My fiance proposed to me at a bonfire last weekend .. I was so excited/ emotional and a bit drunk so without thinking an hour later I put it up on Facebook. I feel awful and I've been wracking my brain on how to fix this. Nobody had brought it up that they were disappointed by finding of this way I just personally feel terrible and want to make it right somehow if i can.

I am unable to attend but would like to send a present - something small but nice, kate spade ring holder, kitchen items, etc

I'm unable to attend a very good friend's bridal shower and would like to send a small, but nice gift. Was looking at Kate Spade ring holders, small kitchen items, etc. Any ideas would be appreciated!

Husband got invited to co-worker's wedding. I'm guessing since I've never met the coworker, I didn't get invited. My one worry is my husband drinks too much at open bars and becomes a complete jerk....when I'm there. So I have trust issues with him drinking like this "alone". His coworkers enable him to drink (I've been at company parties etc) and he doesn't seem to realize his limit until he's passed it. Like I've said, I've never met this one specific co-worker, but I know his others and they aren't great influences to a married man, IMO. Husbands issue with not knowing his limit has gotten better since I've been able to remind him not to drink too much. I basically have to babysit my husband so he doesn't barf all over resulting in me carrying him home. Slow clap for me. Anyways, I don't particularly feel comfortable with him going alone. His defense is he hasn't gotten drunk like that in over a year....it's been a year since he's been drinking anywhere alone....it's also been a year since he came home and puked outside my 2 year olds room at 4am. I also feel like it's kinda rude not to invite a person's spouse to a wedding, but I guess it's financial and none of my business. On one end I don't want to be THAT wife who doesn't want her husband to go to his coworkers wedding and on the other hand I really don't want to take care of the kids all day and my presumably drunken husband all night. Thoughts?

Have any of you had a budget or unconventional wedding, or attended one as a guest? When I get married I want to spend as little as possible as I don't have 20k to spend on one day that most people will only attend bc they feel obliged. How would you feel if you attended a beach / park / museum wedding? Would you complain that it was cheap looking? I have a good eye for fashion so I definitely feel like I could prevent it from looking tacky or cheap in general but the venue is something I feel would cost the most so it would have to be free / cheap but nothing that screams Im Broke.

I've had a bit of a wild life, lots of guys, done things I am ashamed of married men swinging etc. Settled down with a great guy I love now he's steady and loves me, doesn't know 'all' of my past. Now it's three weeks away I am wondering if my wild side might pop its ugly head up when we are married? Any other women had this doubt?