Me and my husband have been married for 8 years we have three children. He is from Egypt but he is Coptic christian. He has been driving for Uber for the last year and a half. Well recently he has been throwing comments like "I'll go home and take my kids with me" and tells me if I leave he will make my life a living hell and make sure I never see them again. In the last six months he has been increasingly making my life hell. He refused to go to work until I clean out his car. He thinks I should have to deal with Uber when there are complaints to be made about customers or if customers are complaining. He literally freaks out because people do sexual things in his car and it has gotten to the point where I had to but him a seat cover for his seat. Buckle his belt behind his seat and use Lysol to disinfect the steering wheel and his stuff in the car. I had to spray it with rubbing alcohol and he wanted latex gloves to drive while wearing a heavy wool coat in 95 degree weather. I think it's nuts. And that's only the crap he does relating to his job. He's a bad father. He yells at me and the kids over very minor things. He gets mad at my daughter cause she likes Nana's house. he hates my mother because she tried to give him advice he didn't like. He and I quote "will make my parents beg to see the kids". Frankly I want out. But I'm scared he will come and take the kids while I'm at work. I dont know what I'm supposed to do or how to do it.

My sis is bi, moatly lesbian. Shes dating this girl living several states away who is from here, but the girl is married to a guy in the navy. My sis says the girl is divorcing her husband and moving here to be with her. I just don't know, the girl still wears her ring, spends time with her husband, and other stuff thats makes me think shes not divorcing him. Im afraid for my sister. The girl is down here visiting and spent time with my sister, but the girl slso went to spend time with her husbands sister and called my sister her friend. Im not sure what to do, should i tell my sister to be cautious? Dont fully commit until she does divorce her husband?

A wedding just happened. The bride and her family treated her blood cousins like outsiders. They treated their blood uncle first wife like an outsider. Why? The blood cousins sued their late father s second wife and little child for.money. contested his will. The bride is the niece of this late uncle. Her father is the brother of this late uncle.

So I'm in the military and i take care of my husband who got out a year ago. He does the bare minimum since we got married. He was reserved while he was enlisted and I was still the main provider. He has the weird since of entitlement like he expects me to work, cook, and clean while he gets high, runs up the bills, and keeps the house a mess. I constantly tell him word for word what i'm feeling but he doesn't care so as long as his wants and needs get met he doesn't care how. So yesterday i got off work and when i came home the house looks gross and smells like cat litter and i got home about 1500 and he was still sleeping like wth get the **** up. He slept all night, then all morning, then was trying to sleep into the afternoon. So i tell him to wake up and do **** and he flips ****, he breaks my computer punches a hole in the door, closes all the windows, cuts the heater on and then locks me in the bedroom so i can't get out. He is screaming at the top of his lungs and grabs me by my injured arm that i just had surgery on and yanks it. So now i'm scared and don't know what to do. If i call the cops then i will lose everything and my unit with get involved and he will end up in prison. He needs help but i don't know how to help him. So i've been leaving to gym or to the park just to buy time so i don't have to be in the same place for long periods of time. He drives for uber and i start feeling sick with the thought that he will be coming home.

I just had my youngest son a few months ago. I was hitting 30 and got off my bc. My boyfriend thought it failed but I got off it secretly. We have two sons and I want him to show them to be good men. My boyfriend just turned 33 and I just turned 30. We have been in an off/on relationship since 2011. Our oldest son is 4 and our youngest is 4 months old. He said we can have a family without the legal part of marriage. We spoke about this before and he said he don't want to be married any time soon. He made me have an abortion before I had our oldest son. I want to have the big engagement ring, wedding and happily ever after. I love when we take family pictures together. I love showing friends and family we are a family. I just don't have his last name. I don't feel part of his family. I feel insecure. He never wanted a second baby but I wanted my kids with the same man. He says he doesn't believe in marriage but I think he doesn't believe in marriage with me. We fight a lot and break up/make up often. I feel our new baby will bring us closer and marrying and being a family will make us happy. How can I convince my boyfriend to make me his wife? His brother blocked me on IG after I cursed a girl who comment on a family pic that had my boyfriend in it with hearts. He moved into his own apartment as well at the end of May. We have never lived together, he has only stayed over my house to help with the boys.

I'm newly engaged to my fiance and I moved into his home and living with his parents. In our culture, we don't usually separate ourselves from our family after marriage. People are much more family oriented. And for right now, I'm sharing a room with him. He has a couple of other grown siblings as well and they all got their own rooms/floors. I used to have peace, privacy, quiet having the entire room to myself. Now I have absolutely no privacy. When I get off from work, my fiance would also be home within an hour. We stay in the room until dinner. Then after dinner, I go back to the room and I have no idea when he will just immediately barge in without warning. Sometimes i will be studying/reading and he would be siting there watching tv in the room or he will be snoring or trying to talk to me. I have no problem being close to my fiance but I feel I just lack space and privacy. I can't ever masturbate by myself without him being there. Besides this, his mother also barges in without knocking to drop off laundry or to talk to him. I wanna move out but all our money is put to funding the wedding. Our parents are too poor to pay for our wedding so we are footing the entire bill. I don't think we would have enough to move out immediately after that. Everytime I am in the room, he is also in the room. I just feel like I never get time to myself. Always being monitored in some way.

Honestly I can't fake a smile anymore I'm unhappy and when he sees me unhappy and I try to tell him the way he treat me is the reason why I'm upset hell just start another fight. My situation is not easy considering he lost his job we have one car and I've been working so much to come up with rent and bills. I'm only 22 and he's 27. I'm his first real relationship to last longer than 6 months and he knocked me up. We fight everyday if not more and I think he enjoys making me upset. He calls me lazy even when I come home from work and cook dinner for him. He doesn't care about my stress levels at all.. And he makes himself the victim all the time even tho me and my family have done everything to make life easier for him. We have everything for the baby and I'm only 19 weeks. We even have friends willing to pay for our diapers for the first year. He will apologize for being mean to me but it happens again the next day. Most nights we sleep in seperate rooms and he lets me go to bed in tears.. I tell him and he doesn't believe me. Will he ever mature? Will he appreciate me when I'm in my third trimester? Should we see counseling? I don't want to give up yet but I'm mentally exhausted and physically as well. I need a partner to build me up not put me down

Is he supposed to go? Are husbands and wives supposed to do something they don t like for each other?

I mean, they make more money than attorneys and engineers now, but are thought of as undateable as a construction worker

My wife and I have been married for almost two years now and we have a 3 month old son together. I also have a daughter from a previous relationship who does not have my last name and she has a son from her previous relationship that has her last name. Well when we had our son we decided to go ahead and give him her last name as well. When we originally got married she didn't want to change her last name because she didn't want her son to feel left out since he would still have her maiden name. Her sons father is not in the picture at all. My question is should I try to force my wife to take my last name?

My girlfriend just started a new job as a stripper and also works part time at Hooters. I don't mind her so much working at Hooters but the stripping bothers me. I don't want other guys seeing her naked body and having her grind on them. I told her she got 2 weeks to find a new job or I want out of the relationship & that only whores work at strip clubs. I said that while I was drunk & not thinking straight. She ended up crying all night and didn't show up to the club. So I'm pretty sure she got fired or replaced already. I feel kinda bad, but at the same I don't. Was I wrong

I really don t know how many nights I can cry myself to sleep. He lost his job and I ve been forced to come up with rent and all living costs which wouldn t be so hard if i had a better job but I only work part time in retail and I ve picked up more hours forcing me not to have days off weeks at a time. I m 19 weeks pregnant. im only 22 years old and he s 27. Most days I ve come home from work and if I try to relax I get called lazy. I cook dinner and then get called lazy if the dishes are dirty even tho I m the one who cleans them anyways . I get accused of cheating multiple times a day and he belittles me with horrible names. I don t know if he ll ever appreciate me and I feel as if my life is over and I m stuck with someone who will make my life miserable. I have no one to speak to about this and I literally have zero friends to confide in. Idk if anyone will actually give me good advice but maybe someone can relate to me or let me know that s it s just the hormones.

She doesn't have any proof. Except maybe the crazy voices on her head. She makes problems out of nowhere. How to deal with that?

Husband accidently found some of her prescriptions where she was dignosed with STD, n has been treating for it since b4 mrraige. Niw the husband may also have aquired it, n on confrontion she accept that she slept with numerous partners b4 marraige and got it from one of them. It it still 'past is pAst business'? Bcoz she has'nt cheated just lied just as woman lies about their partners n virginity n on getting caught they n ppl say "past is past',he should feel lucky she chose him, so here to should he feel himself lucky thAt she chose him among all the other partners ?

Please come back and show me you're well. Bring clippers and hair bleach. I cut my own sides and now i look like Jim Carey in dumb and dumber, lol

I think it might be good to point out facts to husband as he and are are having lots of problems. He knew how I felt about 1 marital topic when we got married. This is what I want to say " It's not like we didn't have other options. You could have married V (his previous girlfriend) because she wouldn't have cared as long as you provided your excellent income. I could have stayed single and had kids by myself like I originally planned. No one forced you to get married. " I'm not sure if this is considered fair fighting. digimutt- i never said I didn't. That is my point.

Me and my wife have been separated for the last two months and are talking more and more about divorce and looking at getting lawyers. We decided when we got married that she would be a stay at home mom and I would work. Now that we are separated she wants to go party and start working. With my job I am in Europe 1 to 2 weeks a month. I cannot look after a kid and I am not giving up my job to watch him. Can the judge force her to take full custody. There is no way in Hell I am going to quit my job. She does not want the majority of custody and there is not way in Hell I can quit my job where I make really GOOD money and get to travel to raise him.

I wanted to know if it is fine for a husband to know his wife's password and a wife to know his password to social media? Nothing to do with a lack of trust issue but just out of transparency and respect. Sometimes I just get curious to know my hubby's password, I trust him but I'm just a nosey person lol I'm the type of person who if you have a story to tell, I'd live to know the details simply because I feel great when people are open with me and I also love to return the favour of being open. Is it wrong to ask for my hubby's password? (I haven't yet) I feel that it may insult him or he may think I don't trust him but I swear that's not the case

What to say to your husband who lost both parents same month three days apart and still have trouble coping and they say all they want to do is see and talk to they parents again..

I have been married for only 6 months and my wife asked for a divorce. There had not been any infidelity that I m aware of. She said we rushed into this. I have been in a deep depression for a week now. I love her so much. In NC before I sign a separation agreement can I ask the courts for court ordered marriage counseling. I want this to work so bad. She went from being my best friend everyday to treating me like I have the plague.

Me and my husband have totally arranged marriage, that is no even talking before marroage... how much time it takes to be intimate with eachother? And what to expect on first day after marriage?

My husband and a friend went to for a few beers and lunch yesterday. My husband wasn't okay to drive, so he went to one of my friend's houses and stayed there until I got him. His friend went home; I never saw him. My husband said he had a bit more than him but he ate. I don't know this friend, I have heard of him, but I know he is married and has 2 kids. My husband and him are new acquaintances, so my husband doesn't know his wife either. I am extremely worried that maybe something happened to him. I don't like people driving after even 1 drink. I called the local police and they said there were no fatal accidents yesterday. My husband messaged him this morning and said "had a nice time yesterday buddy" and he said "had a great time". He also asked him a question about a charity even we are planning and the friend didn't answer. My anxiety is getting the best of me. What if my husband PRETENDED to text his friend but texted someone else knowing they would text back. I don't have his friends number, so I can't know for sure it is definitely him. I also asked him a question about our charity event on Facebook and he didn't respond, though my husband says he doesn't really use Facebook. I am worried that if this man did get into an accident after drinking with my husband, it is my husband's fault. The man is in his early 40s, so I know he is a big boy, but I am SO SO anxious. What do I do?!

I work at a car dealership recon center as a mechanic. There are only 2 females that work there and they are in the office. The rest are all male mechanics. About 4 months ago I was moved to customer care and had to work under one of the females as she was the customer service rep. She did call and text me on my personal phone but they were about customers except for one and it was from a time frame where I was in our parts department and she worked for another dealership. My wife found her number on our cell phone bill an began to freak out especially the number from last year. I honestly do not remember why she had to call me back then and I have explained this to my wife but she doesn't believe me. We have been married over 8 years and I adore my wife and would never do anything to hurt her or compromise our marriage. A couple of weeks ago I was moved back out to just working on the cars we sell and do not have to work with this woman any longer but my wife is still convinced that we have contact and that we have a friendship. Yes I do have to have contact with her on occasion but it is only work related or just a hi in passing. I want this past us but I do not know what else I can do to convince my wife that there has never or will never be anything but a work relationship and that my wife is my world. Please HELP!!!

I'm a 42 year old woman, bisexual, been married for 15 years, and have two children. I realized my sexuality in high school, and dated my girlfriend all through and after college. We were so much in love, and I thought we were going to be together. However about a year after we graduated, she got a job offer out of state, and I didn't want to leave my family behind, so we broke up. I was depressed for a long time afterwards. When I was 26, I met my husband and we got married a year later. I love this man, very much. However, about three weeks ago, I was at the gas station on my way home from work, and got the shock of my life when I ran into my ex-girlfriend at the next pump. She'd hardly changed a bit, same beautiful blonde hair, and a face/body to die for. Since we hadn't seen each other in nearly 20yrs, so she suggested we have dinner and catch up. The night we had dinner together, it all went real well, until she told me that she never stopped thinking about me, and what we had. She told me that even though the job worked out well, she made a big mistake letting me go. And I found myself longing for her when she said that. I haven't been able to get her out of my mind since that night. I know I'm married, but seeing her again after all these years, it's like nothing ever changed. I'm still in love with her. And I still want to be with her, just like I did then, but I don't want to leave my husband or my kids. What can I do/ how do I get rid of these feelings?

He's a good man but didn'ttry to make an effort to take me out... He says it's expensive but jumps at opportunities to do stuff with others. Like he's only once taken me to a nice restaurant and only went on one getaway with me yrs ago. But at home he generally shows attention. He's generally very attached to his mom. She's nice enough respectful, but of course it's hard to have her around when she constantly oversteps and assumes my place in my family. She's great to our boys and very generous but there are strings to it. Hubby can't tell her no and generally caters to her, but so do I. He says he loves her more than me but that he is crazy about me. I dunno. He just now took her on a once in a life time getaway... And I feel left out, jealous, and unimportant.I understand where he's coming from but on the other hand he's a mama's boy and in some ways very childish. It helped when we moved away from her but obviously is still there. Also he's much better looking than I and I feel bad about it. He reassures me but I know deep down he wishes I looked like a movie star. He sometimes lies to me about serious things, even though he does try to make up for it. I dunno. I think he deserves better and I do too. I honestly think a different woman would make him happy. Someone he was really crazy about but he says he only wants me and refuses to give up on us. I'm thinking of just getting divorced without telling him. I know it's cruel but I can't resist him otherwise. Please hel

My husband and I have been married for 11+ yrs. For most of it we lived far away from my family but very close to his. He s a decent husband, amazing father, and good guy, but I don t think he s truly in love with me. When we got married he didn t tell his friend for like 4 yes that we were married, just let then think we were dating. This was because they mocked me as a single mom. He never really invited me to hangout with them. He d just leave me at home to go do that stuff. He s pretty introverted though and said he and his buddies never really talked about it. It wasn t until they went through the same relationship stuff that he finally owned up to being my husband.