Not enjoyable for me, but apparently she enjoys it..

So, there was that party one of my friends was doing. I am 19, so I didn't had a problem going even if it was a school night. Allthough, my best friend is 16 so he had to ask for permission before. His dad was very negative, thing I get now, and he didn't allow him to come. I wanted him to be there, so I told him to lie to his dad and tell him he was going to sleep in my house so I could help him with a project he had. His father let him eventually, and we went to the party together. We had fun untill some guy took a selfie with us, and put it on Facebook, tagging our names. Unfortunately, my friend's dad saw this and he become very angry. He called my friend, yelling at him, and like 40' later he was there and took my friend back home. The next day, I tried calling my friend, texted him,but nothing. I went by his house, knocked the door, and his dad opened the door, and he told me to get in, in a kinda angry tone. I apologized, and said that it was all my fault, but I don't think he was relieved with that. Then, I talked with my friend a little and left. My friend is grounded from everything for 1 month and he is not allowed to leave the house for anything expect school. His dad said I am allowed to see him, every Sunday for an hour and so, thing I am grateful after all I did. I am an asshole, and I know my friend is suffering. I know it seems I am a bad influence, which may I am, but is there anything I can do to help him?

I live with me in laws and I have kids, we are saving for a house right now. They are kind people with good intentions. I'm very grateful for the help, but I struggle with them because we are so different. Particularly my mother in law. I feel that I cant be honest and direct with her because, she is home every day and doesn't have a job. the slightest conflict is a big deal to her. In the past I've attempted to create boundaries and She will slander me to the rest of the family, create alot of tension and bombard me judgmental passive aggressive comments. It seems very dramatic. Here's the current behaviors I'm struggling with. -She fishes through my things without asking -Walks into our room whenever -Micromanages everything the kids and I do(literally she will follow me to the kitchen, tell me what to eat AND tell me how long to microwave it) -She asks alot of questions and inserts herself into our -business unwarranted. And gets offended if we dont follow her advice. -She makes judgmental comments about our lifestyle (they are very religious, we are not) I'm just hoping there is a are contentious ways to avoid this behavior. Its causing me anxiety. To me it's not worth it to hurt them and affect our relationship long term because once we move out most of these things wont be a big issue. Avoiding them isn't always practical right now because my kids are young enough that its alot of work to leave the house (16 month old twins.)

We are not Jewish but our brother's wife is. We are Episcopal but not particularly devout. Our Dad is worried about heritage though says it is not the religious part he is against, it is heritage. He is claiming he happens to be at the beach with our step-mother seeing friends but of course beach plans can be changed. Is this bigotry against Jews? Again, he is not against it because of Christianity and theological differences as we are not particularly religious (Our Dad didn't always go to church even at Christmas and Easter with us) however, it is family heritage he is against it due to. I asked last night but got two terrible answers so am trying one more time.

It was my Dad's father who died and now my Mom is venting to us kids about her ex, our Dad, being a dirty womanizer which my Dad has already said is a lie and he absolutely did not cheat. Even if he had I wish my Mom wouldn't use me as a pawn and all the more cause he has not done it. On top of that I just lost my grandfather.

Luckily I don't have to see the wicked creep (my sister) this weekend cause she will be out of town when I go to my cousin's baptism.

My parents are divorced so my siblings and I have contact with my dad which was arranged in court. However, me and dad never really got along and we would argue any time I went to see him, so I stopped going. On a few occasions recently he has asked me to come out to his to get things, e.g. he asked me to go out with them for a meal, and took me and my sister shopping a couple of times. I feel guilty that I pretty much only go to see him when I'm getting something in return, so should I stop? I don't want to give the impression that I'm using him or anything but he never says anything, and I think he just kind of accepts now that I just don't go out often so doesn't constantly ask me to go or anything.

Ok so I just turned 18 a few months ago and I do anything . Like my mom won't let my friends come over to my house or me come over to theirs and it doesn't matter if they are a girl or a boy . Even the girls can't come over to my house (I'm a girl btw). And she won't teach me how to drive . And I can't even stay In the house by myself. When she not at the house I have to be at a family member home or wait at her job for her to get off or at school. The most I can do on my own is get a job. And she really doesn't want me to get that . She has her friends over and is married . But I can't do anything . I'm bored out of my mind . I have plenty of friends but it isn't really fun or a way to keep it up if you can't hang out. The only thing I have is the internet. She is really over protective and I'm the youngest kid my other siblings have all moved out and where able to do everything I'm not . Just want to hear opinion.

I'm 20 years old and she's 19, she both share apartments and she's been shouting at me all day because she's tired of my childish behavior, I admit I act stupid sometimes. She said she tired of me acting like a child and that's affecting our relationship and I was just taking it all and repeatedly saying sorry while she's shouting anyways I just couldn't take her shouting at me anymore so I just went to the bathroom and slammed the door and locked it, I took a very long shower. After it she was sitting in the kitchen crying, I apologised again but she told me to go away. So I went to lay on the couch to take a nap and I get waken up by her sitting on top of me, aggressively smothering me with her foot and calling me ungrateful until I took her off me then she went to her parents house and won't respond to my messages. Is there anyway I could fix this?

Yesterday my friend used my moms phone chargee which I didn't know. He put it back in the wrong spot, so she accessed me of using it. For 20 mins, she cursed me out about it before I went to bed. She then texted me this morning saying "I found it, but I could have done without your attitude." How am I the one giving attitude when she's the one cursing me out.

Hey guys. So, I really need opinions on this. That's y I chose to ask everyone out there to answer this question of mine. It would help me a lot. My family is quite big. My grandparents have 9 children so theres a lot of ppl in our family. Family feuds are also there many a times. I am a 16 year old girl and as you can guess, I have a lot of cousins. None of us have really bonded together cos we are spread out around the world and meet on rare occasions. I m settled with my mom and dad abroad for the past 9 years. I go to my hometown every year. I came abroad when I was 7. When I turned 11 and went to my hometown that year, there was this cousin brother whom I was meeting after a long time. He's 6 years elder than me. He was quite mean to me when I was young bcos of the age difference and also because I was the youngest in the family. What happened is, he ended up molesting me. This has bothered me for the past 5-6 years. He's in hostel now. Thing is, I want to talk to him about it. I don't think talking through social media would do some good. I am over that incident now but since it happened in my childhood, it's always gonna be there in the back of my mind. I tried talking to him as normal cousins would. But our conversations never went beyond a hi and how are you. I feel that he is guilty about that incident and doesn't want to waste any more time of mine by talking to me. How can I make him understand that I forgive him and also start off on a good note?

They love attention it's a drug for them

The mother of my daughter said nothing of her existence for the 1st year of her life. Tried to raise her with another father with whom she has another child and replace my parents as well as grandparents. They broke up and then she told me about her and I took full responsibility. She still sends my daughter over to their house with her brother. I think it is important she have a good relationship with her brother but should not be so heavily involved with the family as a whole. Her brothers grandma i know claims her as her grand child as well on social media and such. I cant help but find this whole thing extremely offensive, on behalf of myself and on behalf of my parents and her grandparents. What do you all think?

I m 25 years old, I make 5,000 a month with my job and I can afford it but she thinks I should stay in America and save my money but I want my own place and my mom wants to keep me home until I m at least 30 she said. IM trying to move to live in the Philippines because I traveled their and stayed their a while for my job and decided I really like it their. My mom thinks I would be more happy living in America but Its much cheaper to live in the Philippines for me and I can t afford a home in america for 5,000 a month. She also wont let me live on my own because it s too much for her I think but I lose my mind living at her house and want my own place to live. I cry every night because I dont know what to do. I just want a place i can afford on my own. I know that s not possible with how much I make. Can somebody please help me. I try to talk to my mom but she embarrasses me every time. I ve been thinking of how to kill myself over this situation it s gotten so bad but I m too much of a coward to do it. She knows I want to and told her how I felt but she only thought of what she wanted. I"d really appreciate some help.

My sister is 18 and I'm almost 17. We were comparing height when she says she's taller than me. I'm like, "no ur not Sheryl, ur shorter than I am!" She says, "no, look. Im 5'7.Taller than u." And she measures with her hand from her forehead across to mine. But I swore I clearly looked down on her! So she goes let's go downstairs and ask dad. I say ok. He has us stand back to back. When we do...our rushes touch...and I'm like"😮😮😮bcuz mine is touching CLEARLY 2 inches below hers! I'm like uggh, her long legs UGH!" But I stay silent. Then our heads touch back...mine...AT LEAST 2 inches below hers, damnit, uggh😣😣" he goes, "well, it's close, but I have a winner! And...Sheryl is taller than u are!😊" and she goes "😄😄haha, told u!" Well, we'd made a 10 dollar bet before this on who would win. So she wanted me to pay but I was like...no, let's get measured on the wall, THEN we'll see! She agreed. I go first. When they weren't looking down I sorta arched my feet and lifted my heels. He marked me. Then she went. He marked her. He looked and goes..."ohhh he IS taller than u!😯😯she goes "😭😭😭noooo! But I demanded the money and she paid me. But awwwwgh.....should I give it back, or tell her the truth? I dunno, I'm worried she'll find out. Her dang long legs...I didn't count on that, ugh..😕😕😕

how much would you charge as a stay at home mom with one 3yr old kid , to babysit your granddaughter? per day? Or per week amount? Mon-Friday From 6 till 3 maximum some times just two or three days a week (all baby supplies , food already taken care of just cost to baby sit?

I love my mom. Shes always been my best friend but i also cant stand her. I have one son whos six and one whos two. She loves my six yo and hates my two yo. She blames all my six yo bad behavior on my two yo saying he sees him being bad so he does it too. Or that because we use to move a lot hes been abused by that and is acting out because of that. More or less my 6 yo can do no wrong in her eyes. No matter what he does its someone elses fault. While when my 2 yo acts up hes a monster hes fully responsible for any and every action. If he even looks at her wrong she goes off while my 6 yo can punch her and she will just say oh no honey dont play mean. Ive already tried talking to her. She will never change. She is set in her ways. Its gotten so bad we rarely ever talk now.

I'm male

Even as I have chronicled with my parents the exact set of circumstances (many of which were beyond our control..such as our jobs being relocated) that led to me moving in with my girlfriend...they still disapprove and vehemently so... Everytime I am alone with my father he either starts on it directly or starts telling me a story of a wife who threw out her husband. And the worst part is...its making me scrutinize my girlfriend. Argue with her over things that wouldn't bother me if it wasn't for the fact that my parents keep insisting that moving into the woman's house is basically the death knoll of any relationship. They keep suggesting "if you are in the woman's house, she start controlling you/lose respect for you." It's almost as if they WANT her to throw me out, just to prove them right.

I'm just wondering, my parents got divorced over a yr ago and both of them have new partners and especially with my mom she has a bf and I see him pretty much almost any day I'm at my moms, he usually sleeps over and also I see his kids at my house every weeeknd I'm there. So they aren't married but I still watch his kids quite often, and have dinner with them all some days and even went on a week long vacation with them.. so yeah. I don't refer to them like that but with my friends I usually do just since it's easier to say stepmom/dad, ya know? Oh and I'm 16 btw

my biological dad died when i was 2 and my mom married a man about 5 years ago. he gets meaner every year i get older, just today i put a blanket on a chair and it fell on the ground, i told him i put it on the chair and it fell and he got mad at me for "lying". once when it was just us at home he called me a slob who wastes his life so i called my mom crying and she called him back and told him not to do that and he came to my room and ripped into me on how i need to solve my own problems and got mad at me for crying. he expects so much of me and i want to achieve it and when i do he doesn't even care. i'm 14 and i need help

We are not Jewish but our brother's wife is. We are Episcopal but not particularly devout. Our Dad is worried about heritage though says it is not the religious part he is against, it is heritage. He is claiming he happens to be at the beach with our step-mother seeing friends but of course beach plans can be changed. Is this bigotry against Jews? Again, he is not against it because of Christianity and theological differences as we are not particularly religious (Our Dad didn't always go to church even at Christmas and Easter with us) however, it is family heritage he is against it due to.

i'm 16 my parents wont let me drive or get a ride from my friends so if i want to hang out with friends my parents have to drive me.. if my friends want to go watch a movie and then go eat somewhere i cant go because i cant ride with them. i end up missing on so many social gatherings. and i can't have my parents drive me bc my friends are always like 'oh we can drive you' etc. and it's honestly embarrassing that I still need my parents chaperoning everything and have to drop me on the occasion they actually let me go out. i'm not allowed to get my license either do you guys have any ideas of how to convince my parents to let my friends drive me around

I'm 14 female and i'm 5 3/5 4 (i'm kinda in between) i haven't grown since last march and my family is in no means "tall". i'm american (but i have some german family members). my mom is 5 2/5 2 and my dad is about 5 8 (idk though i'm just guessing). my grandma on my moms side is 5 3 and my grandma on my dads side is 5 4. my grandpa on my moms side is probably 5 7 and my grandpa on my dads side is unknown. i started my period in 2016 when i was 11 (some people say you stop growing 2 years after your period but idk if i believe that). pretty much no guy in my family is over 6 and no girl is over 5 6 but idk all my family. does anyone have any guesses for how tall i'll be as an adult?

We butt heads, she fights with me over it a lot. There's only a path to squeeze by in the dining room and hallway. Every frwaling thing has a story to it or belonged to sone great grandma or relative. She's got stuff from like ten families. Should I be more patient? I'm so tired of helping clean it up for the last 3 years. It's almost done....

They keep saying I'll be a single parent in a council house with kids, calling me a failure, embarrassment, saying I should sign on and be a bum, I'm lazy, all I do is stay in bed