Ok.. I know that most of you are going th to think this is petty and childish. I don't want it to come across that way. And I do NOT expect my MOH to be my wedding planner.. I'm a grown woman and can plan my own wedding. But when I asked this girl to be my MOH. She was excited and agreed to plan a shower and a bachelorette... she hasn't done anything! She procrastinated planning a shower and now my mom and another bridesmaid are taking the lead. She set a weekend and location for the bachelorette party, but hasn't done a single thing to help plan or even book a place to say. I am getting married in just a little under 3 months.. luckily my mom and a couple other bridesmaids are scrambling to make my shower and bachelorette happen.. while my MOH just sits back and doesn't do anything to help (she certainly doesn't mind criticizing the plans other people have put together though). I want to talk to her about this because it does bother me a little.. should invite my tongue and let it go? Or talk to her and risk things getting heated?

I just got engaged to my boyfriend of a year.. he's a great guy and we are both certain we want to get married. I shared the news with my two best friends who I have been close with since high school (we are 25 now). They said the right things when I told them the happy news... "congratulations", "I'm so happy for you" etc. but I could tell they were both weird about it. When I asked them (both separately) they both said they were concerned because they thought we were moving too fast and that I don't know him well enough. I was hurt because I thought the three of us would celebrate together. It hurts because my two best friends in the world aren't happy for me during the most exciting time of my life. Anyone else been in this position? How did you handle it?

Two of my close friends recently got engaged and have both asked me to be their MOH.. I'm very excited to play such a big role in both of their weddings and am very touched that they asked me. However, their weddings are only 3 weeks apart. I'm very organized and don't foresee myself getting overwhelmed.. I just want to make sure I'm able to devote equal time and attention to each bride, as their wedding festivities are being planned at the same time. Any MOH's out there have good planning/organization advice? I've actually never been a MOH so this is new.. but obviously I know what my responsibilities are :).

Alright, gonna ask my girlfriend the question, I'm gonna start ring shopping this weekend but I don't understand, do I buy the wedding band and engagement ring? What the difference? Do I buy both and first give her the engagement ring? And if I do that do I just put the wedding ring on top of the engagement ring on our wedding ceremony?

Had an interesting experience within the last few hours. I posted a legitimate question about the engagement ring I would like to buy and my upcoming trip to Bermuda to watch America's Cup. I'm going to be upfront, I come from a well off family where we made a few hundred grand a year, I have a trust fund, and pretty good job. So spending a $15,000 on an engagement really is next to nothing for me. I am not trolling, I was asking a legitimate question. Unfortunately, and in today's society we take anything that seems braggadocious and snap back at it or attack that person. I am kind of tired of "$15,000 is enough money", maybe for you or most people but I am not most of you and I couldn't care less about what most people spend. I care about what most people in my class spend.

Well firstly, my "fiancé" doesn't seem as excited as I feel he should be to be engaged. Let me start at the beginning He proposed 4 days ago, he didn't get on one knee(ok not a biggie for me), he slung out this ring and said "take it" it wasn't romantic at all despite what he said he was "planning" to do and the ring was fake, despite him telling me to show him rings I liked (all real diamond, all under 500) Well I don't feel engaged at all. I don't feel excited. I'm actually pretty depressed to me the whole engagement was off. He called my Brother in the house and only took a picture of him on one knee but that was after the fact. I feel as if we don't have anything in common and I don't know what to do. Today, we woke up and I started working (I work from home) and he comes out and throws the "ring" at me and says "for somebody who wanted to be engaged so bad you sure don't wear your ring" and I feel disrespected like "I wanted to get engaged so bad?" Yes I want to marry him but I wasn't pressed the way he's making it seem. Everything felt so off and I'm not excited it makes me sad because i feel like he just did it to get it over with and it because he genuinely cared for me. What do you think of my ordeal?

two women are in love with me and want to marry me, but i can't decide who to pick. we all agreed to let them fight for me and duke it out in the ring. i promised to marry whichever girl is left standing after nine rounds. should we go through with it?