Me and my husband first met in college, I was an exchange student, and we started dating. I ended up having an unplanned pregnancy and we got married, but I had a lot of pregnancy complications, and I had a miscarriage months later. We stayed married anyway, because we love each other, and first of all this was our main motivation to get married. All of this happened 7 years ago, and since then I've been taking a lot more care of myself to not get pregnant again, and we didn't talk about having kids until now. He really wants me to get pregnant, and so does his family and mine. I finished college, I work, and now I'm studying to get a master's degree, and studying another language. I absolutely love my husband, but I'm not thinking about having kids for now or anytime soon because I've been focusing on my career. I believe that someday the right time to become a mom will come. The first time I got pregnant everything happened so unplanned, I was very scared, and now I want everything to be perfect, including the perfect time. My husband still insists in the subject, but I know he'll respect my decision. The problem is that his family and mine have been very judgmental about this, they say that I'm selfish and that I'm only thinking about myself, and they talk about it all the time. Am I being selfish for this? Btw, we're both 26, almost 27.

Wouldn't it be bad for the potentially cheating husband? Some back story I slept with a married man and he said he was in an open relationship but there's no way to tell for sure.

We had a baby a few months ago, and haven't been working since. I bring in money here and there, but not like I used to. My husband is still expecting me to help pay bills even though I am at home with the baby. He keeps a monthly tab of all the bills and wants me to pay 1/3 of everything. I owe him over a thousand dollars, and it seems ridiculous to me that he expects me to pay him, and OWE HIM money. I help with what I can, but I don't like the idea of me owing him. Is that wrong?

I informed him over FaceTime that I was hired for a position. he didn't seem enjoyed by it and didn't congratulate me. Instead he said he knew I was going to get it. because I was smart. I made the comment letting him know that he should be happy for me. He then congratulated me. I'm getting back home thinking he will do a proper one instead he meets me with I left the heat on too high and I didn't clean up after the dog. like at least congratulate me first then comment. he says he did it already so he doesn't feel he has to do it again. that I'm mad because I won't take criticism it's not about the congratulations. Why would I be mad about a legit complaint? is it so hard to understand that I wanted him to let me feel like he was happy for me? Is that too much?

My husband and happily married my older sister who is 51 years old being friendly and flirty with my husband who is 37 I'm 32 and I'm so in love with him but my older sister being so friendly and laughing loudly with him. I hate it why some women don't have shame these days. Why can't they don't control themselves they don't see as a offensive when they're so loud with the man who don't belong to them.

When people have read receipts on their emails and text message and chose not to respond. Is that considered an insult?

Considering it a arranged marriage , will my husband have to face awkwardness in front of his friends and his family after he finds out?

I have shunned my ex husband from my life because he abused me, mistreated me, cheated on me, and on top of that, had a baby with my 18 year old sister, that's a whole other story. So it's been almost 2 years since I talked to him, he is currently in prison for my abuse. I felt so broken for so long and now that I'm on a path of recovery, My therapist recommended that I express my bottled up hurt to him in some form. Whether it's, writing a letter and never sending it. In some way. So I decided I would set up a visitation. I am extremely nervous but I want to understand why he would do everything he did to me. Why would he go behind my back and cheat with my sister and lie about it. Both of them were lying to me... not to mention, my mom knew about it too. I am not sure what to say. Any advice? The visitation is tonight.

So my sister in-law came to visit us from Brazil in November she was supposed to stay till January but then one day she decided to stay. She didn't work she doesn't go to school she's 27 I'm 20 she doesn't help around the apartment she mostly slept she pretty much used me and my husband. We live in a 1 bedroom apartment she has a blow up mattress in our dining room. She always has a grin on her face so I pretty much ignore her and tbh I hate her she doesn't do anything she recently found a job that I have to pick her up at sometimes because my husband asks me to so I do to help him out but I hateeee her she has a really bad attitude she's extremely jealous and the past couple of days she been crying, she told my husband that he has changed and he has because we just got married and now he has a lot more responsibility and that changes someone. I talk to my husband and tell him how I don't like her staying with us but he says where is she gonna go she has no one which he's right but idk what to do

She is lovely but hostile to him.

if u liked a girl that you met from online a few times and you had not seen her in a while and were anxious to see her again but she admitted to you that she put on weight (something she could not really afford to do) but you knew she was trying hard to lose the weight. Would this turn you off of her? Please be honest for best answer

My husband and I have been married for 5 years and together for 10 years. We have 5 children together. 3 of our kids look just like him and and 2 of them don't. The oldest boy, the oldest girl and one of my younger girls. We are both fully black. I am dark skin and he is brown skin. Our youngest child is light and the other one that people in MY family think isn't his is dark skin like me. Btw it's not even his family that's questioning my children. It's my own family. They go around gossiping about me saying I cheated on my husband and I'm just sick of all the lies. It's a shame that his family can see the resemblance between him and our children and my family is so stupid and full of S*** that they rather gossip and lie on me. So I'm considering getting a paternity test to shut them up. Should I? What would you do?

"who played them"

My partner proposed with a $100 silver ring he bought from a local jewelry store. I am upset by this and I didn't give him an answer. I told him I need time to think. He is a software engineer and makes a lot of money. We've been together for 2 years. I'm upset he cares so little about marriage that he gave me a silver ring. I am not sure if he's serious about marriage.

is it possible to know a woman in public such as in food court and airport? if you are a single guy..... single guy in 30s and look employed. if you want to approach a woman in public to talk to her....

My boyfriend thinks I'm too rigid in my routines and habitats. There is an element of truth to that. Last year I never took a sick day, just personal days off and I work hard at my job. My boyfriend told me today 'take tomorrow off and we will get back together.' I couldn't do it for several reasons because I am already taking 2 days in April for a wedding and a race. I make more money than he does, he does cleaning work and I have completed my Masters. I was so angered by him demanding i just call out sick. He explained how unacceptable it is how I live my life, but I am the one whole if financially stable. He doesn't have a credit card, doesn't pay his medical bills or am I just a horrible person?

I have a very unusual problem at least I think it is a very unusual problem. My soon to be husband wants to meet my ex husband. I can not see anything good coming out of this meeting. Both my ex husband and I have moved on and don't have much contact with each other. We did not have any children but we parted on friendly terms. Why would my soon to be husband want to meet my ex husband? I hope they do no want to become buddies. That would just be too weird. What does my soon to be husband want to do? Compare himself with my ex? All my friends tell me NEVER mention my ex husband to my new husband to avoid problems. Should I arrange this meetings? People with ex spouses (and others), please give me your input.