My wife and I got married only last November since then I haven t felt like we are married. I actually rarely feel we re a couple other than occasional sex and dates that I initiate. She doesn t seem to care much about me or me and her together. There s a whole lot more that I can dump on here but I ll keep short

you know it is tough to tied up with one girl and miss the joy and the fun that you could've shared with other girls. but at the end, the wife can be considered as a better option that a whore. still, why not to have both, since you can't completely trust your wife, as she could've been cheating on you and playing dirty games around with other men. i know some men who cheat on their wives straight up and tell them that they gonna have some fun with other girls and come back to the house later. but i am not that evil, i don't like to abuse people. how can you convince you wife that you want to sleep with her friends and take vocations for a couple of weeks with other girls while she suppose to stay home and take care of her children. and that she can't be cheater. i would be happy if i can convince her to bring up a girl to share the bed with us at night and at the same time keep emotionally happy and satisfied. etc....

I am a woman who has a wife. She has been texting another woman who is secretly in the closet and has only came out to us and another woman that she had a thing with. My wife is either talking about this woman or texting this woman. My wife and I have been struggling with our own communication & other marital issues. Tonight as I was dealing with our 3 children trying to feed them while setting up a movie for them after a long baseball game. I was making it clear that I needed help . I look over and she is staring at her phone smiling. Not even paying attention to me. I walk over and she puts her phone down I picked it up and saw that she was texting this woman. She accused me of being jealous I then explained to her that I was upset because I needed help with the kids. She instantly apologized which she never does we usually fight about everything. Well she then tells me she will stop texting her tonight. I walk into the kitchen and come back out to her texting her again We are open with our phones she sees mine and I see hers. she fell asleep her phone went off and I picked it up I saw where she was telling this other woman how strong she is and how she has a big heart and can do anything her heart tells her too. Things she NEVER tells me. There was also a strange gap in the time of the messages like she had erased some because the phone has been in her hand talking to this woman for 2 hours and when I look there is only a few messages. What do you think I m overreacting?

The art work was given to my husband by a family member of hers before his death.There is no document stating who was given this piece of art. She is know telling us that she is oing to send the sherriff over to collect the art. Does she have a case??

why would you ruin another person since you are damaged goods already. Obvious something was wrong with you .

So the other day my husband was very unfair to me. He was supposed to pick me up from work but 15 minutes before I finished work he texted me asking if I could take the bus (which is like 3/4 of my main transportation) while he buys himself a new phone for work! Obviously I got upset with him! But he still didn t get it. So the next night we visited my mom and I got her help to help me get my point across since I m a bit bad in stating my part in any argument. But he only obtained like half of what she was saying and took it as her defending me. He got a bit of the situation but he has started to act like nothing happened. He still thinks he didn t do anything wrong and that I just made a big deal about it! I m really only upset because he made me feel like trash, something disposable to him. He just won t get that. What do I do?

I want to relocate to another state with my daughters it s for their best interest schools better life and I will have a better paying job. My exhusband obly sees the girls 1 or 2 a week and he says no how can I make this work. It s crazy that I have to stay in a state that I have no help until my daughters are 18

This chick at work is trying to get me to seperate from my wife. Also everyone at work refers to her as my girl. But to me its strickly work.

What were the most common things you and your spouse fought about in the first five years of marriage?

She says this whenever the hurt her divorce and her alienating me from my Dad caused me

I have been married to my wife for 6 months. I have never been that physically attracted to my wife but I married her because I was accustomed to her after dating her for 5 years. But from time to time, I think about ending it. Now, there is another more attractive woman who I have more in common with me who told me to let her know if I broke it off with my wife and she would probably be interested in dating me. Keep in mind, it is totally new for me to have beautiful women say they are interested in me....it doesn't happen that often.

I live in VA with my 14yr old son. He is visiting his mom in FL, and he's telling me he wants to stay there but I don't want him to. I get that he misses his mom and sister, but there are other factors that come into play as to why I don't believe he should live with her. So my question is, can she prevent me from picking him up at the end of summer break? I have full legal and physical custody of him through the state of VA. He's been with me for 6yrs. But with him being 14 she's convinced him that he has the right to stay with her. And then what if he refuses to get in the car? And please before you judge me as being a bad parent for not letting him stay, there a several reasons why I was awarded custody of him that I don't want to put all over the internet.

Really shocked me and embarrassed her she was actually in a large orgasmas I entered the room!

I am the custodial parent of my daughter with sole custody. Her mother is supposed to start paying child support starting June 1 but fled Texas to go to Florida. Now she refuses to answer anything or anyone. She told someone that she moved to Florida to avoid it and as long as she never moves back she will never have to pay it. Does moving to Florida make her unreachable?

Not the first time it s been brought up, but never in a serious way... Or so I think. A month ago I showed him 2 tattoos saying I want one and my future husband to have the other and he said, "oh, so me?". Then today I told him he can keep my sweatpants until we break up and he told me not to say stuff like that and that we aren t breaking up that we will get married in a few years and have 12 kids. Obviously, I know that s a joke but it does kind of bother me all the same. I m not naive enough to believe we will be together forever (we are only 20) and I don t know if there is some seriousness to his jokes about us being married or not. I plan on asking him, I just want some outside perspective first.

My wife's car, and my car are from him. He owns a huge used car dealership. Eery year June 25th like clockwork he stops by our house and leaves a car with the tittle signed over, no mechanical issue ready to go. Last car was a 2009 Subaru wrs. My 2008 Wrangler, and her 2016 optima are from him. See, when they were younger and she was pregnant by him, he beat her to kill the child. He was drunk and angry. She said he never stop asking for forgiveness. Fast forward 15 yrs and he's a successful businessman that just think he's making it up to her or at least as to make himself feel better. This is the 8 year in a row he's done that, I kinda want him to stop, since it only brings him misery and a constant reminder, but on the other hand is a 8-15k cash car if sold,we use it to go vacationing or to anything we want. What should I do?

Im in a 7 year relationship and recently married. My wedding day was the best day ever. I was soo happy!! Long story short- i met a guy near twice my age back in january in a local sports complex. We clicked straight away and started off as great friends. He was training to be a personal trainer and helped me with weight loss and fitness leading up to the wedding. But it got to the stage we wernt meeting up for class; it was to be with eachother and be passionate. I couldnt get enough of him and vice versa. When im with my husband all i think about is him: i cant eat or sleep and constantly texting him. I dont know if i can go through married life with feelings and thoughts for another man. Please help!!

I've been married for 6 years and have a 4 year old daughter. When first dating, our relationship was great.She was out going to things we did as a couple.Argued here & there, but nothing to stop us from getting married. We get married and have a daughter. When my daughter is 1 years old, we had her birthday party and have conversations of moving out of the house we bought. My wife's sister-in-law started suggesting that we move to California to be closer to them (Live in MD) I thought it was an okay convo to entertain, but not set on moving anywhere. We sold the house to move to a better area in Northern VA.When we move in to a townhome, she was setting her sight on California.Realistically, (cost)where my wife wasn't thinking of any of that.I told her that I'm not going until we have a plan! not just get a job and have no money saved up for it. 2 years go by, and no luck in the job market. i work for the Government (good money)My wife works in the hospital,so its a little easier for her.None of the opportunities are working out & I abandoned the idea, where as to my wife is still wanting to go. We stopped talking about it and started putting more thought in to my daughter. We're moving for what i thought was for my daughters sake in order to go to better schools. instead, my wife is still trying to go to California! I got pissed and told her NO! now we rarely communicate to the point I don't know what to do.I've been kind of leaning towards divorce.I'm over the word count.

I have been in an abusive marriage for 9 years. So sad and fed up I went out with my GF and we met two lovely guys. Mine was so sweet kind and tender I couldn't believe it, so used to verbal and physical abuse from my husband. He was reluctant but I initiated sex and it was so loving respectful and nice I cried afterwards. I fell for him and he said we can meet again. Can you totally fall for a guy in one night? I think I have

My son just entered his teens and wants to live with his dad(breaks my heart). My husbands sex drive is none existence, I feel unloved and undesired. He's thirty five with no sex drive....

They are not identical twins. Thought*... Being the sibling they are it similar. I can further add that I was drunk and h#rny. It will make it believable.

During all of the time we have been together (over ten years), she has made me miserable. She is extremely self-centered and narcissistic, and only thinks about herself. She puts me down and calls me names, in front of her family and other people. She calls me at work all day about her newest "crisis" or drama that she is having (usually some petty annoyance). Also, she is too dependent and needy, and needs help with everything and can't do anything on her own. Yet she is jealous of my success and that she would be successful too if the "whole world wasn't working against" her. All of my friends say she is awful (both men and women friends). She has walked all over me, treated me like dirt, and I'm mad as hell. I want payback. I'm expected to listen attentively to all of her insane rants and comfort her, tell her how wonderful she is. But then she doesn't listen to me at all, and gives me no attention. She has the attention span of a toddler and can't carry on a conversation. She has walked all over me, treated me like dirt, and I'm mad as hell. I want payback. I'm expected to listen attentively to all of her insane rants and comfort her, tell her how wonderful she is. But then she doesn't listen to me at all, and gives me no attention. She has the attention span of a toddler and can't carry on a conversation.

The problem is that she works different hours to me and that clashes with my sleeping. She will work from 10am to 11pm or 12am. Stays in her company to research real estate and chat to her clients, friends etc. I work shift work and that includes 7am starts (get up at 5am). I'm stuffed by 10pm and ready for sleep. But she will come home and play lpud music etc. Sleeping in the spare room won't help because we live in an apartment. Also, the early finishes often mean I'll find myself coming home to cook and clean alone. I just try to put up with it but it sometimes feels like she is too busy for me. She wants to have a child with me but our communication suffers. She is content with us speaking a couple of basic sentences in a 24 hour period but I see her on the phone chatting to people and laughing. It hurts to feel like I'm emotionally abandoned. One person cannot be the center of another's universe but the focus on earning money and property often sets the precedent for ignoring my wants or needs. Are all Chinese this independent and money driven? I would love to hear her say she wants to go somewhere with me. As the man, I always take the lead and make the suggestions. I'm also understanding of the fact that modern day couples in a first world city face the pressure of expensive bills and having to work very hard to get ahead. I study on top of full time work.We are fortunate since we have our 1st home and 3 investment properties off the plan due for settlement soon.. Im in the process of cleaning our apartment since her parents made a huge mess when they stayed with us for a couple of months. I've felt ashamed to invite anyone around but my mate was raviing about how he wants to come and stay for a month. So I guess we have a nice apartment. I'm just picky and want to finish setting the place up. We moved in only 6 months ago. It's been a crazy time with university and work stress.

I try to set boundaries with my MIL about entering our house when we aren't home how she acts in my home etc but it gets ignored. Husband doesn't see the problem so if he doesn't back me up I don't know what to do. I tell her not to come over if we aren't home, not to clean my house (this isn't done from a place of love rather she and husband hate my housekeeping even going so far as to throw my things out if she doesn't like them) I changed the locks husband gave her a new key. How can I enforce boundaries that I set with MIL who is a complete pest in my home? (to me not to her son my husband)

My husband is a serious mama's boy. I didn't realize his mom was over at his house every day until we married. She had the key and just let herself in like she owns the house. She became such a pest to me, not husband who thinks it's normal, I had the locks changed and told him n ot to give one to her. He's now on a 2 1/2 week business trip so I got a nanny cam thing and sure enough when I was at work she let herself into my house. It never stopped they just got sneakier about it. I have proof she trespassed can I report it to the police and just ask if they will give a warning or just press charges? Either one will be starting a war. But no one is taking me seriously and I'm sick of her acting like I'm the guest in this house, not her a guest in my house. Husband won't back me up either because he likes mommy being the woman of the house not me.

My wife's car, and my car are from him. He owns a huge used car dealership. Eery day like clockwork he stops by our house and leaves a car with the tittle signed over, no mechanical issue ready to go. Last car was a 2009 Subaru wrs. My 2008 Wrangler, and her 2016 optima are from him. See, when they were younger and she was pregnant by him, he beat her to kill the child. He was drunk and angry. She said he never stop asking for forgiveness. Fast forward 15 yrs and he's a successful businessman that just think he's making it up to her or at least as to make himself feel better. This is the 8 year in a row he's done that, I kinda want him to stop, since it only brings him misery and a constant reminder, but on the other hand is a 8-15k cash car if sold,we use it to go vacationing or to anything we want. What should I do?

My wife is big on social media, spesialy facebook. I know she will want to post watever I do on Facebook so it must be something that I can take pictures of. I have depleted my bag of romantic tricks and need help please. Any suggestions??

If it's bed time and one spouse wants you leave because they can't sleep with people in the house but the other one says it's alright to stay should you go or can you stay. You have permission from one spouse. You're the guest in the house of a married couple and one spouse tells you to go and the other one says it's alright to stay. So the one is being a jerk and telling you to go but the other one is polite? Actually I'm the wife. I can't sleep when people are in the house so I politely tell them its 10 pm and I have to go to work in the morning so kindly leave etc. My husband then tells them to stay as long as they want. They frequently stay up until all hours of the morning sometimes until the morning and I can't sleep. They think my requests for them to leave are insignificant because my husband tells them to basically ignore me so they can stay up all night like teenagers at a sleep over. One time I looked downstairs and didn't see him so I thought we were alone. I walked into my kitchen wearing only a pajama top and no bottoms when I saw him sleeping on the couch and screamed.. Husband and buddy thought scaring me was hilarious but it ruined my day and I'm not looking forward to having kids with someone who tells others to ignore me in my own home. I assume he will tell the kids to ignore me also.