So in reality im 14, but i was 13 when i met my internet best friend (she was 18 atm). And when we first met i lied about being 15, and now i have to pretend that im 16 and its so hard to tell her the truth because she thinks im in 10th grade nad she told me about the thungs what is going be there and i feel so stupid about lying. Second reason: im scared that she will leave me i know true friends wouldnt do that but like im so scared i have dreams about her finding out about my age.. and when u try to google my name there is one facebook post where i am and it says (my name) 8th grader. IM SK SCARED I DOMT KNOW HOW TO BRING THAT TOPIC IDK HOW SHE WILL REACT please please help me im feeling devestated. and i used to lie about my age because i get along with people that are couple years older than me and they dont want to accept me into their groups. plesse help me idk what to do anymore

it was about six months ago with an ex when we hung out as friends but well I started touching her places and fingering her and I would physically force her head down all the way to get my penis in her mouth She never really said no because she was high when this happened because we smoked before. but she did try and get her head up as best she could but of course I was to strong lol. I also did this to her at a movie theater so she couldn't make a scene... I feel like a bad person now but I just couldn't stop doing that. Am I a terrible person?

When I was 14, my friend and I (I'm boy and my friend is a girl) would go swimming in her pool, she lived about 5 houses down from me in a quiet neighborhood. We were close family friends who knew eachother for a long time. Well one day we were about to get in the pool and her mom came out to tell us that she was leaving for a bit for whatever reason I don't remember. About 5 minutesbafter she jumped in and then I did as well. But I had just gotten a new swim suit and didn't realize how big it was, when I jumped in and came back up my trunks fell off and she saw everything. I freaked out and pulled them back up, she look shocked and blushed. I was super embarrassed and apologized and everything. She said that was ok accidents happen and giggled. I got really shy there, but then she asked me if I wanted to see her naked Bc she felt bad and said we could be even. My mind went crazy and she pointed to her top and said go ahead. She let me lift it up and off to look, shebeven let me see under her bottom for a sec too. After that I thanked her and we laughed about it. We don't really talk about it but we are still great friends and now that I think about it... I kinda enjoyed seeing her naked xD

So, my friends keep calling me spoiled, dumb, uneducated, bratty, rude, mean, etc... Is there a way to find out of I am or am not? No, they all say tho that I'm spoiled, and I was listing the reasons they think I'm spoiled.. Idk they think I'm SUPER rich when really in my neighborhood I'm what I think of as as mediocre.. They're all super poor, they get no weekly nor monthly allowances.. etc.. Also, their houses are like super cheap, about $300k - $500k.. Soo.. Should I list characteristics that they think I am spoiled about?

I work at a pizza place and only work 2-3 days a week as part time. I have a pretty nice discount too. Once my friends found that out, they said that I should not be shy with how many times I go there to buy food. And that if it were them that they would go everyday, and multiple times a day. It even came to a point when one friend of mine asked if I could get him 5 boxes of 24 piece cheese sticks and that he would pay me after the discount was applied. I told him no, that five is too much. If it was two I could, but five is a lot and I do not want to come off as greedy. He and my friends said it was my right and that I could come there as much as I want. They also said that the pizza place would be making profit off of me because the cost of production for pizza is very cheap. What do you guys think?

So this weekend my best friend and I were supposed to get food together, her name is Janice. Janice is dating my other bestfriend Leo. So recently me and Janice were planning on eating out together but she took a trip to California without telling me and I got a little upset because neither of them said they were going and Janice didnt even message to cancel our already made plans. I apologized to Janice recently and Leo for being upset and I told them it was okay. They told me we could reschedule but if im being honest I don t feel like going out to eat anymore. Anyways, so the weekend they were gone and the week before i ve been hanging out with a friend I met recently and his name is Gabriel. Anyways, Gabriel and I have been playing a lot of fortnite together and i ve been having a lot of fun playing with him. But ever since I made friends with him and playing my two bestfriends Leo and Janice started distancing themselves.

So I have the choice between going to the high school the goes with my middle school or going to a new one I've had my eye on for awhile. The only problem is that I can be very shy at times, especially when I don't know anyone. I'm worried that I won't make any friends at a new school. But I also want to go to a new one because I'm very unpopular and it makes me feel like I'm just on the outside while everyone is enjoying their teenage years. Also, my friends and I aren't super close. We do talk a lot, but they're those friends that you wouldn't really hang out with outside of school or talk to if you have a problem. I think that if I go to a new school there's a chance I can just get a fresh start. Thoughts?

If a younger woman basically admitted she'd rather practice driving with you (a happily married man), rather than her fiance....would you think she's secretly in love with you? I'm in my 20's, but never learned to drive. My mom was a single mom who didn't really want me to grow up or become independent and I have driving anxiety so it kind of worked out for a while. However, mom passed away 5 months ago so now I have no choice but to learn to drive since I can't rely on other people to drive me around the rest of my life. I usually practice driving my fiance's car with him in the car and we just stick to parking lots. He gets really stressed when I drive so that, of course, stresses ME out. Last week, my friend picked me up from work and FORCED me to drive home (about a 10-15 min. drive) on the back roads. I was terrified, but he kept re-assuring me that I was doing great and he was very laid-back and chill about the whole thing. My fiance would've been freaking out every 5 seconds LOL! Do you think my friend might find it weird that I prefer driving with him instead of my fiance? And yes I did tell him I'd rather drive with him when it comes to practicing on the open road.

so, a few weeks ago my best friend camila told me she had started cutting and i told her that i was worried but wouldn't force her stop (as it something that's very hard to stop). she told me that she tried alternatives but didn't wanna end up cutting but look where we were. i told her how much she meant to me and other people and how we are always there for her and comforting her when she gets sad. today she cutter way more and even bled onto her jacket. she was crying and i asked her why and she said "blood" and i didn't understand. later she explained to me what happened (i couldn't see the blood stains her jacket was black) anyone?? help??? i wanna know how to help her in the most understanding way possible...... i'm worried shell kill herself because she feels worthless

Thats how i am going thru life, just dont give a sh!t. Tired of getting worked up n caring, better to just not give a FK. Life is what it is, just gotta get over it n move on i guess.

My 18 years old son who's senior in high school acts like a child and his classmates act like ones too. Few weeks ago I saw a video on facebook, one of my son's classmates chocolate fell to the ground and he started pretending to cry and my son and his classmates started a funeral for the chocolate by walking around the school and saying bible verses while they're all holding one chocolate on the palm of their hands. Or like yesterday, my son was fake fighting with one of his classmates and one of them was a referee and the other was an announcer and the whole school made a circle around them taking videos and laughing. There's lot more stuff I can talk about what he does. I keep talking to my son why he an adult behaving this way and he just says "I don't know" and he's always goofing around the house and laughs loud all day when chatting with his classmates. Is it normal for 18 years old to act this way?

Everytime I see myself on video or on a picture I just cringe. Sometimes I question: Do people have the same kind of thoughts about themself? Do they see themself cringy and weirdly on video, like Youtubers? I think it has to do with the way I expect to look/see myself act versus the reality, which in most cases doesn't match up. When I talk with my friends then they look normal to me, but when I try to visualise on how I look, I find myself cringy. Is it because I'm not used to seeing myself or is it the way I am? With acts I mean facial expressions, handmovement, flexibility etc.

I used to be the OG with vaping at my school. I started attracting more and more kids to smokers and now we're all friends. But I got mono from sharing my vape with so many people. When I go back to school and they realize I sold all of my vapes they might peer pressure me into hitting one of their vapes or the bond might be ruined. Any tips on how to stay strong and keep myself occupied? And maybe how I could cut off toxic friendships?

We re-signed our contract last summer. In fall he started dating a woman who he moved in without discussing with me. He married her in January. Yesterday I found morning sickness candy on our counter. I didn't sign up to live with a married couple let alone potentially an infant. Plus, what kind of married couple without is pregnant wants some guy living with them?

A lot of my gal friends work at the XYZ company that is being taken over by the ABC company. They were told they had to upgrade their computer skills to keep their job. They priced this computer training and it was expensive. They asked me if I knew where I could get this computer training cheaper as most of them are on a tight budget. I told them it was a long shot but my ex husband Tim was a computer expert and he might do it for them on credit. They should give him a call. They called him and he told them he would train them FOR FREE. They were VERY HAPPY. He did the training, they kept their jobs at the new company and some of them got raises. Now when I see them, they tell me what a great guy Tim is. They are taking him to lunch as a way of saying thank you and they asked me what would be A GREAT PRESENT they could get him. I gave it some thought and I told them what he would really like is to go on a date with each of them. He really likes to date beautiful women and they all qualify. They were all shocked by what I said. They said are you sure you don't mind us going on a date with your ex. I told them he as MY EX and it was none of my business who he dated. I don't consult him about who I date so why should I care who he dated. Is it so unusual that I feel this way?

I went out with this guy and we left our coats in the car when we went to the arcade. So when we were leaving out it was cold outside. And I told him it was cold and he put his arm around me.

I used to smoke. I'm not against it being legalized on a federal level, but it's not something that makes you seem cool. Really, it's no different than bragging that you drank a beer or smoked a cigarette. Every time I hear someone talk about "I smoke weed" I just have this image of a 7th grader bragging to his little friends that he tried a sip of beer and all his friends are like "woah, dude, did you get wasted and like throw up and stuff?" It's goofy. Smoking weed doesn't make you cool.

This guy's mad at me yet he's the first person to view my Snapchat/Instagram stories and like photos of my son.

Recently, 2 of my best buddies, whom I've been friends with for years, we're at my house and I remember seeing one of them holding my airpods, I didn't think much of it at the time, however that was the last time Ive seen them, and when I've asked him, he told me he put them in one place, then changed it and said he put them somewhere else, and neither of them have contacted me since( it's been 2 days). Should I suspect them of stealing them? It's really unlike them to do that, but I've torn apart my room and they haven't turned up anywhere.

I went to the movies with this guy and he mentioned to me that the arm rest between us could move. So I moved it out of the way.

I went out with this guy and we left our coats in the car when we went to the arcade. So when we were leaving out it was cold outside. And I told him it was cold and he put his arm around me.

I m currently in a situation where I m residing with a person who is toxic and manipulative. They expect me to answer to them constantly and always do what they ask, which I usually don t have a problem with helping them where I can. But if I ever decide to say no to them, they become hostile and try to pick fights, claiming that they work more than me (they don t, we work the same hours) and that I don t ever do anything to contribute (I do.), even going so far as to calling up people we mutually know and discussing the situation with them using dramatics, lies, and exaggerations in attempts to humiliate me into submission. Although I am working on my situation, I am not currently financially stable enough to leave, and would like to only use it as a last resort as it will cause quite a lot of trouble. Is there anything else I could do to make this situation better?

I look at myself in the mirror and i dont even know who i am anymore. I been thru a lot of hard times in life, i never really had much growing up, i was the poorest kid in school i remember. Family problems were so bad, i dont even want to get into the horrors of what happened in my house. So much abuse. It affected every part of my life. It really hurt me a lot. This life, It all just really changed me, it killed me. Made me not care anymore. Yah lol And how hard did you have it ? lol Easy to talk when you havent been thru SH!t. I see people committing suicide all the time over the problems they have. But for me, i just dont care about anymore. Guess thats better than putting a gun to ur head n blowing ur brains out.

There's a girl I was friends with about 5 years ago. We had been friends for a few years. About 4 years ago, we had a falling out because she decided to stalk my Instagram activity and tell my then-boyfriend that I commented flirty comments on a then-friend of mine's photos (a friend who did NOT like me back that way, mind you). That caused my then-boyfriend to break up with me. She had a boyfriend of her own (who she is still dating), so I don't know what her deal was..if not jealousy. Anyways, 3 years ago, we tried to make that issue water under the bridge. That lasted a little while, but then I started getting harsh messages on an anonymous messaging website. I got paranoid about who I could and couldn't trust and given our bad history, I got rid of her by deleting and blocking her. The harsh messages stopped, so it can't be a coincidence. After 2 years, I finally unblocked her probably in January. The other night, I got a message from her randomly asking why we weren't friends on FB. 24 hours later, I wrote back explaining that I keep my circle small these days and I asked her how she's been. She read it, no reply and it's been a couple days. Why did she bother asking just to ignore me after I replied to her? I'm 28, she's 26.

Everyone leaves me. Nobody wants anything to do with me. I'm a nice person. Everyone makes fun of me, talks about me, tries to make me feel bad. Family, strangers. Everywhere I go, I'm rejected. I feel like I have no one on my side. I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like it'll be like this forever. It makes me not even want to live anymore. I don't think anybody will care if I died. They'll all laugh and be glad I'm dead. That's how much people hate me.

I got two tickets to a concert for my friend s birthday but she suddenly can t go. Is it wrong for me to still go? I paid $200 for them and can t sell them or give them away. Edit: I think its more accurate to say we had a falling out and she wont go, if that makes a difference

Basically the advice I got during high school was do good in school with A's and B's. Go the gym and eat foods regarded as healthy, make sure to get enough sleep and don't stay up late. Don't procrastinate and "swallow the sword first" then have free time. Don't cheat. Don't do drugs/smoke or alcohol In high school I basically did that, and when I came home after the gym I would just eat dinner then relax going on YouTube and social media, watching tv or video games. Occasionally I would invite friends and hangout. I had the option to graduate early but was clueless what to do after that, even senior year I didn't have a good idea what I wanted to do. Now I am in college with all my general education courses finished, (I can probably get an associate's degree now). And I am still clueless and feel directionless. I am currently majoring in finance because it seems like a practical job with potential, just something I can land a decent paying job. Growing up as a kid I didn't really have what most people would regard as "big dreams". Being something big like a political leader or president would be too much responsibility for me. I thought along the lines like going into the military. I would like to fly planes and work on them or something like a tank. Airforce or Marines came into mind. I don't care necessarily about high paying jobs, I just wanted to do something honorable and be proud of my work especially if it's helping the people or the nation.

This guy friend of mine always buys me a snack every day. One time he bought me a large coffee. He usually buys me snacks every day. Yesterday, he randomly said what chips do you like? I then said I would give him money for it but he refused. He then just asked again what I like? He bought chips for me and offered me another snack of his. It's really nice he does this. Does this mean he is showing he likes me?