It feels like no one says anything when I'm doing well and my good deeds are unappreciated from everyone else stand point. Than whenever I make a mistake by accident than that's when everyone has something to say. It's like do good and it's silence but if it's a mistake than everyone has opinions to make about me.

I am female and I have a boyfriend, my boyfriend and this guy are also friends. Me and this guy friend go to the same highschool. Every morning before class starts I go to a hidden quiet spot so I can read. This guy friend found the spot and I told him this is where I read. And now he comes there everyday just to see me, he also asked what time I get to school so we can meet up at the same time. One day I wasn't there, I was with my friends instead, and he saw me and looked pissed and was like "so you're coming here now instead, you didn't even read my text" the text he sent said wanna meet up. He makes a point to come to see me every time the bell rings to go to the next class (7 periods) and makes me late cuz whenever he sees me he hugs me for a long time, I try to pull away after 2 seconds but it doesn't work because he has a tight grip. He also touches me a lot (not inappropriately), he'll make a point to touch my nose as a "joke" or tickle me or poke my side, and it's every day he does this. A few times the hug lasted for like 1 or 2 minutes and it was awkward. He also attempts to come into every one of my classes, saying he wants to skip to stay with me or tries to ask his teachers if he could come do his work with me. I tell him I have work and he says he doesn't care and to let him in. I would've cut him off already if it weren't for him and my bf being friends. I told my bf he was always trying to talk to me (I don't tell him about the hugs) and he didn't say a lot.

I brought this issue up to him hoping to find ways to solve this issue. Because I feel really uncomfortable that my messages to him is open to his family members. He would not do anything about it, saying convenience to his family out weigh my concern. Is he completely ignorant of my concern or what I am asking is too much?

At work or anywhere I'll do a great job consistently and the manager or the employees won't say anything at all (in less I ask them if I'm doing well.) Than when I make a mistake or a bad action unintentionally, the manager, workers, or my peers would automatically say things without me even asking or anything. I feel like my good actions don't matter to them but my bad ones do and people seem to give attention to my mistakes more than my successes.

Ok so I still can't figure out if this person low key likes me though i really really like them and we knew each other for long but were never as close as now. I noticed whenever I walk by them ( pass) they either look at me ( eye to eye) or look down while walking but also their pupils on the corner ( to look at me while looking down) or they have to look at my friends that i am walking with. It makes me wonder why they always look at my friends ( I dont walk with the same friend everyday) So if someone notices your friends occasionally, does that supposed to mean they care or anything such as that?

I'm never going to understand this. I am 27yrs old. I have nothing, absolutely nothing. I work hard but I struggle a lot financially. Yet, someone woman are so hateful and rude towards me. They also compete with me by copying everything that I do. They copy the way I talk and the way I dress. These women travel around the world and can wear expensive clothes and hang out with celebrities. I'm never going to understand why they are this way towards me, I'm nice and I do for others. I never do anything wrong to anyone, my heart is to big for that. So, I don't get why they are so hateful towards me, it's so hard to make female friends.

Ok so, in short, I've been friends with my friend nearly 10 years now. Lately, I am beginning to think that we are spending way too much time hanging out in each other's company. I still value her as a friend, nonetheless. My friend always wants to meet up once, maybe even twice in one week alone, yet when she has her boyfriend or other friends to hang out with I won't see her only when it suits her. It's as if I'm not allowed have a 'life' away from her company, and that I may have other things going on in my life, besides hanging out with them, when they are 'at a loose end'. I am beginning to feel used, and thought of as a 'convienience', rather than a friend. Now, I am just trying to take some time for myself, and I am choosing not to answer their calls or messages. Have they a right to be upset with me for doing this? Thoughts?

Most friends from nowadays are all who someday will tell me to **** off don't work...

Am I white or black?

I won't give much detail about my job but I am being told by a "higher up" that I need to be more outgoing. I'm not in a job where I interact with a lot of people and I feel that I am polite and courteous with my coworkers. I've been there about two months and the people aren't very nice and attack everything I say so I can't open up and be myself. He's telling me I have no personality and that he thinks there's another side to me that I'm not showing them. He says I'm very stiff and reserved and that I need to give him a little more. That's not true at all, I just don't know these people and they aren't nice to me. He's starting to insult me and make fun of me and I think he's putting the others up to it. Should I make an effort to be more outgoing or just keep doing what I'm doing?

omg im literally crying and shaking rn my friend had children and didn t vax them then they died help guys pls im literally crying

If someone requests you share food of yours that you got from your mom and its like midnight, do I not have a right to say not right now? And the funny thing is often times when I tell my friends, this is a bad time for me to share food, they claim that they want it now because tomorrow they might not have an appetite for it. For example I work at a pizza place and another friend pleaded for me to let him use my discount, I told him I do not feel comfortable with it because I just used my discount there a few hours ago after work and that I could allow tomorrow when I am done with work and he said that by tomorrow he will not have an appetite for it. And that he prefers it now. My argument is that if you like a certain food, it does not matter when you get it and that odds are you will always want it, no matter what day it is offered. I feel that saying their appetite may change is something a spoiled brat would say. What do you guys think?

My boyfriend broke up with me through text last night saying the usual that I'm an " amazing person, beautiful and fun" and saying the whole " it's not you, it's me, I don't know what I want". What would your reaction be if I sent you this text " a phone call would've been more appreciated. Very disappointing... I wish you the best"

I asked my friend for a reference for my new job. It was urgent... Required maybe 5min of her time to either email it or text or even the sound file would be ok. She didn't do it. Forgot. When I reminded her she was in a pub drinking and said she had other things to take care of and apologised that she really wanted to help. I didn't appreciate it. Since the incident I am trying to distance myself from her, but to make it worse she's making me feel like I'm the one that has done something wrong. What would you advise to do? PS I got the job thanks to the references my other friends supplied, but she's never even asked about it

So a friend is moving into a new flat she is a girl and she invited me to her flat warming witch I guess is a party. She said its jungle themed and I have nothing like that. She has a boyfriend but she sometimes acts like she is flirting with me so I gave up on trying to read her and I just like her as a friend well my only good friend she is. She is far better than my other friends who just never shut up about cars and boy race. So anyway the party why I'm nervous about this and dont know if I should go is because I won't know anyone there and I normally hate party's because I'm to shy and quiet and socially awkward for them like I'm so uncomfortable and embarrassed at them. At another party I went to I knew everyone but I was to shy to talk to anyone and I was felling weird the whole time and I just went home. Another problem is I don't drink but I sort of want to get drunk for fun but how can I do that. Like to be honest I would be more comfortable with a gun pointed at me then being at a party like they just terrify me and I hate it. I want to go to the party to keep her as a friend. She said I could bring a friend but that will make it worse because they will probably want to leave and she will think what kind of weird people do you hang around with. there just like baby's and one of them has brain issues. I'm sure you can tell making friends is very very hard for me. Probably the best one I have if he came he will just make it awkward because he is shy to. Any advice?

I'll keep it quick. My former friend treated his child's mother like garbage, he was abusive and unfaithful to her and they eventually split up. He then became very racist towards me over my friendships with minorities, and eventually we stop communicating as well. Then one day I saw his child's mother and what started out as a conversation about him, turned into wild sex. Apparently she told him and now this racist, violent person is out to get me. He doesn't contact me directly but he tells her how he's going to slowly hurt me when he finds me.

When I was 13 my friend at the time invited me to a little party her family was having by a lake. She mainly invited me because there wasn't anyone around her age there. We were both in our swimsuits because we swam in the lake most of the time we were there. While we were waiting for her uncle to finish making food, we stood there making small talk. I didn't really talk to anyone being that I didn't know her family well. I was poking my friend's arm because I was bored. Her grandpa who was near me started poking my thigh and his hand kept moving closer to my ' area' and he was trying to put his hand into my swim suit. I was really uncomfortable so I walked to the other side of my friend. Later on I asked her if she saw and she said things like" oh, yeah I noticed. He does that sometimes. It's not a big deal. " And she told me about how he'd sometimes try to touch her chest and put his hand up her skirt whenever she'd wear one. She said she wouldn't need to tell anyone because she only sees him every few years and that he lives far away from her. I ended up moving away a few months later and haven't talked to her in years. Was I molested? Also sorry my English is awful. It's my second language.

She goes to a university that I just got accepted to and I am so excited about going, but she alludes to the rest of our family that I'm copying her. I'm a little worried that we'll see each other a lot on campus, bc I don't think it'd be fun. Also, her parents got her a car; mine got me the same type of car but a different color and year. My other cousin tells me she said I'm "trying to be her" and it bothers me. Any advice?

Recently I went out with a good friend of mine. I had a lot going on personally that night that was really bothering. When it was time to go home she wanted to drive me there. I told her "no it's okay, I don't need one today" she said no I'll take you, then I told her I'll just go to the gym. I also told her I just don't want to go home, one of the problems was a personal family problem. The gym was next to the place we ate at probably like 3 minute walk. On the way there she kept asking me if I was sure on going to the gym, I said yeah. But when we got there I decided not to go and decided to just walk home or go to the store. She was waiting to see if I go inside the gym and when she saw I didn't she text me saying I lied and ignore me for a week. When I finally got her to hangout again she said I'm not longer prioritize as a friend, and said I look weak ( my eyes were puffy,wasn't crying no more)because I was recently crying earlier that morning because I had a talk with my grandpa that might be on his death bed. Ever since then she would say she doesn't care how I feel or what I think. Idk if this is lying or not I was thinking about going to the gym, just changed my mind because that wouldve been 3rd time going that day. I didn't want to tell her what's going on because I didn't want to bother her about it, plus I personally I don't like complain about my problems, especially being a guy. Also she came 40 minutes late before hanging out as well.

Just fade them out, immediate cut off, or tell them directly?

I don't try to make friends don't want to be part of the lost crowd. Don't want to be part of anything. I have always felt this way I never wanted to do anything at all. I am 37 so I don't see it changing anytime soon.

I was thinking about my interests and I wonder if I would be considered a nerd. Aso at the same time, I had been called a nerd before by classmates, so I was wondering if it is true that I'm a "nerd." I remember this boy said "she's a NERD", with a pissed off facial expression. O_o I like- My favorite music is by Phantogram, Marina and the Diamonds, Foster the People, Vampire Weekend, Flume, and more. (My favorite genres are alternative, indie, pop, and electronic). My favorite movie is Call Me By Your Name I wear lace tops, henleys, graphic tees, crop tops, high waist shorts, medium/dark color skinny jeans, dresses, ankle boots, slip on shoes, and more. I like florals, stripes, and plaid. The stores I like the most are Free People, Urban Outfitters, Unique Vintage, and Modcloth. My interests are art, fashion, jewelry making, and reading. What do you think?? :P

I've known my 26 year old friend for a little over 9 years. We went to high school together. For as long as I've known her and her family, they've been struggling financially. They lived in a motel for a couple years when I met them, but finally moved into a house in 2012 or so. It doesn't help that they live in a very bad area economically. There are barely any jobs and even with a college degree, it's hard to make a good living there. They all about REFUSE to leave that area and i'm not sure why. Both sides of my friend's family live there, but they don't get along with either side of their family so nothing is really keeping them there. About a year ago, my friend's dad left them for another woman and filed for divorce. The divorce was finalized last week. However, both my friend and her mom have been posting FB statuses that don't add up. My friend posts statuses like "Please help us out and send us money. We're struggling." etc. Her mom posts "Feeling blessed, life is good, living my best life." etc. Her mom also posts statuses about her boyfriend saying how much she loves him, but in the same breath posts a status about wishing she could find a man who is proud to show her off. When my friend is unemployed, she posts statuses upset about not being able to find work and then whenever she does have a job (like now), she posts memes about how awful work is. Are my friend and her mom drama queens? I've sent them money in the past, but find it difficult to keep helping.

You'll hear people on their phone, without taking a breath "I hate myself, I don't want to lose my daughter. I suck. I suck, i hate myself I don't want to lose my daughter I hate myself I don't want to lose my daughter I suck..." These three phrases without letting the other person talk went on for 25 mins. It's not always sad "we went to the park. Dave says hi, dave and I went to the park. He says hi. At the park, dave and I were hanging out. He told me to say hi to you..." if you have nothing to say, why not shut the **** up? Because they are screaming in public when everything else is silent. If you don't want people to hear you, don't scream into your phone in public.

Sometimes I'm ok with it but it can really get to me. Most of the girls in school I get a strong sense that they don't like me and sometimes giggle to their friends about me and say things about me or to me such as "see ya don't wanna be ya" which I understand that we should be ourselves and be swag basically the same but I don't fit into any category.. I've got friends who are not really involved with anyone, fangirls who like to do well for themselves but can be dorks (which is cool imo;D) and I feel like the one who is just there. Ariana Grande is my idol and people make really sickening jokes about Manchester and that, then whenever I talk about for example Justin Bieber who btw I'm loving his music right now people make a big deal. I love to be myself and stand out from the crowd with my own fashion sense, likes and I want to become a singer but I literally only tell close people this as everyone else would call me stupid or whatever.. But at the moment I'm going through a lot of depression and stress, which doesn't help as you can tell it from the way I carry myself and in my expressions that I'm not alright. I go to a school in England where most of them smoke, swear, drink alcohol and go to parties but I do none of that and yes I hate swearing, I can't remember the amount of times I've sworn but it's not many. Anyhow, in the past I've struggled with identity issues and pretended to be various identities coz I was confused after my bullying in my other school

I am an introverted person and i grew up alone so im not sure if this is normal but my roommate brings her boyfriend over everyday and her friend over the weekend and they always hang out at home and it really annoys me because i want a quiet place to study and rest in.. but my roommate is so loud and when her friends are over it is worse and it annoys me.. i just stay in my room because i hate social interaction and i wish she can just stop bringing people over. if i tell her that i feel like im telling her to stop living a social life just because i dont have one and idk if im weird or if she is being the bad roommate i feel like she treats out small apartment as her own and does not think about me also living there.. i cant use the kitchen because she and her friends use it for hours and i just close my door and stay in my room like some prisoner and cant move around freely.. and our aprtment is very small so i can hear everything they do and it is very annoying not only that even when my roommate isnt here her boyfriend is here and he invites people over so im home with strangers

I have known my friend for thirty years and know her life story. Last night, how are you doing etc She says I am preoccupied Oh with what? My response She says I don't discuss my personal life Respect my privacy Is she upset about something but can't talk about it?