I'm engaged I'm 30 he's 48 he lives 2hrs away works 10 hrs a day but here's the catch, he's married and him and his wife have an arranged marriage only so his wife can care for his adopted 17 disabled daughter who is hooked to machines and in a wheel chair if she gets his money! I have been his mistress for almost a year and he engaged to me and mentioned I would be taking care of his daughter if we get married but I don't want to have that responsibility and his daughter should live with the mother who knows her needs plus he works all day and don't have time for her , not only that but I fear if I marry him I'll be unhappy with his daughter situation and he could have an affair on me like he is doing to his current wife which they don't have any romance for each other and she does her own thing being a stay at home wife with a disabled 17 year old! I want to marry him but I don't want to be stuck taking care of her I want to be married and enjoy life with him and we get our own place like he said! What would you do? I love him to pieces but don't want that burden plus he works 10hrs a day I'm lucky he only sees me once a week

So I asked if my partner who is from Finland comes here and we get married would it be allowed? Now my question is will he be able to take my last name? and does he have to immediately have to go back home once we marry? Or can we marry, he stays for how long he is permitted to then leave? Will the last name change affect him trying to go back home? how does it all work?

In the state of Texas how many years do you have to be married before you can get alimony? Does it matter if one of the spouses abandoned their partner and children at any year? Or does it just go by how many years you've been married?

Most people would lie to their parents. Our son? Well lets just say he's a little bit too blunt. Me and my wife are both against sex before marriage as its a sin but it appears that my 18 year old son doesnt care about saving himself. He even went as far as to tell us about his sex life. he told. He said he's picky about who he has sex with and that although he respects our opinion he is 18 with hormones and he's going to have sex. he's the complete opposite of our 26 year old daughter who screams she's a virgin all day and totally uninterested in anything sexual. she doesn't even sit next to her boyfriend around us.

I met an international student in college and he's about to graduate and I'm just starting my second semester. When we first met we really hit it off and I liked him and he liked me. He told me he wouldn't be able to stay because he's not a citizen. So he proposed to me and we got married at court. Almost immediately he's been treating me so bad. I asked him about our wedding and he says he doesn't want one. We moved together in January and we got married last week and every since then he's been hitting me, yelling at me, forcing sex, controlling everything I do and getting angry at me for every little thing. I am in need of help quickly.

You know, the television programme wife swap.

Awhile ago my sister tried to give me a picture of my ex and myself at a party. I have been with my husband for 10 years and we have 4 children together. My husband has always felt my family doesnt like him and was very hurt by this. He doesnt want my sister near him anymore. I know how he feels and i dont blame him. But in order to not have any confrontation from my family (which would start a huge fight if she was not invited) i invited my sister to my daughters birthday party. She lives a good bit away from us. My husband now is saying he wants me to univite her cause he doesnt want that toxic type of person near him. What do i do??

I've always been told when you meet "the one" that you'll know with 100 percent certainty that he's the one and you'll have no doubts in your mind or concerns you'll just KNOW. I'm engaged to be married and I'm just feeling a bit uneasy. I'm starting to wonder if I can live with some of his quirks, am I making a mistake, is he REALLY the one? Is this normal to have a little cold feet before your wedding day?

I am a 27 year old widower and a father to 3 year old twin daughters. My wife passed away 2 years ago in a car accident as her car got hit by a drunk driver. Anyway, it's been 2 years, but this one attractive lady keeps asking me out on a date for the last 3 months, I keep telling her that I am focused on raising my twin daughters and not looking for a relationship, but she just won't stop, what do I need to do so she will stop? This lady is the pediatrician for my daughters.

I'm 30 years old. When I speak to my mother about ANYTHING or tell her anything she has to check somewhere to make sure I'm correct. If I tell her a restaurant closes at 9 she has to search online to see what time it closes. If I tell her a place is expensive she has to search for prices. Today, I tried to explain to her that there was a problem with her dishwasher that yes, my husband had previously fixed. He looked at it and told me to tell my mother she needed a plumber. I told her what my husband said and she insisted I was wrong and insisted on speaking to my husband. It's really starting to get on my nerves. Any advice? How would you deal with a mother like this? Any tips?

Okay so I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years we have 3 children and have clearly had sex already, I recently gave my life to god I know that sex is for marriage but he's not big on the topic of marriage at least for now because we are in our early 20s I know that if I just stop having sex with him It would cause problems are there other things I could do or a way I could go about it? Also will god look down upon us if we do have sex? I have and never will cheat on him the way I see it we are married just not legally..

I looked up his address online. It showed his name, and also a name of a woman keeps showing up. It's a girl's name, and it says she's around his age. She carries his last name. I don't think that's his mother or a relative. It says the two of them are owners of the house.

You have a child with this man and for the past 10 years you both successfully stay friendly or civil for the child. For the past 4 years you and ex become more trusting and not forgiven but get along, get along you know. I would even go to ex husbands and Help with laundry, straightening up sons room etc. One day out of the blue a girl comes to door and ex lets her in and you find out she is someone he has had a ten year relationship with unbenost to you. That he had been keeping this girl in either an apartment and/or motel for years. After several weeks go by I find out that My ex takes vacation and spends all with this girl leaving his son home by himself. I am out of my mind with anger. The 15 yo son walks 6 miles to my house because he has homework to do, but no internet at dads. Thats when I find out he has nothing to eat or drink either and dad went to work. What would you do?

Whenever someone praises me at work or any other setting, i think to myself...." can't wait to tell my mom this" im 32 !

My fiancé has a "supposid" best friend. I absolutely can't stand him or his wife. I have NO IDEA WHY I can't stand them. They never make any attempt to see my bf. I understand they have a 3 year old but in the 3 years I've known my bf they have only made ONE attempt to meet up with him. Even for his birthdays, Christmas parties etc they have an excuse. They live too far away, they can't make it etc. It almost disgusts me to be honest. I am friends with his best friend and his best friends wife on Facebook and they are always posting photos out and about with other friends of theirs. He wants his "best friend" as his best man in his wedding but I don't want nor do I feel like he DESERVES to be in our wedding. Am I being petty? Thoughts? I can't even strand looking at them. The ONE time I met them I got such a weird vibe from them.

This woman Jennifer Trappuzano was pregnant with her husband's daughter when her husband was killed in 2014. She gave birth to the daughter exactly 3 weeks after her husband's death. I looked her up on Facebook yesterday and found out that she got remarried, why? This angers me because her daughter never met her biological father and her mother gets remarried and she will think that her mother's new husband is her biological father? This really angers me a lot, what do I do about this?

He's actually a boy I used to text when I was 16. I had strict parents and was never let out the house or allowed to have a boyfriend so we just talked on the phone and spoke to each other at school. We never even kissed. Now I'm 23 and in my first year of teaching and he showed up for a parent teacher conference for his niece. He just kept staring at my boobs and then was more worried about the photo of me and my husband on my desk. At the end I walked him and his niece to the door, he told her to wait outside and started telling me how great I looked and asked me out and said my husband didn't have to know. I said no again and asked him to leave. I gave my number to all of my students' parents and he somehow got because now he keeps calling me and texting me inappropriate things. When I block him he just finds a new number to contact me. He found out when I lived and keeps sending flowers and chocolates. My husband has called him and told him to stop it and they got into an argument and he told my husband that I've given him head and sex before. Which is definitely not true. He sends flowers to my classroom when I'm working which makes me look bad to my coworkers because they know who my husband is. He even lied and said he had another conference so he could be let in my classroom and started telling me how he misses me and wants another chance. I told the cops but the said they can't do anything because he hasn't broken any laws. What do I do now?

I work with a married man and he has told me a lot of things but recently he said that I bring out the best in him and that he feels at complete ease with me... he has shared intimate details about his life but not much about his wife... I've also noticed that he keeps twirling and playing with his wedding band when he talks to me... nothing has happened and I don't want him to think this is anything other than what it is... does this all mean anything? Am i overthinking this?