Family: Question: Will my home stay mother agree to have sex with me.. I just spent 2 weeks in her house and I am 16 years old in London?

Question: Will my home stay mother agree to have sex with me.. I just spent 2 weeks in her house and I am 16 years old in London?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 01:32 PM PDT

Question: How do I get my Dad to let me see family?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 01:27 PM PDT

Question: Are my brothers and I the same era?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 01:20 PM PDT

Brother A was born in 1999, Brother B was born in 2000, and Brother C (me) was born in 2005 Are we the same millennium

Question: Is it OK to do this with my ex mother in law?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 01:13 PM PDT

I really liked my mother in law Sue when I was married to her daughter Jan. Sue had a great sense of humor and was just a fun person to be with. I had a friendly divorce from Jan and I remained friends with Sue. Sue ask me to tutor her so she could upgrade her computer skills and get a better job where she worked. She would come to my house Friday evening after work and I would tutor her about computers. One Friday evening I was tutoring her and a bad rain, wind, thunder, lighting and hail story came up. The TV was warning people to stay off the roads as many power lines were down. I told Sue she would have to spend the night at my house as it was not safe for her to drive home. She asked where she would sleep. I told her anyplace she wanted to. She said "OK, I will sleep with you". I told her "something might come up". With a big smile, she said I am counting on it. OH MY GOD. CAN I DO SOMETHING THAT KINKY? Guys, some advice please. Is that something too kinky to do to your ex mother in law?

Question: My drug addicted scum brother is said to be doing better and in treatment. How do I know if he really is or if my parents are just lying?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 12:47 PM PDT

My parents have a history of lying to cover up for him.

Question: How can I get my dad to stop hurting me emotionally?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 12:43 PM PDT

Should I just stop visiting them from now on? I'm an adult so I don't have to see him. He triggers all of my childhood shame.

Question: My mom is a dark and evil person.?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 12:34 PM PDT

Question: My mom loves my sister more than me...?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 12:28 PM PDT

I'm a 13 year old girl & I have an older sis who is 15. My mom hugs my sister like every day but she never does it to me. I'm pretty sure she hasn't hugged me once in my life, at least I can't remember it. I really don't know why. I usually have a good relationship with my parents, we rarely ever have arguments and I'm also not someone who causes trouble all the time. I don't understand why she treats my sister better than me. Maybe it seems like a childish thing to you but it really hurts me and makes me feel that my mom doesn't love me :( Why is she doing that and what can I do now?

Question: How do I get back at my brother?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 12:26 PM PDT

This may sound very petty, but I honestly hate him so much. He's always calling me a 'dipsh*t' or a 'dumb blonde' and telling me to 'f*ck off'. He always goes up to me for no reason at all, and then does something really annoying, like he blows in my face, calls me names, etc, etc, and then when I try to get him back, he always tattles, or hits me, and then acts like he's the victim! So many times, he told my parents that I stuck up the middle finger at him, which was totally false, and then I get in trouble! There are so many things I could say about him, but so much anger has built up over time, that just writing these makes me want to punch something. So, I'm asking for your help. Tell me, what are the ways I can get him back?

Question: I sent my grandfather a message on Facebook and it says accepted request, but no reply. What does this mean?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 12:01 PM PDT

My granny died two years ago and my grandfather lives on the other side of the states and my aunt didn't have any of his information so I couldn't get in contact with him after the funeral (he came to the funeral). So I found him on Facebook and sent him a message basically hoping he was well, explaining how I've been looking for him, and asking about my granny sentimental and irreplaceable items: pictures, recipes, etc. He accepted my message but now I cannot click on his page anymore, so he blocked me from looking at it. I noticed he remarried already but I don't care. Why would he accept the message when you can ignore it?

Question: Is Being Called A "Shadow" A Bad Thing?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 11:49 AM PDT

I personally don't like it but I keep getting called a "shadow" because I enjoy going places with my mother. I don't feel like I am following her, I just love to be outside and when she just so happens to go somewhere, I ask can I go and she always says yes. Unless its somewhere where I know she wants to enjoy herself with someone she may be with. Sometimes she even asks me to come on little rides with her. My family has this perception that I follow her every where. Therefore, they began calling me a "shadow"...well her shadow. Honestly its out of pure jealousy and hate that my mother and I spend time together (that's another story). I must admit, I don't have any friends, its hard even when I think I'm trying and doing well around others and I have no places to go and I definitely don't want to be cooped in the house all day. But when my family started calling me that and was trying separate my mother and I and also from my sisters, some days later, she began to call me a shadow. She started to tell me too that I'm following her to much and I was very hurt by it. My family as well as my mother know I have a hard time making friends and that I have no places to go or hang out but they choose to try an make me feel so low. I honestly hate that word cause I don't feel like I'm following and I never felt like it. My mother and I had an argument about it, I told her she never called me that before but she kept saying she called me that before my family. Is it a bad thing?

Question: Do you ever hear something or see something and then think, "I'd like to know what my friend/family member thinks, but they're dead"?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 11:24 AM PDT

For example, some family member goes and does something reckless, some world event occurs, some feeling overcomes you, and you think, "I wonder what my old friend would think? I'll bet they would have had some invaluable insight." Who do you often think of in questionable times? What do you think they would say?

Question: My in laws way of living doesn't sit well with me....?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 10:47 AM PDT

My husband and I are in our 30s and thinking about starting a family.I have anxiety and need to calm down before getting pregnant.One thing that makes me anxious is his parents. They;re in their late 50s/early 60s. His father is not in good health and is on disability. His mother doesn't work-she lost her job years ago and had a very hard time finding work again.They aren't educated,one was in trouble with the law years,and are very rough around the edges. That being said,they're very nice.We get along with them well.My mother in law watches my nephew every day and lets us drop off our dog whenever we need to.My parents get along well with them,too. Right now they are basically living on my father in laws disability,and it's not enough to afford their house- they may lose it.They don't go out and buy new things or do anything.They live very simply.My mother in law does buy 2 or 3 packs of cigarettes each week though.That bothers me.Why smoke if you can't afford it? I'm trying to just focus on my husband and I but I'm always worried we're going to have to help them;we don't make a lot. I also start thinking about how they live and how I would do things differently and I get mad. Especially about the cigarettes. I am assuming they probably get food stamps or some other form of help, since they can hardly afford anything, so it bothers me. What do I do? I love my husband, but they make me really anxious! Is it my business or do I need to just chill out and mind my own business.

Question: Can notifying my son s father by email of out of state move instead of certified mail get me into trouble?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 10:41 AM PDT

I asked my son s father who already lives in a different state if he was okay with our family moving to a different state. We would still be flying our son out of the same airport. It was a beneficial move for us also. He agreed and I notified him a year prior via email. I gave him the address before our move and our sons new school. I wasn t aware until after the move that I needed to notify him via certified letter. Can this hurt me later? It s been almost a year since the move. Now my son s father wants primary residential custody and I just want to make sure I didn t make a mistake seeing as his father did agree even though it was through email, that s I thought should count for something.

Question: Help, my mother lives in filth?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 10:31 AM PDT

My mother is recently divorced, living in our old flat with my 19 year old brother and 8 year old sister. I live in a different country with my bf and we only come for a short visit now and again. Everytime I come the house is disgusting - the furniture is old and broken (its been there since my family moved in to the flat 18 years ago), covered in dust and grime, theres broken electrical equipment and bits of broken furniture stashed away at every corner, the floors are covered in food crumbs and unmopped, there are dirty dishes, etc. on top of that, everything is covered in a thick layer of cat hair and the whole place smells of cat pee, because noone cleans the cats litter! To do any daily chores you have to wash everything first and make space for it. I am seriously disgusted to sit down in places or eat anything from the kitchen in fear of food poisoning. My mom and brother sometimes go as far as reusing dirty dishes for cooking! I don t understand how it got this far, my family never used to be this messy, but it has been getting worse by the day. They dont seem to care about the mess and spend their days playing games on the internet. I feel extra bad for my little sister because her friends will never want to come over to such a disgusting place. I am tired of cleaning the place just to see it immediately go back to square one. For the last few times I rented a hotel room so I dont have to stay in dirt. I love them but I dont know how to help them?

Question: Since my mother is a bad person how do I get my anger out at her so I can move on in life?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 10:19 AM PDT

She has used me for her own gains and my neglect. She has fought others at the price of my mental health. I am 26 and on my own now.

Question: How do I avoid calling my Mom's cousin who had a sex change Peter when he is now Lisa?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 10:15 AM PDT

Question: I was abandoned by my father when I was born and Father's Day brings up all that rejection, How do I get over this?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 10:12 AM PDT

How do I stop hating the month of June and all the pain associated with it.

Question: My sister is dead! What should I do!?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 10:12 AM PDT

Hi um my mom bought like gel vitamins and my sister thought it was candy and ate the whole bag, she hasn't been breathing for about 30 minutes now( I was watching the office) what should I do?!

Question: How do I get my sister to stop spoiling my kids when they see her with candy, money, and expensive gifts?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 10:11 AM PDT

She gave $350 to my son for his 13th birthday,

Question: I want to run away?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 09:55 AM PDT

My life sucks bc I made a shitload of mistakes. My parents now hate me and now my school must now hate me too. All my friends now hate me and I can't talk to them, so I want to run away to Connecticut with my bio mom. How can I do that

Question: How can I respectfully ask her to stay out of my room?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 09:49 AM PDT

So, I recently moved in with my old roommate and her mother. I pay rent and other bills, her mother is constantly in my room. She always moves all of my things. I m a very private person, and I have personal things laying around. I want to be respectful because it is your house comma but I don t think I can handle her invading my privacy. I am an adults that pays rent!

Question: What would you do?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 09:38 AM PDT

Me and my boyfriend of 9 years had an argument yesterday -He put our 5 year old son on top of something to take a picture -I noticed he was terrified of the height so I said calmly, while taking our son down, "he is scared that can traumatized him" After walking for a few he Said in a very hostile and angry way "don t you ever do that again mind your business next time" Me shockingly and angrily I had responded " I don t know who the **** you re talking to but you are not even my father to be talking to me like that" He repeated "mind your business next time" I restated that he didn t need to be talking to me like that for something like that After this he continued to walk to the car and dropped us off at home He has not come home since yesterday I have not texted or call him but if he was to come home how would you handle this as an adult ?

Question: I'm having a problem with my 4 year old daughter-her mother is in prison-how do I tell her?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 08:44 AM PDT

Question: Why should we have sympathy for drug addicts?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 08:41 AM PDT

In today's world we are forced to pity addicts. Why? They chose to do drugs in the first place and became addicted. And with todays support groups and rehabs, they STILL choose drugs. And I dont care what they went through. PLENTY of people had bad childhoods, depression, etc but never chose drugs. I have several family members who got into drugs and I'm the only one who doesn't care. My aunt has spent 15 years in prison for heroin. My own brother went to jail for 2 years on a cocaine charge. My youngest cousin was born addicted to heroin because of her disgusting druggie mother. And guess what? They didn't take the baby off of her! They felt sorry for her situation and took her word for it that she would quit. She ended up abusing the baby and she was then adopted by my sister. BUT... She had another baby afterwards, also born addicted. My point here is .. Don't give me the whole "well, if it happened to your loved one you would understand". No. Just, no. It has happened to my family and I feel nothing for them!! The one and only circumstance that I can "pity" a druggie is if they got into it because of someone else. For instance, I have a friend who was actually tied down by his mother and she forced heroin into his toes. 5 years later he died from an overdose, which wouldn't have happened if he wasnted forced into it in the first place. I'm just sick of all the "feel sorry for them" stuff. NO. I do not feel sorry for people who choose to mess up their lives.

Question: My mom doesn't seem to want to be a mom anymore?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 08:37 AM PDT

I am 21, and I live with her I have my whole life. Since my first sibling was born I have always tried to help her with them. I have in total 3 siblings that I help take care of (19,10,14) My mom has always been an unhappy stay at home mom. she always seemed that way to me. She year or so ago got a job outside of the house, and since she has become even more involved in our lives. I didn't mind because i already do not tell her a lot, but for my siblings its devastating that their mom doesn't care and only talks about herself. I have been getting kids to school, cooking, cleaning and do things of that nature to help her out. But she always says that more needs to be done. I believe she wants me to do everything and i am not going to. She says my siblings need to help but she did not raise them to, and i am not mom i cant do that. I'm a failing online college student who just want to be in a place where i can grow and reach my full potential , living with her that is not going to happen. I have been helping her for too long already and i am tired of putting everything i want to do off to help her. Any advice will be greatly appreciated,

Question: Is my dad right?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 07:24 AM PDT

So yesterday my dad had promised me to get a product I had ordered online (picking it up in our nearest store), when I came home from buying groceries he and his girlfriend had already gone out to party. Later on at night when I was gonna make myself ready to sleep I needed the product for my facial routine. I texted him to ask where it was but he didn't awnser, and how it goes is in the picture. The next day(today) he says that because I was "sooo very rude" in the text messages I won't get the product that ive paid for' until tomorrow, including that I also give him a big apology over this. Don't say I could have gotten it myself cause I'm fifteen. He constantly does like this, and his girlfriend teams up with him to make me into the black sheep over anything possible.. it makes me very sad and frustrated

Question: Has yours babys father came back and wanted to be a family again?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 06:31 AM PDT

Question: My dad controls me to boost his ego?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 06:19 AM PDT

I'm fifteen and my dad constantly puts up rules etc just to decide whatever I'm doing, like shower times, laptop usage, what food I eat.. He constantly punished me for whatever he dislikes and by that takes away things I care about like my laptop for several weeks or wifi. When I listen on him he gets this sick smile on his face like he owns me life, I can't really explain it but he shows great pride over controlling me. I really hate this! I don't have a mom, and my dads girlfriend just agrees on whatever **** he says

Question: My Cousin is better than me?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 06:06 AM PDT

So my cousin and I are both the same age (19), and we were never very close, but I have always felt so disgustingly envious of her. She was always the honors student, the preppy one, the nice one, the proper one, the one who kisses our great grandmother... I USED to be very weird, quirky, I went from being goth to being a hippie to now a normie. I have huge attitude problems and embarrass my parents at family events. I may sound immature but this happens only when someone offends me (which is every weekend at a family gathering). We both attend different colleges in our state, she is filthy rich and has the perfect life, the perfect car, the perfect boyfriend, the perfect internship. I sit at home, do nothing, can't drive, have a 3.3 GPA. One year for Christmas our grandparents gave us socks, hers had stripes and mine had polka dots. My grandparents openly said in front of all of our relatives, "We gave you the polka dots because you're the WEIRDER cousin." This hurt me very badly and ever since then I have not been comfortable near that side of the family. She never EVER speaks, she has no personality and no good qualities whatsoever. Why do people like her instead of me? I TRY not speaking, but it's taken as me being a snot. How come she isn't referred to as a snot when she also does't talk? I have tried everything to seem like the good girl, but it is always taken as me being a brat. Do people prefer her because she is considered "safe?" How do I handle my jealousy?

Question: Why some people can't take a joke?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 05:23 AM PDT

you know, I like to tease people or make fun of them in a joking way, it's just funny and lightens the mood. most people are totally fine with that and also make jokes about me etc. but some people simply cant take a joke and its so annoying. for example my sister, no matter how I tease her, she always gets confused, wont talk to me for hours-days or even starts crying. like yesterday I made a joke about her because she is quiet and doesnt talk much to most people and she almost started crying? what the hell? why would someone react like that to a small joke? i really dont get it...

Question: What is the problem of not being jealous?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 05:17 AM PDT

I have two sisters and everyone thinks I'm not jealous of my sisters, my thoughts are like this, life is theirs, their bodies are their business, they give them to whoever they want, jealousy is a jerk thing, My mother thinks I have to be jealous of them, in my opinion those brothers who claim to be protectors are nothing more than assholes and everything lives on the spree.

Question: Is it okay to be lazy in the summer break?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 05:10 AM PDT

you know, after school. you don t really do anything. I stay in bed most of my days everyday and my dad keeps telling me that I should stop staying in my bed all day because I have "better" things to do. and he tells me how back in his day he didn t have a chance to even lie down in bed when the sun was out. like, he says: be more productive! do more chores in the house! etc!. (in an angry dad tone) its been getting to my head. topped with my anxiety disorder (that he doesn t know of) it s really pushing me to be the worst I can be. I just can t seem to do anything productive when I m comfortable in bed. I mean, I could, if I had the motivation. and I will. if I just did a few chores here and there. but, other stuff, I don t. and my dad thinks that I won t have a great future. it s still the summer break, what else am I to do, right?

Question: Father;s Day is next weekend and I have no Dad. How can I stop feeling so sad that my bio-father never wanted me?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 05:09 AM PDT

Question: My Mom and sister are seeking to destroy my life. What excuse do I make when I decline to visit them?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 03:52 AM PDT

My sister won't notice but my toxic mother will.

Question: There are 2 sisters I want to sleep with -how do I get mom and dad out of the way?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 02:57 AM PDT

Question: Why do I always have to go through this?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 02:52 AM PDT

My mum and dad don't like each other. They just live in the same house and take care of their kids. BUT they're still married. It's bern years like this and we've all gotten used to them living this way. I couldn't wish to have it any other way. My mum took my younger brother and I to this hotel because she had an office function. She got us a room and that was it. So i saw this ugly guy hanging around her. And when my younger brother and I returned to the room, she told us not to wander around and just stay inside. She said she'd be back, so I fell asleep and so did my little brother, when I woke up around 11pm, she wasn't in. So I went back to sleep and woke up at 3am. No sign of her. I stayed up till 6am, she returned in just a bath robe. No explanation for where she'd been. My little brother and I were hungry and she was acting overly weird. I'm just very straightforward, I think she cheated on my dad. I'm disgusted and I hate her. I can't be myself anymore. I hate her. I don't want anything to do with her.

Question: What does your family like to eat for Sunday dinner?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 02:18 AM PDT

Question: What does a 6 year old say when asked why they should be chosen to win a little miss pageant for a town festival?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 12:57 AM PDT

My daughters first and probably only pageant. It's a town festival. And no child that enters can enter next year. She is 6 yrs old. I asked her what she thought and she said I should be chosen because I want to win. Well good gracious I cannot have her seem ungrateful to the judges. Any thoughts on this? Positive ones please?

Question: Come si affronta la separazione dei genitori?

Posted: 11 Jun 2017 12:49 AM PDT

Question: Should I leave home?

Posted: 10 Jun 2017 11:30 PM PDT

Im a 19 year old girl and I was raised by my brother and his wife since I was 11. The relationship I had with his wife had always been rocky, she's made me extremely self conscious and never missed an opportunity to put me down. They always took my phone away and would ground me and when I would ask why they'd state "because we're the boss and we can". I never let this really bother me until about last year after I graduated high school, they still don't let me even be friends with boys though they let my other brother literally have sleepovers with his girlfriends, I have to do majority of the cleaning which I don't mind but after I do it they tell me I sit on my *** all day and don't do anything. I get yelled at on a daily basis because of my "attitude" even though I stopped speaking unless spoken to in order to avoid any form of attitude coming from me. Today they went through my twitter which I am allowed to have and they called me a liar and sneaky and disrespectful because I make "penis jokes" and because I put a funny picture of me laying on a shelf and they insisted my angled knee meant my legs were spread wide open and I was a whore and god knows what I do without their knowledge. I have never even hugged a boy because I don't want to upset them and I have as little male friends as possible and I do not hang out with them outside of work or school. They told me things are going to get a lot stricter. Should I leave and risk never speaking to them again? No I'm not just some ungrateful child. I love my brother and Im thankful for all he did for me I just feel invisible in this house and when I try to explain what I feel Im immediately told my opinion doesn't matter nor is it wanted and that Im a liar.

Question: I feel bad about my parents spending money on me?

Posted: 10 Jun 2017 10:57 PM PDT

I'm thirteen and I always feel bad whenever my parents spend money on me. I know that they're my parents and all, but sometimes they complain about minor money issues and I feel so bad when they spend a single cent on me. I feel like they can buy something better with the money than buy me things, you know? To save up a trip for themselves than getting me something. They tell me to stop thinking about that because I'm their kid, and they WANT to spend money on me. I just feel like I waste their money on me, and I JUST FEEL SO BAD. I know I'm being a real weenie about it, but I don't really know why I feel like this.

Question: I feel left out of my husband's family?

Posted: 10 Jun 2017 10:51 PM PDT

Ever since I got into an altercation with his Sister-n-law and brother, I have been left out of his family. I know we're married but even his mom has always been very distant with me. I see his family going out together, and getting to know each other, and I wonder why they never invite me or even text to ask me how I'm doing. I know that I don't get along with the Sister-in-law or brother, but it seems like every person they associate with doesn't have anything to do with me now. Long story short about them, they said some pretty mean things to me, and I just don't like how they have treated me or my husband in the past. Sometimes I wonder if they tell the other family members bad things about me? I believe it considering their 8 year old son has come to my house telling me things they tell him about me. Such as lazy, stupid. 😔 I just don't understand why these people in his family don't like me, or at least what I think. I text his aunt and others and they hardly respond. But then I see them on Facebook hanging with everyone. I don't get it. Guess this just a rant. 😆🤣😂

Question: I m just really curious because my friends say I get a lot of dick and idk if it s a lot for my age but I m just curious and want input lol?

Posted: 10 Jun 2017 10:43 PM PDT

Question: Should I cut ties off with my dad permanently?

Posted: 10 Jun 2017 10:23 PM PDT

So I met my dad when I was 18 I was the one who reached out to him. And if it wasn't for me me my brother or my mom would have never seen him. Long story short he told me when he was either high or drunk. That he didn't care and he purposely left us and all we are to him is just a thought. So I left now 4 years later I still have him on Facebook he tried apologizing to me by telling other people. That we had problems when I never spoke bad to him or told him anything bad. It was just out of the blue. He thinks I don't know what he told his side of his family by makin up lies and saying that all I did was talk badly about family members I never met. He tried saying Hi to me on Facebook a little while ago. I just said I'm good and that was it. But now that he knows I'm in school to become a police officer he continues to try and speak with me. I don't care for him at all. Should I just delete him off Facebook and his number. Because now that I'm older and see everyone who's my age with basic things that people take for granted like food and shelter. I don't have or struggle everyday to obtain these basic things. Food especially, and he has other kids who are not his and cares more about them and had bought them brand new cars and one a house already. What do you guys think? What he said to me is what you would hear about a low life scum bag deadbeat true intentions are. Thanks everyone.

Question: Whenever my girlfriend says "You seem upset, is something wrong?" She will flip out no matter what my response is.?

Posted: 10 Jun 2017 10:00 PM PDT

How do I handle this situation? It is driving me to the point of insanity in this relationship. In the past, I used to be open. I would tell her my thoughts and when it came to criticism about her, she would flip out. It lead me to start staying silent whenever something she did bothered me. So, I've bottled up my emotions for her. Now she asks "You seem upset, is something wrong?" - no matter where this goes after she poses this question, she always gets very defensive, rattles off a list of things I "always do" and instigating me on why I seem "so angry", even when I wasn't! For example, today we ate at a restaurant. I ordered my portions. She proceeds to talk about my portion sizes (french toast and sausage links) saying I'll get fat if I eat a lot. Proceeds to make me feel guilty about me eating meat, because she's going all vegetarian. I brush those comments off. We later go to the gym. Afterwords, I check my weight and I lost weight. I tell her about my weight and she proceeds to talk about how my numbers are wrong or something. In the car, I'm silent, thinking she's bashing me about my weight, but it's not much of a big deal...just thinking about it - AND THEN the dreaded question comes - "You seem upset, is something wrong?" I respond with "nothing's wrong." She goes, "You sure? You look mad." Me, "I told you, nothing's wrong." Her, "Come on!! Tell me!! You're upset, I know it!" (Continuation of Detail) So, I had 2 options - silence or tell her what's been slightly on my mind over the day. I told her. "Why you gotta get so upset over that?!" Me, "I'm not upset." Her, "All I said was (x-y-z)! You don't gotta get upset over that!!" Me, "I'm not upset!" Her, "Then why are you shouting right now, huh? You seem mad now!" Me, "Stop! I'm not upset!! This is not a big deal!" Her, "Why you gotta do this? We were having a wonderful day, (yada yada)." You get the point

Question: My dad cares for his new family more than my sister and I?

Posted: 10 Jun 2017 09:58 PM PDT

To make a long story short: My dad has been remarried for 10 years now. You see, his wife has two kids and Her daughter is in pageants. He has asked my sister and I to go and we both work a lot and couldn t go. Every time I see my dad, it s always about her kids. When I go over there, they don t help around the house or help my dad pick up after their messes. I am the one who ends up helping him. Her kids are in their teens and my sister and I are 24 and 31. My sister and I basically told my dad that we love and appreciate ALL he has done for us, but we would just like more quality time with him. We always have to see our dad on a schedule yet he has all the time in the world for her kids.He turned that around making it seem as if we were bashing him and went to defend her kids and made my step sister seem like she was miss perfect. How do I deal with a dad like this? He s always been like this. It s like he has been brainwashed.

Question: Hi, is it wrong for me to date my son in law's brother.?

Posted: 10 Jun 2017 09:26 PM PDT

We are both single. I'm 15 yrs his senior and my daughter is really upset about it. She says its because he was like her brother, but he says they weren't that close. I think she's embarrased by the age difference. Now she won't let me see my grandkids, im a young grandma. She says she doesnt agree with my choices in my life. We don't flaunt our relationship on social media or around family. I respect her feelings, but she's 27 married and has her own life. I'd like to have mine now. Am i wrong?

Question: Is my mom using me?

Posted: 10 Jun 2017 09:08 PM PDT

I'm a 18 female. My mom makes me pay rent (200$). She didn't make me pay rent until I got my dads military check I get it b/c he died & I'm legal to get it now. All she told me to do is go to school & get my education. Nothing more. I got my 1st job in Nov. (month before my birthday) &the fact she NEVER ask me to give her money to pay rent. Only give gas money cause she drive me to work. When I turn 18 in Dec.&got my first check from my dad in February I have to give her half of the check or 200$. & I ask her why she didn't ask me to pay rent when I started working she said u wasn't making enough for me. She even keep up of when I get paid like I don't want her to know when I get paid,how much I get paid every hr so she keeps up w/ my hrs. Her bf doesn't pay nothing but one bill that's the Internet b/c she bought him a computer & PlayStation 4 & didn't get me nothing for Christmas but whatever. & he gets 1,000$ every month & she gets a check every 2wks cause she's a cook at Logan's roadhouse for 13 years so I know she's making money like crazy. My friends says she's using me. Is she ? I'm so confused. I'm moving with my grandma house so am I doing the right thing by moving out? Cause this is hurting me cause I'm going to college and when I had to get my 1st job I had to deal w/that, high school, bullying,MDD. Then give her money I'm trying to save up for college which is my dads money & the money from work. That's why I got the job actually like idk can y'all help me.

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Posted: 10 Jun 2017 09:07 PM PDT

Question: How do you get over sexual assault?

Posted: 10 Jun 2017 09:01 PM PDT

Here is s rundown of the situation When my sister and I were in grade school (first and third, respectively), our father was very verbally and physically abusive. Eventually, physically abusive was merged with sexually abusive. The first time it happened, he came into the room my sister and I shared, after he thought we were asleep. However, I was still awake, and I looked over and saw him sitting on my sleeping sister's bed, trying to take her clothes off of her. I told him I saw what he was trying to do, and he tried to shut me up, but I persisted in telling him to go away. So, he said "fine, you can take her place". Afterwards, he said that he bet I'd never try to stop him again. But I did. Almost every night, he would come in, and I would stand between him and my sister. Each time, he decided to take me instead. It got to the point where eventually, he stopped even trying to get to my sister. He'd come in and say I knew what was happening, so let's go. It was awful, but I couldn't let him hurt her. I'd do it all over again. The thing is, I've recently told my aunt about it, and she said that telling people was good and that it's easier to deal with these things than to hide them. I was thinking of a family get together, wherein I only had to say it once. My problem is my sister. I don't mean she, herself, is a problem, but how do you tell someone that you let something happen to you to keep it from happening to them? And how do you deal with something like that?

Question: My sister is in a "thug" phase?

Posted: 10 Jun 2017 09:00 PM PDT

My little sister is 15 and thinks she s a thug. She literally acts like the "how bow dat" girl if you want to picture this. My parents know how she has become but they don t do anything. My mom will take her phone for maybe a day and that s it. She came home the other day COVERED head to toe in hickeys from our step cousin. She goes up town everyday with these girls from my town (the graduating class here is maybe 5 kids if that says anything) and they smoke and take pills and drink together. I know what it s like to be like that, I was like that and got caught and arrested. Some other things went down because of it and I have PTSD because of it. But that doesn t stop her. I found three things of cigarettes in her purse today. I need help. I don t know what to do to stop her.

Question: Nude lil sis sister is getting older and still run around naked?

Posted: 10 Jun 2017 08:55 PM PDT

Question: My parents say Im too old to start swimming (as a professional sport) Im 15?

Posted: 10 Jun 2017 08:22 PM PDT

I tried many sports when i was little and hated all of them I did track when I was 11-15 (now I'm 15) but I hate it. Im really bad at it too. I only started doing it to make my parents happy because I thought they wanted me to do track. But now I think I want to be a swimmer. I have 3 years until I graduate. Do you think I can win a scholarship in 3 years? Am I too old to start swimming as a professional sport?

Question: What do Parents-In-Law call each?

Posted: 10 Jun 2017 08:12 PM PDT

I know the term "In-Law" refers to relatives by marriage (Brother-In-Law/Sister-In-Law/Mother and Father-In-Law). I know all of that. But what is the relationship of the 2 sets of parents? What do they call each other?

Question: What's wrong with my sister? Someone help?

Posted: 10 Jun 2017 07:45 PM PDT

So these past few years I've noticed that my older sister has begun to act very strangely. Not like herself back then. I notice that she's uncomfortable around us, and the family and only comes out of her room to eat, shower, use the restroom and occasionally talk a bit with us(rare) but then she goes to her room stays there. She doesn't have a great relationship with my mom but even my mom is worried about her. She goes days without showering and her hair is always known knots, like she doesn't take care of herself. Shes getting kinda bald too because I've noticed she pulls strands of her hair and I asked her about it once and she said it's addictive and she can't stop. Idk what that's about. I think she also has anxiety problems. Like she says she can't be around people because she doesn't want them to see her this way and she gets uncomfortable when people stare /look at her. Idk why she's acting this way tho. She's also gained a lot of weight over these years, and she barely smiles anymore. Something she doesn't know is that sometimes I put my ear on her wall and I can hear her crying softly. Idk why she never use to cry this much back then. Another thing is she's been bed ridden for a long time which is probably why she's gained. And she sleeps alot. More than normal. I think my mom and dad are blind because I'm the only one that seems to have noticed. Can someone tell me what is going on here?

Question: My mom says I'm not grateful and dusrespectful?

Posted: 10 Jun 2017 07:44 PM PDT

I'm not though. We get into arguments. And she holds a grudge for no reason even if I say sorry and she never ever admits she had any part in the argument or that she is sorry or was wrong. That gets on my nerves a lot. When I say sorry for my part of what I did wrong she just says"dont do it again" and lectures me on what I did wrong. Not once will she admit she was being unreasonable even when I tell her what she was being ridiculous about....they she just mocks me in a baby voice. I'm very forgiving despite this nonsense and quickly try to make amends but she continues with the grudges. .

Question: My father passed away, Not the same anymore?

Posted: 10 Jun 2017 07:43 PM PDT

My Father passed away I only have my mom left now but for the past 6 months i haven't been the same anymore been very angry and breaking things can anyone give me advice If something happened to my mom i feel like i would be on my own

Question: How do I tell my dad about my possible varicocele I have until tommorow?

Posted: 10 Jun 2017 07:32 PM PDT

I don t want to go into detail about my whole situation but I need to tell my dad about it soon I have until tomorrow to that s my deadline or it wont be for another 3 months I almost did tonight but I just couldn t spit it out. I m stumped ive had it for nearly 3 years now I need help please

Question: Lol. My mom thinks people are friends with others because of what they give to them?

Posted: 10 Jun 2017 07:19 PM PDT

Hahaha...no. People are true friends because they like each others company. My mom wouldnt know that because she thinks giving others more than she even wants to give them is why they srick around...but really they stick around for favors if anything. They hardly spend time with her but ask her for stuff all the time.