My husband hired a consultant for his business, they were just friends before he hired her. During the consultation I noticed this woman would touch his hand, make sexual remarks about stuff,etc. Now this consultation service is over, she offered to still help me & support him so they meet on a monthly basis for coffee meetings. He actually picks her up from a college she teaches at & they go to have coffee & drops her back off before her class.Where is this woman taking the relationship? Does she want more $$ or to ****?

We dated in college and broke up when I moved away and he has completely changed into a different person. When we dated he was a shy nerdy guy who was really nice, and who was really into a sport that he practiced a lot, and a couple years later, now he's a professional athlete in his sport, and has grown into himself and matured a lot and is a really outgoing, funny, mature guy who deserves all the success he has earned, he works really hard from what I've seen on his social media. He has several hundred thousand instagram followers now and is sponsored by many different clothing and sports and supplement/sports drink company, lives in a fancy house, etc. and all I've done since we broke up is accumulate a ton of student debt, haven't gotten a job yet, and had to move back in with my parents and I basically just play video games all day and sleep in until 2pm everyday I'm depressed and seeing my ex boyfriend who i broke up with highly successful makes me even more depressed

So I just broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years on and off. We have two kids together under the age of 2. I still love him, but I felt breaking up with him was the best thing to do. He can't keep a job, cannot support the children, and does drugs. I've come to realize him and I have completely different morals in life and it's not good for the kids. He loves me and the kids though a lot. He's never kept the kids over night before by himself and it worries me. I won't let him keep them at his house due to the drugs either. I'm wondering if taking him to court for child support and getting the custody figured out is the best thing. Just at the moment I know he would be put in a bad situation and I dont want to hurt him. He would most likely go to jail due to a warrant for his arrest that hes had years to take care of if I take him to court...advice? I just want to feel like this is the best thing for me to do for the kids...but it's hard for me to accept that I'm also hurting him in doing so. I don't want to keep his kids from him but I need help paying for their expenses as well as refuse to send them into a dangerous situation. He loves the kids...

Guy I work with about maybe 6 months or so. Both of us are managers. He's married and has been for a long time and has 4 kids. He told me before he thinks it's good to be nice to everyone and he's like super nice, like the nicest person I ever met. But I'll catch him sometimes winking at me. And he calls me "V" instead of my actual name which is cute I think. There's another manager there at told me flat out "oh he flirts with me all the time and he flirts with you". But I've never seen him flirt with her. Anyway, he does stay late if I need him to or if someone calls in he is the first to be there. But he does seem very devoted to his wife because he talks about her plus they've been married forever lol. I just dunno. He is very good looking but I wouldn't want to be the reason he ruins his marriage. I just think he may like me since he's so super nice and winks and has this little name for me. But maybe he's just really friendly?? He does know when I'm down though and comforts me by telling me advice or that he thinks I'm really good at my job etc. and he had called me pretty before too.

We have a rough past with my Mother-in-Law. I love her and honor her but since my husband I started dating, she's been doing everything for us to not be happy, constantly would come up and literally say "don't expect him to hug or kiss you cause he just won't do that, he's not like that" and all kinds of stuff like that. We even had to call off the wedding because we didn't choose the venue that she wanted. We got back together but she still interferes after us being married for almost four years now. The problem is that my husband doesn't want to see all those facts. She recently without asking, cut our 1-year-old son's hair, giving him an Amish cut. Financially we are blessed, but as of right now we are renting a place, however, could be planning to buy our own place. Hubby says that his parents have a huge house and we don't need our own place, we should go live with his parents. His parents are not yet elderly and don't require special care. I tried explaining nicely that I don't think it would work out and our relationship (with my MIL) is better when we're not close together meaning in one home. I never dared to say anything negative to her. I just feel like hubby doesn't care about my feelings and comfort. How do I come about this situation? He just won't even consider what I'm talking about!

My wife has had a rough year with her family so far. Her cousin died last month from the flu and possibly cardiac arrest they never knew what happened to her but she was pregnant with her second baby. Then a week after that her grandpa had died a few weeks ago her aunt had a seizure and car accident along with it she's ok but she's not getting any better. My wife is really upset and scared she said she's ready for this year to be over she hope's it goes by quickly. She's also pregnant with our 3rd baby she's kind of has emotional problems right now. How can I comfort her ?

I'm just wondering, my parents got divorced over a yr ago and both of them have new partners and especially with my mom she has a bf and I see him pretty much almost any day I'm at my moms, he usually sleeps over and also I see his kids at my house every weeeknd I'm there. So they aren't married but I still watch his kids quite often, and have dinner with them all some days and even went on a week long vacation with them.. so yeah. I don't refer to them like that but with my friends I usually do just since it's easier to say stepmom/dad, ya know? Oh and I'm 16 btw

If your wife is encouraging you to cheat, so she could divorce you, if your wife is encouraging you to divorce period, and pushing you, fighting with you, attacking you, and being fretful, and pecking over and over. She encourages this for me to do it because she doesn't want to be held accountable by God. Is this just as bad as her divorcing me?

Is it a good idea to experience life on your own, in your own place, before living with someone else? Or is it totally fine to get married and move in with a spouse after living with your parents your entire life? Pros and cons of both? I'm NOT talking about living together before marriage! I personally don't agree with that. I am asking about living on YOUR OWN before considering getting married and moving in with a spouse. Sex before marriage has nothing to do with the question asked...? I don't agree with that either. Thank you everyone for your input!

We have been married 4 years and have barely had sex at all with each other. He refuses because I have endometriosis and usually have to stop because of pain, therefore he decided he is not going to have sex with me at all. I am very conflicted about what to do. He is not cheating (he works with all guys and I know where he is at all times, plus he has not shown signs of cheating and I do check his phone/email.) I have brought this up to him numerous times and every time it's the same answer. There is no physical contact (kissing, cuddling, etc.) In our marriage and I hate it. Should I get divorced? I do love him but hate what our marriage has turned out to be. We do not have any kids if it helps.

I like a coworker and I'm pretty sure he likes me too but he is married I have no intention to break up a marriage or cause issues but I also can't control how I feel what do I do. I need to communicate with him often at work so I can't really avoid him even if I try too

Twice someone has said it to me and 3 people have said it to my husband. This makes me sad because I think my husband is hottie! He tries to not let it bother him. Curious to know if anyone else has experienced someone saying this?

Short story. My wife's mother and her boyfriend have made it very clear they dislike me. They blame me for many things like changing her daughter since she decided to get involved with religion, stop smoking drinking etc after dating me that they interpret as her being a different person that doesn't fit into their family anymore.. there's much more issues but the summed up version is that. They continuously message her or me being degrading or mocking our marriage. They bad mouth myself to other people including their other family members. Whenever my wife visits (alone) they can't just enjoy the time without stirring up drama and again, being rude about myself or making her trying feel guilty for something they say is wrong. It's to the point i'm not even comfortable with my wife visiting, honestly wish they wouldn't even talk. I know it's family... but family should be supportive! Not disrespecting constantly. It's not even just about me, it's about the fact they hurt her everytime they act this way. Obviously I don't like people being in my wife's life that will disrespect myself or our marriage to her.. but I moreso don't like people who continue to make her sad by it as well. We've both tried resolving this in the past but they always play the victim card and "sorry we're such horrible people" excuse. Act good for a few days then go back to their old ways.. What are the rules on this? Does being family make an exception to keep association with despite their actions?

So I'm in real estate right now. Its a great career. I just don't like the fact I don't get paid consistently and worrying about not making rent etc. I think I just want a normal job with for sure pay. How do I tell my boyfriend I want a career change but unsure of what I want to do?

I recently started a new job. One of my new co-workers is a person I can't stand; I can't stand seeing her name on the schedule or see her standing in the room or knowing that she is in the vicinity and I have to risk seeing her or having to work with her during my shift. Just the mention of her name in certain circles is enough to aggravate me for several hours. Since she is the wife of my ex-boyfriend (an obvious reason for my dislike), she and I are acquaintances on social media; she has previously behaved very immaturely and rudely towards me - making comments that are not only immature, but also degrading; she has snooped through multiple status posts to make these comments. More recently, I have caught her shooting me dirty looks when I show up for work, and she has previously applied to work at a place where I worked several years ago. My ex and I get along as friends, but his wife likely has no idea just how close our friendship is at times. I won't go in to details, other than to say that (among other things) he has confided some serious issues to me in the past. I should also mention that I applied for this position for the extra money, not for any ulterior motives (my ex works there, too).

My husband was overseas and decided when he got back to the states in December that we should get married and move in together. I left everything I knew to come be with him and in the beginning everything was great. About a month ago, we got into a pretty heated argument over something petty (not finances or infedelity). Anyway, since we live on base, security forces were involved since we were being loud and it got around to his supervsor and they're expressing concern. His parents also knew about this heated argument and told him that he should "get a divorce and just be done with it" but he says he doesn't want to end the relationship we have. Now only after 3 months of being married, he's saying he wants to get a divorce while we stay in a relationship together, continue living together, and will get re-married later once we work on our relationship because "it's a better look on us." We've reconciled after the argument and since then we've actually been on good terms. But he still wants to legally end the marriage. I think this is all unnecessary. Every time I bring up my feelings about the situation he becomes distant and seems like he has a mind made up that this is the best option which in my opinion, believe that if he really cared and loved me he would make an effort to at least hear me out and try working on our marriage before turning to divorce. Married couples argue all the time but after one big argument he thinks this is the only way to solve things.

My wife is 6 months pregnant with our 3rd baby she's been really depressed lately. How can I comfort her ?