Family: Question: My mother likes to hurt people's relationships by expecting her friends and family to hate who she hates. How do I not get hurt by this?

Question: My mother likes to hurt people's relationships by expecting her friends and family to hate who she hates. How do I not get hurt by this?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 02:11 PM PDT

How do I not get hurt by this behavior of my mother's?

Question: What do I say to a distant brother on his birthday?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 02:11 PM PDT

I want to extend the olive branch (his birthday is July 2nd) but not get too close where I can get used. He apparently has changed and I am ready to reach out but not get close or involved. He is better but not great yet. He is turning 26 so is a young adult. He got out of jail in December and saw me last at Christmas. I'll be seeing him in August.

Question: My Dad has a flu and he and I and my sister had it as well as his friend's wife. His friend did not get it. Does this mean he is making love?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 02:09 PM PDT

Does this mean he is making love to his friend's wife? My Dad is single (twice divorced) so my Mom is not an issue here though she is sick, sick in the head.

Question: My Mom and her sister are selling the estate instead of building it for future generations. Is this selfish of them?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 02:08 PM PDT

The good sister who is a very good moral person wants to keep the estate and build it for future generations. The brother wanted out and sold his share and the other brother died. My Mom and the second sister want to sell it and are going to leaving nothing to future generations other then what they get when the parent dies. Is this selfish of my mother and her sister? Is the good sister (the aunt who wanted to keep it) indeed the good one? The brother who died the kids' mother sold their share and got the cash, The other brother is an outsider in the family so he sold his share and seldom sees us. The 3 sisters are close though just the one is good.

Question: My sister is a toxic person and only her friends like her. How can I learn what she says about me?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 02:04 PM PDT

Question: My Dad took away my umbrella I use to block the sun rays while I walk! He says it makes me look gay?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 02:02 PM PDT

I'm 15 year old boy. I like walking with an umbrella on sunny days. My dad told me to stop it cuz it makes me look gay! Then he took it away from me even though I bought it. I'm not gay but why would it matter. Being gay isn't a bad thing! My Dad is ...

Question: How do I get over the anxiety I feel when my Mom insults family members to me and uses me as a sounding board?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 01:58 PM PDT

Question: Should I be a little hurt over this?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 01:51 PM PDT

My sister who I talk with weekly invited my brother to see her new very large house in Arlington, TX. There is 5-hour drive from his house to her house. My sister never mentioned to me that my brother was coming over there and we are on good terms or I thought. I just found out today that he was heading over to her house for the weekend. I might have come if I had been asked. Should I be a little hurt? I live 9 hours away from her.

Question: How should I feel about what my mom is doing?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 01:21 PM PDT

My problem started when I invited some of my high school friends for a sleep over at my house. These girls bonded with my mom who is a doctor mostly because they could ask her questions about their body and mostly about their reproductive system. Mom gave them correct information and corrected MANY errors in their thinking about their bodies. This info really opened their eyes and hopefully made for less teenage pregnancies. These girls told their friends about the sleep over and several other girls ask if I would have another sleep over and invite them. I did this and had the same result. They all wanted to talk to my mom about their bodies. I did this 4 times. I am not sure how I should feel about this. I feel a little bit unusual about sharing my mom with these girls. Mom is always available to answer their questions as she has seen the tragic consequences of bad information on teen girls lives. Should I be proud that my mom is available to give these girls the facts of life. Why is it they feel so free to talk to my mom with their questions and will not talk to their parents.

Question: My mom made an account on my sisters laptop and stole admin from us. how do I get it back?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 12:59 PM PDT

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Question: My parents won't let me out during summer?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 12:58 PM PDT

Its summer I'm 17. And my parents are barely letting me out of the house. I get to go out like once every three days but only for like 4/5 hours. I'm having no time to see my friends because since I'm allowed out so little I try to see my bf as much as possible. I don't even ask them to drive me anywhere because I drive myself. There reasons are "I can't go out all the time" or "because I said so" And its really depressing me because all my friends are going out everyday having fun and I'm stuck at home seeing their fun times show up on my news feed. I'm too depressed to concentrate on hobbies as all I want to do is just be out having fun. I tried talkimg to my parents but they don't care. (There's history of abuse and stuff I'm not getting into) what should i do? I'm going to ask my bfs mum to talk to them but I doubt it will help. Also I can't get a job as hard as I've tried its just really hard to get one. I just sit at home in my room all day after im done all the house work listening to my mum screaming at me and my siblings. I'm getting really depressed and there's still another two months left... IDK what to do. They don't care I'm depressed. A year ago I told them I was depressed and suicidal and I got into so much trouble and everything turned so bad I attempted. I have a plan to move out as soon as I turn 18 but unfortunatly that's ten months away... What do I do?

Question: My niece want to move out and she's only 17?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 12:29 PM PDT

My niece is only 17 and she want to move out she's still in high school and trying to find a job. i told her she can wait till she is 20 to move because i believe your are more mature at that age. She told me that she's tire to be the slowest one to mature and she want to learn in the real world she feel like she's mentally 13 and she want to feel like an adult. I know she got this from older family members telling her she a young lady now she need to be more of an adult if she want to face a the real world, which i do agree but i can she that put her in so much stress trying to look for a job. she have adhd depression anxiety not trying to make that as an excuse but i believe it too much pressure, she also help raise my other sister 3 kids for half of her life from 7 to 14 while their mom was off partying or in jail and i just want to convince her she can wait a little bit longer or should i just let her.

Question: Moving out at 17?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 11:33 AM PDT

Hi, a little of my backstory is me and my mom have a bad relationship and in my state, south carolina, once you are 17 it is legal for you to leave home. the police cannot bring you back home. I am graduating a year early and then after plan on going to college and moving out. i m working this whole year and saving up every penny. my question is , how do i go about the college thing? do i have to put down my parents income and such even though they will not be helping me pay for my college? thanks

Question: How do I convince my dad to let me go about my moneymaking plan?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 11:20 AM PDT

Right, my birthday is coming up and I'd like an HTC Vive. I understand fully that because of their price, it would be unfair to ask for one fully-funded by my parents. For the record, a job could not help me here (the only ones I can get at my age offer large hours for their tiny wages) and there is no way I could save up money. Because of this, I began to look for ways to make money. One I came across is called 'matched betting'. In short, it works by taking advantage of betting websites' free bets and using a website that allows you to bet against something so that you can make a profit regardless of a bet's outcome. Where I live, under 18s cannot gamble so I asked my dad if he would on behalf. I explained to him that there is no risk and one can see the profits that either outcome of a bet would make ahead of time, but he said that he would not because a gambling website could be used to gamble and that I may stray from my plan (this is what I understand, anyway, he wasn't incredibly clear). How should I go about convincing him that this is a good idea or do you know any ways to make some quick cash? Thanks in advance Edit: nobody seems to understand how this works, so I'll explain it here. 1. Sign up to a bookie's website 2. Sign up to Betfair 3. Take advantage of the free bet offer. On Coral, when you make a £5 bet, you get a free £20 bet. Place a £5 bet. 4. Place a bet on the same game on Betfair. What's different is that I bet against this happening. This way I can win either way. 5. Small loss 6. Use the £20 free bet to place a larger bet. 7. Deposit some cash into Betfair and bet against your other bet

Question: Feeling hopeless...?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 11:16 AM PDT

Nothing seems to be going right in my life. I recently got our of my emotionally abusive father's care, but now he is saying that he can't come and get me from my maternal grandparents any time he wants, and technically he's right. But my mother is living with me also, which she is not supposed to be. So my grandparents and my mother scream and holler at each other all the time. But it seems like whatever I do it's the wrong thing. I feel as a burden to everyone, the door of everybodys problem. And I often wonder if it would be better if I just wasn't here anymore. I can't go to anyone for help. I really just want to kill myself...

Question: Advice for a strained mother daughter relationship?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 11:03 AM PDT

Im 19 years old and about to be on my second year of college. My entire life, my mother and I never got along. she was always one to lash out in anger if I did something as small as not clean my room. When I say anger..... I mean its crazy. She would tell me Im the devil, call me a b, tell me to **** off if I did so much as to say no to her. Ill admit, I did rebel and was disrespectful to her, but thats because I was sick of it all. She hates my dad and tells me we are the same. Once college came around, I was not hopeful of my relationship with my mom. Since I live only 15 minutes away I understood that due to money I would be still living at home. She treats me differently. I can clearly see she treats my younger siblings with love opposed to me. I remember at my own high school graduation she did not go because we had an argument earlier that day, I was so heartbroken and sad because I always dreamed of that special day with my family. Just my dad went, and my siblings stayed at home. I was so disappointed. I promise you that I tried to talk to her but it always ends in tears from me and her calling me pathetic. I think she may be bipolar but to the least extent. I can't just move out because I just bought myself a new car which I worked so hard for. Im so tired of living here. We constantly fight. My mom hates me and i feel trapped. I cant stand to be here any longer, I even sold a lot of my personal belongings on in an effort to save more money. I just need advice

Question: Getting tired of taking care of my mom?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 10:39 AM PDT

-I'm 15 - She's 30( obviously became a mom at 15) - My dad split and moved to Arizona - My mom has fallen into alcoholism and parties pretty hard, whether she's out with people or home with me. Honestly, just being home with me is seen as a party by her - She comes home drunk and I have to help her into bed. - She gets sad sometimes, tells me she's going to get better, never does What can I do?

Question: My mom taking my stuff and using all of it and not caring about it.?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 10:39 AM PDT

I'm a 14 year old girl and I love makeup. Like I want to be a makeup artist when I'm older. I can't really get a job, so all of the money that I do get I save and spend on the makeup that I've been wanting for a while. Anyway, my Kylie lip kit came and it was a limited addition one and I used my moms credit card for it and paid her back since I don't have one of my own. I forgot that I ordered the lip kit and about a month later I asked her where it was and she told me that she used it. Another thing about me is I hate germs. Just the thought of what she does with her mouth going on someone that I would use by my mouth disgusts me. I began to cry and she was just yelling at me saying "It's not a big deal! I only used it once!" But it was almost completely gone. This costed me almost $40 and I don't have a job so I've been saving to buy it for a while. She's acting like she doesn't even care that it hurt my feelings and won't talk to me about it/ When I tried to talk to her and ask her if she can reorder a different one because they do not sell that color anymore she start to yell at me and say no. I then asked her if I could get my money back and she said yeah but she would only give me the price of the lip kit which is $29 but the shipping was almost $10. What do I do?

Question: If I hate being around my parents for long periods of time and I'm in my mid 20s, do I hate them?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 10:31 AM PDT

I prefer to be on my own and away from them. But, my sisters who are also in their 20s love being home

Question: I move every 5 years?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 10:10 AM PDT

I'm sick of moving every five years my mom either gets a new job or buys a new house I want to go live with my dad he has had the same house since I was little can I live with my dad he says my mom has instability moving all the time

Question: Will child care services take me away from my parents?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 09:47 AM PDT

I live with my mom, long story, and my dad has been concerned about the way we have been living. The house is a mess, there's not much food to eat, etc. So they came to my house and interviewed us and all, but my mom asked me tom lie a bit. I did and I was mad at her for making me do that so I told her I'll tell the social worker the whole truth when she comes again. My mom said if I did, we wouldn't go live with my dad (my dad wants us to live with him), we would be taken away to some other family. Is this true?? My dad is totally capable of taking care of us. He's the better parent. No not at all, he WANTS to take care of us and he's never done anything illegal in his life. We all just want to live with my dad but my mom refuses and we're living under bad care.

Question: Am I overeacting?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 09:43 AM PDT

So my dad always gets mad at me for not being perfect. Like I got a freaking B+ in science and he got so mad because it wasn't an A. I'm getting so tired of him always complaining. He also gets so mad at me for not being organized (because my room isn't perfect) and says if I don't change I'll have no life and wont survive. He yells at me for the smallest things and compares me to my brother and my friends. Also, he makes me study 4 hours everyday even though it's summer and makes me write an essay every week. I'm 13 years old and I'm going into 8th grade but he makes me focus on highschool math and english. He literally yells at me for the smallest things. He says he's trying to make me stronger by yelling at me and forcing me to study, but honestly, he's making me weaker. I'm getting so tired of my life dealing with this everyday. What should I do?

Question: My mother-in-law got offended that we're moving,not sure how to handle it.?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 09:19 AM PDT

My husband and I moved in with his mom to save money. We have been planning to move to a different state for a while. But she does not want us to. She thinks where we are is the best place ever and no other place compares to it. The reason we are moving is because I got accepted into a great graduate school plus my husband has gotten a total of six great job offers in the area. We feel it is best for us,but last night she got really offended when he told her he wasn't interested in working or living here.She even asked him "why are you moving away who is killing you here?' he got frustrated and didn't want to discuss it with her. She also thinks we don't have a plan and doing this out of nowhere. That's not true,my husband has told her several times about our plans. When my husband was traveling for interviews we looked at houses and ended finding a great one. But she's acting like this is all new and out of nowhere. I feel really bad because it's my fault we are moving. And the tension now is pretty high here. I don't know what to do. I don't want her to feel like moving is a personal attack to her.

Question: Tension between my sister and me?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 08:47 AM PDT

There seems to be some tension between my sister and me. I think I know what the problem is and I'm not sure how to move forward. I've had an eating disorder for almost thirty years...anorexia. I have learned how to manage it and am now at a weight that is healthy. I'm still thin, but in good health. I still struggle. My sister has also struggled with an unnamed eating disorder. She is more of a binge eater. Not overly so, but I know she struggles with food. She is at an average weight and healthy, but thinks she is overweight. Also, I've been a runner for years and I'm on the fast side. She is also a runner but slower because she's 16 years older than me. She always makes comments about how she hates thin people and is very critical of my other sister, who is also thin. She does not criticize my other two sisters, who are normal weight or overweight. I'm really tired of it. She has no reason to be jealous of me. I'm a bereaved parent and lost my only child. Life is very difficult for me and the last thing I want is a poor relationship with my sister. Now she will not talk to me because I had to cancel a visit to her because of my job. I shouldn't have made the commitment in the first place, but work got in the way. I don't know what to do now. Any advice?

Question: Should my Uncle leave his half nieces as much as his full nieces and nephews. He's generous but it's unfair?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 08:16 AM PDT

My Elderly Uncle just died. He never married and didn't have any kids. He had 7 full nieces and nephews which include my sister and me, plus 2 half nieces. He gave all of us 1/9th of his estate. I am grateful but I think it's unfair that my half cousins should get as much as my sister, me and the full cousins. Do you agree

Question: My dad is blackmailing my mom that he will do harm to himself and blame it on my mom. What should I do?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 08:10 AM PDT

My dad has been abusive with me, my mom and my sister for a very long time. He beat my mom when she was pregnant. My mom still stood by his side because she still had faith that he might not be as bad as he is. He would always fight and beat and later apologize that he had stress from work or something else.I have been hearing him curse and beat my mom since I was a kid. This has been going on for 20 years. The same happened with me when I would break toys and not do the work correctly. He has told many people that I m useless, and dumb. Through highschool I never understood what was going on in class because of what happened at home. My classmates also started to bully me because of this. I also had suicidal thoughts when I was a kid. I overcame that cause my mom was supportive. The reason we still don t go against him or complain to the police is because my mom doesn t want all this to have an impact on her children s studies. Because who would pay for our expenses and education then? That s why we had to rely on our dad regardless of what he did. Recently, my sister got accepted in Top 20 universities in the world, and plans to carry on her master s aboard. My dad doesn t want that to happen. He wants her to get married and stop my undergraduate and doesn t want his wife and his children to succeed in life. So he is blackmailing us saying that he will go mad and cause harm to himself and then blame us for all the wrong doing. Till now I have never shared this with anyone.

Question: My dad is CEO, he's having trouble with Ransom something stuff Would anyone help me if I tell what kind of server is it? I wanna help my dad?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 07:40 AM PDT

Question: Is it okay to be having extreme anxiety over moving away from grandma and uncle?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 07:06 AM PDT

I've been living with my mom, brother, grandma and uncle since the beginning of high school. Now I've recently graduated and turned 18. I never noticed how much I depended on my grandma and uncle. I avoided my grandma so much but now my anxiety and depression hit out of nowhere and my grandma has been there and calmed me down during my anxiety attacks. Now that I'm moving jsut with my other and brother I feel like they won't be around as much and they won't understand. My mom expects me to work and help, which I definitely will but it's hard with this anxiety and all I can think is the most negative thoughts. I haven't made any close friends in high school and I'm afraid now that I'm moving away from being surrounded by people I'll have panic attacks and no one will be around to comfort me. What can I do? How do I make friends in a new area?

Question: Why do som people say that birth contro doesnt work?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 06:50 AM PDT

Abstience ONLY Sex Education Brith control doesnt always work,it's these kind of lunaticsThad are starting 2 annoy the fuckout of me and these people are also pro lifer adn anti pro choic,and they are the kinds of goodie goods that are againstSex and say ya shld just wait until marrage

Question: Moving out at 16?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 06:48 AM PDT

16 is the youngest legal age with parent permission you can move out in my country and I would love to move out then, any tips on raising the money? Or getting a job or anything?

Question: I have to see my selfish and hurtful sister on the 4th at a party. How do I act towards her where I don't get hurt?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 05:00 AM PDT

I am going just because of other family that will be there.

Question: How do i convince my parents to let me drive?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 04:44 AM PDT

we don't have drivers permit at the age of sixteen where I live, you get your drivers license once you turn eighteen and that's it. I turn eighteen in a month, and I want to start driving. My father's been teaching me how to drive since I was sixteen (in our farm), when I turned seventeen he taught me how to drive in our neighborhood. I know how to park, reverse, check my mirrors and I'm a better driver than most people with license. The only reason they won't let me is that its very dangerous, even though I'm very responsible. I'm the eldest with two younger siblings so my parents haven't experienced having one of their children driving. They say its dangerous and they say that even if I'm responsible other people aren't. How do I convince them? I start university in two months! I can't go apply for myself because I need a parent's signature. I graduated out of high school with honors and the only thing I asked for was to be able to drive, they flat out refused!

Question: I just want to know does it sound like my moms had enough or does it sound she wants more kids? I can't handle another one?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 04:31 AM PDT

I couldn't fix all this on here so please read this first, it's a note on my tumblr, to understand https://peoplepicggg.tumblr.com/post/161924516453 I don't understand my mom. Once I told her I was holding a baby I believe it was a boy I guess she thought I was referring to her having another baby. She's like "I have all my girls & u will be the one to have the boy" I believe she said "you're probably going to get pregnant soon" (I'm a virgin w/ no boyfriend). She's always making comments when I don't feel good she'll be "don't worry once u have a baby u feel better" then shes always saying how I'm going to have five kids, since I'm done w/ school before I finish shes "ur going have kids soon" or my sister was saying how I'm going to be 18 & my moms like BABY, but then she's like "no in 10 years u have one" I'll be 25, that's around the same age my mom had me (25 on 26). She always says for my last sister "your always the baby" or "ur always going to be the baby no matter" & "ur (or) my the last child the last born". When something happend a few weeks ago I said to her please no more kids, shes like "what are you crazy?" She's always saying when she's a grandmother how she always be there unlike her mother but then she jokes saying "I'll be far away". My mom is 42, has a belly button hernia, popping/cracking painful bones. She cares for her sick father, my two sisters/dogs. She looks at people Instagram and wants to cry because everyone goes on vacation or out & we don't

Question: (Violent details) I was adopted and abused by older sibling?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 02:47 AM PDT

For years he would beat me. I'd be left with many bruises. I tried to stay away from him but it was hard bc he never wanted me out of his sight. I clinged to our other sibling so we wouldn't be alone. I never spoke out. I was afraid I would look like a mistake and that I ruined their family. We are adults now and I saw him for the first time in over a year. When alone he violently pinned me to the couch and started forcing his face to mine in an attachment to make me kiss him. I faught it and got away with a busted lip and hair pulled out. I want to tell someone but I'm afraid of what people will do or think. He is well loved by the family and talked highly of

Question: How to relive stress?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 02:28 AM PDT

So this summer(I'm still in school, 10th grade) my life has been really stressful and pretty depressing so I'm helping my aunt and grandma move to laurel county in Kentucky..and I wanted to stay with them a few days bc it's a really big house and I wanted to spend time with them. I originally live with my mom and my brother but I just found out today that we lost our house and have no place to live so me and my brother have to stay with our grandma for a little bit. And I just feel so bad for my mom that she has to go through all that and I just love her so much.. and there's just so many things I wanna do but I can't and there's so much going on I can't even explain it all. I just wanted my summer to be good..i know I probably sound dramatic and there's worse things in life but I just feel so depressed bc all these feeling are coming up..like my dad died, my family is poor, I can't even see any of my friends right now. I just feel like a waste of space and money right now.. and what I just explained isn't even a portion of what I feel. All I want is for everything to be normal and my mom to be happy..I can't deal with all this stress and I need help

Question: Nothing can get me up in the morning?! Help?!?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 02:18 AM PDT

I set alarms and dad and my sister try to wake me up, but no matter how many alarms go off and no matter how many times they try to wake me up, I just won t get up. The thing is I can t even remember them trying to wake me up or the alarms going off. Apparently my alarms even wake them up. Sometimes when they try to wake me up I ll kick and scream and said terribly rude things. I m not a violent person, and I love my dad and my sister to death. Can someone please tell me what I should do? This is affecting my life and everyone else around me.

Question: I hate my life and my family?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 02:16 AM PDT

My older brother who s 15 watches porn and cusses and says inappropriate things in front of my younger 6 year old sister and I tell him to stop but he doesn t listen. My other sister who is 11 has already been influenced by him and watches shows she shouldn t be watching and is always disrespecting our parents. she also cusses a lot too.How can I change her? I don't want her to regret her childhood by acting like an adult.i also want my brother to shut up for good.

Question: I found out some disturbing news today, and do not know how best to sit with it?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 02:12 AM PDT

I've had a rough year but it is getting better, and i know its best to talk to a psychologist, but i feel i will be ok, its just that i knew my dad used to beat my mum but today my sister said he would beat and rape her. My mum means the world to me, and i just feel SO SO sad, and down for her, and angry and upset, i don't know why bc it doesn't change things, but it hurts me so much

Question: I pretty sure my mom saw my nude sketch while I was asleep and now I feel embarassed. Should I really feel embarassed?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 01:40 AM PDT

I've been practicing some anatomy drawings and I drew a picture of a nude female in a seated position. I left it on my binder and fell asleep during the day between 2 and 4 o'clock pm. I woke up after 12 when her and my sister were asleep. The sheet I drew on was just sitting on my binder and I'm almost positive she saw it. She's really nosy and would've taken a second look if she thought she saw what it was. She's just really manipulative and I'm sure if she brings it up it will be to flip the purpose of the drawing and make me sound like a pervert. What should I do?How can I change how I feel about this situation and just that she might've seen it?

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Posted: 30 Jun 2017 01:25 AM PDT

Question: Is it wrong to be proud of what your grandfathers did?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 01:17 AM PDT

If you have a grandfathers who did great things. Is it wrong to take pride on their work, or is it plagiarism because you are taking pride in things in which you have no hands on.

Question: How do i deal with my mother s little sister who is very nagging and controlling. She has been marries four times. Is it us or it s her?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 12:17 AM PDT

Question: What do you think of someone who goes to a father or a brother and asks him to find a wife for him in their family! Iam not joking.?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 12:08 AM PDT

Question: Do you think marriage is good if i don't have a work and my father would support me for years until i get a work?

Posted: 30 Jun 2017 12:03 AM PDT

Question: Is it weird that I'm 19 and still like to spend the night with my grandparents?

Posted: 29 Jun 2017 10:06 PM PDT

I'm a 19 year old girl, and I've always been very close to my grandparents. Growing up, I'd usually spend at least one night a week with them. I don't spend the night with them as often anymore, but I still do occasionally. I usually go when my little siblings (14 and 16) do. Is that weird? They love having me, and I have my own room at their house.

Question: I keep having dreams about my daughter's rape?

Posted: 29 Jun 2017 09:54 PM PDT

My daughter was raped, and I've been having vivid nightmares about it ever since I found out. They happen almost every other night. In them, I can see nearly everything that I assume happened and hear her screaming and fighting. I always wake up feeling really sick and shaky. Is this normal? I'm a guy She's been seeing a counselor

Question: Why do little things bother me so much?

Posted: 29 Jun 2017 09:48 PM PDT

For example, my mum takes me to the store and says I can get a present, I'm exited about what I get but when I get home and do more research I don't like it very much at all anymore. If I tell her she won't get the true extent of how sad it made me. And it's just a cheap little toy! I think.. "When is mum ever gonna take you to the store and let you pick something out again?!" When are you gonna get a chance like the one you just wasted!? And it makes me angry and upset. And I realize that its so small, and it shouldn't matter, but it does to me. Am I blowing this out of proportion?

Question: What should I do when my mom is like this?

Posted: 29 Jun 2017 09:41 PM PDT

My mom has always blamed me for a lot. Even when I was younger. It's also like talking to a brick wall. For example: I tell her a better internet she could get for cheaper and she blows it off or says to just leave it. My opinions mean nothing. So here is the situation. My mom is due for neck surgery because she has a growth or swelling of her gland in her neck. I live in Arizona, she lives in Indiana. She calls me and says it's happening right then and now so I took a train there. Here I am and now she is saying they haven't even scheduled it and are unsure if they are for sure even doing it. I spent 226 dollars plus food and supplies to come. I signed up for college and payed already and if I am not back before the end of July then I have to repay double the price. I don't have a job. I just do odd jobs at the moment until college is done. I told my mom this and she is begging me to stay longer in case her surgery goes wrong and says it will be my fault if I leave and something bad happens. The other problem is, I take care of a baby and a woman who got in a bad car accident and suffered brain damage , which is my boyfriend's sister. He is watching her for now and her mother here and there, same with her baby. But, they will lose thier jobs if I stay longer than planned, a month. So I'm pretty much knee deep in stress and non stop thinking of me screwing everything up either way I go. So, I ask you, what in the hell do I do?!

Question: I got hard off of my cousin and I don t know what it means?

Posted: 29 Jun 2017 08:57 PM PDT

So my cousin came over to spend the night.Her being a 17 year old female and me being a 14 year old male.She was wearing booty shorts as part of her pajamas. So we were chilling on the couch watching tv and I glanced over at her and looked at her legs and glanced at the crotch area.I started to grow hard and I don t know why.I mean I didn t feel this attraction before and honestly I find it a little gross to be getting hard off of my cousin.Anyone have any reason on why I got hard?

Question: How do I convince my mom to let me take my car to school?

Posted: 29 Jun 2017 08:52 PM PDT

My car works fine but shouldn t be driven long distances. I m going to school 2 hours away and my mom says I can t take my car but I really want to take it so that I can get a part time job. I don t want to go through my sophomore year digging into my savings account again. I want to make & spend my own money and also just have the car to get around. It s annoying because my mom keeps saying it s because it may break down & that my grandpa says it shouldn t be driven out of my hometown. I was planning to take it down there on a dolly and also pay for any repairs on it if needed. How do I convince my mom?

Question: My parents never support me and I'm 15 and doing everything on my own. What should I do? It's all to much?

Posted: 29 Jun 2017 08:39 PM PDT

I'm 15 and I've been doing tae kwon do for 6 years I am a national champion and I find my self good at tae kwon do. My family on the other hand are never there for me they never watch me compete in any of my tournaments, I never get there support on anything I do, they always say negative comments about me being in TaeKwonDo and how it's a wast of time and money and I'll never make it to the Olympics. They are never there for me at all, I always have to ask people for rides to take me to practice and back home, my parents only are keeping me in TaeKwonDo bc of bragging rights so they can make them selves look even better. It makes me sad that when the team it's together they all have there parents with them and it's makes me think about how my parents don't care about what I do and how much I love the sport, I'm always trying to talk to them about how I feel but they just don't care, I'm at the point now we're I need to find a job to pay for all my tournaments bc my parents don't want to pay and could care less about what I do, and no matter how much I talk and cry to them they never understand. I did high schooo track also and they never bothered to ask me how it was going and they never showed up to my meets when they said they would

Question: Women: Is it harder for a man to get a girlfriend if he lives with his family.?

Posted: 29 Jun 2017 08:05 PM PDT

And by family, I don't just mean parents. I mean my sisters. After trading to 27 million dollars on Nadex, I just recently bought a 4 million dollar 7850 square foot house in Dallas. It has five bedrooms and 8 bathrooms. two days after moving in, my sisters came to visit me and while they were there, even though they each had their own place to live, they forced me to let them live with me. I have three sisters and two of them have kids, equaling eight kids combined. Now four little boys share a bedroom, four little girls share a bedroom. My three sisters each took a bedroom of their own. I asked why I didn't get a bedroom, and they responded that I should convert the weightroom to a bedroom since I have all of the money. They said that there is too much "unnecessary" equipment in that room (My sisters are fat) and it will do fine as a bedroom. Of course there is only half bathrooms left that are not connected to a bedroom, so now there is no way that I can shower unless I use the sink or use one of "their" bedrooms.

Question: Should I continue to have a relationship with my parents?

Posted: 29 Jun 2017 08:05 PM PDT

Me and my sister have been thrown under the bus multiple times by my parents. They have repeatedly hurt us. They love my other sister over us. They have repeatedly said that they do not care about us. Today my other sister had a baby at 19. My parents have already given the baby more than they have given me, they pay my other sisters bills and support her and her boyfriend that curses them out all the time. They have continuously told us that they will always choose her over us. Should me and my sister continue to have a relationship with them? I am 14 and she is 16.

Question: Can my family and I get custody of my nephew's?

Posted: 29 Jun 2017 08:04 PM PDT

I have a sister who's w a man who has gotten HER 3year old son and THEIR 3 MONTH old so. Taken by Cps...My sister got her boys back a year later...He then had a incident we're he took my nephew out at 11pm in the hood an roamed the streets to get back at my sister,he has tried to hold my sister hostage,and also tried to fight me and my 55yr old mom after my sister called us to help her because he was trying to steal her car...Long story short he spent 3 months in jail for arsen...Got out and he and my sister have been homeless for a year...None of my family accepts the guy so my sister is keeping the boys away from us...Mind you they are homeless and me and my other two sisters and mother want the boys because they have house hopped an lived in hotels. We all have kids and have been really close with our nephew's the kids are our life....My question is is there anything we can do to get custody of the boys,we don't want them into the system with a stranger again because it really tramutized my now 6year old nephew,but they have admitted to being alchaholics,they are keeping the boys away from there only fam,and homeless...Can we get temp custody?

Question: I keep hearing my mom and stepdad having sex?!?

Posted: 29 Jun 2017 07:52 PM PDT

this is like a once a week thing and i can hear it from my room, it's getting annoying and disgusting, i feel very disturbed because i am a child and i should not be hearing this. would it be wrong to let my mom know how i feel? i can't listen to this anymore it's disgusting!

Question: I call my Sister-in-law my sister is that weird?

Posted: 29 Jun 2017 07:36 PM PDT

My husband has a 15 year old sister and I often refer to her as my sister she is more like a real sister to me as I don't have any younger sisters and I have a close bond with her. But recently someone told me that's it's weird that I call her my younger sister is it weird or wrong? It feels so natural to me. She's over all the time at our house and she's an amazing aunt to my girls and she treats me better than my sister. Should I stop calling her my sister and just say sister in law?

Question: I need help!! Can we call the police for this?!?

Posted: 29 Jun 2017 07:31 PM PDT

My mom took my dog and my dads car. She's presumably drunk since she's an alcoholic and does things like this when drunk. The real bad issue is, she has our DOG. It's 10:30pm right now, and she's had the dog and car since about 2-3pm. She's been texting my dad nonsense (she's drunk). My sister and I tried telling her to come home but my dad insisted he wasn't handling it and told us not to text her. Anyway, the really really bad part it, we are supposed to be leaving on a trip out of state TOMORROW very very early. In like, 7 hours. And we NEED our dog. My sister thinks my dad should contact the police, but like, how would they even find her? we have absolutely ZERO idea where she could be at all.

Question: I cussed out my mom in a text message....?

Posted: 29 Jun 2017 06:35 PM PDT

Hear me out....i've been with living with my grandmother and ever since I was four years old now I'm 18. My mother which is never cared for me what has not done a thing for me. She told 2 family members that I have an STD. I recently talked to her about my issues and she seem to really care. She's known for running and telling other people things as well. So later today grandmother told me that she told 2 other people in the family. I was devastated and heartbroken you would think your mother would keep her mouth shut about her child's issues. So I sent her a nasty text telling her how I felt that she shouldn't have told anyone about my business yes there were a couple cuss words like your a peace of ****. But she has no reason to tell my uncle or her husband about me. Now everyone is upset with me over the text message. should I apologize to her? Or should she apologize to me? My grandmother thinks I didn't handle the situation well and that I needed to talk to her. But when ever you tell my mother anything SHE WILL TELL!!!!....it's like she's a kid and my grandmother knows it.

Question: I want to find a model, but I has eliminated the chronology... Please, help me if you know her!?

Posted: 29 Jun 2017 06:14 PM PDT

Fuor or five days ago I was on Facebook and I se three simular pictures (of a Facebook page) and I look this girl in pose. She had a jersey (probably pink) and a jeans. I find her name in one of the comments (by a girl in particular). So, after, I search it and I found the girl on internet, but now I really not rember her name. I remember only that her surname is Rodriguez, that have short, black and wavy hair. Dark complexion and a unique beauty. Please, if you think to know her can you write her name? Thank you!

Question: Why won't my mom leave my abusive dad?

Posted: 29 Jun 2017 04:39 PM PDT