Hi, I'm a 25 single old guy. I'm handsome & have a stable job that I love. There are some women over the years that have been interested in me but I turn them down. Some people do ask me when am I going to get married? I always tell them "Why? For sex & sandwiches, problems & headaches? Sign me up & lets see if she takes half of what I work hard for...." Every time a woman over hears me say that out load, they get upset & say how offensive that is. But that's the truth thou? That's what marriage leads too. Over the years I knew people who got married & it didn't workout. It's very sad & I'm not putting down people who choose to get married if that's what they want & to be happy. I question something that seems offensive but is it if it's true???

Going with mutual friends as well. We have a baby sitter for the kids so I want to make it about us. Dancing during concert? I'll take suggestions please. Thx

I am 17 and I just moved in with my 22 year old boyfriend. He has a very good job and makes good money. We are getting married in May. I am 3 months pregnant so I have dropped out of high school so I can be a stay at home mom. Since he makes good money and we are getting married I did not need to finish highs school to be a stay at home mom.

Please give me some details as to why do you feel you can trust your partner and if you dont then what the reason you like you can't trust your partner? What have you learned in the process or what has helped? Thanks,

So many marriages today end in divorce. I don't understand why anyone wants to get married. Divorces can be brutal. How does anyone know that he or she has found the "One?" I have witnessed many divorces in my family and my a lot of my friends' parents have gone through divorce. My parents are divorced and my aunts and uncles have been divorced. Witnessing all these divorces makes me never want to get married. I've never wanted to get married in the first place. It seems like a lot of people still get married today. You can be with someone without having that piece of paper. You don't have to get married to be with someone. If you are with someone and it doesn't work out, you can just leave them. When you are married and want to leave your spouse, you have to hire lawyers and the spouse who makes the most money has to pay a certain amount of their income to the other spouse and it can turn into a mess.

My wife just had a baby lately she loves to lay in bed and cuddle. Why ?

To sum it up we are in our 30's own our own thriving business have nice things, have a beautiful child. I have been lazy and taken her for granted for years. she has finally taken all she can and moved out of the house. We still work together and attempt to get along. Her thought process is that if she comes back home and gives us a second chance she will be taking a step in the wrong direction. I desperately want to show my wife that I can be the man that she wants me to be and the man that I want to be for the sake of myself and for my family, especially our daughter. I don't know where else to turn to as our families have been part of the problem in the past and with this most recent problem. She wants to stay married and live in an apartment away from me for a year and see how that goes. I just don't want to create a larger divide between us. What do I do????

I punched her in the nose twice after she slapped me.I had never been slapped before it was a heat of the moment decision but she called her sister who told the entire family and now she's living with people who think I'm a sociopath

Saying where's your new job, I heard you started somewhere new, I need to know this info or Ill notify my lawyer. It's ridiculous. She won't tell me about my kid but will reply with a similar responce above if I as. But swearing on my life I have no other job. Will the courts hassle me til they find out Im really telling the truth?

Even via text messages

We don't have children and maintain separate (I make higher than her). I am very unhappy in our marriage because she is very verbally abusive and demanding. I observed her behavior and it changed once we got married (3 year marriage 2.5 year dating). Its getting worse as days progress and I believe marriage counseling will not work (because this is a character issue with her). I did not tell my wife but somehow, she came to know by my search history. She was of course very furious about this, yelled at me by stating that I am cheating on her, deceiving and being abusive. She's been crying about me disrespecting her when she's been verbally abusive for years. Now, she's informed her family and her brothers are outraged by this. They think I am abusive even though she is. I am of course worried of my safety so I plan to move out to a hotel by the end of the week so they don't find me. I don't understand how me filing for divorce is being abusive? Can she legally stop my divorce process? Do I need her signature? I have video and audio evidence and she's not aware of them. DO I even need her signature for hte divorce?

practically married. Baby on the way. I don't talk to or add guys period on my Facebook but fiancé accepted this girls friend request and it hurts me . he said "she looks good for a 17 year old (wtf) and we got in a fight and he said he was gonna go flirt with her just to make me mad. I lost it. :[ were too old to be doing this.

My Dad cheated on my Mom and later both my step-mothers. I fear the man I love will do what my Dad did.

My husband has always been the type to talk a lot. He can talk to anyone, about anything, for hours. We only have one vehicle, and since I'm home with the baby all day, it's decided that I'm the one that needs the vehicle, so I take him to work and pick him up. He gets off work at 1:30pm, and every time I get there, at 1:30 on the dot, he always stays and talks to his coworkers for an extra 30 minutes or longer. Today I waited almost 2 hours, in the parking lot, in the running car, with a mad, screaming baby (he doesn't like being in the car if it isn't moving). I've told him I'm gonna stop being there at 1:30, but sure enough, the day that I don't get there "on time," Is the day that he gets off and leaves without talking to anyone. He says he's usually talking to the manager or whatever, because the people really like him and want to make him assistant manager. So he says he has to stay and talk because he's building relationships and securing a job. Is he being inconsiderate that I'm outside waiting, or am I being selfish?

This morning I talked to my boyfriend, and he started talking about marriage. Most would be happy an excited, but it made me a little nervous. I guess maybe it s because I am 20, am still in college, haven t even started my career, and still go home for long breaks. And he is in his late 20 s, hasn t gotten a degree, hasn t moved out, and does not have the greatest job. I guess when I picture marriage, I picture stability and having a career started at least, so even a small wedding can be affordable. And we wouldn t be stressing about getting married along with getting our lives started. I don t know

My husband and his ex dated for roughly 6-9 months, he broke it off with her for her jealousy, insecurity, controlling and overbearing tendencies. we met 3 months later and began dating. He blocked her on everything and she would not let him go. The first night we went on a date, I received a 3 page long FB message from her (We have no idea how she found out who I was). She tried to break us up numerous times. I then blocked and ignored her. *important note - She became best friends with my husbands best friends girlfriend during this time conveniently* Fast forward a year, we got engaged, She learns about the engagement and reaches out to my husband via a new email address. She began telling mutual friends that I am a rebound and that she knows him and her will get back together. I email her back asking her to leave us alone (per my husbands request). Fast forward 1 month before the wedding, She emails again with a new email address, husband ignores. We have now been married a year and a half and luckily no contact, however, now our friends are getting married and my husband is a groomsman and she a bridesmaid. We want nothing to do with her, but I dread what she might pull at the wedding because of her immaturity. Obviously we will do our best to ignore her for the sake of our friends wedding, but she does not make that easy. Any advice? Our ages: me-28, husband-30, ex gf-33 I'd also like to mention, my husband and I are very chill laid back people, we don't want any drama. I have no jealousy or insecurity towards her, I know there are no unresolved feelings on my husbands end, he is an amazing man and I can see why she is so upset she lost him (apart of me used to feel bad for her). We simply want to avoid any conflict or drama from her, which seems impossible given her immaturity. I'd also like to mention, my husband and I are very chill laid back people, we don't want any drama. I have no jealousy or insecurity towards her, I know there are no unresolved feelings on my husbands end, he is an amazing man and I can see why she is so upset she lost him (apart of me used to feel bad for her). We simply want to avoid any conflict or drama from her, which seems impossible given her immaturity.

I married someone who was a single mom. She has an 8 year old son. He can't read basic words like bag, get and find and he texts us like "wen ar yu kumeeng to the house" when he wants to say when are you coming to the house. I told him to turn off the ipad and read a book in order to get the ipad back and my wife got mad. She said "he is just a kid. what is wrong with a kid playing on an ipad." He never flushes after poop and when I tell him to do it , he says "why do I have to do it?" and he stares at me as if he is angry. I told him to go and flush toilet and my wife got very mad at me and said "maybe he just forgot." When we go to ride a bus or the subway, he jumps and holds on to those grab handles and plays like a dangling monkey. Whenever I tell him to stop, my wife says "he is just a kid" and tries to protect him and never lets me discipline him. She gets mad easily. He also pees every night and he doesn't eat anything except when it is a hamburger,pizza or spaghetti. On the other day, we went to a restaurant. I ordered a steak and he didn't eat any of it. He even said "it looks very disgusting. I want to eat what I like." I told him to try but he said no. my wife said "why are you forcing him to eat what he doesn't he like" So I gave him pizza, hamburgers and spaghetti only for a month and she said it is unhealthy so I said what should I cook? He doesn't eat and you get mad when I tell him to eat something else. She she got angry again. Do I have to file a divorce?

I found out she had been cheating on me with more than one other guy. I asked her for the truth and she lied and lied and each lie she told revealed other problems. I ended our relationship and kicked her out of my house. She is now telling all our mutual friends that me kicking her out proves she was right to cheat. I'm so upset she did this, and now she is trying to turn her mistake around and blame me. Why is she thinking like this?

my spouse and I are going through a separation but had a family vacation planned with his side of the family before the separation happened. his family doesn t know of anything going on between us and we have 2 kids together. should I still go on vacation with them and act like nothing is wrong? or simply go because of our kids? HELP!!!!

My wife has small breasts and looks like a twig with a belly and is nagging me constantly.

I have a great relationship with my wife. She is everything I could ask for in a woman and more. But I am starting to wonder if she cheated on me and my daughter isn't really my own. It has caused great stress for me to speculate this the past few months. I don't know how to bring it up to my wife without offending her in case it ends up not being true. I don't want trust issues in our marriage. The reason I think my daughter isn't mine is because she has brown eyes. I have very light blue eyes. My wife has green eyes. Both my parents have blue eyes. My wife's parents have blue and green eyes. Where would she have gotten brown eyes from?? It seems very unlikely. Now how can I bring this to my wife's attention without sounding crazy, paranoid, and hurting her feelings?

I ve been with my husband for 5 years. We re in our 40 s. For the first 3 years we had sex 5 to 6 days a week. Sometimes twice a day. Even then, I found by accident he was watching porn and masturbating when I went to sleep early. He had told me about it but lied and said he was thinking of me. He had me use his computer for something for him and I see all the videos he had watched. Plus downloaded a bunch of pics to add to his hundreds he had already before we were together. He also will tell me when he thinks a women is pretty or has a nice body of tv or a movie. He says he s just being honest but when I didn t ask why blurt it out? I know he had many partners back in his 20 s and 30 s and I feel like I ll never be enough for him. I ve heard the whole men are more visual, I m not dead, I was just passing time and as long as I m not touching anyone else what does it matter but how can I not take it personally? If we are/ were having sex that much plus I m pretty open to most anything he wants to do or try then how much sex and nudity is an issue? I get he ll always be attracted to other women as will I to other men. Am I wrong for not wanting him to be aroused by another woman, pic or video and then come to me for satisfaction?

You get married to the love of your life, right? I believe that everyone looses interest in their partner eventually. So how do you find someone that doesn't give up on you, exactly? Someone who doesn't act like you're a form of ENTERTAINMENT and got BORING? how to people get to marriage without being dissatracted eventually. How do you like somebody for years and years like that? No one's liked me that long I think. Am I not with the right people, or am I just an unfortunate and boring person? I'm done with feeling like an object. Almost given up.

I am 18 and married. I am now 6 months pregnant. I was going to be a senior in high school this year but I dropped out of school when I found out I was pregnant. My husband had a very good job and makes very good money. We live in a nice house and I just want to be a stay at home mom. I did not need to finish high school to be a stay at home mom. My parents think I should al least get my GED but I don't want to.

I feel so alone with a new baby and he's just getting worse.

My husband told me he doesn't think couple counseling is helping even though it's new I feel like progress was being made. I found out my husband lied & hide a bank account from me. I'm fine with it just the fact he felt the need to not tell me like a secret is bothering me. After all the counseling we've been through. I feel betrayed because he wasn't honest. Now I can't trust him anymore. He lied again to me. He also wants me to see his point of view without seeing mine. I feel this is unfair. He shouldn't had to lie behind my back. I wish he would have just told me. I feel like my trust is gone now because we're issues then he lies to me. I am trying to see if divorce is the right option. I feel miserable with him at all times. The only time we laughed together was giving the puppy a bath last week.