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- Question: How can I get my mother to see she abuses me emotionally?
- Question: Should I block my mom on social media?
- Question: Should father's day be canceled?
- Question: Is it okay to be in a romantic relationship with my stepcousin?
- Question: Why am I getting blamed?
- Question: How to tell if you're dealing with a f*** boy?
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- Question: My uncle died a few days ago and his girlfriend and my other uncle are coming over today. Idk how to act or what to say. I'm 16 f?
- Question: What should I do about my family..?
- Question: Should I go to this event where my "arch enemy" could possibly be there?
- Question: I feel like my mom is a narcissist?
- Question: Why is my brother suddenly overreacting? I point to a user and he starts screaming that he's about to get a virus.?
- Question: How do I deal with my parents who treat me horribly?
- Question: Is it justified to hit an abusive parent?
- Question: What are studied effects of mother-daughter mental and physical abuse?
- Question: How do I get my grandma to respect me too?
- Question: How do you deal with a father who never shuts up?
- Question: Is the offspring of a psychopath likely to take after them?
- Question: Mentally Abusive mom and living at home, help!!?
- Question: Angry asian parents problems.?
- Question: I secretly started collecting Barbie dolls again. Should I tell my parents?
- Question: Husband mad that I'm sick. Wouldn't come help me.?
- Question: How do I get my step dad to stop eating my food?
- Question: How do I separate from my close knit family to live 8 hours away with my significant other, without hurting my family's feelings?
- Question: What should I do? I live in a city full of rich kids and I go to school with them. My mom is a waitress.?
- Question: My family is trying to keep me from moving out?
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- Question: I'm a aunt and my sister is letting my niece who is 12 hangout with a 24 year old man. What can I do?
- Question: My parents don t let me go out or do... anything! WHAT DO I DO?
- Question: Pedophile? So my grandfather returned from killing Nazis in WW2 at 23 years old and married the "girl next door"...who happened to be 13...?
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- Question: My mother wouldn't let me go to an aunt's birthday because her Dad was there. How do I get her to see it is so unfair when she does this?
- Question: If I decide I am not ready to be a mother who would I tell and what would happen?
- Question: Everytime a family member is treating me poorly my mom doesn't step in to stick up for me like wtf?
- Question: I got yelled at repeatedly by my step dad and then when I walked over to my dads place, all he did in return was send me back over there.?
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- Question: I hate living with my dad. he constantly upsets me. but my mom is always going to meet up w internet friends. but i m only 16. help/advice?
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- Question: Moving out my mother's house soon?
Question: How can I get my mother to see she abuses me emotionally? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 01:59 PM PDT |
Question: Should I block my mom on social media? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 01:49 PM PDT She's annoying me all the time by getting upset over me posting "inappropriate" stuff. Like, I made a reference to Family Guy one time and she told me that was extremely inappropriate to post. And I'm role playing dating a character from a TV show and she thinks it's so inappropriate that I pretend to be that characters boyfriend online. I hate it. She overreacts to a lot of my posts! Like, she thinks I could get hurt if I post something that could even REMOTELY suggest inappropriate adult content. |
Question: Should father's day be canceled? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 01:48 PM PDT Men don't even take care of their kids and when they do, they do a half-*** job. |
Question: Is it okay to be in a romantic relationship with my stepcousin? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 01:19 PM PDT DETAILS: We live in the same apartment building with my stepfather and his wife. His wife is not my mother. The two of them married years after my mother and him divorced and I have no blood relationship to either of them. So now for my stepcousin. She is 6 years younger than me (I'm 29) and she just moved in a couple months ago, she has her own room. The only connection me and her have is that she is my "used to be" stepfather's niece, which technically would make us "cousins by marriage" IF my mom and stepfather were still married, which they are not... It's complicated. But we have been going on walks for the past couple weeks and being more and more open to eachother. We are both single. I feel like this could lead into something romantic. Would this be bad for our family's rep? Could we keep it secret? I'm not saying this will happen, but it could because I developed feelings for her. Tonight my stepdad and his wife our going to the Tom Petty concert and staying overnight at a hotel, leaving just me and her alone tonight....so... |
Question: Why am I getting blamed? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 12:45 PM PDT So my sister had money under my bed. I didn't even now it was there. My told me that my sister said give her $20. I put it back under my. Bed and I was on YouTube and went in my moms room. I left and went to my aunt's house. When I was going to bed my older cousin was on the phone with my sister. That's when I got blamed for stealing $20. Everyone in the house knew where her wallet was at. She left money laying around my room a lot of times and I never even touched it. Now she saying when she leaves she going to take my and etc. I don't know why I'm getting blamed when I have my own money. |
Question: How to tell if you're dealing with a f*** boy? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 12:37 PM PDT So me and this guy talked/hung out/partied together for about a month. He knew I wanted a relationship, we had sex a couple of times and out of nowhere he said he wasn't ready for a relationship. He texted me apologizing for hurting me and says he wants to get my trust back and try again about a month later. We've only been on one real date. He wants me to go to his place to hang out and I made it clear that we aren't having sex and he said he knows and he's fine with that, he just wants to get my trust back. Some of my friends tell me to leave me alone but some of them say he was probably just scared. We're both 21 and we both party a lot, we have a lot of fun together but I don't want to get hurt again. Should I give him another chance or let him go? |
Posted: 03 Jun 2017 12:36 PM PDT My parents left the house this morning and I was left alone with my sister, I went to bed super late and woke up and realizing my sister had used gorilla glue to shut my bedroom door closed, she left a little note under the door saying 'Good luck getting outta there' I tried pulling the door as hard as I could, but it didn't do anything and I also tried calling my parents but they won't pick up since they got off to work. It's been 2 hours and I'm still stuck here and I don't know what to do, please help? |
Posted: 03 Jun 2017 12:02 PM PDT It was so recent so everyone is still pretty upset and I'm just not good in these situations. I don't want to be stone faced but I also don't want to be bawling. |
Question: What should I do about my family..? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 12:00 PM PDT I live with my two older brothers (Lets call them Joey and Chris)... well Joey put a lot of money down on this rental place so we would all have a place to stay (They recently moved back from far away but I stayed here to go to the university).. and at the time, I thought I was getting $2000 back in refunds from the university (I showed them the billing statement that said so).. Well I learned recently that I was only getting $400 back.. I previously agreed to pay 2-3 months of rent, which I obviously can t do now... and Joey went ballistic on me, screaming awful and hurtful things at me.. Joey has always been mentally abusive to the females in our family but I thought he changed. I m an adult and yet he s still treating me like he owns me.. I won t go into detail of what he does, but I hope you ll take my word that it isn t "tough love".. He s got a lot of issues and I refuse to let Joey treat me like I m garbage.. However, I dearly love my brothers, and Chris, my eldest brother, has absolutely no where else to go, and I hoped to take out a school loan to cover the next few months of rent so he, specifically, wouldn t be homeless.... I feel really conflicted because my older brothers both raised me and took care of me all of my life (My mother wasn t the best parent)... and I want to leave this situation, and I have a place to go, but I m scared they ll hate me if I leave.. Should I take the loan and pay the rent or not... I m leaving either way... Thank you... |
Question: Should I go to this event where my "arch enemy" could possibly be there? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 11:58 AM PDT This friendly lady is inviting us to their 40th anniversary. They are very kind and nice. However, her niece was very very mean to me and such a bully. She was always tearing me down for every single thing. EVERY SINGLE THING! Should I go to this lady's part knowing her niece might be there? Thanks for your advice : ) I haven't seen her niece in more than 10 years. lady's party* LOL! |
Question: I feel like my mom is a narcissist? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 11:45 AM PDT I am 17 years old. So let me just give you background info on some of the disgusting things my mom has done to me throughout my life. First when I was in fourth grade I found a video of her and this man who isn't my dad having sex. At that point and mind you I was still in elementary school I realized how horrible someone who gave birth to you was. When I told her that I found it she told me she would buy me gifts if I didn't tell my dad. I never told my dad and I never got the gift. After that video she allowed the guy to pick my sister and I up from school. Another thing she has done is one time our family went to the beach and there was hotel by it however we weren't staying there. So my mom was being a complete ***** to us the entire vacation so we weren't having fun. Then she starts cursing at us to get in the pool that belonged to the hotel. Well me and my sister didn't want to go in because we didn't know if we were allowed. And my mom is such a psychotic ***** that if you say no to her she flips out. So we left the beach walking back to the care and she is steadily cursing and screaming at us. She hits me and my sister in front of everyone and of course no one did anything. Even this lady waking by said good job. So with the approval of others and my dad not doing jack she takes it to far and tells my sister and I that she doesn't care about us and she will put us in foster care and have more children. There is no more room to comment say if you want to hear more. |
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Question: How do I deal with my parents who treat me horribly? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 11:27 AM PDT |
Question: Is it justified to hit an abusive parent? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 11:25 AM PDT I ve been abused for over six years by my mother. Mostly emotional, mental and spiritual. Rarely is it psychical but she has been in the past, but today she threaten to hit me. After so many years, I am just tired of it. I wanted her to hit me so that I could punch her back. I feel horrible about this because even through the abuse, she is still my mother. I still somehow love her. I also know logically it would ve got me thrown out of the house by my father and I am not stabled enough to live on my own, yet. I just for once want her to have a taste of what I deal with daily from her. |
Question: What are studied effects of mother-daughter mental and physical abuse? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 11:24 AM PDT When compared to domestic abuse in father-mother form? Were you a daughter (or son) who was abused by a mother? Did you father know? |
Question: How do I get my grandma to respect me too? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 11:08 AM PDT So I'm 11 years old and I have a grandma that comes every year the whole summer. I used to be cool with it until I realized how annoying she really is. She's unfair, strict, bossy, impatient, snobby, and annoying. She almost never treats anyone with equality, even though she demands to be respected and appreciated herself, which I do, but she never respects me or appreciates me. How do I get her to without, in her words, rude and disrespectful? |
Question: How do you deal with a father who never shuts up? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 11:07 AM PDT |
Question: Is the offspring of a psychopath likely to take after them? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 11:06 AM PDT A family member looks and acts exactly like her father. He had another daughter who looks just like him. The two girls look like twins, though the mother's don't look a thing alike. He was an incredibly handsome guy and bright too. He ended up dying from drugs. Spent his entire life in and out of prison. He was not a tormented drug addict type but, very glib. Every picture of him, he is grinning ear to ear and doesn't have a care in the world. After his death, he has a memorial page on Facebook. There are several girls who worship him like he was a rock star. I know for fact had the tables been turned, he wouldn't have an ounce of empathy. This girl just literally causes pain everywhere she goes. Her mother and brother worship her. They complain constantly about the pain she causes but, it's like they live to serve her. |
Question: Mentally Abusive mom and living at home, help!!? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 10:59 AM PDT |
Question: Angry asian parents problems.? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 10:56 AM PDT So yesterday I graduated from high school. After I walk the stage I went to get to my diploma and try to find my parents. They call me and I answer told them where I am at. Then a beautiful feeling when you're friends come rushing to you and wants to take a picture with you. I stand where I'm at so my family can find and I missed a couple phone calls from my dad because my friends wanted to take a picture with me and I was trying to be quick about it. I finally found my parents and we take a picture and they told me to go say goodbye to my friend which I did. So I went to dennys with my family and they keep asking about where my friends are going I told them they went to go eat pizza together. Then they complain at me because I'm going to San Antonio for college instead staying at home and go to UTA or northlake. I told them I don't want to because they have a good biology major there unlike these two schools. They seem to understand me. Then the next day my mom had a fit on me because I chose my FRIENDS OVER FAMILY I would explain to her that I was trying to find her and told them where I'm but my dad also got mad because he called me during gradutation which theres so service all high school were at underground of the building. I would explain to them but they would call me a liar and not trust me because I usually go out and hang out my friends but I come home I helped around and asked if they needed help. ( Part 2)Then mom told to no go to San Antonio because she thinks im going for my friends. But I'm doing this for myself! She said either go to UTA, northlake or get a job. I lose my mom trust by so many accidents and I tried to explain she wouldn't listen because she want to prove me that she right. I remain silent and listen to her. ( Part 3 ) Now she calling me stupid for not looking for and thinking I don't love her. And using my friends against me. They only believe in their own eyes and I really don't know what to do. Please help a brother go to San Antonio and fulfill his dreams. |
Question: I secretly started collecting Barbie dolls again. Should I tell my parents? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 10:52 AM PDT Ok before you criticize me, I'm a 25 year old autistic woman and I started collecting again last summer so for almost a year. I love it. The thing is, my parents don't know and I still live with them. I go to college. Anyways so I loved barbies as a little girl and as I got to 12-13 my dad said I'm getting too old and has been bugging me to get ride of them. I didn't want to. My mom said the same thing. When I was 16 I stopped collecting and gave away the dolls I didn't want anymore. I still have 3 dolls from my childhood. I have 60 dolls now and they don't know. I'm afraid if they seem them, they'll criticize me and make me donate them to kids. Not that I'm being selfish. My friends and not even my best friend knows. I'm running out if room for my dolls. I've watch YouTube videos of some other Youtubers thay collect dolls and they're adults. Man I need to stop worrying what people think but I do. Help me please. Thank you |
Question: Husband mad that I'm sick. Wouldn't come help me.? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 10:36 AM PDT We've been married for 3 months. I was babysitting for a family overnight with a 10month old and a t year old and got food poisoning. I tried to tough it out but had a fever and was shaking and sweating. We live less than 5 minutes away so I called him to ask for help. He got upset and told me it wasn't a big deal and I needed to "be a big girl and suck it up" he was angry with me for jeprodizing getting paid for this job. I spent another hour puking in the bathroom trying to calm the crying baby and then their dig began pooping everywhere like.... everywhere. I called him again begging for his help and he told me he was coming. 45 minutes later I called a friend of their mothers to come help. She got there and hour later and he still hadnt showed up. She told me to go hime for the night and rest. I called him again and he told me to walk home and that he was tired and didn't wanna come get me, and how long his day was. And that he can't just come help me. I tried to call an uber but we live in a small town so no cars were available because we live in a very small town. I called again and he said he was coming and to 0lease be ready when he gets there. An hour later. I got lucky and an uber was availible and i got home around 4 throwing up on the way home and again when I got there. This morning he was acting like everything was fine and nothing had happened. But I feel very abandoned and upset. And I'm not sure what to do now. |
Question: How do I get my step dad to stop eating my food? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 10:10 AM PDT So if you know me, you know I love my food. Do. Not. Eat. What. I. Have. Period. I ve told him MANY TIMES NOT TO TAKE MY FOOD but it s getting ridiculous. Exhibit A: I got a large plate of General Tsos Chicken (my favorite) because I was stressed that day and wanted to drown my sorrows in some chicken, but he waltzes in acting all entitled over half the entire f*cking thing. And yes, I ve told him to back off, but he tell me to stop being greedy and share. Exhibit B: Ooooo this one really ground my gears... so I just finished a small portion of frozen hot wings (again, my favorite) and decided "HEY! I want some more wings since I only had 5 small ones" and went to go get the other package in my freezer that I knew I had. But when I got there, I couldn t find it. HMMM WHO THE F*CK TOOK IT, YOU ASK??!! STEP DAD ALERT!!! I walk over to him and ask where was my other package of wings. HE SAID HE ATE THEM!!!! I completely understandably get mad over it, but he comes at me with I bought it for you I deserved to have it! BULLSH*T! I WAS EXCITED FOR THOSE WINGS BUT YOU TORE UP MY DREAMS LIKE A F*CKING WEEDWHACKER! I m so tired of this please let me know how I can keep my food away from him because I like to eat and I have no more food left for me so I m sitting here hungry and craving those f*cking wings I had ripped from my grasp. Help. |
Posted: 03 Jun 2017 10:03 AM PDT I have a grandmother who is not well, she enjoys me coming over 3 times per week to clean and cook,etc. and my family never left the state they all live close by. I met my significant other on the gulf coast and his family lives there. It is quite amazing down there. I want to move there so badly, especially with the job opportunity. I am happy when I travel, I love adventure and I would love to move there. My family keeps saying they will be upset when I go and I do not know what to do or how to let them go without letting them down. Any advice would be much appreciated. |
Posted: 03 Jun 2017 10:02 AM PDT She works with a girl who is about 15. So my mom told her my name and everything, now she wants to meet me. I'm going into highschool and she wants to be friends. I don't want her going around telling everyone how my mom is a waitress or how 'poor' we are. My clothes are pretty expensive so people just assume i'm rich.. what should i do? |
Question: My family is trying to keep me from moving out? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 09:48 AM PDT Yes and it's stressing me and my mate out. It's affecting him because he has trust issues already. My plans were to move out before I met my current boyfriend. He feels that this is crazy- in how my family is responding to me moving out. I work in the medical field and I have a family of 3 kids. I can and will provide for my kids, I am grown and can survive. |
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Question: My parents don t let me go out or do... anything! WHAT DO I DO? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 09:08 AM PDT I am 14 years old, live just to the south of london, almost perfect grades in everything since the start of primary school. Never been involved in drugs or alcohol, so I don t see why I m not allowed to go out or do anything with friends. I ve tried all sorts of negotiations but nothing s good enough for my parents. The worst thing is they don t even have a reason for keeping me caged at home. They say its too dangerous even if there s a group of us, and that were only small children. But I m six foot two, and I don t see how I m ever going to get out of this depressing cage! |
Posted: 03 Jun 2017 08:52 AM PDT With grandma's parent's enthusiastic consent they got hitched and had a long happy marriage producing 6 kids and over a dozen grandchildren. My dilemma. This is obviously wrong because we know 13 year olds cannot consent...but for whatever reason it seems different because pedophiles like underage children. My grandfather just liked my grandma. He liked her as much as when she died at 89 as he liked her at 13. So, can the acceptance of their relationship just be passed off as simply as understanding that things were different back then? |
Posted: 03 Jun 2017 08:07 AM PDT either of them, i.e., you are not close with your sibling or anyone in their family. You haven't called or talked to them in a while because you don't have the closeness with them. No fight or anything. Basically neither party has taken initiative to develop a friendship/rapport or stay in touch. |
Posted: 03 Jun 2017 07:58 AM PDT I know it is only June but I found a present from my Dad that my Mom hid from last Christmas which is why I am bringing this up. So I am 15, a minor, so I cannot choose who to see. My mother forbids all contact with out Dad and our Dad will not fight for the right to see us so he is just as much at fault. He left my mother 4 years ago and has seen us only twice since. At Christmas I am aware all my Dad's family is gathering and I am forbidden from attending because my Dad is there and Mom doesn't let us see him. Christmas Day I am sometimes okay as we gather with my Mom's parents and her sister but the leadup from October on ward is miserable. Even my counselor has not been able to get through to my Mom or Dad. So I feel this sadness that I am an outsider in my Dad's life and in his extended family. I haven't even seen my paternal grandfather since my parents divorced. So what do I do? I just found the Christmas gift my Dad sent last year that my mother hid from me which is why I am bringing this up when it is only June. She gets mad everytime I bring this up and lists insults about him (my Dad). |
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Question: Should I buy a newer car or no?!? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 07:34 AM PDT So I was in an accident in March and my car ended up being totaled. My mom was fighting lung cancer for years and a week after my accident, she passed away. My family decided to give me her old 2004 cavalier, and I had to put maybe 600$ to get it running(it was sitting in driveway for 5+ years). I feel weird driving it, I just think of my mom all the time and I feel like I need my own car. Is that a dumb way to feel? the car is paid off, but I guess I'm thinking of buying something newer. My family doesn't want me to because my mom would want me to drive hers, and because I'll save money without a car payment... |
Posted: 03 Jun 2017 07:19 AM PDT I want a dad my dad is not in my life I only have younger siblings my uncles don't talk to me I just want a male role model |
Posted: 03 Jun 2017 07:15 AM PDT Mommy made us move out with her and now all Daddy does is drink. I am 11 and it makes me sad not to have a daddy anymore. Daddy is an alcoholic and so Mommy says that makes him mean and it isn't really him. But he won;t see me anymore because Mommy only lets him when he isn't drinking alcohol and that was only once, he is what they call drunk all the time otherwise. Drunk means when you have had too much beer to be nice. I am on Mommys account, she said I can ask this but I can;'t show her name. Please tell me how to get Daddy to like me again and not drink beer. |
Question: Why would my teenage friends find my 22 yrs old brother hot and sexy? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 06:31 AM PDT My friends are aged 14 to 16 and my brother is 22 yrs old. All my friends think he's hot. Ewww. I'm his sister. How come I don't even find him attractive?? |
Posted: 03 Jun 2017 06:15 AM PDT I wasn't a perfect father, but there was no abuse. They were indulged, spoiled. I did most of the parenting alone when they were young. They are now highly educated and well employed young men in their early 30's. Pissed that I divorced their mother when they were little. A list of other excuses. Grandchild is off limits. Half of me thinks I should keep trying; half of me thinks to hell with them, if that's their preference. Relationships are two-way streets. |
Posted: 03 Jun 2017 05:53 AM PDT Edit She punishes me because her Dad is an alcoholic. All my cousins were going to be at a party for my aunt's birthday Thursday night. My brother and I are the only ones not there. My Mom grounds us from going because her Dad is there who is an alcoholic. He never hurts anyone, he just gets moody like my teachers sometimes do. I am 13 and have been grounded from family events for five years now since my Mom decided to punish us for her father's drinking by grounding us from any family event he is at. We have only twice seen him in the last 5 years and once my Mom made us leave before we could say hi to him. Mom bragged about it all day yesterday. I feel so guilty that I am the only grandson along with my brother who is not allowed to have a relationship with him. W also seldom see our other cousins because my Mom is so mean this way. I saw him drunk when I was younger all the time and it did not bother me even the time he called me a brat. My Mom says it is to protect us but she is a liar as it hurts me. Christmas is so sad because we can only see my Grandma and no one else in Mom's family. How do I get my Mom to grow up and stop being a bully? And don't say "there might be more to the story" as my mother is a big mouth and she tells us everything, way too much. He is not dangerous at all and she lets us see her uncle on her mother's side at holidays and he drinks too much. How do I get my Mom to grow the hell up and stop punishing us for what someone else does? Plus she went to something he was at last night, a company party, and again our cousins were there but we were grounded because he drinks too much. Thursday nights event I especially wanted to go to, last nights wasn't as big a deal. She sees him but we aren't allowed to when we like him and she is the one with the bias against him. I don't get it. She (Mom) is the one with the problem not us. And his problem (her father) has no effect on us and we don't mind. |
Question: If I decide I am not ready to be a mother who would I tell and what would happen? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 04:27 AM PDT I am 21 yr old I been dating this man for a few years so ya.sex happens I got knocked up and decided it was gonna be kept. Anyhoo he started being a cheater once he found out he was going to be a father I wanted an abortion (or at least adopted out) but he used my lack of knowledge against me threats pretty much forced me to have the child stick around his cheating never stopped the whole time or alcoholic habits being a complete irresponsible fool. Okay so I tried to stick parenting out even though I have anxiety depression bipolar lot of issues that I guess would be considered not fit to be a parent but still i tried. still his family treats me like **** he never stops cheating or drinking. His family are alcoholic too and my family isn't involved because I don't have a real family never met them once I was adopted and the family I was adopted to aren't involved either for many reason. Okay I decided this parenting isn't for me that I'm not really fit but I am scared to say anything because I was told "ur not allowed 2feel that way even if you're not ready once you have a kid u have to deal with it because you can get arrested for feeling that way or put in a mental hospital the rest of ur life" I don't see how it's a crime anyway... but a midwife told me that I never hurt the baby or neglect or abandon.I don't know what to believe is what she say true? Anyway who do I tell about this what will happen? If the alcoholic habits came up from the father what would happen too? |
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Posted: 03 Jun 2017 01:14 AM PDT No phone call or nothing to follow up to see how I was doing. |
Question: Should I tell my dad about my anxiety? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 12:59 AM PDT I do want to tell my dad about my anxiety, but I'm nervous that he'll probs just say there's nothing wrong with me and to just carry on |
Question: 8pm curfew for a 19yo? Posted: 02 Jun 2017 10:58 PM PDT I'm 19, heading on to 20 in August. My curfew is 8pm. I'm such a good kid, my parents own a business and I'm the past 2 days I worked 33 hours. Yesterday was 7am-12am. Today was 7am-10pm. They own a bakery lol. And I got paid $180 for 33 hours. Yet no matter how much I invest my time into their business they're so strict and should cut me some slack. I even recently graduated from my community college this month and will be transferring to a four year in the fall. Oh yeah, they have a gps tracker on my phone. My mom said she doesn't want me out late but 8 is so early lol even since summer is here. So that's why I don't know what's the big deal if I stay out till say 10, because since they have the app, they would know where I'm at regardless. I'm Asian btw lol |
Question: My dad is drunk and i need help? Posted: 02 Jun 2017 10:43 PM PDT My dad is an alcoholic and he just got divorced, plus he thinks he's been cheated on and he's depressed. He gets really emotional when he's drunk, and then he gets tired and stumbles around and runs into things and fall and gets mad. I have to baby him and deal with him every night and I get scared sometimes, and now my friend is spending the night and we're both scared. We want to leave, but I don't want to leave my cat behind. I know it sounds stupid but i don't want him to hurt her accidentally or something. My friend said to keep her in my car but that wouldn't work. I don't like the situation I'm in and I'm scared. He tried to get in and asked why the door was locked and I played it off like an accident. He's not mean to me when he's angry, he just gets really angry when he's drunk and does drunk things. I want to leave to my friend's house but I'm scared he'll get hurt or freak out if he wakes up and can't find me. What should I do? Please help :/ thank you! |
Question: I'm 19, and I'm tired of being treated like a child? Any input on this? Posted: 02 Jun 2017 10:31 PM PDT I'm a 19 years old male, my sisters are both in their mid-20s. I was somewhat spoiled as a child, but was still given discipline for bad behaviour. Now, because I'm the youngest, and the only son, my parents I guess haven't absorbed the fact that I'm a young adult. I'm going to school, searching for a job after I lost my previous job from an injury. My parents know I'm an adult, but they still take me as their little baby. At the same time, they don't take me serious. It is driving me absolutely nuts! I plan to work a lot during the summer, and hopefully save up enough by September when I'll be starting school, and can continues part-time and settle my life. Buy a nice car. My cousins are mechanics, so one of my whom I'm close with, already told me which cars to select. So he's helping me out. However, I still want to live with my family to support them. But at this point, there's nothing I can do until I gain employment. I want to know what the real world is like, I don't know where to start though. I'm lost. My family doesn't share news with me, but they share it with each other. Just the way they treat me, makes me not want to be around them. Even my cousins who treat me like an adult, I feel honored to experience such a change, versus my family. My parents always talk to my sister like adults, and vice versa. With me, my dad tells me things that are common sense, like learning to buy groceries at 19. I drink two cups of coffee a day, my dad tells me I'm still a kid. When a relative tells me something personal, my sisters tell me they shouldn't be sharing such things with me. My family never mention any news with me, but they do with everyone else in my family. Everyone knew about something that happened with one of my relatives that I overheard from my sister telling my dad while I was minding my own business. I want a bit of separation from my family, to experience the world as an adult, and not have this boundary they've given me. To understand life. ALSO, my cousins who are in their 30's are exposing me to the real world, they treat me like an adult. They tell me personal stories, I tell them personal experiences I've had and so on. But being with my parents and sisters, its difficult for me to grow up as a young adult and develop. They just push me down and simply not take me as an adult. |
Question: How do I thank my grandparents for a car? Posted: 02 Jun 2017 10:20 PM PDT So my grandparents gave me one of their old cars. It's a 2007 Toyota, great shape under 30,000 miles. But I was speechless when I got it. And my dad called for me and I thank them for it. But I didn't sound excited. So now I kind of need some advice. Plus out of their 12 grandkids they gave me the car. Nothing compares to that, idk what I ever did to deserve either. HELP ME PLEASE!!! |
Question: Was I wrong for not giving my dad money? Posted: 02 Jun 2017 10:12 PM PDT So, my mom gave me about 20 dollars to go to the store and buy some things. my dad comes along and tries to take more then half of my money because he's broke. Every time I have money or he knows that I have pocket money my dad tries to take some and most of the time wants to take more than half of what my mom gave me. It's supposed to be my money. Mom already gives him money when he needs it though so I find it weird that he even asked me for money. :/ I mean, I like to save up money, I'm only 17 after all. I think after that he said something about him buying me something expensive as a kid and how i should be giving him something. So, was I wrong by not giving him anything? ( he wanted to buy some groceries) |
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Question: How can I stop my parents from taking money from me? I m 22? Posted: 02 Jun 2017 09:23 PM PDT I home from college for the summer and I ve come home to very angry parents. My brother still lives with them 2 years after he dropped out but he can do no wrong. They blame me for things I didn t do, call me lazy for not having a job after being home 1 week, and have starting taking large sums of $ from my account. for occasional swear words (used as excited adjectives, never meanly) and basically everything i don t do the second the want it done. I am 22 and too old for them to randomly start "parenting" and for them to treat me this disrespectfully. The problem is if i make the account solely in my name they say they will stop giving me money for tuition. It is blatant manipulation. My brother constantly does disrespectful things just not when my parents are watching and when I bring it up to them it is apparently "deflecting". idk if I can last two more months in this house. How can I make my parents realise this behaviour isn t ok and that I am an adult who needs to be shown respect. Everytime I mention it they threaten to take even more out of my bank account. I don t have a lot of $ to start with and what i do have is going toward paying off bills. |
Posted: 02 Jun 2017 09:21 PM PDT Is unfriending them setting them free? |
Question: Can someone help me find my great grandfathers younger brother? Posted: 02 Jun 2017 09:19 PM PDT I have a challenge for you that is going to be hard My great great grandfather had a brother that was named Joel "Or Joseph" B. Ellington Who's parents were Joel Ellington 1816–1892 & Sarah Winfred Brownie Ellington 1825–1902 The problem is We can not figure out when Joel B. Ellington Died and to make it worse the is another Ellington from the Same area with a similer name Joseph Emerson Brown Ellington 1858–1931 BIRTH 30 JANUARY 1858 • Newton, Georgia, United States DEATH 7 JANUARY 1931 • Newton, Georgia, United States His Parents Are James Ellington and Mary Johnson Joel and Joseph's father were 1st cousins and they lived close to one another I do not believe Joel Brown Ellington got married but Joseph Emerson Brown Ellington did and Had a large family! Can someone help me get CORRECT information on Joel B.Ellington so we can figure out when he died and where he is buried! I forgot to add that Joel Brown Ellington(March 1857-1917?) HE was alive in December 1916 when my great grandfather Sidney Ross Ellington died but is not mentions in his brother William Archibald Ellington's obit from January 1918 Joel Brown Ellington always lived with his brother Robert Lee Ellington as a border! |
Question: Can you help me find my great grandfathers brothers!? Posted: 02 Jun 2017 09:17 PM PDT I have a challenge for you that is going to be hard My great great grandfather had a brother that was named Joel "Or Joseph" B. Ellington Who's parents were Joel Ellington 1816–1892 & Sarah Winfred Brownie Ellington 1825–1902 The problem is We can not figure out when Joel B. Ellington Died and to make it worse the is another Ellington from the Same area with a similer name Joseph Emerson Brown Ellington 1858–1931 BIRTH 30 JANUARY 1858 • Newton, Georgia, United States DEATH 7 JANUARY 1931 • Newton, Georgia, United States His Parents Are James Ellington and Mary Johnson Joel and Joseph s father were 1st cousins and they lived close to one another I do not believe Joel B Ellington got married but Joseph Emerson Brown Ellington did and Had a large family! Can someone help me get CORRECT information on Joel B.Ellington so we can figure out when he died and where he is buried! |
Question: Should I call 911?? (Part 2)? Posted: 02 Jun 2017 08:55 PM PDT After about 1 month, me and him broke up. He didn't speak to me for TWO WEEKS TO THIS DAY! I've lost it, with my anxiety and depression and all, I just had to contact one of his folks. First I went so his sister. She blocked me. Then I went to his mother. Bad idea. She laughed at me (in text), and then I asked her look at it in my shoes (since that's what she done to me several times). Then, she blamed ME for his health over here. She has given me HELL in STRESS VERSION! I wanna call the cops on her so badly, but I don't know if that would be "appropriate" given she's not my parent. But it really feels like she's been emotionally abusing me for almost a year now, and I'm honestly sick and tired of it. |
Question: Nobody clapped for me and I am upset, how do I get over it? Posted: 02 Jun 2017 08:49 PM PDT I was graduating, and I felt very proud of myself. I ve always had anxiety and panic attacks but I chose to go to the ceremony for my award. When my name got called up, nobody clapped for me Not even my family. I was super embaressed and I feel so upset and anxious right now. When it ended and I got to my family, my brothers laughed at me and ruined the bit of self esteem I had left Everyone clapped for him...Has this happened to anyone else? Please don t laugh How do I deal with this |
Question: Generations go by, don't they ? lol? Posted: 02 Jun 2017 08:45 PM PDT I was talking to my neighbor, showing her photographs of my family.. I said that this is the second previous generation of my family to be gone... All 4 of my grandparents representing, just about the 1930s are gone... And now my parents, who had their prime in the 60s / 70s are gone. I said... But why.... Just how long ago is the 60s / 70s ? She said, cold hard truth is, its long enough for somebody who was in their prime in those days, to be dead, or considering life insurance, for their now 40 year old children to benefit from. They had you much too late in their lives, and I'm sorry about what some people do to their kids, not even knowing they're doing it. :P |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2017 07:56 PM PDT So im grounded because back in october i went out with a bunch of my friends and "celebrated my bday" and i smoked weed and took a couple ADHD pills & a couple weeks later stole my dads car and he found out about both these things and basically said i was going to be grounded forever. He took my phone, TV, school laptop, and anything else electronic or anything i could possibly have fun with and basically said i was not allowed to go anywhere or see anyone outside of school. Since then i've gotten very depressed, i never come out of my room except for to eat, and i feel like i have nothing and nobody. I know this sounds dramatic but I feel like he's taken my life from me.. because thinking about it, sitting in your room all day crying and watching TV isn't really living. (I did get my TV back a couple months ago but still no phone). A couple weeks ago i also started smoking weed more (like every day) (because i was like really depressed and thinking about running away and just bad thoughts like that), but so he found out about the smoking and wasn't toooo mad but he basically told me to stop because if i got caught the government could "take his house" or something like that. but anyway, i need help because nothing i do or say is changing his mind and if I don't get ungrounded soon or at least get my phone back i'm going to run away. and i really don't want to because i hate when people worry about me, but honestly things are so bad at home and i have to do something |
Question: Moving out my mother's house soon? Posted: 02 Jun 2017 07:39 PM PDT Yes, I am a single mom of 3 and I am planning on moving out my mother's house soon. Before the end of the summer. I give my mom rent money and light bill money plus she uses my kids on her assistance. She feels like I am trying to take over her home. Which I am not, trying to help my mom because she doesn't have an income. When I do make plans of moving, my family tries to interfer and back me out my plans. My boyfriend and I have been dating almost 6 months however seeking my own place for me and my kids. The minute my family knows I am trying to move out they encourage me not too! I'm 29 almost !! Do I just leave and not say nothing to them at all? |
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