He says only sons can continue bloodline.

Why is my 5 year old boy worryingly obsessed with my butt, whenever he lays with me on my bed, he'll always sit on my butt and start smacking it, I tell him off multiple times and tell him he shouldn't hit me, but he pays no attention, what do I do?

For example I know this what is important to me may not be important to many other people.

One is bad to a family member and divisive to them and the other is bad with men but otherwise nice. Both are taking my Mom away from the family. They are lady friends so nothing romantic.

I asked this this morning but only got to unhelpful answers one from a troll. Growing up I was forced to hate who they hated. I was forced to know all the adult details of family feuds and people's marital problems. I was forced to hear who liked us and who did not from my mother. Now, aged 30, I am consumed with anxiety about extended family members. I read posts on here from people or a person that made me think I ought to ask about my problem. When the family gathers I fear being excluded as others on here do. I fear screwing up some how and being disliked the way I was as a kid. Most of all I fear my parents having a new round of conflicts with these people and me missing out due to it like when I was a kid. My Mom was worse then my Dad but my father made decisions to use me and my siblings as well. We were the pawns to motive adults like in one case we were used to fix an alcoholic. So how do I fix this anxiety I have? Summer is coming and stuff will come up that triggers this anxiety. The holiday season is always rough also. Asking anonymously to protect identity. User Psi need not answer.

Does anybody have experience with a sister-in-law that just seems too close for comfort with their brother? The way she acts with him I would not accept at all if another girl came up and did the same thing that's not apart of the family. She seems very jealous and almost like she's putting on a show for me every single encounter, seems like she's even closer to him when I'm around. Seems like she wants to be his #1 girl and it honestly freaks me out, she's very overbearing about it. I also can't seem to understand why a sister would be jealous over their brothers wife. She seriously seriously makes me feel like she wants to be in my position instead, which I hope isn't true!!

Ok so I'm homeschooled, which I usually like, but recently my mom has been saying I'm not doing enough schoolwork even though I am. So she won't let me out of the house except for dance class. I mean literally, I can't leave my house. I haven't seen someone outside of my family and dance class members in over a week. I feel like I'm going to go insane and I feel caged. What do I do?

Okay, so I'm in high school, about to go to college I've worked at Subway for 6 months, and I applied to a place closer to my house where my friend works which is nice because she could give me a ride because we live like 3 houses from each other and their manager said they'd hire me in the summer as they're looking for day help. I have to hold on for 3 whole months. I HATE my manager. I was screamed at for not going to work because I had SURGERY, I was also chastised for calling a week in advance to let her know about my grandma's funeral saying "You couldn't have let me know before I put out the schedule?" Well, excuse for not being able to control when my terminally ill grandmother passed away. My mom thinks it's good to have this experience, I can't go into work with a lump in my throat and be scared of being screamed at. The incidents I listed are not even the tip of the iceberg. If I listed everything she's done I'd literally have to write 4 other posts I swear.... Now how do I get out of this job??

So I'm homeschooled, and usually I like that, but recently my mom has gotten really angry because she doesn't think I'm doing enough schoolwork (even though I am), and now she won't let me out of the house except for dance. I haven't been outside (except for dance) in about 6 days. What do I do?

shes extremely annoying so i lost my **** and called her a ***** now shes calling the cops on me and threatens to send me to rehab bc i juul

My son is 18 and he just got a new job so he won't be able to move out on his own for a while. Currently he's trying to save up for a car because I've been having to drive him everywhere. My other son who is 23 purchased his own house with his long term girlfriend. I don't agree with shacking up and I've gotten on his case about that but that's a story for another day. My 18 year old son was talking to me about staying with my other son at his house on the weekends because he feels restricted here and he wants to be able to have fun on the weektoks. Im pretty sure this is about us enforcing the rule that he come in before 12 am. But it's jist disrespectful to walk in our house past 12. I told him that his brother might not want him there because I'm pretty sure he's going to want privacy with his bike friend. They are going to want their own space. Still my son insists that he should go stay there. What do you all think?

Im 26 years old with 2 kids, 3 and 4. Me and their father are divorced and he is not involved in their lives. He pays child support but does not give emotional support when it comes to the kids. I dont have a job, no car, I take the bus and we live with my mother. She's helping with them the best way she can, I'm not really close to my family nor dont have any close friends for emotional support. I'm currently seeking employment but no luck with getting hired. I feel like I messed up my kids lives and I'm afraid I'm going to lose them cuz how I'm struggling with them. I get up every day and try my best to make a better life for me and my kids but feel very discouraged. Is there anyone who's going through what I'm going through?

I wake up at 2:30 am every morning for my job she doesn't have to be to work until 7:30 and still doesn't have the get up and go about herself. She always seems low on energy and on the days she has off she wakes up at like 12 pm and sits in the living room and watch tv all day. She washes clothes also but the problem is she washes them in an OCD fashion, she washes clothes compulsively almost everyday. When she's off she hogs the tv because she refuses to walk up stairs and watch the tv In the game room. I love my wife but sometimes when I come home it would be nice not to see her hogging the tv the whole day. She literally will sit glued to the tv the entire day on her off day and I won't even be able to enjoy my living room. My wife never goes out with friends or anything. I try to encourage her to get out the house sometimes but she just gets mad at me and says she's not going anywhere.

Growing up I was forced to hate who they hated. I was forced to know all the adult details of family feuds and people's marital problems. I was forced to hear who liked us and who did not from my mother. Now, aged 30, I am consumed with anxiety about extended family members. I read posts on here from people or a person that made me think I ought to ask about my problem. When the family gathers I fear being excluded as others on here do. I fear screwing up some how and being disliked the way I was as a kid. Most of all I fear my parents having a new round of conflicts with these people and me missing out due to it like when I was a kid. My Mom was worse then my Dad but my father made decisions to use me and my siblings as well. We were the pawns to motive adults like in one case we were used to fix an alcoholic. So how do I fix this anxiety I have? Summer is coming and stuff will come up that triggers this anxiety. The holiday season is always rough also. Asking anonymously to protect identity. Psi --- If this offends you there is no need to reply. I think you have me mixed up some of the time with someone else. I ask about my family anxiety about once a week. Others I see do frequently and I answer them. Again if this offends you then ignore it.

If you were involved into a family quarrel where brothers and sisters from different fathers who seemed really close at first ended up turning on the one sibling(oldest) who was always helping them, because they couldn't get money from that sibling anymore. Destroying the sibling's reputation, and it's child's self esteem in the process, destroying whatever relationship it's child has with his/her cousins just because of what they could no longer get from the parent. would you think there would ever be a chance of the cousins getting along again in the future?

I'm 18 years old and my name is Chauncey, isn't that an old mans name? I hate it and I get made fun of for it a lot, it isn't attractive. Do you think it would be disrespectful to change my name since I got named after my great grandfather?

For example these days it take dual income just for phones and vacations.

like if he wants to ruin your popularity on purpose and what actions can you take against this ?

Im 13 at the moment, yes I know I shouldnt rlly be on here but im desprate. My relationship with my parents is pretty good. I have been cutting for only 5 months and I feel weak for needing help after such a short time. I dont want to get the school involved but im too scared to tell my parents. What if they're mad? What if my parents think its their fault? Help DX

I'm nice and polite to them but they put me down yell at me for eating and throw trash at me why is this?

Parents it seems these days just don't give a damn one way or the other and even let strangers raise their kids ao they don't have to think about it. They'd rather chase more money than ponder how to raise a kid correctly. I guess now as an adult i realize this is how my mom is and was but it hurts to come home and have noone to talk to and be ignored in favor of her watching Rachel Maddow and being wrapped up in political obsessions. If I had a kid I hope I never get so caught up in something futile like judging the president and hating him nonstop when I could be at least spending some time with my flesh and blood... I mean sheesh. And her family is not much better when we visit them. They also barely talk to me and basically I feel invisible and so awkward around them. I really dont think thats how someone should feel around their own family. I guess this is just how the world is becoming. I can cry or get angry about it but all I can do now to change it is be found by a good man and start a family...one which I do NOT want to ignore at all. I want to homeschool my kids the whole way.

Basically, if I get a high paying job they'll act like they respect me a lot and they'll act really interested in talking to me. If I dont get a high paying job, they'll basically treat me like I'm a loser and act uninterested in me. By my family I mean my parents, brother, aunts, uncles, and cousins.

I'll try to make this short. So several months ago an old couple came to where I worked an ordered food. All of a sudden the wife hits me with this barrage of questions about the food that required me to look it up in the nutrition book. So as I frantically looked it up they started to criticize me and call me out for taking too long. throughout the whole order they kept ganging up on me and being awful. So after that I never saw them again until last week, they decided to come back with a new set of questions and thankfully a coworker of mine had to deal with them. When it's my turn to deal with them what do I do?

I have always been very loving to my daughter and made it clear that she is a priority and we are close. She started dating an older guy last winter around this time a year ago, She has a history of depression and disordered thinking but she's intelligent and loving but she just got out of a relationship with a guy her own age and didn't take anytime to be alone and reflect. This guy treated her to expensive vacations and paid a lot of attention to her. She was in her senior year of college on the right track but she seemed happy. She told her father and I that she was getting a place with him. I told her to slow down but she said if I wanted her to be happy not to challenge her on this. She spent her savings (she's only 21) on a down payment for the new place with this guy. Her father and I helped paint and decorate. 3 months later they were broken up, she dumped him and he left the apartment. She was an absolute wreck from thanksgiving until recently and very depressed and hopeless. She was drinking a lot, lashing out at her family and a shell of a person. Now suddenly I see on Facebook last week that she's liking his photos and sharing posts about his business on her page, knowing her family can see. I was shocked, after the way he treated her that she would befriend him. Now yesterday she tells me that he's moving back into the apartment. They're going to redecorate to have a fresh start and go on a trip. She seems to be oblivious to the past. Will this last???

When i wash his clothes i'll see that his underwear will have bloches of blood on them. At first i overlooked it, but now it is becoming a regular thing. When i ask him about it he just stays quiet. What am i supposed to do?

He did not file taxes for 8 years and our Mom never new other then the final year when he said it was only one year late. She found out and is now threatening to divorce the liar. Should we ever trust him again? He is known for lies but this is the first large one. He fibs daily. I am involved cause my parents love to use my siblings and I as pawns to get what they want.

Since it was a 17 year old run away the police helped some but were not as desperate since no foul play was suspected. Our Dad is an alcoholic (he has died since) and she left a note saying she couldn't take the drinking and mood swings. He died 2 years later and we had people write condolences on her Facebook hoping it would bring her home but she did not respond and no longer uses Facebook. Now she is 21 and so an adult and police can't bring her home if located. She did send a Christmas card two years ago so we know she is alive and she just wrote "on the road". No word from her since but she somehow knew our grandmother was dying. We guess she logs into Facebook and views other family news and just does not post. We live in Ohio and the postcard was mailed from Houston area. We have no ties at all to Houston or Texas.

Mine seems to have and I am wondering if this is normal. It is not that he hates me, it is just that he has no emotional interest in me other then family functions like weddings. I don't mean romantic love, I mean family love.

My brother is mad at them for disallowing it. This friend is in foster care, and apparently has behavioural issues. My brother got suspended at school for being part of a dangerous activity that this boy tried doing. Ever since then, our parents requested their school to put the boys in different classes. They're not allowed to hang out or talk outside of school. The only time they can see each other is during break times at school. My parents did agree that while foster kids aren't at fault for their bad situations, lots of these kids are so damaged that they only have a small chance of growing into stable, healthy adults. They just don't want my brother to be part of that environment with people who are like that. However, he's really angry at my parents for the restrictions.

i don't know what to do for my mid term! it's due tomorrow and i took it home secretly instead of doing it at school. can someone tell me the answers

My daughter is 2 months old I'm worried about her starting school I know it's 3 or 4 years away but I'm still worried especially since she's got some cousins who like to play rough. One of our cousins is 4 he goes to a pre school for special children in his class they have a chart with cars that have red , yellow and green. Green means your good yellow is a warning if you get moved up to red they send you home if your bad. We went on vacation this weekend with them our two other cousins are older they're 9 and 7 but they're brothers so they like playing rough he was watching them the whole time sometimes he was copying them luckily his mom told him no he listens really well. With her being around them I'm worried she might start acting like them if she does she might take that to school when she gets older from watching them. Depending on what school she'll go to they probably won't tolerate that like at her cousins school so I'm worried she might be a bad kid like them. Even though she won't be in school for another 3 or 4 years should I still be worried ?