Hey guys there's a situation that is driving me crazy, im a dude and i had a really goid friend from work for the past year. Her name is Alyssa and she knew i had feelings for her, but she was really cool about it. We would always talk at work, and she was so nice to me. She would always blush when i was around her. But she was married and she had 2 kids. I obviously respected that. But coworkers began to talk and cause drama at work because, everyone knew i liked Alyssa and we were really good friends. We were asked by management to stop talking to eachother to stop the gossip and drama. Me and Alyssa would still talk a little bit when no one was looking. I still would go to her department to get papers, but everyone would watch me to make sure i wasn't talking to her. Eventually she began getting stressed, one day i gave her a small gift for Christmas and she accepted it. But she went to my manager telling him that i bought her a gift, she also told my manager that i still go to her department. My manager got so furious that he moved me to a different floor far away from Alyssa. I still saw Alyssa in the hall but she would look down, i noticed she didn't talk to anyone anymore. A few weeks ago she Quit. she was at her job for 13 years. She had even deleted me from facebook when the drama began 2 months ago. But this week i noticed she blocked me. I have soo many unanswered questions that are driving me crazy!!!! Like Why did she betray me?? And why would she bother blocking me??? Can i have advice !!!!!! By the way i gave her a gift card

I'm a student in college and I live with one roommates. We get along for the most part but she is younger than me and sometimes can be a bit immature.In the beginning, we had an agreement that if we were going to have parties that we would just let each other know ahead of time. When I have people over I usually tell her ahead of time. My roommate she doesn't let me know about her parties. I don't care if she have people over especially if it's friday or a weekend. But if it's during the week or midterms then, thats a problem. I have classes in the morning. She had three parties in a row last week and it went on till 4 am. I didn't get a wink of sleep because she and her friends were blasting music stomping and screaming all night. On night, she was so loud that other people in my building called the cops on her. When they came to our room she slammed the door in his face and tried to run away because she and her friends were drunk and underaged. I ended up over sleeping and missed an exam because they were being too loud. I sat down and talked to her about it and she apologized and said that she will let me know about her parties for now on. This week is midterms. I just found out on instagram that today she plans on having a huge party and invited everyone at school. I asked her about in a text but she just ignored me. What should I do. And no Moving out is not an option.

I'm 22 and these past few months have been difficult for me having recently split up with my boyfriend and having some family problems I have been on anti depressants for a few weeks most days I just want to isolate myself after work and concerntrait on myself as I'm feeling really bad. I often message my friends to keep in touch and to arrange plans however one friend is also going through a rough stage and is expecting me to be there for her I've received a few suicide messages from her in the past and now I just feel like I can't cope with it all. I message her most days to see how she's doig but she get angry when I ignore her or can't come and see her should I try more?

I bet half of the people online wouldn't say the things that they say to people online If they met them in real life.

My friend touched the bar, but I seriously doubt he can touch rim. I can almost touch it too, and I can only touch 9'2

I'm a guy and I met this woman from work back in early 2018. I found her very attractive and I had a big crush on her, she always knew i had a crush on her and she was really cool about it. we would always talk, she would always stare at me and she would blush when she would talk to me. I felt so Much Chemistry and connection between us, the problem is that she was married and she had kids.  I obviously respected that.  Me and her would talk at work for hours and hours but later a lot of coworkers reported me and my friend for always talking and flirting at work. we got in lots of trouble eventually drama began, so my supervisor told us to stop talking to each other to avoid drama. I noticed she had got very stressed out with everything that was going on at work, me and her would still talk behind everybody's back and she even promised to have my back. one day I gave her a $20 gift card to a coffee shop for Christmas and she accepted and then she said thank you. but A few days later she told my supervisor that I bought her a gift, and that my presence is affecting her job. so my supervisor obviously got very mad at me and removed me from the floor, and put me in a different area with a different schedule far away from her. I noticed when i saw her in the hall she would always look down, and lots of people told mee that her personality changed. 2 weeks ago she quit her job after being there with the company for 13 years.   1 month ago she deleted me from her facebook. But recently i noticed that she blocked me. What was the point of blocking me?????? I NEVER EVEN MESSAGED HER

I'll try to make this as short as possible. As of now we are both seniors in University, and my sister still has no friends so she just talks to me whenever she needs to fulfill her social needs...which is easy we live in the same apartment along with another girl (she has social anxiety and keeps to herself). The issue is, once she starts talking she doesn't stop (repeats the same stuff over and over in different ways) or becomes so negative by the end that I no longer want to hear what she's saying. I've tried mentioning that fact that she talks a lot in different ways but she always tries to justify it by saying, "I never have the chance to talk." However this is obviously her own fault. Now let me just say, I'm a loner. I don't have any friends so I have no right to judge someone for not having friends, but I'm not at all bothered about it other than the occasional loneliness I'm sure a lot of college students go through. I've always been more independent even as a kid. So I simply just enjoy my own company and I don't have to be socialize as often as the average girl I suppose. But my sister isn't this way at all. She hates the quiet, she needs someone next to her for assurance (even in high school she would say that I would 'abandon' her on occasion). And the biggest thing that irritates me is that she is so insecure about herself that she won't just go make friends so that she has someone to talk to on a regular basis. She says stuff like: *****the remainder will be in a comment, my apologies.

My friend and another girl got into a huge argument in one of my classes. They were screaming and crying. My teacher sat there and didn't even try to stop it. When it was over, he just continued class like nothing had happened! I was furious. Isn't a teacher supposed to stop this kind of thing? I told the guidance counselor but she said that there was probably something he knew that I didn't, but she doesn't know how cruel he is. What can I do, and how can I help my friend without hurting the other girl (who isn't even a pad person or anything)? I'm not trying to be nosy or take sides, I just want to help my friend who was sobbing.

Something that happened a long time ago. Me and my friends were standing by the side of the street in our neighborhood when I was 16. When a guy in a pick up truck was driving by, my friend made a snotty outburst comment. The truck stopped the next 90 feet away. The man got out of his truck and started running toward us very fast. Me and my friends began running off. The guy chased us til we got to our houses. Luckily he didnt catch any of us. Wondering what he would have done if he did?

Today in class I was doing research on websites the rate people's public profiles for a social science class. A classmate asked me what website I was on, and I said "RateMe.com" but it sounded like "RapeMe.com" and I said it at a particularly quiet moment in class, so everyone could hear me. At the time I didn't realize I said something wrong until my classmate said that she heard "rape" instead of "rate." I'm so scared people think I'm weird and I don't know what to do!

2 of my good friends were at my house, and I later noticed my $160 headphones were completely gone, I last saw them in friend A's hands. I texted them both in a group chat about it, and friend A claims he left them on my desk, and has texted me multiple times telling me places I should look, etc. and Friend B claims he never saw them, and that is all he has said. I'm confident that if they were on my desk, friend B would've seen them, so I assume one of them is lying. (Note, friend B is saving money for a new computer). Is it likely one of them stole it? If so, whom is More likely to have done so?

if they aren't your friends on there and you already added them and they haven't added you back?

So I have a friend who Is well financially thanks to her parents and such. Her parents are as nice as they can be she on the other hand is not so. I am having problems with her, She treats all her friends like maids like we owe it to her to do everything for her just because. Ok so I recently bought a laptop from her because I needed it to start my website and she was not using it what so ever because she though it sucked and wanted a new Ipad (whatever) First she told me one price which I agreed on then she made the price even higher claiming it her final price and i had no other choice. Tuesday someone stole my phone charger at work. I had no other one I called to see if i could barrow one since she used to have the same phone as me and didn't want cause of the new IPhone. She has plenty of chords i asked only barrow it for a bit to charge my phone. She said yes i go over on my lunch break and hands me a wireless charger and says i need to pay her for it. Last time she faked being sick so that me and my friend could clean her house and when her aunt came over to check on her the aunt treated us like the "help" very poorly.I made her pay us.But every time we agree to go out she never wants to drive or demands we pick her up.Every single dang time,And you can't even talk about your successes around her she will try and beat you at it. I thought her to do resin crafts and told her about me wanting a website.What did she do a few days later she opened a website just to spite me I can't speak about friend stuff because se will ignore it and talk about how sick she is or her life problems. She is more well of financially then i am and her way of thinking vs others is just crazy she does not appreciate what she has and always complains and does not see people are far worse then her and still manage. Cause complains about work all the time and thought about going to short term disability cause she was having bad cramps. I still want to pay her the things i owe her. But i no longer want to associate my self with her. What can I do thanks. She already lost many friends which are now my friends and they tell me horror stories about her. But i feel like i need to be there be her friend since i still owe her the laptop and apparently the wireless charger now. And she left me hanging on other bills and expected me to pay them. I'm just confused i don't want her t think i'm skipping out on the bills. I'm just flat out tired and want her out of my life.

Went to his birthday party. He is in grade school and acted nuts. hiding under the tables singing at the top of his lungs about fart.Bragging about dirty movies he watches with his mom.Bugging my friend for her food that I bought her. She has told me she is a vegetarian but it bugged me that she let him eat her food because he is still hungry.He calmed down once he started playing poker for extra happy meal toys with is grandpa..She said his home life isn't great and she stuffs his backpack full of food for him and his little sister whenever she sees him. The fast food place didn't think he was that bad.He did give me a fist bump and say thanks for being his friend and buying him crayons and coloring books.I am afraid he is gonna end up ruined bc of his dumb parents and my friend spoiling him. I cant say anything bc my kids don't talk to me His sister is three he is pretty nice to her but she doesn't talk bangs her head against the table and started crying and screaming whenever I got close to her. Their dumb parents let them drink coffee .

Hello. I am a 25 year old female and I have a best friend the same age. I feel like the worlds worst piece of sh*t. I am a depressed and anxious person, but I am medicated and trying to get out of this situation. My friend is in the same situation. I am the best thing she knows (she told me that), which is both flattering and sucks at the same time. I am an introvert, and with my depression on top of that I feel exhausted by human interactions. My friend have for the past 3 years been very possessive of me and jealous if I was talking to someone else or wouldn't give her a lot of my time. And I can barely ever have a decent discussion with her about our problems without her becoming toxic and angry. The reason why I feel like a shitty person is because she is the giver and I am the involuntary taker in this friendship. I have explained to her before that I CANNOT give to her what she asks of me. I can't talk, chat or game if I don't feel like it. And most days I just want to be alone. I asked her to respect my boundaries and don't give me more than I can give her, because I won't be able to do that. I don't know what to do. I am part of the problem, but she makes me look like a monster who hurts her feelings all the time when I try to explain my boundaries to her. She won't accept them. I don't want to lose her, but I don't want to force myself to give her what she desires. I don't have this kind of problem with my other friends. And they don't expect things from me. She doesn't ask me of something huge. She just want to have a 50/50 relationship, where she gets back as much as she gives. But I can't give her more than I already give. It's like my 100% are her 50%. I can't give as much as her.. and won't be able to do that ever. Does that make me a worthless friend?

My best friend tried to run me over with his car because he's angry at me. We've been friends our whole life. Lately he's been hanging out with some other guys and I seriously don't mind and don't care. The other day we where having lunch and his friend came up to me asking me about this girl who takes the same classes as me, she's not my friend, but we are definitely "friendly" as we sometimes help each other on things we don't understand in the class. I had no idea my best friend liked her, so I told them I didn't really know her which is true. Then they saw me randomly talking to her and "laugh" at a "joke" which I remember it had to do with the fact that I seriously ****** up one answer which was stupid because I knew the answer and got confused and now the guys and my best friend are acting strange, they ignore me, or say how pigs usually stab their friends in the back and don't deserve to live. At first I was lost and then I knew he was reffering to me because he thinks I like the same girl as him. I ignored them, but then the next day after that I was walking to school, he was supposed to pick me up but leave me hanging, so as I was walking I looked back and he was driving and he hit the gas if I didn't take a few steps back quickly he would of run me over. He then stopped and stare at me seriously to just drive away. When I confronted him and asked him what was his problem he ignored me again. Should I just ignore him and cut him off?

Ok so I'm a girl and I became friends with this other girl I met at my summer job. We formed a friendship group with a third girl. Over the last few months, this girl has started to literally hate my guts for no reason. When I broke up with my boyfriend she was supportive and always there for me. She suggested I join her church and so I did. A lot of men at her church would approach me and talk to me. One of the men told me I looked like a famous actress. That day she stormed off without me and was very rude to me. Since then, she has always seemed very angry when I go to her church. Another time i met up with her to go shopping. She manipulated me into buying her a headband by taking me to the checkout then explaining she had no money so I ended up paying for it. Then when I asked her for the money back, she was very passive aggressive and made me feel guilty for asking for my money back.. I also get compliments easily from other people. People often tell me I remind them of a ballerina and whenever they say this my friend goes quiet and looks at me angrily. I recently decided to distance myself from her and she showed up at my home group and I saw her glaring at me it felt like she wanted to kill me. She then made a passive aggressive comment about wanting friends to have her back. What's her issue with me? Why was she glaring at me?

Couple years back i became friends with someone who I thought was a normal guy, turned out to be a weirdo because he was looking at me and wanted to get inside my spiritual realm and kinda disturb my peace at any chance he could.. don't want that to happen again therefor I kinda don't want any new friends and i'm cool with being to myself and only see some friends of mine 1-2 times a month on the weekend.. what do I do?

I'm in high school grade 11 and this new kid and I sometimes talk a bit in class and one time we were texting and he said he liked my friend but I like him and want him to start to like me but idk how to

Let's say these two friends are college aged (18-22). I get people are "busy" and have their own lives, but are people really THAT busy where they don't talk to a friend for WEEKS/MONTHS on end? Is that really a friend? Or, just an associate?

okay so this is a serious thing so i need a serious answer. so i'm currently a sophomore in hs. in 8th grade, there was this kid who was head over heels in love and obsessed with me before i even spoke to him. he would pretend to date me in games and talk about me to his best friend. when i told him i liked someone else, he tried to make me feel bad for it. on my 14th birthday, he wrote me a letter telling me i deserve to die after not speaking for 2 months. after that he became homeschooled and then after that, in the summer he told his ex best friend he wanted me to burn alive, mainly because i "stole his best friend" (i've been dating his friend ever since but they were barely friends). freshman year we made up, i never knew about him wanting me to burn alive. and then soph year he started liking this girl he liked in 7th and was unhealthily obsessed, like it was really bad. he'd even harass and manipulate her sometimes too and constantly speak of her to me. when she told him off for him being so creepy, he told me he was going to break his bones and kill himself(he has access to guns at his house). instead of doing any of that, he transferred to another school but he's supposed to return. last month he had his mom message my mom to get her to tell me to speak to him(we haven't spoken since new years because i was tired of dealing with him and him manipulating me). i didn't reach out. on christmas 2018 he sent me a package to my house from amazon or something that --- only said "Merry Christmas -(name)". my parents and i think it was a passive aggressive threat as in "i know where you live, watch out". when we were friends, he'd tell me about his crazy dreams of killing people he hated. oh, and in the summer of 8th grade, he wrote me down on a hit list because he hated me and wanted revenge. my point to all of this is if i should be worried and what i should do. i don't have any proof, i got rid of the letter in 8th grade because it broke me down but i have - evidence of him saying he wants me to burn alive. he's been silent since new years and that scares me. i consider him as a narcissistic psychopath because of what he's done and known. oh, and another detail. in 8th when he found out i didn't like him back, he told me he wanted me to find his dead body or something and he'd always be like "i'm leaving soon". i think he has the potential to hurt me or my family. so someone, please tell me what to do for right now. my boyfriend could be in danger - as well. and i'm scared. he has access to guns as said before and he has no mercy. help!

One thing I can share from experience that has caused a portion of friends to abandon or me losing potential friends, is that someone who I barely know would spread false gossip and rumors behind my back to damage my relationships. I would often have no idea whats going on, or why it is happening. Or why even the person is doing this, do they just like to cause pain to others? I don't know. When things like that happen under the radar, I don't know what I am supposed to do or what I could of done, or what I even did at all. That's a big mystery about myself I have always wondered. The friends I lost from this, I haven't really had a chance to talk to them or had any idea what was going on. That's one big thing for me that I struggle with, I can make friends but sometimes I lose them because someone else doesn't like me for whatever reason.

I'm a guy and I met this woman from work back in early 2018. I found her very attractive and I had a big crush on her, she always knew i had a crush on her and she was really cool about it. we would always talk, she would always stare at me and she would blush when she would talk to me. I felt so Much Chemistry and connection between us, the problem is that she was married and she had kids.  I obviously respected that. but later a lot of coworkers reported me and my friend for always talking and flirting at work. we got in lots of trouble eventually drama began, so my supervisor told us to stop talking to each other to avoid drama. I noticed she had got very stressed out with everything that was going on at work, me and her would still talk behind everybody's back and she even promised to have my back. one day I gave her a $20 gift card to a coffee shop for Christmas and she accepted and then she said thank you. but a few days later she told my supervisor that I bought her a gift, and that my presence is affecting her job. so my supervisor obviously got very mad at me and removed me from the floor, and put me in a different area with a different schedule far away from her. I noticed when i saw her in the hall she would look always look down. But around 2 weeks ago, she quit after 13 years of being at the company. She had deleted me from facebook 1 month ago, but i noticed that she recently blocked me!! Why would she bother blocking me??????? I never messaged her

The doc was made after he died from his found films. He was an alcoholic and an abuser. He had a wife and kids. Anyone know what this doc is called?