From a online dating site. H When we started chatting he was living in france for work. He sent me pics of his apartment and where he lived and his office. I felt like I was there with him. Today he flew to Texas for his job to live as well. So he moved to Texas which is still far from me but I am in the states too. Now when I think about anything French or France or texas my eyes well up with tears. Now when k think of business men and offices ill probably remember him too. At the end he said he was just taking to me out of being friendly. The whole time I fell for him hard. Maybe because I'm lonely but it still mattered to me. I don't wanna cry Every time I think about talking with him online. Yes we had a friendship not relationship and he never talked about dating or anything but I was told that friendship leads to good marriage. I had to leave him cause he didn't like me romantically. He told me so. And he was not talkijg to me as often anymore either. I may be Borderline and emotional with mood swings but I thought someone wojld be willing to meet me halfway with that. He just seemed uninterested in my thoughts and feelings and life.

So this is what's been going on 1. 6 months ago my girlfriend broke up with me for an f-ed up reason. Like a week later a girl in one of my college classes came up to me and was like "we should study together." She's way smarter than me and didn't even need my help. So we studied together a few times and it seemed like she liked me. She would touch my arm all the time and she started dressing better than usual and looked super hot. I was still traumatized from my last relationship, so I didn't ask her out right away. 2. A couple weeks after we started hanging out, she randomly started talking about going on tinder dates all the time. She showed me some guy she went out with and said he was hot. then she told me that i should get on tinder so I thought I got friendzoned. 3. I saw her all the time at school and she would touch my shoulder and arm and whatnot and she was all like "you're so handsome." I went out with her and a couple of her friends a few times and she always talked about going on tinder dates. 4. a while later I asked her out for coffee. She was like "i can't do it today but save the date because my roommate is going on a tinder date and we have to go watch her and make sure she's ok. So I went to the restaurant and i didn't see her or her roommate. i texted her. she texted back 3 hours later and was like "sorry. change of plans." i never got an explanation about why she didn't show up 5. A month ago she said to me "we should go out sometime. Not this week because I'm busy, but sometime soon." A week later I asked her out to this new restaurant. I said "what day is good for you?" she was like "Probably Friday. I'll let you know." On Thursday I texted her "are we going there tomorrow?" she texted back "I'll let you know. I have to check my schedule." I didn't hear back from her and then I didn't see her for a week and she acted like nothing happened 6. We're from different states, so we're probably not going to see each other over the summer and a couple days ago she saw me in the library. She gave me a hug and almost started to cry and was like "I look forward to seeing you. I'm going to miss you." Then she invited me to go eat with her and her friend. I went and she started talking about a tinder date she was going to go on that night. so is she f-ing with me or something? should i GHOST her? HELP!

We've been dating for a couple of months & things have been going fine, Until 2 weeks ago when an incident happened at her work, as well as her dad hitting her. Since then the relationship as been going down hill. Now she's texting me less and less, & it's starting to get annoying. She's telling me to "bare with her" & im trying to, but it's hard. Do I continue staying by her side and helping her get through her situation? Or do you feel like she's not ready for a relationship rn?

I really don't know this girl, she agreed to meet up through a mutual friend. We just know each other by seeing each other. Today my mutual friend mentioned she is gonna bring her sister. So in total, it's gonna be her, her sister, mutual friend, and his wife. I'm in my mid-twenties and so is she, not sure why?? Should I call it off?

I like this guy allot and expressed it to him however we have not met in person. I asked him 1/2 months in advance for him to meet me. His reply "idk. It'll be tough " should I move on ?

So, my friend recently got a boyfriend. Since then, she's pretty much stopped hanging out with me. Let me mention that she was my best friend. Anyway, I didn't like this so much that I decided to make a plan to break them up with a couple people who also thought this. Today, though, we were talking on the phone and she was talking so much about her boyfriend and how much she likes him that I told her about our plan. The thing is, though, that I said I heard one of the people helping me talk about the plan. I made it sound like I was just an inoccent bystander and now I feel awful. I clearly told her that I would never do something like that. When I told her, she started to cry. We haven't put the plan into action yet. I know I should have just told the truth but I can't go back now and I just know she'll hate me if i tell her now, after I've denied it. I told one person in the plan group that we should stop and she agreed to tell the others. I just feel like my friend will find out sometime.

So I met this guy when I had left state to finish school and we had hit it off pretty well and we started dating. He knew of me having to move but I am going to return back in a year. But we usually keep in touch and lately he just completely stopped texting me. I try not to send all kinds of messages to him because he is not responding but I don't know what to think. He views my messages but just does not reply and he goes and posts on social media. I am unsure on what to do. I don't know if I did something or if he is done with our relationship, I don't even know how to get him to respond to me so I can get an answer. I am lost on what to do.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. I don t love the conditions of how we met (he had a girlfriend, we flirted and were coworkers). He broke up with his girlfriend before we did anything but only a month after we hooked up secretly for a year. We publicly started dating a year ago and it s had its ups and downs. We don t agree politically, religiously or money spending habits. These things really concern me for the future even though we discuss having kids and getting married. I don t know what to do as this really bothers me and he knows it. We also get into other arguments regarding him keeping in touch with his exes, drinking habits and how we socialize. Sometimes I feel like I drag him out when he doesn t want to be out even if it s with his own friends. I love him so much but I m at my wits end.

Like if you are content with where you are, college and hanging out with the family during summer vacation.

I get erections with females though. Why cant I get them with guys?

There's this girl that came to school this year, and I don't see her a lot, because i wasn't ever that interested in her. For the past 5-6 months. ( basically a month into the school year) I've noticed her stealing glances at me. Do acts like she's looking at something else, but then when she's turning back, she'll look at me for a few seconds. I've never seen her flirting with any other guys, so do you think I have a chance?

My "friend" recently thinks she can just do whatever the hell she wants to me. I'll give you a few examples. I was talking with this guy I like *(which she knows I'm trying to pursue him)* about the lots of stuff we have in common and what we are gonna do over the weekend. I was sitting next to him talking and my "friend" just cut me off while I was talking to him and was asking him the most crazy questions . I tried to engage into the conversation but she just kept cutting me off and flirting with him.) He saw I was trying to talk but my friend kept cutting him off to, then he just stopped talking and was quite the whole time. Another example is Recently I made a deal with one of my other friends to get me a hookah and i said I'm gonna pay for it because they offered to get me it for free. Now my "friend" thinks that she's in the deal and that I'm getting it for both of us. I told her no cuz I'm paying for all of it, and she was saying I promised her when I never even said anything to her about it. Another thing she does is randomly touch my arms and poke me, I don't like anyone touching me and I told her to stop,( she still continued to do so) recently she's been trying to make me go hang out with her just to stop me from hanging out with my other friends and every time I see her in the hallway all she does is yell out loser (as a joke according to her) Also she keeps on asking me for money because she's "poor" even though she shops online every single day.

So this guy and i have been dating for about 2 and a half months, we haven't called each other official, but it seems like we are getting close to the point of a relationship. Before he left for Europe he texted me everyday and was always checking up on me. We've gone out on about 14 dates and we have fun everytime. He went on a vacation with his family, he left two days ago and I haven't heard from him, but he's been posting a lot on Instagram. He told me he's not going to be on his phone much during this trip, but I feel like a direct message on instagram wouldn't be too much to ask for. He hasn't even contacted me. I know he's busy but if he has time for instagram I think he should be checking up on me. Maybe he doesn't take me seriously. What do you think?

Both me and the guy I went out on a date with are 17. We've gone out like 4 times. To the movies (where he tried to kiss me on the first date, which I didn't let him ). We've hanged out on my porch, walked around nearby shopping center twice. And the last time we went out he asked to kiss me and I said "not yet". He didn't seem disappointed and we continued to walk around. I was hungry and he didn't have money so I felt obligated to buy him since I'm buying food for myself and I also bought him a donut because I got one. The day after that he started texting me less and less and he's been doing that for the past 3 or 2 days. I don't know whether he's doing that to see if I'll chase him or if he's really busy or if he's losing interest . I know it doesn't seem like a big deal but I have really bad social anxiety(that I go to therapy for and receive medication) but I try my best to not let that show. It's killing me because I need to know if he's interested and talking to someone else or if he's just playing the "who can take the longest to not text" . Ps he would text me every minute of the day before our last date. I actually thought we had a good time. Sorry it's pretty long but I need opinions thank you .

He cheated on me but it's over now and he's now completely out of my life. Why do I still feel so angry? I thought this would calm me down? Any advice for getting back to normal? Thanks!

I know this guy who has a one year old baby girl at home and just recently found out he has been trying to get in the pants of a girl who literally just turned 18 a few months ago. I think it's creepy because he chose to start talking to her right after she hit 18 but everyone says it's fine because she's of age now. Am I the only one creeped out by it?

There s a girl that I have noticed staring at me in school. She steals a quick glance sometimes too. I haven t really talked to her much, but I ve gotten interested in her. I don t ever see her talking to any other guys, so do you think I have a chance with her? Note: this isn t some short term thing, she s been doing this the whole school year and this is her first year at my school.

My ex-fiance had a rough up bringing. He was selling and using drugs. I met him when he was clean. He worked full time and took care of his two small children. We got together and he was the best man a woman could ask for. He took my son in as his own, held a job, did his share of everything. After about a year, a couple of his friends came around again. Gradually he started to decline. He quit his job, stayed out all nigh and eventually cheated on me with a girl who is in that "fast lifestyle" of drugs and such. He saw how hard it was for me to hold everything together financially but he didnt even try and find a job. Should I just keep moving on or try and help him get back to the responsible man I knew him as before. Thanks

I've been crushing on this girl and she initiated the convo and even suggested hanging out. I kept asking her out the day of and of course she couldn't. Was it rude that I kept asking her the day of? She was busy each time. She suggested other days but I love being spontaneous. Now I'm pissed of she won't go out

There's a guy I talked to from a dating site. He was talking heavily about sex daily which turned me off-so I blocked him on my phone. Then the other day he called me from another number and left a voicemail. I got curious and talked to him. We started texting again and he wasn't texting as much about sex. I wrote him an email telling him if he ever looked up my full name he'd see I was arrested for a minor infraction. Since it was in a couple newspaper stories related to a situation in my neighborhood. He texted me some after but hasn't as much. I think he might be fading out on me-not sure. I'm not sure if it's cuz I wrote him about my prior arrest. Which he would've found about sooner or later. I wanted to let him find out from me. My friends and family said it wasn't necessary to let him know. They also think him calling me from a different number after I blocked him was stalkerish of him. Do you think he was being stalkerish? Was letting him know of my arrest instead of finding it online on his own the right way to approach it? Do you think he will contact me in the future?

I once like a guy. He knew I did and I kind of felt like he was using the attention I gave him to boost his ego. So I asked him up front if he was interested in getting to know me. He basically said he wasn't interested in anyone at that time. So I left him alone after that. Ever since then he has been mean/rude to me. I don't really interact with him. However when I do he is so cold and rude towards me. I never did anything to him.

She knows i dont like PDA but anyway heres what happened,tonight i took her to my dads place so she could meet him for the first time and that went well but when we were about to leave she hugged me and tried to kiss me and i backed off and then we got in the car and she started crying her eyes out she said i was embaressed of her because i pulled away but she knows i hate PDA ive been going out with her for seven months so i thought she knew better than that so why is she freaking out if she knows i dont like PDA?

So I'm a guy and there was there girl I have been snap chatting for 5 days streak and we were talking and she says ok bye and I respond back with ok cya and then she replies nope blocking you and she blocks me. I was never rude to her or anything and did not send nudes or stuff like that she was in my class but I won't see her till august becouse we are out for the summer. Why did she block me thought was I annoying her becouse I was not snap chatting her all day. Any help will be appreaciated.

I have a friend that I met in an office setting and we have to work together. We started to date last summer but it went south as she has been seeing her ex. I backed off and we continued to see each other only at work. We tried a few times to be "friends" but it went south due to a disagreement on a few beliefs. The third and last attempt ended due to more miscommunication and conflict. I tried to apologize for the things that I said that were defensive and hurtful and she just said "let's stop talking about this.. it feeds the emotional engagement and that's a problem". What does this phrase mean?

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So we dated for a couple of months but didn't become official or anything. Eventually he told me that he liked spending time with me, but was just not ready for a relationship (he had just gotten out of a 2 year relationship & she was his first love). I accepted it even though it was hard, and we agreed to remain friends as we were good friends before we started dating. Anyways, I saw him for the first time in a couple of months today (he was away at school) and we got lunch. He insisted on paying for it which surprised me because he never paid for me when we were just friends before. I later texted him thanks for the meal and the next time was on me. He responded "we'll see about that(;" He never uses a winky face either so that was weird to me. Am I overacting or do you think he was hinting that he still has feelings for me? Thanks in advance!

So, a boy asked me out last night after school so i went with him. I wasn't thrilled because my he's my bestie's ex and she told me "all he cares about are his mom, and his grades, and his friends" Ugh. What a loser. He messed up the date so many times. He failed to arrive at my house on time, he did NOT have chocolates and flowers for me (Isn't that common sense for first date?!), he did NOT hold the door for me, he did NOT pull my chair out, and he did NOT ask if I wanted dessert (I mean, I didn't but its the thought that counts!), and he did NOT have enough money to pay the bill so I had to pitch in while he looked down ashamed of himself. I had to keep screaming at him in the restraunt to stop messing up every five seconds and he burried his head in his hands and choked back tears, everyone in the room glared, obviously in shame of him and he said it was the first date he's ever been on and he was sorry if he did a poor job. So because I'm a nice person I'm giving him a do-over first date, but this time I made a 3 page paper pointing out all his flaws that he HAD to change about himself for us to have a healthy relationship. He has to stop playing video games, stop watching anime and cartoons, give me a compliment every hour, and pronounce the 't' in 'often' (That always irritates me about people, saying "ofen" like a hill billy, ugh!). He accepted the paper and tried to change himself but still kept messing up the requirements he had to change. Advice?

My mom and I are extremely close. My ex claims my mom stole some clothes and stuff from her, which she kind of did but I don't believe it was on purpose and I got most of it back for her anyways. My ex claims that my mom was mean after I took back my ex's clothes but I don't believe that, my mom is a really sweet lady. Should my ex apologize for what she said about my mother. ***** = "b i t c h" **** you Anon

This is especially ****** up because I do actually have an anxiety disorder that took a lot of courage for me to open up to him about. Now he's throwing that back in my face. I don't even have bipolar but he's running around telling everyone that I'm a psycho. What should I do? I can block him on everything but he's still going to be running around telling everyone we know the confidential things that I told him in private...

So there has been things going on in my life lately and this person has always been there and checking up on me so I m trying to just give her a good thank you and realized just saying thanks won t be enough so I m writing what s below and trying to get some opinions before I send it please..... I just wanted to say thank you for always being there when I need someone we ve been through some rough times and things still are not perfect but every time I needed someone to talk to at 3 in the morning your there to help me get through what ever is going on at that time I honestly don t know what I can do but say thank you so much for everything

Me and my gf have been dating for a year. For a few months now, we rarely speak. She always goes out with friends or has them over at her house but never asks me. And when I text her, I don't get a response until hours later. If I'm lucky enough to get a call or facetime it's for about 15 minutes before she falls asleep. Her friends and family all know that we're dating and I know all they ever talk about is what a nice girl I am and she just agrees and goes on with her life with her friends. I on average probably hear from her about five times a day. Even when she's out she never says anything to me about missing me or wanted to see me or spend time with me. The rare occaision that we do see each other her number one goal is to have sex. If we're in a public place and I won't let her **** me in some bathroom then she just get's pissed. Once we had sex and right after she back to her friends then said she had to go home. What should I do? I like the way she used to be and the way our relationship used to be. I'm pretty sure I've talked to her about this before and we went to see a movie and eat but after that we never did much else. I try to make plans with her but she tells me she cant but then the day I told her we should go out she's with friends or has a friend over at her house. I don't know what to do.

My bf and I were hanging out yesterday and he got a text, as he walked in the other room. He asked me who it was and when I told him Sabrina he freaked out and said Uhhh Ya babe please don't check that whatever you do, just bring it here. So I was worried and checked what she said. The text read "Hey Daddy, I love you and miss you. Can we meet up and f**k tonight. I want your big sexy d**k in me. I love you babe hope we can get down and dirty tonight. I'm wet for you". So he is obviously cheating on me. Now I am talking to another guy and we are s**ting and going to meet up for sex tomorrow. Is it wrong of me to cheat,when he's cheating on me?

Me and my husband are doing a open marriage .i started talking to my guy friend and he know that i still like him. and we flirt and i send him naked picture and we sometime we hook up . but the other day i told him i was talking to a guy. he said another guy huh. i said yes same guy i was talking to yesterday and he wanted a picture of what i was wearing . i said idk if i should .he said your married . married women don't do that

My bf and i together for almost 2 years, i love him to death to the point that i argue with him if he follows a girl on instagram or if he was busy and dont txt or call me! And he also argue with me about smallest things! We were never like that! Is it because i love him so much?! It been weeks almost every day we argue! Im really sad i really dont want to loose him! I want him like crazy i wasnt like that before i liked him and that was it now I adore him. What do i do:( Sorry for my English it isnt my first language

I keep on getting back toget her with the same cheating girlfriend, I don't have any friends and the people I do hang out with are snakes, I got rejected by this girl I really like for prom, I've been so depressed lately that I haven't gone boxing for a week:/ Just f**K I hate complaining so much I just wish people had a different perspective of me :/ I really lIke her, she has an amazing personality, is honest, truthful and idk:( she won't tell me why she said no, I asked her if its bc she thinks im unattractive or annoying or whatever and she keeps on replying idk:/ or maybe she doesn't want to get made of by her friends bc im a nobody

For example, a friend of mine shouted out to a group of us that he has about 8 girls at his home at the moment so he is going home to meet them. I believe him because i know him well, but the girls are only there to hang out and go back home. Another example, a friend of mine said he went to the club and gave a group of girls a ride to the club on his was. He was bragging that his jeep was packed with girls. But thats it, they got the ride. They both seemed to want to be praised for this. Why?

Well this is this guy and he always watches my snapchat stories, no matter how long they are. Also we had a streak but he lost it and I didn't try again because I just couldn't. I like him and I can't talk to him without feeling like a goofball. Anyway he sometimes glaces at me in the hallways and my best friend's locker is next to his so I see him a lot but don't say anything. He walks home sometimes and I do also, he started going the way I go because we live in the same community. But anyway we had a school dance tonight and he was there and everywhere I went he was there and I could feel him looking at me when me and my friends were dancing. I like him but I don't want to say anything because I'm a nervous wreck and school is almost out anyway so. But does he I just need a solid answer, ugh.

Guys how do you feel about a girl with shoulder length big curly hair ?

Me gusto mucho un muchacho que va en el gym conmigo lo conosco desde la secundaria pero nunca hemos hablado el unico problema es que es amigo de mi ex! E ivamos los 3 juntos al gym bueno no juntos ivamos nosotros 2 y el tambien entrenaba ahy , mi ex dejo de ir y ami me gusta mucho el nose que haceeeeer :( Pd: no son tan amigos solo se hablan en el gym jajaja Pd; mi ex es un maldito infiel mentiroso

Okay so me and my girlfriend were fooling around and I started to play with her boobs, more specifically her nipples. They started hurting but immediately stopped hurting when I stopped playing with them. Does anyone have any ideas about why that could be.

Guy I was seeing said that to me still tryna figure out exactly what he meant. Is it another way of needing space or something else.

I live with my man and he doesn't like going to festivals like me..I haven't gone to any really and he works the weekends 5am and that's my days off so I don't go out because when I do he makes me feel bad about it like he won't hug me and stuff...I just get so bored and my weekends are so lame and he's asleep by like 10pm latest..what should I do yo

I was dating a guy for a few months and I really liked him but he was a narcissist. He lovebombed me and manipulated to try to get me to agree to things I didn't want, but he'd gaslight when I called him out on it. He knew I wanted a relationship and led me on, avoiding being upfront about the fact that he expected me to act like a girlfriend (no dating other men, proving I cared about him, being available) while he didn't want commitment...he wanted to be free to date other women and have me join him when he slept with them! In short he was abusive, but the way he was abusive meant he wasn't openly mean so it was hard to see and it was hard to recognize that as charming as he was he was also a jerk. I'm still questioning everything. I'm a little scared of running into him in case I get sucked back in, also how do I react?? Do I just ignore him and let him know he has that power? Do I talk to him and just try to act like I'm not bothered?