At the time I was going through a lot and she happened to message me and I stupidly got annoyed so I stopped talking to her and always left my status as invisible and every few weeks she messages me saying she misses me and she's scared I committed suicide or something- and obviously I didn't... I isolated myself from pretty much everyone for a few months but now I want to talk to her again but I have no clue how to explain why I was gone or how I can justify it. What do I do?

At school I have a good amount of people I talk to and I want to hang out with them when I'm free because I don't often hang out with my friends. But the problem is I can't always tell which ones are people to just talk to at school or people to spend time with outside of school. I'm scared to ask someone to hang out because I'm worried they think of me more of an acquaintance and not a super close friend. How do I tell? I can't judge based on who asks me to hang out because I rarely get asked to hang out, so that makes it harder. I also don't know if the people that don't ask me to hang out just prefer to stay home or don't actually want to spend time with me after school.

I'm angry that she's talking to my friends and hanging out with them. I'm not jealous. When her and I were best friends, she talked crap about them ALL THE TIME. I always stood up for them because they weren't around when she was talking crap. I knew them since middle school and she had the audacity to say things like "I just use her for car rides" and "she's such a ******* *****, she did this..." (and it's usually veerryy minuscule. She's a drama queen). She is so bitter around me. I apologized for things I did and she has not apologized for what she's done to me. I hate expending so much negative energy but I just can't help it. She was a toxic friend and my other friends don't deserve to go through that. I want to tell them, but at the same time I don't want drama.... what do I do?!

I was hanging out with a friend of mine that I really liked & thought he liked me back, before I had to go to work, & although I had previously been open to trying things (I was a virgin & he was very experienced), I didn't feel comfortable with him in that sense after all. I walked into his living room & right out he told me to "get naked" to which I was taken quite a bit back by. All the blinds were shut & after about 5 minutes of not taking any initiative & telling him I wasn't ready, he took my clothes off & just had his way with me, hitting me a few times, & laughed when I told him he was hurting me. He'd been blocking the door & was a lot bigger than me, so there wasn't any way for me to leave & I just froze. He kept asking me if I liked it & I didn't answer any of his questions, & when I tried to turn away from him he grabbed me, said "Nope!" & opened my legs again. I won't go into anymore detail but I don't know how else to describe this but that I felt like a rag doll & I feel so disgusting now. I told one girl about it when she asked me why I looed terrified walking into work & she told everyone he raped me, even though I just called it a hookup, & when he found out people knew he told me I "could've jeopardized his job because I didn't keep my ******* mouth shut." I don't want to call my friend a rapist or to take this any further bc I did play a roll by going over there & not putting up a fight, but I also couldn't. I feel like I led him on because we'd kissed & entertainined the idea of sex, but I never thought he would have taken it that far. My gut doesn't feel right about what happened, & I feel used & gross, but I don't know if I can say that he raped me either. I don't know if I just have regret or if he just blatantly walked over my boundaries.

THE NAME OF A MOVIE WHERE A BABY BOY WAS ABANDON AND RAISED BY CREW MEMBERS AND BECAME THE CRUISE SHIPS PIANIST.

So basically I'm a sophmore in highschool, I just came back 2 weeks ago and I bought all of my friends that are girls stuff from pink, I was really good to them. I was loyal. but recently they told me I can't be friends with them cause I'm cool with everyone and there is drama between cliques, I was confused cause i've been friends with both cliques for years now since middle school and now it's an issue. one of my friends threatened to fight me so I was in school waiting to fight because they're not gonna bully me for no reason, they keep laughing while we walk by and talking about us on instagram but never say anything in person. so this morning i wake up to them texting my old friends about the situation so i confront them i'm like " why are you texting my old friends " and I was trying to settle the situation, I wished them the best of luck cause I don't need to be getting into fights I'm missing 1 year and a half of school work and they keep threatening me, so her brother messages me talking about how he's gonna fight me so I dropped my address.. I'm not worried I just need advice on what to do. my dad's mad at me because he thought i could avoid the situation but in today's high school this drama happens and it's normal, it's hard to stay out of it. and I tried my best but I don't like when I'm threatened cause I feel like they could try and jump me any minute over some bs. thye're not changing their minds.

I have this friend who has a thing with being a complete pervert. He doesn t treat girls well, but for some reason me and him get along just fine as friends. I like his company and we have a relationship where we argue but in a fun way and we joke with each other alot. It s fun, it s like arguing with my brothers and I enjoy it. But then I hear about him texting dirty, pervy, and even scary stuff to my female friends and i dont know if i should do something like start ignoring him or just not pay attention since it s not me hes doing anything to. Maybe its not my place to have an opinion? I m just not sure, any advice?

Have a friend for 4 months we talked everyday. We hung out one night and she told me she would let me know when she got home. I got worried when she didn't md blew up here phone a little. She ignored me for about 2 weeks.she messaged about 2 weeks later saying she might need. Favor. She's getting a cosmetic procedure and wanted me to apply for a loan for her in my name. When she said it I disnt think it would be much so I agreed to help. While applying it ended up being 9000$.i didn't wanna back out of my word even tho I didn't know all the information so she asked if she can use my info to apply again. I said okay. Both times I was declined, because I didn't have credit history. So she asked me to go get credit card. She's really nice or kind to me and love her a lot as a friend, but about a day after asking me I told her I think she was taking advantage of me, and that she hasn't been being 100 with me, or ever ask how I'm doong or see me. I said this more because I was upset that she ignored me. Felt neglected, and she say she doesn't care what I think or how I feel. But she blocked led me after. Now I can't move on

We didn't even have sex. He wanted a hook up, I'm not into that. So I'm ghosting him and he's really on my ***.

All of the people my age and a few years above and below are vaping, smoking, or drinking. Even all of my friends. Not even just that they are all becoming toxic and are doing idiotic things and are rude to people and always assume things about everyone. It's annoying and it's like they only care about being popular and getting a boyfriend(no matter who it is). I mean yea having a boyfriend would be amazing but I would want someone who actually cares about me and doesn't just want something sexually, which is basically no one around me. Anyway I am moving to a new highschool and going into Freshman year. Are all teenagers like this? Even sixth graders are drinking and smoking. Any advice about what to do to find good friends or for Highschool or anything in this paragraph or two? Sorry this is kind of long. :)

There is this girl who hangs around my friend group and is always trying to be a part of it. She is really annoying to us. We have tried giving her a chance and we just don't like being around her. She doesn't hang out with us outside of school other than the times she overheard something and invites herself and we can't fjnd a way to say no. She doesn't really have any other friends. Tonight is a school dance that my friends and I have been looking forward to for so long and we are all gonna go together. The girl heard our plan for tonight and asked where we're gonna meet up before and who's taking us and if were all sleeping over. We really don't want her to come with us since we wanted this to be a fun night with our friend group. She keeps texting us asking for the plans and I don't know what to do. Some of my friends just want to tell her straight out that we don't like her or that she can't come. That just seems so crude and harsh to me but I also don't know what to do. I really don't want to seem like a ***** but also don't rwally want her to come. We're fredhmen in High School by the way. Help?

My friends and I were at a restaurant when the guy I like, his guy best friend, and his guy best friend family showed up. He's very close to his guy best friend and family. My friends started to threatened to slap him with an object and threatened to beat him up, judging his clothes and hair color. They had no reason to threaten him cause he wasn't doing anything wrong. My friend told me he was with a group of girls (which she said he is mistreating me) but changed it to he was with his guy best friend and family. You would know who he was with, it was very obvious it wasn't a group of girls. First she said he was with a group of girls but changed it to his guy best friend. I feel she was lying to me and I feel she wasn't even paying attention.

My friend made a big deal about the guy I like was having dinner with his best friend and his best friend's family. My friend exact words were "he was with HIS best friend and HIS family" I don't feel that's a big deal. It's very common to hang out with your best friend and their family. I feel she was trying to make me feel insecure.

Okay so, I have been friend with this girl for a year (I am also a girl) we are best friends only because she kind of rushed the friendship because of home issues. I just found out that she might be bisexual from another friend and I'm totally okay with that! The only problem is that she took one of my sweatshirts to wear to bed because my scent calms her down and she shows up to my house unexpected and barely hangs out with anyone else and gets upset when I do. She always talks about how she wants to live with me because her mom is crazy and how I'm the only one who makes her happy, and whenever she sleeps over she wants to share a bed but I kick in my sleep and like my space(it's the same with everyone also). Ok anyways I just need clarification does she like me? Is she obsessed or something? I really want to keep out friendship but she just seems a little too attatched.

If i´m pregant, I will have the child with love and care but I don´t know what to say when I talk to my ex because he doesn´t want to talk to me. And I am moving to a country with a friend who loves me but I don´t love him. Only a friend and I will start working. What should I do in that situation?

Okay so I have a friend. She's taken but always asks me to help her, I'm the one she calls or tells when she's having a breakdown, she asks me to call until she sleeps and didn't mind when I stayed on after she fell asleep. Am I like a brother, a best friend? Obviously this isn't all our interactions, these are just the ones that raise questions

My sister won't stop bullying me. I asked her why she keeps bullying me but she insists she isn't even though she knows she is. She just won't stop. I don't know what her problem is. I just want to tell her to leave me alone.

It makes me feel bad how I see other girls getting so many comments on their Pictures when they post something and is all from their friends and I would literally get nothing (ps: this is not about social media and getting likes ), I know it is my fault because socializing has never been my favorite thing to do, I do have friends but its such a small group and I love all of them but I hate my self for not being able to make friends like that, and just for the record I do have tried but I'm so ridiculously shy :( it makes me so awkward around people especially girls that have a bit of attitude they intimidate me so much! :( Does this happen to you? Do you think is bad to have a small group of friends/ or being shy?

Ok so I have 2 different friends groups and I don't know whether to call them my friends or not and I want to make more friends and get a girlfriend but here is the weird part. So the first group of my friends are trouble makers and all they want to do is boy race and they never shut up about cars it drives me crazy and they just wreck my car and break things. And now for the second group these guys are sort of retards like they can't decide on things and there slow like one time at a restaurant it took them an hour to decide what to get and they don't know time management I say I have to be home by 3 and end up home at 4.30 one friend from the second group is fine he is just quit and a bit dumb but better than the other 2 and one guy from the first group is ok when the others aren't around. So the thing is I want to have friends and more decent friends but I never want to hangout with them I always want to be left alone and be in peace even with my best friend who lives in a different country I don't want to FaceTime him it's not that I don't like him I do but I would like to talk once a month for an hour and that will do same with hanging out. If I get a girlfriend idk if I will have this problem with her because I really want one but I know people like there alone time but why do I always want it?? Like when I'm with my friends or should we call them pests I always want to go home after 30 minutes and the pests who go on about cars and boy race I'm always bored. Why??

I met my friend's new husband and he automatically for some reason thought I was his best friend and talked a whole bunch of bad things about her and I know they were lies then he acts like she's his world when they're in eachother's. I can also tell he's very insecure. I care about her a lot. She's been through a lot of stress but I think she should know the truth. So I'm in an bad ultimatum. Tell her and stress her out more, or tell her the truth. It's hard for me to hold in the truth.

A few months ago I used to have a best friend who I'd walk miles to get to his house. We we're smoke buddies. And occasional drink pals. Our friendship was 'unique' to say the least. He's always been diagnosed with bi-polar disorder. Meanwhile I was diagnosed with schizophrenia. He lived a depressing childhood, in the middle of high school he was sent away to live in Tennessee with his father by his mother whom I call a terrible person due to the fact it was all because of an argument over a bag of chips. We have had an issue in the past where I separated from him due to his refusal to try to fix his life and consistently putting me down. However, we got back together at a homecoming game. However the instances that brought us together had us both under the influence. Him Alcohol and me Marijuana.

There's this girl who's my friend (I say friend but idk anymore) She's so blatantly rude and sarcastic. At first, I used to idolise her and wanted to be like her (because she's sort of branded as the aloof, depressed genius.) She's not as clever as everyone thinks, and she is most certainly not depressed or anxious or OCD like she says (I know, bold thing to say, but it's so painfully obvious that she acts like that to be 'edgy') She calls people out in class and is rude and talks back to the teachers (trying to seem smarter than them) She's told me multiple times that she thinks I'll be an alcoholic when I'm older.(yeah, not even kidding) She's rude to the rest of my friend group and is so condescending It's not as if we can just 'drop' her, she has no other friends and granted she won't get the hint and will still try to be 'friends' with us. I didn't notice it as much before but now it's kinda getting me down. ^^^you probably don't care about all that lmao, but I needed to give a background What do I do?? Thanks for all the answers. Still kinda undecided but I'm not going to put up with it anymore

Ive noticed my friend is taking trips and hanging with people she barely knows calling them "besties" and partying with them alot. She only met them at work! Im concerned because she can't keep a job and all she does is party, i feel she does to cover up her issues she doesnt take credit for!

over a year ago i slept with a friend and he's mad that i told one other girl friend about it tonight. there were reasons we shouldn't have slept together so we said we wouldn't tell anyone, but i was having a heart to heart with the girl i told and i trust her with my life so i told her about it. i told the guy i slept with that i told her and he's pissed about it. i don't wanna lose him as a friend but he was so rude to me about it. what can i do to prove that she won't tell anyone else/prove that i'm sorry?

Okay. So, I knew this girl her fake name for confidential reasons will be Samantha. I met her online, but we usually talked about different books we were reading and stuff. One day we just stopped talking, and today I found out she died in an accident way after we stopped talking. I feel so sad about her death, and it makes me feel guilty about this petty argument we got into (well one-sided). I just got upset that she didn't respond to me for hours while she was posting and responding to comments. I was a ton younger at the time, and I regret it now. She was so kind and sweet, and I just can't move on. Help.

Have a phone plan with friend, but she won't pay her half and the phones are in my name. Is there anyway to get it in her name so I don't have to keep paying the bill? Can I report it is as stolen since it is mine? Please help. The bill is $350 a month cause of all the accessories she rented!

I went out with this guy and we left our coats in the car when we went to the arcade. So when we were leaving out it was cold outside. And I told him it was cold and he put his arm around me.

I told him that we are only friends nothing more... he said "if you want to be friends... cool... but lets just take it slow... im not going to lie... I miss you... and I always have the deepest love for you... you are amazing person" what did he mean by taking things slow...if we already friends and I dont want nothing more.

I've been on the receiving end of a friend trying to be the tough friend whenever I was depressed and I did not take it well. I know for me I wanted comfort and not to be told what I should've done better whenever I was at a low point. I wanted to hear other people's opinions on it though because everyone has different experiences and thoughts.

I was never afraid to talk to people, but my problem is When i talk to people i always feel like im annoying them, and i feel like that sucks because that makes me think myself is not good enough for conversation because at the end of the day i know im just going to annoy people for being myself. I do make bonds with some people, but for the majority of people i always feel like im annoying them. The old me would shut down and close myself off from people in general and close myself from the world. The old me hated myself. But new me actually likes myself, and i just wanna make friends but how can i make friends if im always annoying people i want to know what im doing wrong.

My name is Jake and im 24. I used to have a best friend for five years. Her name was Susanna, she was such an amazing person with a great personality. she was always there for me no matter what, but back in 2017 we had a very big fight and she blocked me from all her social medias. she told me to never message her again, but deep down I still miss her so much. she was such an amazing person specially with me. The fight was all my fault because I lied to protect her. I know she was really upset, because she trusted me and I destroyed her Trust. I haven't been able to move on and sometimes I feel like finding a way to message her but I scared. can I please have some advice?!!!  I saw a picture of her a few days ago, with a lot of new friends. so it makes me sad to think that she completely forgot about me