Me and my wife have been together for several years. However, last year she decided to go to college. She decided not to go to a local college because they didn't have her major. So she stays in the dorms at the college which is about an 12 hour drive away from me. So we don't seee each other much anymore. Since she started, she has been hanging with a lot of guys and even going out to the bars with them every Friday and Saturday night. She usually hangs out with 3-4 other guys. She gets drunk with them and when they aren't drinking they just drive around at night. Now my question is... would you be upset if your significant other spent all this time with multiple people of the opposite sex? She stays in the car just "listening to music" every night until midnight... Every time I mention that this is wrong for our marriage she says that I am controlling and just claims... oh they are just friends so stop. So I am trying to see how many people think I am controlling and how many people think she is doing something wrong towards our marriage? Should I be worried? I am just trying to get other people's opinions to know whether I am over reacting or if she is doing something unethical. So please if your significant other was doing this would you be upset or no? Inputs... TIA!

Please don't judge me. This is hard enough as it is. I have fallen for this man whom I used to loathe. He's married and has a family. He used to be my boss and was such a pain in the butt to work for and with. Towards the last few months of his employment there, I finally began to get to know him and now we're friends. He was always flirty with me, although I took it sometimes as him being a jerk. After he found a new job and left, he invited me to his church. He said he had been wanting to invite me for a while and was glad he finally did. I've been every Sunday for like 4 weeks now. His family stays upstairs in the daycare area while he attends the main service and I usually go with a mutual friend or my mother, but he's told me I can come by myself before, meaning just the two of us sitting together. I recently posted a status saying "I deserve better. Agreed, friends?" and he commented with a gif of Melissa McCarthy making a heart with her hands. Today, we were talking with a mutual (guy) friend at church and he was standing with one leg on the floor and the other leg on the chair, drawing attention to his crotch. He was also standing really close to me and staring deep into my eyes and being flirty. Even when he'd get distracted by other people coming up to talk to him, he'd come back and be staring right at me whether I was talking or not. What do I do? I love this church and I am his guest, technically, so I can't not say hello when I am there. I'm 26, he's 37. By the way, he's apparently always had more female friends than male friends, if that means anything. Somehow, his wife is okay with this lol. Also, when I had officially met his wife at church, it took him a few minutes of her being around before he'd finally acknowledge her and introduce us, but she called while we were talking today and he took the call.

My ex husband and I share custody of our 7 year old daughter, and we are on friendly terms (for the most part). We both have also moved on and married other people. Recently, my ex and his current wife threw my daughter a birthday party, and they invited my husband and me. My husband and I attended and had a good time until sh*t hit the fan. My ex and his current wife were expecting a baby, and she went into labor during my daughter's party. That meant they had to send the guests home early and the rest of my daughter's party was completely canceled. My daughter was upset, but I explained to her the situation was out of everybody's control. I then drove her to the hospital to meet her new baby brother, and she was less than thrilled. When she saw him, she said "thanks for ruining my party," and my ex told her she was being selfish and shallow. He then punished her by taking away her computer privileges for three weeks. She is supposed to be staying with me during part of those three weeks, and he demanded that I follow through with the punishment when she is with me. I told him that I don't think I should have to because he makes the rules at his house, and I make the rules at my house. I also added that I wasn't offended by what she did because it wasn't my child. He then said that was a selfish and narrow-minded way to look at it, and states that that is where our daughter gets it from. Who is right?

My wife is pregnant she gets upset very easily and cries a lot. She even cries when we make love. She was already depressed before she got pregnant she's been depressed the last 5 years we haven't been together or married that long. Me and her have been together since Easter. She told me she's been depressed for a while now that she's pregnant it's worse. I love her to death. I worry about her. How can I help her through this ? What should I say to her ?

Husb and I are both 32.Married 12 yrs and have a child.Husb has been employed about 1/2 that time.i work, come home and nothing has been done around the house,so I end up doing it.The part of the day he most looks forward to is watching a show or 2 with me after our son goes to bed.Half the time I just go to bed but then he gets all depressed/angry so I just stay up.I go to bed about 12am then and wake up at 545 am.We were having a convo and he asked if I loved him. I said yes.He asked if I was in love with him and I couldn't answer that.I have felt more like roommates/friends the last 5 yrs.I have a lot of built up resentment w/him not working & taking me for granted.I don't feel sexually attracted to him anymore either.I do feel bad/selfish for contemplating a trial separation.He has always had very taste and that has always been a point of contention.He said he's been thinking& realized how much he took me for granted and said none of that material stuff matters more than me. He's started looking for jobs more seriously and applying but part of me thinks it's just to little too late.The last 6 yrs we had to move in with his parents since I can't afford everything on my own. They do have bad backs & what not, so we do outdoor work,but i usually ends up doing it.I'm just looking for other opinions on staying or trial separation.I feel selfish since we have a child but I also want to find some someone that can be a team financially(want to feel like I'm being taken care of)

When a men is happy in a relationship hollow does he show love, and when a women is happy how does she show love? My mom shows love for her husband by cooking for him, and complimenting him. He shows love for her by spending time with her and helping clean although he is clean anyways. He suggest different things to do like watch movies or go out to eat... Please go into detail.

Her husband is very rich.

Kinda weird how the people who are so vocal against Sharia law are okay with some of its practices. They also sent Christian missionaries to Uganda and pushed Uganda to kill homosexuals. https://www.nytimes.com/2017/05/26/opinion/sunday/it-was-forced-on-me-child-marriage-in-the-us.html

I've been in the middle of it for all of my 16 years and I feel like I can't take it anymore. They are good parents but it's really hard because they really hate each other and I hate feeling like I'm the reason for it. I was an unplanned baby and my parents rushed into marriage and have only stayed together for me, but I almost wish they would just get a divorce. I know neither of them are happy and it's causing me to feel very depressed. I don't feel like I have anyone to talk to that would understand so I would appreciate any advice here.

We've been arguing on and off but I've tried my best to make it better. At this point, we had been on good terms for a couple weeks, just started having sex again..I woke up and made her breakfast this morning.. Then mid-way through me telling her a story about a friend who has his own business, she interrupts and says "I need to talk to you..." Long story short, She dumps me. She says she doesn't want to be with me anymore. She tried to use excuses and I told her that they didnt make sense. She agreed but gave no explanation. And now she seems extremely happy that we're not together.

My husband was away for military training and got nudes from a young girl from California, he says he reported them as spam and went on about his business. Later that day he got a call from her "dad" saying he was gonna get him for rape unless he sent him $1500 thru paypal. He said if my husband pays it'll go away... do you think this is a scam or did my husband talk to this girl? My husband has already sent money, he says he doesnt want it to affect his military career...what do i do?

so why should women get married?

Question, I m 14 days away from getting married and I ve got cold feet. We have been talking about getting married and he says he is so excited and paints this beautiful picture of our future. Quite honestly it scares me. I m scared of what I don t know. When we were talking he said a comment that really turned me off. He says I ll soon be his, his property. I corrected him and said I an your partner and I will be because I choose to be. He laughed it off and continued to say that I ll be all of his. Any idea where this is coming from? I d like a strangers opinion, I feel uneasy to ask any family or friends. Thanks in advance!

My girlfriend of 5 years and I are both 28; I run my own business. I want to marry her, but she's given me an ultimatum that I must get engaged now and marry in 2018 or she'll end it with me. I'm not emotionally or financially ready for this and have asked her to wait until 2019. She is very stubborn and she and her parents don't want an extended engagement period. I'm afraid if I don't agree I'll lose her. I'm willing to propose, but getting married when I'm not ready doesn't make sense. Her friends and sister all agree with her ultimatum. I've tried to reason and compromise with her but she won't budge. I haven't turned to my friends and family as I'm afraid they'll judge her.

My daughter is 13. She is going through puberty and knows all about sex and masturbation. I walked into her room and her door was open. She was on the floor naked using a vibrator that my wife has.

Makes no sense to me, why cant u just accept that he is close to his Momma and not interfere NEGATIVELY with their family dynamics. You act like he is cheating on you! Like he is incapable of loving u and his "Mammy" You would be better served if u understood that the more people who love ur family, the better off u are and that includes "mommy dearest" Why are u so jealous of him liking his Mum so much, Why cant u be an asset to the family verses always making things difficult. U love ur man so much, he has so many great qualities, well, where do u think he learned that...MOMMA! Why are u gelous of her? Please help me to understand, and please dont come back with all these negative things that Mommy does, if u do-- make sure u explain the negative things u do also. I AM ASKING FOR A FRIEND...Thank you for helping him to understand. God bless u all! some people around here can't read, (stage 5 cancer) This is NOT my questions, I dont have kids, so my sons wife cant think i am annoying or hate me, if i ever get a daughter in law who hates me t will be her loss. And some of u (bunny) u always seem defencing and ready to battle. Im not here to pick on u, i just wanna know why ur so jelouse of ur MIL's...thats all.

I've been seeing this guy who I've come to really love over these past 3 years or so, and our relationship has progressed to the point where we've started discussing marriage and kids, however I'm kinda facing this dilemma and I really don't know what to do about it; I've been raised Catholic and even though I'm by no means hardcore religious I still hold some core beliefs, my boyfriend, on the other hand, is Jewish and I'm pretty sure he's expecting me to convert to Judaism after we get married and especially after we have kids. It's honestly such a problem for me because even though I'm not anti-semitic I still really don't want to change who I am, it doesn't matter what religion, I just want to stay true to what I believe in and not change myself just because I got married to someone. I don't even want to change my name, I want to keep my last name. I've just never understood why you have to change yourself and your name and your religion just because you got married? The concept has always highly frustrated me but I've always put off thinking about it until I myself actually had to seriously think it through for myself; that time is right now and I just really don't know what to do? Honestly what if he thinks I don't love him?

Arranged marriage. 5 years. One 4 year old kid. Before marriage, we made out well (i think she pretended to enjoy physical relations because she wanted to get married to me as i belong to higher social status than her). IMMEDIATELY After marriage all i heard were excuses. We had sex during honeymoon and that was it, then no sex for 2 years, she created this theory that baby inside will be hurt(1st yr) and then she said her body has to heal(2nd yr). All bullshit. She doesn't even sit with me while watching TV. All 24 hours she is with our daughter. Our nightly sex is more like a rape where she seems to fulfill her duty. She knows i have a high drive. If i could i would have sex 1-2 times daily. If she had her way she would never have sex. What to do about this incompatibility? She has a very nice job and both of us together have several financial investments. Divorce will be tough it'll be a financial loss. Should i just keep hooking up with girls online and cheat or just masturbate for the rest of my life? What a big **** i got myself into. She is happy to stay married and enjoy the social status while she has no interest in me. She is also not cheating i did spy on her calls/text for a long long time. She is just a psycho. What can i do now? Another important point here is that i am quite attractive and have always had very good success with girls except for my psycho wife. As i type this, the witch is playing puzzle with daughter and it's 4:16pm and no breakfast and no lunch yet. fml

Me and my wife are a young couple. We were in our living room before breakfast watching a movie. I was naked and my wife was topless and only had on a g string. Well long story short our neighbors from across the street rang our doorbell and looked in the side window. They clearly saw us and we had no where to hide so my wife grabbed a blanket and covered up and answered the door. They seemed pretty surprised and didn't stay at the door for too long. Me and my wife are a bit petrified not to mention embarrassed. Do they think we're weird?

Can she control herself after marraige n can she be satisfied with one single mAn though the rest of her life? If so, what will make her change or how will she control after getting habituated with ONS's? Can she control herself for sometimes if the husband happen to go through tough times due to work stress Or will that lead her to cheating ?

I have thought about telling my husband I am leaving him just to see how hard he'll fight to get me back. Has anyone else ever done this? He's actually a really good guy, but he works too much, he's not always emotionally available, and his housekeeping skills are terrible. I want to see how hard he'll fight for me.

She was taking those naked pictures with 4 guys. Everyone was naked and 2 pictures were about she was doing oral for guys. She said she lost bet when playing games with them and insisted that oral was not sex so she was not cheating. I then mentioned about last 2 pictures with vagina with tons of sperm bursting out. She said that was pictures online and not hers but i said i recognized her tatoo from her inner thigh. She was shocked for a moment and said it wss photoshopped and fake. She then started blaming me screening her phone and i blamed her never taking me out when meeting her friends, then she started yelling at me about how boring i was and her friends would think I was conservative and act like a douchebag. It is a shame to bring me there and said the entire argument just proved that i was a conservative loser and lack of confidence, if i really think oral is considered cheating she can have one of her female friends to do oral for me or even real sex to get even. She won't care because she is liberal and open minded. Does that mean she will keep doing oral for guys as long as that is not cheating to her? I am confused now, and i am unsure if those 2 creampie pictures were hers though she said it was online picture.

Let's face it, in 2017 no one stays together forever anymore.

Hiroko Gesiha married new husband and they had sex now she think that she is pregnant

He works as an engineer. The money he makes should be plenty, but he always gambles half of it away. What should I do?

My boyfriend and I were having problems so I confided in a guy friend about it. In return some of the things that were said about my boyfriend via text were things if he saw them Im sure would be hurtful and he wouldn't like because it was private stuff and the convo seemed negative about him(like it painted him in a bad light) and my guy friend was certainly not defending my boyfriend. Was it wrong for me to do this and should I tell him?

I was friends with my ex husband's friend before I married my ex

every year for the last 27 years I have made a wish to find someone to spend my life with and in 12 days I get to make that wish again....but its starting to get to where I feel its not worth making a wish that may never come true. Real Love does not exist out in this world anymore and the more I look at what people have done to love and marriage the more it scares me to think that i would have to give into stuff like Open marriage or Open relationships and pretty much Ive had people tell me the love i believe in dont exist anymore and its like a bullet to the heart at times. lol woops i should have said i was a dude.....thats what i get for posting something just as i woke up

The most I get out of this is I need to move on lol.

Background: My dad has had to pay child support towards me by order of the court for more than 10 years, he is currently getting divorced (with his 2nd wife which isn't my mother) and he's telling me that he can no longer pay for child support because lawyers are watching his expenses.

But just in general :p :p

Husband and wife used to share everything over the years as they never hid anything from each other. They shared the same email and kept the same password. The last 7 years out of 18 years of being together and sharing everything the husband now gets mad at wife for reading emails and tells her she is being snooping and now he has a secret emails and he has a password she is not allowed to have. Is husband hiding something or does he now have the right to have his own privacy after 18 years? Granted she still has the same email and password and her phone does not have a password from her husband. Husband had 2 wives before and he was cheating on both of them. He has been very rude and not very nice to her lately he even acts like he has been up to no good. He also accused her of cheating on his for 7 years and that stopped after she saw a naked picture of himself on his phone and another girls phone text he forgot to delete. He also has a secret phone he denying as he used to call his wife princess to baby and now he calls her crazy and she needs help all because she asked him if he is cheating on her. Do you think she has something to fear or is she being nosy?

I am 25 and have a private relationship with a 16 year-old girl. It was her decission to marry me. We both run her family's bar and I serve as a bouncer and bartender. She cooks very good, another reason I am looking forward to the marriage

We are both 25.We've only been married for 7 months (been together for 2 years).We have 2 kids. For the past 5 months he just isnt interested in sex anymore.He also doesnt have that"desire"for me anymore. To start we had sex at least everyday.Things slowed down,but we still had sex at least every other day.Now,Im lucky if I can convince him to have sex with me 2x a week;and it's like he just goes through the motions and doesnt really want to be doing it.Our sex life would be nil if I didnt initiate. Weve had heart to heart conversations.We have even debated ending our marriage over this.For fear of"emasculating"him Ive stopped saying anything about it. I've spent a lot of time looking around the internet for answers -Hes not cheating -Stress:honestly,weve had financial stress since the beginning.But things had gotten better for us a few months ago and our sex life still continues to suck. -Health:We've both gained weight(40lbs each).I had a baby 9 months ago.I still find him just as attractive.He claims to still find me attractive.A month ago we both decided to start getting in shape.To improve our health and his libido.He stuck to it for 3 days,Im still with it.This makes me feel like he just really doesnt even care. It hurts my feelings and breaks my heart.We have an otherwise great relationship and are best friends.Sometimes I feel like maybe I should just suffer in silence for the sake of our marriage.But,this issue is becoming a major one.