Friends: Question: Why does it feel my friend is always making excuses? |
- Question: Why does it feel my friend is always making excuses?
- Question: Do on and off relatioships and friendships get old?
- Question: I feel very embarrassed because my butt was showing in public?! (serious question)?
- Question: Is being lonely ok?
- Question: Moving across the country?
- Question: Trouble with friend groups?!?
- Question: Do I have low self esteem?
- Question: Why do I not have a color, while everyone else does in the mind of my best friend s?
- Question: My brother told his friend to be careful saying rude things about others to people, you can't be sure they won't tell them. Thoughts?
- Question: Should i go to this party ?
- Question: I am a teacher, and last week I heard a substitute tell his class that he is a multi-millionaire from investments he has? Thoughts?
- Question: There are 3 weirdos in my school who think we are friends. I am popular. This is damaging my reputation! What should I do?
- Question: What are your thoughts on this?
- Question: My friends feel left out and feel like I'm leading a "subconscious dictatorship" on them...?
- Question: What do you call this bullying?
- Question: Mi mejor amiga ya no me habla! Qué hago?
- Question: Meeting my friend's parents?
- Question: Keep getting hurt worse and worse in both friendships and relationships, is it unreasonable to be a hermit for some time to recover?
- Question: Are my next three years of high school gonna be terrible ?
- Question: Why is my "friend" all of the sudden invinting me to hangout?
- Question: I wanna move schools?
- Question: My 15 year old does not hang out with other young teens - should I be worried?
- Question: Why won't this girl who I don't consider my friend anymore leave me alone?
- Question: Should I confront her, or let it go?
- Question: Will she ever see me as a friend again?????
- Question: Should I say something, or let it go?
- Question: Why do people feel the desire to share their whole lives on Snapchat?
- Question: I hate my friend?
- Question: My underage friend is going out with an over age guy?
- Question: Should i help someone that never helps me?
- Question: How do I tell my childhood best friend of 17 years that she smells bad?
- Question: How to make friends when you're really awkward?
- Question: How can i find friend in yahoo?
- Question: 23 and panicking about getting old!??!?!?
- Question: Ladies, would you ever take a guy friend lingerie shopping with you? Guys, would you be okay if asked?
- Question: My friend is mad im not going to prom?
- Question: When to ask about promotion again?
- Question: I always think i m annoying when i watch myself on camera, but when i don t watch myself on camera i think i m just fine?
- Question: Is it my best friend's fault that everybody found out?
- Question: Would I get caught sneaking someone over please answer?
- Question: What can I do for my best friend's (it's nearing a year of her death) mom?
- Question: Standing up for a friend went wrong?
- Question: Why is my "friend" all of the sudden invinting me to hangout?
- Question: Can you 1200 in a year?
- Question: What can I do to trust people more?
- Question: My few friends are slowly leaving me for another person, what do i do?
- Question: I hit my friend for fun, now shes upset and doesnt want to talk to me anymore?
- Question: Can't stand my boyfriend being friends with me ex best friend?
- Question: Where have some of my favorite contacts on this site gone?
- Question: Should I be paying bills at my friend's house?
- Question: I found out hat my lil sis 21 & my friend is having a sexual relationship. I smack my sister & hit my friend. Am I wrong or am I right ?
- Question: I am truly sorry and I beg for your forgiveness, I didn't expect this type of reaction and backlash, I apologize, do you forgive me?
- Question: Kay so yahoo is acting up? If this goes through will you look for Jenny de Larco on Facebook?
- Question: Isn't it awful for a girl to do this?
- Question: Can I get herpies?
- Question: I should I feel about this?
- Question: Is it best to stay out of this?
- Question: My life is so lame in highschool?
- Question: Revealed my mental disorder to a "friend" and she's been using it against me ever since? What should I do?
- Question: Is an enemy of my friend necessarily my enemy?
| Question: Why does it feel my friend is always making excuses? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 05:52 PM PDT I was planning on moving to his area to see him more which is 75 miles away 46 minutes in the train . Because he hasn't seen me since February 22nd. I have been asking him if he can see me but he said his mum was in hospital , but his mums out of hospital now and I've asked if he wants to meet in a few weeks and he just says ''maybe' not ''we'll see because it depends what I'm doing'' It just feels like I'm making all the effort and I don't get anything back. What do I do? Shall I play it cool? |
| Question: Do on and off relatioships and friendships get old? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 05:49 PM PDT Especially if its only the same person who goes back after one of them ends it. |
| Question: I feel very embarrassed because my butt was showing in public?! (serious question)? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 05:47 PM PDT This has never happened to me before, I feel gross and just plain weird that I allowed my butt to show in a public setting for random strangers to see. I was shopping today and sat down on the bench for a few minutes trying to organize my belongings. A kid who looked about 12 tapped my on the shoulder and said, "Your butt crack is showing." I was shocked, because I didn't feel it and found out everyone who'd walked past me had seen it. My face turned red, especially that a little kid was notifying me of this (I'm 18) and I pulled my pants up immediately although I'm unsure it helped. I just didn't sit down the rest of the day until I got home & changed. Just so you know I'm easily embarrassed in general and quite shy, so something like this happening kinda humiliated me. I care a lot about how I present myself in public. Am I making a big deal out of it? And what would you do if this happened to you? Shrug it off or feel embarrassed? |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2017 05:10 PM PDT I feel so lonely it hurts. I'm 15 and just started high school, I'm not like those people who don't talk to anyone at all, have a best friend kinda, a boyfriend, have a 'group'. But i feel like they all secretly don't like me and it kills me, I'm not anyone's first priority, my phone only rings if it's my mom, boyfriend or best friend but she only calls when there's no one else to talk to. I feel so lonely, i know I'm overthinking but I just want to not feel this way. |
| Question: Moving across the country? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 04:56 PM PDT I've lived in Maryland for about 3 years and moved here from Texas, and now my mom wants to move back. But the thing is I absolutely hate Texas. I've meet some wonderful people here in MD and I've been crying so much since I found out about moving. I just told all my friends today bcs I'll be leaving by the end of the month and I couldn't keep it in any longer they had to know and I've been crying nonstop today because the texts I've gotten back have been so heartbreaking. The place in Texas I'm going back to lacks diversity and after living in my diverse neighborhood for 3 years it sickens me to go back but I have no choice. Most of all I'm leaving my absolute bestfriend I love her with all my heart and it pains me so much to leave her I'm crying as I type this. I was on the phone with her earlier and I burst out into tears I can't believe I haven't been allowed to grow up in a stable place. I've moved 6 times and I'm just so tired of this. I'll be a junior next school year and I'm very awkward with social anxiety and I fear I won't make any friends because I'm going to live in a different part of Texas then I did last time. Can someone please help me cope, I feel so heartbroken I can't believe I can't even stay in one place for a long time. I'll come to visit no doubt because my father lives here but it won't be the same. I don't know what to do with myself I can't stop crying. Someone please help me, and pls no rude comments. |
| Question: Trouble with friend groups?!? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 04:55 PM PDT I have been part of a group of friends since I was in like third grade. Now I begin to see that they don t really hang out that much and are anti-social. I have a group in mind that I want to join but they are sort of reserved and it seems like it is impossible to join. I have spent time with the second group but I feel like they don t get the message that I want to permanently hang out with them. Right now I m floating between the two, and have not been going out that much. Anything helps, please!! By the way I am a male in high school. |
| Question: Do I have low self esteem? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 04:50 PM PDT 6 months ago I started having sex with my exs best friend. I thought we'd start dating but it's been more like friends with benefits. A few months ago I found out he'd started seeing a woman that I know. Whenever I would ask him, he'd deny it. Last weekend at a party she was all up under him while we were trying to have a conversation. My friend told me that I have a bad habit of following him around like a puppy dog and should wait and let him come to me. She just wouldn't get out of his face. He went to walk another woman to her car. Then she had a big argument with him and started crying. It confirmed that he had been seeing her. However, I still followed him home and had sex with him that night. He's still trying to deny seeing her saying it's over. What am I doing wrong? Should I keep being his friend with benefit? |
| Question: Why do I not have a color, while everyone else does in the mind of my best friend s? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 04:35 PM PDT We were taking and found out that she has synesthesia and feels colors with specific people. I used be wine red, but now amnothing. It has started since we grew extremely close to each other, cause before we were reluctant to even talk. |
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| Question: Should i go to this party ? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 04:17 PM PDT Its a girl i use to go to school with, and its her birthday, and me and her are cool but in school i was a nerd i was quite and shy and had very low confidence so everyone thought i was crazy and weird. And all of her friends are the popular group and im scared because me and my cousin and his cousin is going to the party and they don't know that i was like that in school so i don't want them to think im a nerd. And i know somebody in the party gone say he's talking lol. And plus im nervous because a girl that's going to the party i got to aguring with because she started calling me thirsty so i cursed her *** out. And im nervous someone gone shoot or jump me because these kids are ghetto and from the hood lol. They kill each other without even thinking twice and im not no hoe but i want to have fun to night and don't want no problems. What should i do yall. Go or not ? And plus im high asf now so my anxiety is ******* with me lol. |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2017 04:16 PM PDT The day before the last day of school I was passing by and heard him say it. He said he is a multi-millionaire from real estate investments he has. Is he lying or could he be telling the truth? |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2017 03:58 PM PDT I am in 7th grade. There are 3 weirdos in my grade: Evan, a sheltered shrimp with a speech problem who IS really annoying! He is constantly talking about old memes(He just found out about Harambe). He also messes with MY property and tries to tackle me (He can't). When I try to slug him for it, he screams that I assaulted him. Then there is Will, who makes animal noises (When we tell him off for it he says to the teacher we are bullying him) and plays with my fidget spinner WITHOUT my permission. Afterwords it feels greasy. Lastly there is Nate, who is boring as crap. I was nice to them because no one else was, but now they are acting like we are friends. I am popular, this is bad for my reputation! Some kids are teasing me for "hanging out with nerds." Kids also are refusing to buy my Fidget Spinner because, and I quote, "Will AND Even touched it! Yuck!" How do I tell the weirdos that we are not friends and to never touch my Fidget Spinner or speak to me again? |
| Question: What are your thoughts on this? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 03:51 PM PDT Whenever I would ask my dad if I could go hang out with my friends he would always ask me for their name, age, phone number, and he would tell me to tell their parents to come over to my house so my dad and their parents could talk. I don't usually hang out with my friends a lot because of this and I think it would bother some of my friends. What do you think about this? |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2017 03:44 PM PDT Me and my friends were really tight and we'd do stuff together, of course there are people who you are closer to and thats always occurred for our entire lives. We prefer to hang out with different people because we click better with them inside of a group. The problem is: not until recently a friend told me that others felt excluded and our friendships with others were a sort of subconscious dictatorship. I never realized that they felt like this until a friend told me. The thing is they talk about me and my 1 other friend about us behind our backs, complaining about how we don't even talk to them anymore and we have a "system" going on. The system is where the "higher ups" of the friend group sit at one end of the table and it slowly goes downhill- basically saying that if you're closer to the end of the table the more likely the "higher ups" will kick you out. This idea is so ridiculous to me and some of these friends I've confided my problems to and they've misinterpreted it. It just makes me really upset and sad when I hear that they talk **** about stuff I never realized I was doing. In my opinion its all a misunderstanding and I sit at my end of the table cause I get there the fastest. If you read all the way, thank you, and this is really personal to me and hard to deal with. No one else knows that I know that they think this, can anyone give me some help in ways deal with this? |
| Question: What do you call this bullying? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 03:40 PM PDT I take care of q man who has a 16 year old girl living with him. She constantly makes fun of me for being a male care givers. She tries agitating me. Tells her friends that im a retard who clean her dads poop. I snapped one time on accident and she start calling her uncle, cousins, friends. They all came in the house to comfort her. Telling her if i put my hands on her that they will shoot me. |
| Question: Mi mejor amiga ya no me habla! Qué hago? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 03:40 PM PDT Hace 2 años que no veo a mi mejor amiga (pronto serán 3). Ellq y yo nos conlcimos desde que ambas teníamos 3 años, seguimos juntas hasta 5to de primaria, en 6to me tuve que cambiar de casa y me fuí del estado, aún asi prometimos ser "mehores amigas" y dijimos que "no importaría la disancia", hemos cumplido 13 años y 10 años de nuestra amistad, aunque hace 3 meses que ya no me habla, le envie un mensaje por whatsapp solo me dejó en visto y nunca me contesto, talvez parezca algo tonto pero: en su facebook subío una foto con otra chica la cual no nos caía tan bien en primaria y la etiqueto como: mejor amiga (ella habia dicho que ambas solo tendríamos solo una mejor amiga osea ella a mi y yo a ella). Acaso estos 10 años no fueron nada? Porfavos ayudenme!😢 |
| Question: Meeting my friend's parents? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 03:22 PM PDT So, I'm planning to meet my friend's parents so that they know the person their son is often hanging out with and so that they would perhaps let him sleep over at my place. I have some experience with meeting the parents and they usually liked me but this time it's much more different. These parents are really conservative and religious and I am exactly the opposite. I kmow not to bring up those topics but I'm afraid they would bring up politics or religion and I don't know what I should say if I disagree with them. Another problem is that I have dyed red hair with a sidecut and that would apparently bother them quite a lot. I listen to rock and alternative and dress that way but that's not such a problem as I have "normal" clothes. Do you have any tips about what I could do to get them to like me nevertheless? I really care about this friendship and wouldn't like it if they tried to get in the way just because I'm different... |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2017 02:57 PM PDT I'm thinking a cave in Tibet or maybe a submarine. What do you think? Was thinking Indian Ocean for the submarine actually... Not Tibet lol |
| Question: Are my next three years of high school gonna be terrible ? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 02:52 PM PDT My freshman year is ending and I just lost so much . I work on my self esteem all summer and I definitely raised it . I went into high school with a positive attitude and just felt so great about everything . I had good friends , good times . And you'd think that when it's ending that's when the most fun comes right ? Wrong for me . I lost most of my friends. Got dumped by a boy I thought I would be with for at least a year . And am just lonely . People hate me . People think I'm annoyin. I literally spend lunch by myself now . I'm an *** of a person . Everyone avoids me . I try to appear happy but it doesn't work . 5 more days left and everyone's gonna see how much of a loner I ended up to be . Idk what to do . I'm scared to keep going to that school. I'm scared I won't find friends as good as my old ones . What if my ex gets with his other ex and acts as if I never existed . I had good people come in my life and I just ruined everything |
| Question: Why is my "friend" all of the sudden invinting me to hangout? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 02:44 PM PDT So there is this friend (lets call her Lilly) of mine that always want to hang out with my friends except me. She's always inviting my best friend,but she never invites me. My best friend of course tells me that Lilly invited her and some other friends to hang out. She never invites me to go anywhere, and I'm not bitchy at all, i'm actually a really cool and funny person. But all of the of the sudden she is inviting me to hangout when she NEVER did. Why is that? Confused! Is Lilly even a true friend? |
| Question: I wanna move schools? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 02:39 PM PDT I try to be myself , I'm annoying . I try to be likeable then everyone still hates me .idk what to do . I'm losing everyone |
| Question: My 15 year old does not hang out with other young teens - should I be worried? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 01:47 PM PDT My 15 year old daughter only has 11-12 year old friends and college girls as friends. She has always been like this, and always had trouble socializing with kids her own age. She has Asperger's and her social skills are very advanced. Her condition no longer effects her much, and I am wondering why she only has trouble befriending teens her age. She says that she can't explain why either, but there's just something about it. Her school is also worried about this and thinks she may have social skills issues (because she doesn't have friends her age and none of her friends attend high school with her) and they offer social skills programs for her that I don't think are suitable. Her school does not know that she DOES have friends, she only has that struggle with her age group. |
| Question: Why won't this girl who I don't consider my friend anymore leave me alone? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 01:46 PM PDT I stopped being her friend because she makes fun of m e all the time. She thinks im hilarious and i make her laugh all the time. She's called me "*****" probably over a million times. I was her friend for about three years. So like, if I block her she'll just add me on new accounts and call me a "little *****". Also, her brother talks to me too and he's not really as bad, but I'd still consider him a jerk. I just don't know what to do. She won't leave me. She said "she'll take care of me"? Like, what does that mean? She said if I had joined the Marines she would have cried over me? Why would she say that and then be mean to me? What's her problem? I mean I'm just so worn out from her. I don't make fun of her, the second sentence has a typo. she makes fun of me, I don't make fun of her |
| Question: Should I confront her, or let it go? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 01:42 PM PDT I was best friends with a girl I went to high school with. We were so close, she was like a sister to me. Our senior year of high school we started to grow apart. I wanted to spend time with my boyfriend and she wanted to spend more time with her boyfriend. After we graduated I married my high school boyfriend, and she was there my entire wedding day. A few months later she also got married, but I wasn't invited. I thought it was because she just wanted a small, family only, wedding, but I later found out it was a pretty large wedding. Needless to say I was pretty upset. I "unfriended" her on Facebook (that was petty, I admit). She texted me a couple weeks later and asked why, and I played dumb and requested her to be my friend again. It's been 4 years since then and I've asked her 3 times over that time if she'd like to get together to catch up, and every time she's blown me off. The last time I asked her, she said, "Oh thank you! That would be so fun! Let me check my schedule and I'll get back to you!" It's been 2 weeks since then and we haven't spoken. I don't like having fake friends on Facebook, but I've kept her as a "friend" holding out hope that she still counts me as a friend. I feel like I either have to confront her about whether or not she even cares, or "unfriend" her again for good. What do I do? If I do confront her, what do I say? |
| Question: Will she ever see me as a friend again????? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 01:33 PM PDT for the past 4 years I had a really close friend, but almost 4 months ago we had an argument. She needed something cleared up so she came to my house to talk in person because she thought I had lied to her about a past situation. But she didn't believe and told me to " never message her again." I calmly held her because I needed to explain my side of the story. ....that night she sent me a text to leave her alone because she was abused in the past and that I made a mistake by putting my hands on her. She blocked me soo I wrote her a long sweet apology letter and mailed it to her house with a teddy bear a d flowers. But a police officer came to my house the next day and asked me to leave her alone because I can get In trouble. We haven't talked in almost 3 months, Do you think she would speak to me one day down the road???? She a ways told me I was the best guy she had ever met :( |
| Question: Should I say something, or let it go? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 01:20 PM PDT |
| Question: Why do people feel the desire to share their whole lives on Snapchat? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 01:01 PM PDT I honestly don't get it. All of my friends are constantly taking selfies and videos for their Snapchat stories. I don't see why they want to do this. Why can't they just enjoy their lives without sharing each moment with others. I mean these people take selfies when they are laying in bed, in the bathroom, watching tv, eating lunch, doing homework just to share on Snapchat. |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2017 12:48 PM PDT So I have to go to this kids graduation party today and it's too late to say I can't come and we were friends in the beginning of the school year until I realized that he's actually a terrible friend, all he does is talk about sex and hit on me even though I've made it clear that im not interested and he treats me like **** and talks about how much better he is than me, and he's also inviting another girl that's a complete ***** and talks about how she's better than everyone cause of her religion and she also thinks we are friends and no matter what I do they won't leave me alone, so should I just sit someone and avoid everyone? |
| Question: My underage friend is going out with an over age guy? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 12:32 PM PDT My 15 year old friend is going out with a fat ugly 25 year old guy and I feel helpless but something needs to be done because he is basically a paedophile right? |
| Question: Should i help someone that never helps me? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 12:10 PM PDT She didn't helped me when i need it, now when she need help i did that too as well, but complain me that i wasn't a friend cause i didn't help when the only thing i was doing is make her feel what i was feeling when she didn't helped me. So should i still help her? cause i feel really bad when she complain cause she don't even now im very hurt the way she treats me |
| Question: How do I tell my childhood best friend of 17 years that she smells bad? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 11:56 AM PDT As we became adults, we both became pretty overweight. However, I m extremely self conscious about the way I smell and make sure I never smell bad enough to offend people. She is quite the opposite. She goes several days without showering, and usually only showers once a week. This is due to depression (and that makes it even more sensitive to bring it up to her) I don t want to hurt her feelings, but it s getting to the point where if we re in public, others absolutely notice. My family has noticed as well. Her family isn t... the cleanest of people, but I guess they don t see it to be a problem. Her odor is genuinely offensive. How do I let her know easily? Again, she is severely depressed and self harms. I do not want this to be an additional reason for her to hurt herself. |
| Question: How to make friends when you're really awkward? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 11:50 AM PDT It seems like most people aren't all that forgiving when it comes to doing or saying awkward stuff. |
| Question: How can i find friend in yahoo? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 11:49 AM PDT |
| Question: 23 and panicking about getting old!??!?!? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 11:22 AM PDT I'm 23 and have never really lived my life. I was bullied in middle school to such extent that I haven't been able to make friends or even just talk to people since. Now I feel like I've squandered the most valuable time in my life, which I presume to be the years 0-through-25, I never even had a high school sweetheart. Now I feel like only duties await me, such as marriage and working myself to death to pay for sh*t that I don't even want or need. Any advice as to how to deal with my anxiety about getting old? My hair is also thinning in the back. I'll probably have a bald spot before 30. Don't even get me started on my receding hairline. I'M A MESS!!!!!! |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2017 10:42 AM PDT I took a guy friend that I'm very close to lingerie shopping with me. He helped me pick out some bras/thongs/panties and I modeled them on for him outside the dressing room, he let me know which ones looked good on me. We just happened to be out with him accompanying me shopping and watching me try on dresses and shoes when I asked him if it was okay if I bought some underwear and if he can help me. He was real cool about it and said sure, no problem. FYI, we're both single and straight with zero intention of being anything more than good friends. Mind you, this is the first time he's ever seen me in a bra and thong and I've been told by others that I'm a very fit and attractive young woman, so I hope I didn't make him uncomfortable and that he was just too shy to admit (I can tell he got slightly excited at one point, refusing to stand up lol). Anyway, would you ever take your guy friend lingerie shopping with you and/or get his opinion on how it looked on you? Was I out of line to ask him even though he agreed to help? |
| Question: My friend is mad im not going to prom? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 10:34 AM PDT im making the choice to not attend my senior prom and shes seriously pissed at me. i really dont understand why she cares so much, she has millions of other friends to be with there, and im in no way preventing her from going. i just dont care enough about it, prom isnt my type of thing. she keeps saying im going to regret it, but like i just said i really dont care. i skipped 8th grade "prom" and the 11th grade one, and they both never cross my mind. im just not the type of person who is interested. she keeps bringing my bf into it but he doesnt really seem to care i didnt ask him to go either. i did consider to go, but only for him if he wanted to, but i came to realize if i only wanted to do something with him i can just plan a nice date for the two of us out together that night instead. what am i supposed to do about this? why does she care so much that i dont want to go? my other friends were disappointed and a bit annoying about it but they arent mad like she is. why is prom such a big deal? |
| Question: When to ask about promotion again? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 09:55 AM PDT I work as a lead sales representative for a medical company. I was making about $1.00 more than my coworkers. Last week, everyone on my team got a raise of about $0.50, but I didn t because I don t have the same title as them. I talked to my boss last week, laid out what I do, he agreed and he said he is going to work on making me a supervisor which would bump my pay up. He said it could take until after July or longer. Well, the review for one of the people on my team is up this month. After her review, she has the potential, with her raise, to be making more than me and she does far less work. My question is, do I talk to my boss about this or just do the review and see if he follows through on getting me the promotion in a few months? |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2017 09:51 AM PDT when i talk normally i think i m completely fine. i don t find myself annoying, if anything i find myself as a more laidback person. but if someone were to film me talking and play it back to me, i would just cringe at how annoying i am. is it just a self confidence thing? is it normal? i have a lot of friends who think i m just fine but for whatever reason i find it hard to believe them. |
| Question: Is it my best friend's fault that everybody found out? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 09:45 AM PDT A few months ago, i was going out with a guy, and we used to make out, but 3 weeks ago we went out again, and it was a fwb thing, i gave him a bj, but we agreed to keep our thing a secret. A few days ago, i told my best friend,cause she was telling me what she did and it was relatable. Two days after that, she said that the girlfriend of the best friend of the guy i went out with, knows what i did and apparently she told everyone at my school, so now everyone knows. So, i talked with the guy and he told me that he told his friend the next day after we went out,but was pretty sure that his friend didn't tell anyone,cause he trusts him. He thought it was my friend that told her boyfriend, who is in the same class as the girlfriend of his best friend i mentioned before, and that he was the one to tell everyone, not his friend, but i didnt believe that at first. So i was thinking about that later that night and i remembered that everyone found out after i told my friend, and not when he told his friend. I wanted to talk with her, but she kept cancellin my invitations for coffee telling me she's "busy",avoiding convos on fb bout that, changing the subject, or ignoring my messages. So i need your help, idk who spread our secret, was it his friend, or mine.. His friend said that he didnt tell anybody, and so did mine.. idk what to do guys, but i have videos that could ruin her life, that she thinks i deleted them, but i saved them just in case. I edited this cz d nmbr of wrds, sry that She* was the one to tell everyone |
| Question: Would I get caught sneaking someone over please answer? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 09:29 AM PDT So I'm 15 and yeah pratical teenage plan right here but I'm not so much of a goodie goodie but my dad thinks I am I'll be at my dads tonight and I think that im just chilled at his house today not going out or anything do you think I will get caught if I sneak someone over so he's my friend and I'm a girl so that's why I can't just ask my dad for a guy bc in his mind he thinks girl and guy hang out then they like each other but honestly me and him are just friends I lied once and said I was going over my friend Sara's house and hung out with him instead but we just hang out like friends but what I'm thinking is my dad normally goes to bed in his room which is the back room my rooms the first room so if he goes in his room then I'll have my friend come through the front door and to my room and leave a bit later so basically is it to risky please answer |
| Question: What can I do for my best friend's (it's nearing a year of her death) mom? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 09:14 AM PDT I want to do something nice for her mom, I don't live there anymore, so I would have to mail it. I'm usually creative but this is just hard for me. I'd like to do something unique. |
| Question: Standing up for a friend went wrong? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 08:53 AM PDT So the other day I stood up for a friend that some other friends of mine were talking about (behind her back). The thing is the girls who were talking about her have been my friends for years and have been nothing but nice to me. Now they are just ignoring me. I feel like I lost my best friends and I can't deal with it. It's made me extremely depressed. Any advice? |
| Question: Why is my "friend" all of the sudden invinting me to hangout? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 08:47 AM PDT So there is this friend (lets call her Lilly) of mine that always want to hang out with my friends except me. She's always inviting my best friend,but she never invites me. My best friend of course tells me that Lilly invited her and some other friends to hang out. She never invites me to go anywhere, and I'm not bitchy at all, i'm actually a really cool and funny person. But all of the of the sudden she is inviting me to hangout when she NEVER did. Why is that? Confused! Is Lilly even a true friend? |
| Question: Can you 1200 in a year? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 08:43 AM PDT I am moving out at 21 years old and my friend says it take 5 years but will get out 21 years old with him |
| Question: What can I do to trust people more? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 08:31 AM PDT so as growing up my parents have lied and left promises empty. this has made me think of them as untrustworthy. being raised this way, i have realized I do not trust my friends as much as I should. How can I reverse this about my friends, my parents are still this way. |
| Question: My few friends are slowly leaving me for another person, what do i do? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 07:28 AM PDT Long story short, im an introvert with 3 great friends who are now focusing their attention on someone they barely know, i might be overreacting i might not. What do i do? |
| Question: I hit my friend for fun, now shes upset and doesnt want to talk to me anymore? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 06:39 AM PDT I hit my friend after she made a silly joke, it was not hard and meant in a funny way but she almost started crying... now shes avoiding me all the time and doesnt want to talk to me. why does she react like that? i even explained that it was all for fun and i didnt mean to hurt her. what should i do now? |
| Question: Can't stand my boyfriend being friends with me ex best friend? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 06:06 AM PDT So I had a best friend and long story short we had a fight and we don't talk anymore. The worst about it is that now that we are mad, she invites my boyfriend to hang out with her and her friends really often. And they barely talked before. I mean yeah they were ''friends'' but they didn't even talk much, seriously they went like two months without talking and now they hang out like 4 times a month. Her friends even tried to make me and my boyfriend break up but he still talks to them like it was nothing. I tried to talk to my boyfriend about how uncomfortable it makes me feel and how hurt I get when he hangs out with them. The only thing he did, when I expressed my emotions, was take off his ring and give it to me saying ''If you can't accept me being friends with her then we can't be together anymore.'' We didn't break up but he did that several times during our argue... isn't he putting his friends over me? How can I solve this? I can't stop being hurt and I'm not going to force him to dump his ''friends'' even if they hate me. What should I do? He doesn't listen to me... HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
| Question: Where have some of my favorite contacts on this site gone? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 04:44 AM PDT |
| Question: Should I be paying bills at my friend's house? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 02:35 AM PDT Okay so I go over to my best friends house a lot, I don't just stay there for a day or two I'll end up staying for a week or almost two weeks mostly because I have a job and it's near her house more than mine, even though I'm her best friend I'm still considering myself a guest in her house even if her family treats me like family, anyways, just recently her mom told me I needed to pay rent or pitch in and I kind of stood back I was thrown off because I do not live there I just stay there to visit my friend and she takes me to work if anything I pay for her gas but I didn't think there was really a need for me to pay their bills? |
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| Posted: 03 Jun 2017 01:21 AM PDT I am 19 and I said I had a chat or conversation with a 15 year old. At the time I didn't think anything of it, People told me I need a bullet in my head, and I was being attacked. Anyways, I am truly sorry for having a conversation with another human being. If a 15 year old say hi to me, I will just ignore the person. I am sorry. I am 19 and I said I had a chat or conversation with a 15 year old. At the time I didn't think anything of it, People told me I need a bullet in my head, and I was being attacked. Anyways, I am truly sorry for having a conversation with another human being. If a 15 year old say hi to me, I will just ignore the person. I am sorry. |
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| Question: Isn't it awful for a girl to do this? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 01:00 AM PDT She texts a guy every single day for two years, calls him het best friend, and then all of a sudden she sends him 2-5 word texts like once a week? Like, how could someone do that to someone you know? Isnt that just so sad? |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2017 12:35 AM PDT Today I was smoking with some friends and I forgot I had a opend cut on my bottom lip and they licked the blunt not only that but I was taking a waterfall of of my other friends soda I don't know if she back wash or not can I get herpies |
| Question: I should I feel about this? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 12:33 AM PDT Okay so today I was smoking weed with a couple of friends and I was so high that all I could do was laugh well when I was walking to the corner store with my "friends" a couple of guys like 14 of them who go to my school started to make a rap about my sexuality how I'm gay and stuff like this and normally I would defend myself but all I do do was laugh I couldn't stop laughing I wasn't even laughing at them but the thing is is when they asked this girl who I was smoking with if I was high she said wym so he said do you know him and she started laughing and said I don't know him ( I really don't know her only threw another friend of mine who I was also smoking with but I still felt some type of way ) the other thing is that my best friend was also smoking with me but she didn't seem high I felt like she could have stuck up for me but what she says is I would have stuck up for you but then they would have mad fun of her which made me feel a type of way also cause she knows everytime when someone saying something about her I stick up for her and don't care what they say about me how should I feel about this |
| Question: Is it best to stay out of this? Posted: 02 Jun 2017 10:48 PM PDT Three lots of people I know are friends of mine and they're sort of all interconnected; couples noticing other couples who are my friends. I know at least one person whose heart might be broken. Should I just stay out of all of it? |
| Question: My life is so lame in highschool? Posted: 02 Jun 2017 10:10 PM PDT it's the summer after my sophomore year in highschool and i've done absolutely nothing except sit alone at my house all day with no social interaction with anyone except my family. my only 2 real friends and i text occasionally but we don't actually hang out or do anything that often. I hate the way i feel when i go on social media and see all of my peers having fun and just being with their friends. one of my friends is really popular and she hangs out with her other friends. i feel like i am wasting my life away and it's all my fault because i struggle being social. my friends (and my "kinda" friends) are all having the highschool experience like going to parties, having boyfriends and whatnot and i'm just lonely and irrelevant. i just want to graduate and go to college to start over but I fear that nothing will change and i'll just be a socially inept loser like i am today. i don't want to be dramatic and say that i'm depressed but i honestly feel that way about my life. i don't know what to do and how to help myself get out of this mental hole. please give me some advice |
| Posted: 02 Jun 2017 09:52 PM PDT She used to be somewhat fair about resolving conflicts, but now whenever anything happens between us she claims it's 100% my fault cuz I'm "a diagnosed psycho". Should I punch her in the face to show her just how psycho I really am? Or just dump her immature ableist *** as a friend? |
| Question: Is an enemy of my friend necessarily my enemy? Posted: 02 Jun 2017 09:23 PM PDT A good friend of mine hates another person that I'm sort of friends with when we worked together (they both work at the same place but I don't anymore). Now I think he is mad at me because the other guy posted something on my facebook wall that we are friends (the more I write this the more infantile this really sounds). I think he has a good reason to not like this person because he has somehow wronged him in the past. Which has something to do with him spreading around some situation with his ex-wife that happened a long time before I started working there I forget the details. I generally think this other person is pretty cool and pleasant to but I'm supposed to hate him. What should I do? |
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