best friend and I started off as acquaintances and met through mutual friends when we were about 13. As the years went on, we became closer friends, and at this point, we're completely best friends. Sounds nice, right? Well, not exactly. We're now seniors in high school about to graduate in less than two weeks, and I feel unhappy with where our friendship is at right now. Over our 4 years of high school she has become a very negative, self deprecating person and I feel emotionally drained being around her. I can walk into class in the morning awake and feeling pretty good (I'm a morning person), but the instant we start talking I get sucked into her negativity--she's always complaining about something or in a bad mood. It doesn't matter how happy I'm feeling at the moment, her negative mindset can instantly eat up whatever happy state I'm in in a heartbeat. When we're grabbing coffee or casually hanging out, I find our conversations coming to abrupt halts now instead of talking endlessly like we used to. I find that I'm the one attempting to start and keep conversations going, which is exhausting for me because I'm quite the introvert; I feel like I'm putting in 3x the effort into our friendship. The problem is that I don't really have any other friends to latch onto, and neither does she. I put so much time into trying to save a dying friendship that I haven't been making or maintaining other friendships. What should I do? |
| Posted: 05 Jun 2017 09:24 PM PDT She got grounded and she said it's bad. It has nothing to do with drugs and she said it's not sexual but I would see her differently. I have no idea what it is!!! What could it be? |
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