so for years my boyfriend has been nothing but nice and polite to my dad, my whole family actually. my brother adores my boyfriend, they actually work out a lot together. He can talk to my boyfriend for 4 hours straight. I actually have to keep my brother from talking my fiance head off all day. ANYWAYS I was on the computer and my dad was like " You must be talking to ( name of fiance) . My dad was like " I thought he was at work". I was like " no... I'm doing work. but mabye you should try to bond with my fiance, yall can go golfing or something together.." MY dad was like " no we don't need to bond and don't go crazy if we never bond". I was like " I'm not going to go crazy but he will be your son in law soon."my dad was like " he can bond with your brother, they are closer in age.. My brother is 20 my boyfriend is 25. I have another brother who is 23 but he doesn't live in the house anymore.

I am a male and my best friend is a female and she is getting married. she wants me to be part of the wedding party but expects me to pay for the tuxedo rental. I am already helping her by giving her $500 for the wedding.

I'm newly engaged and what should be the happiest moment of my life has turned into me having a lot of anxiety and stress. I'm in my mid 20's, me and my boyfriend have been dating for several years but we've been best friends for like 7 years so I've known him a lot longer than we've dated. I understand that fathers are often afraid of losing their "little girl" so they can exhibit some jealous characteristics but I'm stressed out trying to prove to my dad that I love them both equally and that my future husband isn't replacing him by any means. If my dad sees me on the computer he automatically assumes I'm talking to my fiance and he goes " You're always on that computer, you must be talking to ( insert Fiance's name). I told him " No I actually have a lot of work I have to do on the computer. He says this quite often actually every time I'm on a device he assumes it's my Fiance. When I'm hanging out with my boyfriend he goes " I only saw your mother on the weekends." He does the same thing with my younger brother who's 23, he tells my brother he only saw my mom on the weekends. If my boyfriend goes out of his way to bring me a sweet treat my dad will be like " I can't believe he drove all the way to our house to bring you just a yogurt." My boyfriend was talking about how he would kill someone for me If I was ever in immediate danger and my dad was like " You would risk going to jail for her. What about your mother, how would she react to you being in jail." I told my boyfriend don't call me any terms of endearmeant around my dad. No calling me " honey, sweetie, babe" none of that. He should just refer to me as my name so my dad won't be jealous or anything. I try to make the situation as comfortable as possible for my dad because I understand It's hard to accept when your little girl is growing into adulthood. I just don't want any problems.