i was reading an article which had taken place in southern california many year ago. i may not remember it all but every since i read the article it has been on my mind often as who was to blame.- a married woman and i man was having an affair. it started out they would hook up in a motel while her husband was working and before it was over they were in her bed. from what i understand he gave her what ever she wanted:lots of money ,gifts., she named it she got it. well it came to a point when she chose to get what life she once had back. from what i understand she cut all contact with the man with no reason. it said he lost his mind because he was in love with her, so it went to say he stared contacting her husband and her in laws to try and find out why all of a sudden. it said she even took him to court but it didn't solve what he had issues with ,which was why she left with not even a goodbye. now it said he gave her 10's of thousands of dollars in liked a year and a half time period. she and her associates had someone all over this man everywhere he went and he was most of the reason that it was like that because he wanted to know why.

I'm very pretty and into all things beauty and fashion. I'm also funny and charming. I'm going to med school. Are men more protective of women "like me"?

If you don't know them and it's like a one night stand. Wouldn't it be bad for the spouse you slept with? How is the single person doing anything wrong. They aren't married, they can sleep with whoever. The cheating spouse is the only person at fault.

I just need an unbiased opinion about this. I am attracted to women in hospital gowns and she wore them prior to marriage for me. Now she walks around in sweatpants and flannel pajamas, not the sexy ones. We now only have sex once every few weeks, and when I ask her to put on a hospital gown, she gets very upset that I am asking her to do that. I gave up and asked her to wear something sexy and she can pick the item. She had an issue with that too.

I moved out 2 years ago and now they need me to write a reference letter because the contract still under my name

a mistress. if he's giving her money and sleeping with her and keeping her.

haven't had sex yet after saying I do?

Shes an old coworker/friend from his single days. She contacted him and asked him to fly her to her dad's house near Las Vegas and he agreed, planning this for a month without telling me. I've never met her, she doesn't know I exist. He asks me a few days before he's going to take a friend somewhere, is that ok? And I say yeah, who? He gets this smirk like he knows I'm going to get upset and said "oh, she's just an old coworker" and then he tries to move on. Suffice it to say that over several days I have questions. He said he didn't tell her he was married because he needed to do it in person. He said it just never came up to tell me beforehand that he was flying her out someplace, even though we planned a trip ourselves, and he factored that trip in to our plans, without mentioning it to me. I asked him to cancel and let her fly commercial for $100,he refused. After days of pressuring him, he finally emails to mention he got married 2 year ago and we have a baby, and that she needed to invite another passenger if she didn't want to fly commercial because he "doesn't want his new wife to think he's running away with an ex girlfriend to Vegas or something,lol", but not before she invited him to stay the night and offered to bring an extra sleeping bag. Her Instagram has several pictures of him on special camping trips they've taken etc. Well, I was unhappy then, now he says she invited him to lunch with just her and her son will be chaperoning... Why can't he let her go?

He works and then attends his boxing training and then he will sleep for 12 hours a day. He doesn't cook for me or eat the food that I cook because he has his own time when he eats.

I'm 30 and my husband is 33. We have young kids and I'm a SAHM. I'm biracial and he's an annoying typical white man. He works long hours and when he comes home he messes up the house leaving doors open and he wants attention. I'm tired all day taking care of the house and kids while he works. I am so bored these days. Just being at home not meeting people except my husband is a shame. Am tired all the time as well. I have really been thinking about a divorce because he annoys me so much but we have young kids the youngest being only 9 months old. I'm so bored these days it's just the same old everyday. He's an only child and close to his parents and they come over every week which I think is too much. I don't mind my husband or kids going there but why must they come here every week? They are in their 50's so it's not as if they are that old to have other interests. His mom is awful, she makes comments on what food I should be giving my kids and how our house should look. We have planned to visit disneyland in the summer and they of course had to invite themselves. My husband thinks it's okey and he welcomes them. What do I do?

So my dad had a baby with one of the women he works with back in 2011 and they married in 2012. She's 30 years younger and is a PhD chemist. They had another baby two years ago and now my dad just retired at 65 and is now a stay at home dad to his two kids with his wife and he had a kid with a woman in 2009 as well, so she stays over often too. I know his wife (my step mom) wants to have a 3rd baby at some point too. He's had plenty of health issues that are ongoing, but I'm not sure they're serious because he takes pills for most of it....high blood pressure, prostate issues, had gallstones not too long ago and has had reoccurring kidney stones for the last 20 years. It just seems like this won't be good for him. Thoughts?

It's been almost 2 years and I still haven't got over my ex husband. We were only married for 9 months but we were together for 3 years. We had a rocky relationship but I would blame that him being mentally ill and never getting help. I found out him and my 18 year old sister were messing around (he's 24) and he ended up getting her pregnant. I hated him for it and left him. My sister and I are trying to have a relationship but it's hard when her 1 year old child was my step child at one point. I have since moved away from everyone and started a new life but I am still so hurt. I cry when I think about it and can't see myself loving again because I don't want to be hurt. Any advice and no, I don't want to go to therapy...I've tried and it's very irritating

I did not mean the question mark, I am mentally and physically ill.

It's been almost 2 years and I still haven't got over my ex husband. We were only married for 9 months but we were together for 3 years. We had a rocky relationship but I would blame that him being mentally ill and never getting help. I found out him and my 18 year old sister were messing around (he's 24) and he ended up getting her pregnant. I hated him for it and left him. My sister and I are trying to have a relationship but it's hard when her 1 year old child was my step child at one point. I have since moved away from everyone and started a new life but I am still so hurt. I cry when I think about it and can't see myself loving again because I don't want to be hurt. Any advice and no, I don't want to go to therapy...I've tried and it's very irritating

I'm 30 and my husband is 33. We have young kids and I'm a SAHM. I'm biracial and he's an annoying typical white man. He works long hours and when he comes home he messes up the house leaving doors open and he wants attention. I'm tired all day taking care of the house and kids while he works. I am so bored these days. Just being at home not meeting people except my husband is a shame. Am tired all the time as well. I have really been thinking about a divorce because he annoys me so much but we have young kids the youngest being only 9 months old. I'm so bored these days it's just the same old everyday. I love my kids but never having time for myself is tiring me. I can't even join a dance class or get my nails done. The marriage is boring, all my husband does it talk about his boring job and when we have date nights it's the same old restaurant. I feel so overwhelmed. What do I do?

I got married last year when I was 16 to get away from my my abusive parents, only to end up with a abusive husband. My childish mistake. I came to visit my mom, a year later (17 years old) and confessed everything to her. I told her about how he is abusive and how I have worked out a plan to stay with a friend till I get back on my feet & that I will not being taking my flight back to my husband. She told me I need to swallow it (she was absuive as well) and she told me she won't let me leave & that she will force back on the plane. I'm scared she'll call the police if I leave. I don't know how far she can go legally since I'm emancipated by marriage . I need advice urgently. I don't want to get my friend in trouble and I don't wanna get in trouble myself.

He spent an entire week in bed due to depression. He depends on his mom financially and gets bullied by people in his country. He had to cancel an event he was hoping to host due to the depressed state he was in! On his Instagram which is public, he gets mean comments sometimes from trump supporters, But from a variety of people too. One called him a beggar in a slum. He's a designer and they commented that he was wearing rags. Is he likely to go into depression again after those kinds of comments