I am in the process of picking a maid of honor. I have 3 close friends that I cherish very much; however, I am having a difficult time choosing a maid of honor. I know that title has a lot of responsibilities and must be available most of the time. So I am having trouble choosing between two ladies. Any suggestions on who I should choose would be amazing! Girl (1): best friend since middle school, a lot of memories, been through a lot together, we dont talk ALL the time but we still keep in touch (we are just both very busy). However, shy and quiet (even around my family), still in college (she is taking summer and fall classes this year and I get married in October), I think she is a good planner but, again, she is shy. Girl (2): met in undergrad (junior year but got close during grad school - 3 years ago), we have a lot in common (career and goal wise and some interests), have done a lot together, very outgoing, great planner, etc. I want to choose girl (1) because of the fact that we have been friends since middle school and I feel guilty choosing someone else, however, I am also very close to girl (2) - she is so amazing and wonderful and is really getting involved in the wedding process. Any suggestions or thoughts on who I should choose would be helpful!!

I look at him like my hero, because he has defended me from bullies before we got together,he's handsome and modest, he goes everyday to work (takes the bus too), once when I slipped he took my by the hand and winked (before we were official), and yesterday I went buying things he needed cause he works, got home and start shivering and having stomach cramps. He warmed me up with his body, changed my clothes wet by the rain, dried my hair and gave me warm tea and a warm water bottle to put on my stomach..he stayed there til I reached a normal temperature and took care of me. But the idealization has gone too far and now I think he's tok perfecr for me and I cry cause I will never be as fearless, strong and perfect like him

My parents are Catholic and my fiancé's parents are Christian. We're plabning to get married in the Catholic Church because it's awsthetically pleasing. I don't give a **** about religion...everyone in my family knows that. He doesn't plan on becoming catholic but my mom insists we do it in the church bc it's "tradition". Ok cool. I'm ok with that and he is. But his parents are not OK with it because they aren't catholic. Thing also is, my parents are paying for a majority of the wedding not his. How do we get around it

My daughter's long term boyfriend comes over the house to visit her a couple of nights out a week. He normally comes whenever she gets off work which is around 4-5 pm. They eat dinner and then go upstairs and watch tv in the game room ( I don't allow her boyfriend in her room). She's 26. He's 30. They don't have their own place yet as they cannot afford it at the moment. I have to say sometimes it can be awkward when we we are all downstairs together because I don't feel like holding a conversation with him all of the time, especially once I get off work and just want to relax. My 18 year old son said I should leave and go on a date or something with his mom whenever her and her boyfriend are there so that it isn't so awkward. My daughter hadn't said anything about wanting privacy but she tends to talk to him less when he's around. My son was like " just give them some privacy for like an hour or whatever. You know they probably want to cuddle. whenever i'm at my girlfriend's house her parents always leave and give us a few hours to ourself". My son is also close friends with her boyfriend