What will go in their individual minds? Will the wife feel superior having slept with many men before marriage as she could compare her husband with her exes(human nature) and does'nt have to worry about getting compared with other women as her husband is a virgin and will be inferior for them?

Will such wife feel inferior knowing that they being women had slept with many men and now would be able to compare her husband with her exes but the poor husband can't compare her with anyone?

A year ago I was thinking it would be great to have a kid, but I recently got my dream job and it kind if changes things... I just want to focus on my career now. BUT my fiance doesn't know this and I think I should leave him. I love him so much but I know how badly he wants kids and I just think he deserves someone who will want the same thing. I know he loves me, but having kids is his dream and I know that when I tell him, he's going to accept it and choose to stay with me and I just cant let him do that. This job means a lot to me, my publisher got me a great deal and my book is finally kicking off. I just don't know what to do. Any advice will be great

a) yes b) no When you answer, can you give me an explanation?

A few days ago, my BF said I'm the best one but he is not ready for marriage. He says even when he asked me to be his GF, it took him long (back in January) to finally decide. But he says he is committed as BF/GF. Then yesterday, he suddenly said to not worry about the future and that he likes everything about me. And he doesn't like to talk about future a lot, but he said after summer we will travel to so and so. Does this mean he gave it a lot of thought and was expressing that we are long term with possibility of marriage?

I'm a 30 year old married man who need physical intimacy in my life. I've been married to my wife for 2 years and it's been a little over year since we had any regularity in our love life. Around late April early May is where it really slowed down from like 2-3 times a week to like 2-3 times a month. Around that time we moved into a new house. I ask her what was up and said she was exhausted from work and she has a bad nerve in her back which would also cause her pain. On top of that she has thyroid disease which also takes a toll on her. I helped around the house, ran errands, did anything I could to make life easy as possible for her during that time. We just had our first child March 14th. So during pregnancy she was really sick, complained she had pressure in her vagina etc. All that was completely understandable. So I would get manual stimulation maybe once or twice a month. She had a c-section and needed time to heal from that. So here we are 3 months since the baby is born and we've literally had 0 intimacy. Her period came back is one of the reason but other than that I dont see why. When we get home from work around 6pm I tend to the baby. All she has to do is relax and destress from her day. I do that in hopes she would be ready. I do all the little stuff, text her throughout the day, set up dates at our house, buy her gifts. I really try to be romantic and it doesnt seem to work. When I ask her what's going on it's either shes on her period or shes tired or in pain

I have been stressed and I know that stress effects your immune system but I've been stressed before and I've still never been this sick before. Last month I had what I thought was a stomach virus I was throwing up nonstop for two weeks and couldn't even hold water down. But no one else in my household was sick. Then about two months ago when I went to Florida on a trip to Disney world with the family  I had the worst sickness of my life. I had a horrible cough was coughing 24/7 and my head was pounding so bout I felt like my head would explode. I was also throwing up there my period was late .. and I had no energy. I normally have a very good immune system I mean the last time I was sick was 12 years old so these back to back Illnesses have my extremely worried. I went to the doctor and they said it was a common cold but that didn't feel like a common cold. My neck has also been extremely itchy and seems like I've been developing a rash or something. I don't know if this goes hand and hand with my sicknesses just thought I would put that out there. I don't think I'm pregnant because I did get my period even though it was late plus I had protected sex with the man I had an affair with. Yes I stupidly had an affair about 6 months ago. I ended the affair and stopped seeing the man and now trying to work on my marriage. My husband knows about the affair and has forgiven me through counseling . 

I am happily married for 12 years. Kids are 5 and 7

Dated 1 yr married 8 yrs. No kids together. Other then step kids. My husband is the only child. While i have a brother and sister. He was raised with 2 parents. While i just with my mother. Bottem line is my husband works, great father doesn't do drugs and I like wise. But for some reason he sucks at cooking and cleaning and yard work, and which i also do that. I get tired sometimes to. I need for him to step up. But nothing works. He looks forward to me cooking and cleaning moslty if not always. He use to cook when we were dateing but now he doesnt. His mom did all of the chores growing up smh and now i think he's seening that in me.  Am i tripping??  Im 33 hes 37 Kids 10 and 16 The kids do chores. Its different when you got your spouse doing things with you. To me its like spending time together

Marriages aren't just for fun. They're for continuing the family line. So if you're a homosexual or don't intend to have children should be banned from being married and have their current marriages annulled. Marriages are only valid if you continue your bloodline imho. Otherwise they're a sham. 

I applied online then went to go talk to him in person to show initiative. He said ok definitely high on the list and have a high chance of getting the job and then he said He expects certain things from the ladies ummmmm is he trying to be sexist and saying we should know how to cook cause we are female I looked up his profile and he's married so I would hope he's not trying anything with the female employees. I applied for this job because I love to cook and think it would be perfect seeing as how I alresdy cook 24/7

My wife(26) and I(28) have been married for over a year, but been together for 3 years.  In the beginning my wife and family were close. Close enough that she would come for family dinners, holidays etc. Over time my now 21yo sister began treating her terribly. Making her feel uncomfortable, not speaking to her when visited, she would send her mean texts about how she felt about her. She would even make up lies and try to make everybody in the house feel as if she's not a good person. For instance the next day after visiting sending a group chat asking if she took her stuff from my moms because it went "missing". Because of my sister, my wife has tried reaching out to my mom being that she's uncomfortable and my mom doesn't say much. She still welcomes my wife around but they don't conversate much. I truly believe my sister has caused their relationship to differ. Now my wife feels completely betrayed. She's never said anything bad about anyone and has always came to my house with gifts, love etc. Because of this now I go to my family functions alone. She says she doesn't care anymore and she's not going to be in place where she feels excluded over nothing she's done. She's mad at everyone at this point. She doesn't want to put me in the middle, but now I'm married going to my family gatherings alone. I love and value my wife and want to know how to handle this situation and if she's being mature about handling it this way.

I was friends with a couple: Jack and Jane. Jack divorced Jane simply because he was tired of her. I always liked Jane. I did a business deal with Jack and he cheated me. It almost went to litigation. I never want to see Jack ever again. Would Jane welcome it if I reached out to her on Facebook or the like, to say hello? I'd like to let her know what Jack did, just to commiserate. No romantic interest in Jane. Would Jane welcome that? Thanks.

He and I have always been able to talk about everything.  He knows, absolutely, that I will give it to him straight.  We had a long discussion about it all, since he is reaching that point where he and he GF are starting to reference the day when they live together.  Am before you go on answering about stuff that you really don't know about (nor what I am asking - so shove something down your throat until you choke), I am the person in the best position to give him advice about living the best life he possibly can.  If I am not in the best position to give him advice about girls, then who is?  (This ought to be good).

Consider infedelity?

Ever since my ex and I broke up my ex hubby moved on to a younger and prettier girl she loves my daughter as if she was her own but ever since they got married my daughter has been spending more time with her new family and it has gotten worse when she got married my daughter keeps telling stories about her stepmom to her own kids about how wonderful she was and what things they did I am grateful for my ex husbands wife for treating my child like it was her own but still  Is it jealousy or something 

I grew up in a mentally emotionally physically and verbally abusive home I was an unwanted child I was treated like trash but when I started dating my husband he came from a loving family that accepted me with open arms i wish I had a family like my husband had it is not fair that my husband grew up in a loving environment and I grew up in a emotionally physically verbally and mentally abusive house hold  Why couldn't I get loving parents? This isn't a troll I was emotionally physically verbally and mentally abused by my family  ANSWER MY QUESTION NOW  My husband and his family treat me better than my own family ever did with their support I cut them off but I can't help but wonder why my parents never loved me 

Should the husband feel like a fool who trusted her words like an innocent person but instead got fooled by his wife for her benefits? So after this, should the husband trust her easily in future and should he always suspect her and be strict with her always? 

What actions can a husband take against such a cheating wife for hurting him and fooling him? Just divorcing her is not a punishment as she can easily again get married to her exes with whom she was cheating or with others?

My boyfriend drives me everywhere I need to go to work the grocery store etc. If he can't take me or is at work himself then I stay home. i gave up on learning how to drive because I have panic attacks every time I'm behind the wheel and feel like I can't breathe. I've accepted the fact that this will be my reality that is my norm. But my fear is that other people will judge me and laugh at a 30 year old who can't drive . I don't know if I should lie when people ask me if I drive or tell them that I have crippling anxiety. I also struggle with depression  Also my boyfriend has accepted this about me. He said driving isn't for everybody and you tried but your mental is not right for it 

So... I live in an apartment with my husband. Lately, I haven't been able to sleep due to it being super hot in the bedroom. The living room has an air conditioner. My husband sleeps in the living room for now, his choice. He snores really loud which usually keeps me up but he is supposed to get a CPAP machine. They keep rescheduling his appointments due to Coronavirus. He decided to sleep in the living room, he feels bad for keeping me awake (i have Amazon Alexa playing rain sounds so I cannot hear him snore it works). Should I buy another air conditioner for the bedroom? I have to have maintenance put it in because they would have to remove the cover thats in the wall. Also they put covers on the vents and do not allow us to use the AC once Fall begins until Memorial day. I usually been up until 3am for the past few weeks and messing up my sleep by sleeping during the day :/