Ever time my husband gets angry he threatens to leave me is he just being *** or dose he do it to see if I chase after him? I don't chase ANYONE he's always so quick to say he's leaving me and then after some drinks he's all whineing and saying he's sorry and won't do it again BUT the next day it's a repeat the next day. What should I do because I adore him.

I feel furious ALL the time for absolutely NO reason and I've been given 15 different meds but nothing better I seem to be getting worse. I eve attacked my husband :( any suggestions serious answers only please thank you I'm starting to lose hope :(-

So recent I am mastubating and am feeling guilty about it. I think it's cheating. You can't masturbate while married. This guilt is eating me up, thus I can't sleep at night and then again in an effort to sleep I masturbate again. Help me! It's an infinite loop.

My husband and I got married when I was 20 and he was 23. Our sex was mediocre and we fell out of love. I met this guy at a book club and we clicked. My lover and I were having sex behind my husbands back and at this point my husband and I were sleeping in separate beds because I think he was having an affair with this gay friend from work. Well my husband and I at this time haven't had sex in 11 months and my boyfriend and I are exclusive. So I know it's his. Well my husband doesn't want me to have anyone or be happy so when he found out about my affair he went and found my boyfriend. He shot him in the knee and hip but luckily a security guard tackled him before he could kill him. I feel terrible about everything. My boyfriends whole family hates me and blames me for what happened. I have been visiting him everyday in the hospital how can I iffuse the situation?

Leave when they see me coming!! He days he doesn't notice. They also send him Facebook friend requests but not me. What should I do?

My divorce wa finalized this past February, one of the things in the agreement was that my ex would pay half of the summer camp fees and expenses. I have asked him time and time again and he says he doesn't have the money, that it's my problem and he's not giving me a dime. As it it he's already owing me $1200 child support for our two boys. We just went to court for that and he was ordered to pay me the $1200 by July 7 but he's already filed a motion claiming he can't afford to pay those arrears by then. His pay stub shows he works only 24 a weeks, when he job is full time. I'm very frustrated because I am struggling and very depressed taking of our kids alone, some times I get $84 a weeks, sometimes nothing. I feel like he gets a break and I'm carrying everything and working long hours just to make ends meet. He was extremely abusive in our marriage so please don't ask me why I left him. Tomorrow I'm filing a motion to make him pay his share for summer camp, will that work or they can't force him? He's also suppose to pick the kids every Wednesday and take them every other weekend and he doesn't do that either, I also want the parenting expenses taken off the child support calculations because he doesn't spent time with the boys.

so my ex dumped me this past sunday after church because i said i wanted a bottle of wine for our sunday dinner when went to the store and he showed his id and asked me if hes paying for it i said well ya your wallet is out and then he did it and stormed out the store like a manic (mind you the wine was only 10 dollars and he makes 65,000 a year so it wasnt breaking his bank lol) he's speeding to his house running red lights almost getting us T-BONED so i asked him whats wrong and he said "YOU IM F**KING DONE!!! YOU EXPECT ME TO PAY FOR EVERYTHING AND DONT APPERICATE SH*T" which was a complete lie because ive cooked for him ive brought food and alochol over his house ive bought his dogs christmas gifts ive kept them while he was on business trips but i was the "ungrateful one" so he demands me to get all my stuff out of his house and he'll take me home to my parents but i call my parents cause he was acting crazy to pick me up they pick me up and then he tells the im an ungrateful child and he's done with me (he's 31 and im 22 and we were together for 10 months) anyways i felt so bad i had a pizza delivered to his house that night and wings the next night then he starts talking to me like he wanted me back telling me good morning and good night then randomly asks me if i can go on a weekend trip to his moms house next month and im like "does this mean were back together " and he yells at me saying "NO I NEED TO BE ALONE I DONT WANT A RELATIONSHIP!" So should i go or not? and he tells me he never told his family we broke up and im like so they think were together and he says "yes why get them in our business?" then i go on to tell him im not going to be used as arm candy and for sexx and he tells me "im not going to make you back me in a corner with ulitmatiums if you want me to make you my gf again because of that nevermind then dont go" mind you his family and my family thought we were getting engaged now he's ignoring me, im missing him did i mess things up? and he started ignoring me after i told him i wanted a relationship or no vacation like he was angry that i was doing what he said and my birthday is the week after this "vacation" and i asked him if he was going to see me on my birthday he said "possibly i guess so" wtf

My brother and his now wife got married 5/13/17. I sent them some gifts two weeks before their wedding. How long should I wait for a thank you for the gifts I gave?

I've seen a ton of women automatically write off a guy as serious boyfriend/husband material just because he's good looking without even knowing him or his personality at all. Men don't make the same assumptions about really good looking women so why do women make these assumptions about good looking men they don't even know?

I m missing sex since 4 years of divorce... I don t have sex outside marriage right now I m in distance relationship with a man who lives in Wisconsin I m deeply in love with him... One year we been talking but I want sex but he never mentioned about sex topic.. His intention is for marriage... He loves me and I love him too... I want him moving to my states since his too far away from me... I m in VA... But he never mentioned about sex topic.. Only personal life topic that s it

The friend in question is always sending my husband messages wanting to hang out on the weekend and do the outdoor activity. She never sends me a message but always my husband. She also is all over my husband and ignores me when we are all out together. I told my husband I am not ok with her messages. He got upset saying they are Just friends and that's just her personality. I got upset and he called me jealous. He then said he'd tell her to contact me which she did once. All remaining times she contacted only him again asking to hang out. Am I being crazy and over reacting? I told him I never want to hang out with her again since I don't think she is my friend and ahe only trying to be his friend. She is also married but her husband doesn't do the outdoor activity. What should I do? How should I act when I see her out again?

I'm upset and crying my eyes out. My baby daddy proposed to his new GF. I'm so hurt. We have a 7 years old son. He is a great father to our son. He has been dating this new girl for almost a year. He proposed to her this past weekend. Im crying because we were together almost 10 years and he would skirt around the idea of marriage. He did not want to discuss or talk about marriage. When I asked him, he would always say he didn't believe in marriage and felt we could have a family without it but he proposes to some chick he didn't even know for long? I mean I invited him to live with me when our son was young. He recently became promoted at his job too. We traveled to different countries together and I would pay for him sometimes. He never paid for my ticket but would foot the cost for hotel, dinner and some activities. Now with his promotion, he is doing even better. His new place is set up. He pays CS faithfully and is great with our son. Attends PTA meetings and plays as well. A very active and hands on father. His new fiancee is a pretty girl. She is thick and honestly, I say Im better looking than her. She told me that he always told her he wanted to be married one day and have a family. He is also very attracted to her even more than he was to me all cause her **** are big and *** is fat. He never proposed to me. He never wanted to marry me but I had his child. Why did he want a family with someone else and not me? Like why didn't he see me as worthy of marrying?

I want a wife who does all the cliche wife stuff like cooking. Does this exist anymore? Women now so focused on themselves : (

His daughter has been in the hospital for several weeks. She has been fighting this battle for years. Since she only has a short amount of time to live he's been at the hospital every day. I will say that he has been dealing with it well. I can't imagine what he's going through. Meanwhile he still goes through his Day to Day routine, work, his younger son basketball games every week, etc. But Today is my birthday and I had to remind him. All I got was a "Happy Birthday " after I had to remind him about it. Am I wrong for being upset about him not giving me a card or a gift ? He came home empty handed. No flowers nothing. What should I do?

I just had my youngest son a few months ago. I was hitting 30 and got off my bc. My boyfriend thought it failed but I got off it secretly. We have two sons and I want him to show them to be good men. My boyfriend just turned 33 and I just turned 30. We have been in an off/on relationship since 2011. Our oldest son is 4 and our youngest is 4 months old. He said we can have a family without the legal part of marriage. We spoke about this before and he said he don't want to be married any time soon. He made me have an abortion before I had our oldest son. I want to have the big engagement ring, wedding and happily ever after. I love when we take family pictures together. I love showing friends and family we are a family. I just don't have his last name. I don't feel part of his family. I feel insecure. He never wanted a second baby but I wanted my kids with the same man. He says he doesn't believe in marriage but I think he doesn't believe in marriage with me. We fight a lot and break up/make up often. I feel our new baby will bring us closer and marrying and being a family will make us happy. How can I convince my boyfriend to make me his wife? His brother blocked me on IG after I cursed a girl who comment on a family pic that had my boyfriend in it with hearts. He moved into his own apartment as well at the end of May. We have never lived together, he has only stayed over my house to help with the kids.

since my sister dragged me through a long, frivolous court action. She also managed to turn my brothers against me. I know this is similar to going through an ugly divorce, can you please provide tips for healing from this? I saw a counselor for a while and it helped a little, not that much.

My husband and I got married when I was 20 and he was 23. Our sex was mediocre and we fell out of love. I met this guy at a book club and we clicked. My lover and I were having sex behind my husbands back and at this point my husband and I were sleeping in separate beds because I think he was having an affair with this gay friend from work. Well my husband and I at this time haven't had sex in 11 months and my boyfriend and I are exclusive. So I know it's his. Well my husband doesn't want me to have anyone or be happy so when he found out about my affair he went and found my boyfriend. He shot him in the knee and hip but luckily a security guard tackled him before he could kill him. I feel terrible about everything. My boyfriends whole family hates me and blames me for what happened. I have been visiting him everyday in the hospital how can I iffuse the situation?

I know i do.

My husband and I got married when I was 20 and he was 23. Our sex was mediocre and we fell out of love. I met this guy at a book club and we clicked. My lover and I were having sex behind my husbands back and at this point my husband and I were sleeping in separate beds because I think he was having an affair with this gay friend from work. Well my husband and I at this time haven't had sex in 11 months and my boyfriend and I are exclusive. So I know it's his. Well my husband doesn't want me to have anyone or be happy so when he found out about my affair he went and found my boyfriend. He shot him in the knee and hip but luckily a security guard tackled him before he could kill him. I feel terrible about everything. My boyfriends whole family hates me and blames me for what happened. I have been visiting him everyday in the hospital how can I iffuse the situation?

Married for 10+ years. He cheated on me a few times, he thought I didn't know but I did. Have two kids with him under 10 years old, I don't want to hurt them, but I don't love him anymore. Should I wait till kids go to college or leave now?

I am recently married, been with my husband for 5 years & I love him to death! I wouldn t want to have anyone else as my life partner. For some reason I have these wants or desires to see other people as well. I was wondering if anyone has ever brought up an open marriage to their spouse and how did it go? How do you reccomend me proposing this?

Whenever we spend time together, he asks me if I miss him. It's as if he wants to hear it all the time. He says to me "Kiyanni, tell me you miss me." So I tell him that I do although sometimes I feel forced to say it. I love him, I do. When I told him I miss him of my own volition, he told me that "it felt good to hear you say it without me asking you first." This was over the phone. Then when he came over and I spoke to him, he said "I just want to hear you say it first because I'm always asking you to say it." I didn't really under stand that but I just said okay. So we were not talking for two weeks because of something he did. He told me he missed me and wanted to spend the night on the day that I missed his call. Then he asked me if I was still his baby. He's 33 so I wanted to know why is he so obsessed with me telling him I miss him? I know he's been hurt before but I'd really like some answers. Thanks!

I Got divorced. I Wasn't a saint but neither was she.We fought too much.There was no other women.EX Wife would not let me see or talk to the kids for almost a year and a half.No birthday cards or even texting them or coming to their events.She told them I don't care about them and don't want to see them. So I put some money together talked to a lawyer and she did a great job so I can see them certain days. But they are upset and confused about why I couldn't see them . They are afraid that it will happen again .Should I tell them their mom wouldn't let me? They were super hurt I didn't come to their birthday party.I did show up and was asked to leave. I tried to see them at Christmas and was told she took them somewhere else instead. Her whole family thinks she is wrong in what she is doing. Thinking of asking a lawyer or shrink the right way to say it or just saying go ask mom...I don't want to sound bitter in any way. Or I might just keep my mouth shut and enjoy myself.

If you & your husband/wife had a huge argument, because of them & they haven't apologized for it, would you still get them a gift if a special occasion is approaching? Example: for father's/mother's day

Knowing that state of which western culture is in why would you takw that chance?

Ok I had asked a question on here regarding an issue I was facing and in that I had made a comment about my husband falling out with me and been nasty on wedding night because I wasn't up for it after such a long day and a lot of booze my question wasn't about that but everyone jumped on that part, i was completely excuasted after not sleeping the night before with exitment and I figured what's one night when we have rest of our life, is this wrong of me ??

My sister in law has done some crazy things but her recent pattern of behavior is making me question what I need to do. She not only scheduled her wedding on my due date but, is now claiming my husband was desperate & pathetic. A few weeks ago before I was about to give birth to our 2 nd child she invited me out to dinner. She said some negative things about her husband (how her family never liked him, how he begs to go places with her but she says no) and the in laws. She also said she could have had my husband. I asked my husband about this and I get conflicting answers. He says no but won't confront the issue out of fear of ruining his relationship with his brother (which is non existent). He also admits to have flirted with her when they first met and he thinks she's pretty. I know she has been having trouble conceiving a child but no need to target me. She also said she wouldn't dare do exercises in front of my husband becaus she didn't want to arrouse him. What do I do?

got married in 2016 we have been together for 12 years but I'm staring to have doubts about our future and I'm scared I've made a wrong decision I've always thought of him as my soul mate & I do love him but things have changed I on our wedding night after a long amazing day I was tired at night I wanted to snuggle in with my husband but no he was expecting Sex he started a argument with me on our wedding night calling me names made me sad because we have been together so long weve got rest of life's It was only one night & I had started my periods he didn't know so I spent my wedding night crying in bathroom then next morning he was still making me cry with his attitude the day after our wedding We meet all our friends for dinner and drinks we ended up in a nightclub with friends and there was a few attractive girls talking to one of our friends, he ended up over there too, I had went over sat next to him spilt a drink on him by accident he freaked at me again storming out of club leaving us all to run after him, we got taxi home and my girlfriend came home too, he went to bedroom heard banging he had tipped bed over pulled down curtains fell asleep in there, I was embarrassed wasnt this suppose to be a happy time, on our honeymoon he got drunk and called me names like disgusting pig fat a slag, very upsetting I'm a uk size 10. He's also just started up his own business and it's taking over our life's, even when he's home he's not really there I feel Lonley ?

It came out last night I am on my period and I know some women love it then but it's painfull for me. He told me his three friends all do it when their wives are on. I asked how he knew and he mortified me by saying he had told them that about me and lots more, I find anal painfull because he is very girthy, I don't like the taste of his stuff and even told them I masturbate if he leaves me hanging I can't stand to see these guys now or their wives I am so embarrassed . Why would he do this? It's such private things we shouldn't share.

We went to a ballet performance, my wife has two younger sisters. My wife and her sisters are both about 5'7" or so, I am 5'10". They get together and start putting on makeup and doing their hair, when they come out, they are all wearing big wedge high heels and all look TALLER than me. My wife says in front of her sisters, "why are you so short? Did you shrink?" and they started giggling. Then she says, "maybe you should be wearing a dress tonight." I just kind of shrugged it off, but it was kind of humiliating. Did her comments go over the line, or just simple teasing?

While I understand that there may be more to marriage than sex, I fail to see how you can be happy if you never have it (and there's not a medical issue preventing it).

My bf is currently incarcerated, if worst comes to worst he might have to do 3 years, we would like to get married but he does have kids and he does pay child support and owe other little things. I'm afraid if I marry him everybody that he owes will come after my money so I would like to know how to go about this

My wife has admitted giving her boss a hand job for promotion favors. 1. I don't believe she didn't fvck him it's an old adage of women 'if you get caught just say it was a hand job they get over that, never admit intercourse blow jobs anal' 2. She just came out with it I had no clue, is this guilt? Or is she hiding a bigger sin with a small one. She did get promoted.

I'm 28 married, but i'm sexually attracted to one of my students.He is 18. It never happened before with me. I'm not happy in my sexual life after 3 yrs of marriage. I guess he is also attracted to me. He messages me regularly. I always dream about of making out with him. I desperately want to make out with him but my marriage stops me to do so. I love my husband a lot. But not able to control my sexual desires. I dont know if he feels the same or just flirting with me. I'm 28 married, but i'm sexually attracted to one of my students.He is 18. It never happened before with me. I'm not happy in my sexual life after 3 yrs of marriage. I guess he is also attracted to me. He messages me regularly. I always dream about of making out with him. I desperately want to make out with him but my marriage stops me to do so. I love my husband a lot. But not able to control my sexual desires. I dont know if he feels the same or just flirting with me.

My wife is afraid I'll leave her. I told her I wouldn't but she doesn't believe me. She was married before her husband left her when she got pregnant he was 19 she's 24. He was worried it wouldn't work out since he said he was still a kid himself also with a 5 year age difference he didn't want to be with a girl older than him. Me and her are the same age I told her I'm not leaving her I would never do what he did. They were together for a while. Also I think he just wanted to marry her for sex they had it a lot together. When she sees him with his new girl she feels bad. They live here on the farm. We see them almost everyday. She didn't know why he did this to her he's her best friend he wants to try to be friends but she wants nothing to do with him. How can I comfort her ?