Hi im 16 years old and when i was 7-13yrs old i used to go to a childminder because of my little brother . My childminder used to have a son who was about 9 yrs older than me and when i was 10 and he was 16 he used to always sexually touch me . Whenever i was sitting down on the computer for example he would always try and open my trousers,put his hands down my trousers and into my bum and even one time he touched my private area ! But at the time i was too scared to tell anyone because i was scared nobody would believe me.. I dont want to go over the character limit but is it worth telling my mum even though this all last happened 4 years ago?

before you say anything about how awful this is or anything please listen to some context 1. My mother walked out on us 3 years ago and only recently came back into our lives 2. my sister is being bullied at school and the school has refused to do anything so we are moving away after this school year 3 my sister is 9 and has had no signs of having depression (not to say she couldnt but there are no signs) but she has inherited the troubling trait from my mother that when she gets mad she says the most shocking or mean things she can think of to hurt people to get back at them. My dad called and told me that the school wants my sister picked up because while a few girls at school were bullying her she got worked up and threatened to come home and take all our mother's heart pills and kill herself (this couldn't happen as my mother doesn't live with us anymore) The school, reasonably horrified called my dad. Ever since our mother came back into their lives my younger sisters behavior has been going down hill. She spoils them rotten won't let anyone tell them no when she's around and she lets them stay up all night long when they're with her. since my mother has came back she has said something similar before because my mom mentioned that my other sister is her favorite (Real gem she is.) My sister has never said anything about suicide before mom came back. I don't know how to handle this situation as I have very little power over my parents. I just want her to be safe.

So I want to go to The 1975 Concert in may, since my friends have an extra ticket.I haven't asked my mom yet, because I know she will not like them at all, and she's very strict with music. If she does any amount of research into them, she'll probably not let me go, so I was just wondering if anybody had any tips that I could maybe convince her with. Also just for reference, I'll be just turning 17 when I go to the concert, and I'm going w 2 guys and another gal so it's not gonna be dangerous, and I'm going with people that she knows and trusts. But I'm just really scared that she'll not let me go because of some of their more explicit songs. Thanks!

Why does this happen? I am 21 and every time we argue I always have to stop talking for a minute so my voice doesn't break and my eyes start to water so he doesn't notice it because it's really embarassing. And only very, very few times i have broken up in front of him (and my mom). And i mean arguing about things with substance, not arguing which way is faster with the car for example. No matter what, the discussion always leads to, i get frustrated and angry because he doesn't understand and hear me, and he gets angry because i don't understand him. I know there has to be some deep and underlying reason for this. Because i'm completely fine arguing with my mom and friends and being angry with no breaking down in tears. I'm hoping someone could give me some clues, maybe someone in the same situation. I can say that growing up, at a very young age, he used to get extremely angry sometimes for things, for instance if me and my sister were fighting. He most definitely had anger issues. And he would really scare me as a child, up until i was about 17 i wasn't scared anymore and his tantrums had stopped all together. Only yelling. I also suffer from general anxiety disorder, and am not sure if he is the reason. I just remember how incredibly anxious i sometimes was when he would go crazy, or if i had done something i knew he would freak out over. I don't suffer from panic attacks thankfully, i've only had 1 and have managed to stop myself the few times i feel one coming. But i can say right now, looking back, the anxiety and fear i felt as a child growing up during those times, would most definitely give me a panic attack and give me crippling anxiety for days after. Another thing that might give you some insight is from my early teens (12, 13), ever since school started becoming more serious. I always felt i let my parents, especially my dad, down. It's weird because i know he is proud of me no matter what, and always supports me. But i always FEEL, deep down inside, like "i know" i'm pathetic and am letting him down no matter what i do. Can anyone relate to this? Thank you for reading everything.

She did have a difficult childhood as her mother was narcissistic like and belittled her while praising the other daughter and ignoring the son who moved in with his Dad after the parents divorced. She also is said to have been sexually abused by a relative on the other side of her family who later went to jail for abuse. At the same time she is 25 and the abuse was before she was 10. Is it normal for a woman to be this way when the abuse was so long ago and the man who did it is out of the picture and locked up?

I don't hate her, I just dislike her. She is the only enemy in my family. I have a large family and even larger extended family. One brother we seldom see anymore but there is no dislike for him.

Why does this happen? I am 21 and every time we argue I always have to stop talking for a minute so my voice doesn't break and my eyes start to water so he doesn't notice it because it's really embarassing. And only very, very few times i have broken up in front of him (and my mom). And i mean arguing about things with substance, not arguing which way is faster with the car for example. No matter what, the discussion always leads to, i get frustrated and angry because he doesn't understand and hear me, and he gets angry because i don't understand him. I know there has to be some deep and underlying reason for this. Because i'm completely fine arguing with my mom and friends and being angry with no breaking down in tears. I'm hoping someone could give me some clues, maybe someone in the same situation. I can say that growing up, at a very young age, he used to get extremely angry sometimes for things, for instance if me and my sister were fighting. He most definitely had anger issues. And he would really scare me as a child, up until i was about 17 i wasn't scared anymore and his tantrums had stopped all together. Only yelling. I also suffer from general anxiety disorder, and am not sure if he is the reason. I just remember how incredibly anxious i sometimes was when he would go crazy, or if i had done something i knew he would freak out over. I don't suffer from panic attacks thankfully, i've only had 1 and have managed to stop myself the few times i feel one coming. But i can say right now, looking back, the anxiety and fear i felt as a child growing up during those times, would most definitely give me a panic attack and give me crippling anxiety for days after. Another thing that might give you some insight is from my early teens (12, 13), ever since school started becoming more serious. I always felt i let my parents, especially my dad, down. It's weird because i know he is proud of me no matter what, and always supports me. But i always FEEL, deep down inside, like "i know" i'm pathetic and am letting him down no matter what i do. Can anyone relate to this? Thank you for reading everything.

I have kept the mother of all secrets for two years now and learned another big one Monday though that one my brother knows. Again I know the mother of all secrets now. I feel privileged, even my parents don't know. Mountain!!----Yes I am. I am so honored to have this special privilege that even my mother does not know. I am forever the owner of this secret. I am proud, honored, and humbled to know the secret that only me and my aunt know. I am the most special in the family.

We never talked about reproduction or puberty with her at all. She is adopted, so it was easier for us to avoid the sex talk. We are just parents who are trying to protect her until she's an adult.

I'm a 15 year old girl. People find it weird if I fool around the same way that my twin brother does. Even as far back as in kindergarten, teachers expected me to reach early childhood milestones before my brother did. We were in the same class that year. No matter what age and situation we are in, it seems like people always expect me to be one step ahead of my brother in terms of emotional maturity.

i have an overbearing mother she wants to get in my business and make sure that im not talking about her in my therapy sessions. my mother is way in her masculine she is very aggressive she is a truck driver. she has forgotten how to be a lady. she lies and manipulates to get her way she threatens me with her fists and one time a knife and she yells at me everyday calling me names and mocking me like a child. she has helped brake my self esteem and im just trying to better my self. what do i do if my mother is trying to make me cave in to see my therapist?

I'm an only child and I see siblings (particularly brother and sister) constantly hugging and putting their arms around each other. Is this accurate?

Hey guys. So i like this girl but she told me that im sweet but she doesnt attracted to me physically. Will it work? We planning on a date but i feel like it's useless at this point since she told me the truth

I met my fiancé 5 years ago and she has her son and we have a daughter together. My step son was living with us since he was 12 now he's 17. During this time he has always been a little adventures and outgoing with a slight Dennis the Mennis characteristics, which wasn't a issue until he turned 16 until now 17. At 17 he wants freedom as all teenagers do, his mother and father has tired to put restrictions on him but it hasn't worked. He has done drugs of all sorts but his favorite is marijuana. The love of marijuana has cause a acute psychosis and given my fiancé lots of worry and anxiety. She sent him to live with is dad but now he want to move back in. Side note :( because our daughter which is 2 has a crib in our room my fiancé cant get in the "mood" unless we take it to my step sons old room). Also he dropped out of high school but got his Ged which is good but has no future plan. So basically In worried that my step son will cause emotional discomfort to my fiancé, destroy my sex life and free load for as long as he can. I don't want to be the bad guy and say he cant come because that's her son. 'What should I do.

My parents care about me and love me, but they're so sick of me that they get to the point they want me out the house and would leave me on the street. My parents literally are at the point they would let me live on the street. As far as I am concerned if you left someone sleeping under a bridge you don't truly care about them. At one point I was so depressed, upset and angry I wanted to walk in to my parents room when they were shouting at me, put a gun to my head and pull the trigger. I feel like this is what they deserve? The ironic thing is if I done this they would likely be devastated and wouldn't be able to live with them self. It just doesn't make any sense.

My mom is 40 years old. What my brother was born in 1998 she had a nervous breakdown because my brother stopped breathing after birth. He s well now. She s been getting disability every since. She s been diagnosed with having a personality disorder, but honestly she doesn t have one. I know my Mother. She s been playing the system for years. She goes to her therapist and lie about hearing voices. I hate that she settles for that little money instead of getting a job. She calls me about not having food in the house. I try to refrain from saying get your *** out and get a job. She lives in the ghetto and complains to me about her rent going up all the time. I am 23, and out on my own. I have a son whom I work really hard for. We live in a nice neighborhood, and are not on any government assistance. I wanted the same for me growing up. I just hate my younger siblings have to grow up around her lazy decisions. I just want my Mom to thrive. How can I approach her ?

I accidentally forgot to not take $1,000 out of my father's purse. He said not to take anything from his purse. But then I forgot to not and took it by mistake. I spent it all Red Bull. Will he be angry with me?

Bc they aren't the ones who carry the kid do they not get as excited about it? You hear so many stories of husbands cheating on their wife's while they're pregnant then comepletely abandoning the situation when the mother gives birth. It's like men don't feel as related and attached to their own children.

My family , step family , cousins, and extended family are completely unsupportive , and they need an alternative way to leave the program rather than die , be hacked by a general through a microchip , or humiliated by everyone , just for fun. I feel we deserve equal rights to our " chosen " siblings. Because they won't, I refuse to die or do the program. It is based off of a 1945 or 35 program anyways, in any case , I should be free to have my own choices and freewill back or a way to get freedom since ohio won't pay the millions of dollars to set everyone that deserves to be rewarded and freed. I am so hated , I am jeering this state. People are so gullible , the government agents. I have heard " no " & lies and games and cons for too long , why does my whole life have to be a sims game for secret societies, so I can just be a pawn for everyone. Even the people supposedly investigating don't even have to talk to me over this " favored " , " non-favored " , if you want your product resented and burned go for " favored ". I just feel so emotionally suffocating and dying to be more than an illegal caregiver to my mom over dome medieval secret societies that need outlawed. So if I am not favored , I am breaking the James Mcanderson Constitutions , sorry for the confusion in spellings. Because it was opposed and imposed on myself & the Backstreet Boys, and my mother and I. It is a hate crime against twins , multiples , all faiths , women, teens , children, etc.

So to basically put this down I am a scum I know I am. So basically my mom and her brother (my uncle) are in a fight about who helped my grandma the most. I know my mom did because I've seen everything that she's done for her and that she lived with us for 15 years. So my mom went on vacation and my grandma is staying at my uncles until she gets back. Me and my brother went to go visit her. So when we came to the house we just talked friendly not trying to start any problems. She ( my aunt) was talking to my brother and she said that you know we're right and we both shook our heads no. After an hour later we left and I told my mom what happened. She said that we are dogs for not defending her, that we don't appreciate everything she has done for us, and that she's kicking us out the house when she gets home. I know I should've said something to defend her and I'm not denying that I'm a scum. But I just wanted to see my grandma I didn't want to start a whole fight and if my uncle decides to not let us see our grandma anymore because we started a fight then I wouldn't be able to function. I never got to tell my grandpa goodbye and I don't want it to be the same with my grandma. I told her I'm sorry even after all those words she threw at me and I deserved them. I said I love her and I didn't know what to say after admitting my fault. She went on and on about how we're are dogs and that we are getting kicked out. I know what she did for our grandma.

I ground my son for not doing his homework and lying about it a while back but at the parent teacher conference yesterday I found out he did most of his homework. I already said sorry to him and gave him back his nintendo but what are some ways you apologize to your kids if you where wrong about something? Id like some ideas. was thinking of taking him to see a movie but he doesn't care much for those.

He can hardly walk because he has severe nerve damage throught most of his body.He is also on pain meds. He could still he a tech tech assistant or something. He rents his own place.