I just started a new job with a friend of mine which I worked with at my last job. All was fine until we got into it the other night. She picks me up and takes me to work and on breaks we sit out in the car together and eat. On lunch we go meet with our boyfriends who work at a separate plant. I don't currently have service on my phone so I have to use her hotspot everytime we go to work. Now that we're arguing I don't have a ride and I'll be without a phone. On breaks, I'll have to sit in the breakroom alone (we work thirds and no one is hardly there as it is but everyone goes out to their car) and eat by myself while she meets with our boyfriends like usual. I have really bad anxiety, and all I can think about is how miserable I'm gonna be now at this new job with an ex friend. She won't just talk to me about what's went on and is instead is ignoring me leaving me wondering what's going to happen now. How do I deal with this? Should I get a new job? Should I stay and be miserable? Telling me to talk to her about it has not worked because she keeps ignoring me.

One of my very best friends creeps out my other friends. My friend is a bald white guy that has a sort of thug/meathead look to him. We go to parties and out to bars and he's always cool for awhile, but then he gets too drunk and starts snapping at people and telling incoherent jokes in an alienating way. Even worse, he will often pick a girl at random and start drunkenly talking at her, even after she makes it clear she doesn't want to talk to him (they always do eventually). He's a smart and talented guy with a big heart when he's sober, but after 7 or 8pm all bets are off. A lot of our expanded friend group have told me not to invite him to things, but a couple of us still really care about the guy and want to talk to him before he freaks out the wrong stranger and ends up in a cop car. Any suggestions?

My friend is getting harassed by this guy and I don t know what to do. for some context we go to junior high school and this guy has been harassing her for a while. He said that he was better then her boyfriend, her emotional sport animals are stupid, and that he has a bigger...thing. I want report him but, I don t want him to harasses her more because he got reported. She has told him to stop multiple times. Please give me some advice about what to do. I'm worried about her mental health. Also she and her boyfriend ..well..Ex-boyfriend, They broke up recently and she took it hard.

So I accidentally told Georgia that Aria was dating Jack. Georgia couldn't keep it to herself so she told Aria that she knew. I'm not sure if she's ok with it though. Now Aria is wondering how Georgia knew and vaguely asked me about it. I kind of put it to the side. I feel like Aria will be really mad at me which she should be. I shouldn't have been saying things to other people. Please help

KNOW FRIENDS COME AND GO & I grew up with 3 close friends till i had to moved out the state to other side of usa but i told all of them that i come back every year for one month and I have tired so many ways to apologize but this one girl she keep argument and pick up fight with me everytime i tried to talk to her so in mean time after not friends i've found out that her ex boyfriend have slap her so i dont know how bad it is and i tired message her mom switch i think my old friend control her mom page becuase she type and share same kind things and she ignore it but yet she message my mom and my sister with apologize for not being not her self back in 2012 so anyways she told this other girl i grew up with and i believe she twisted on how mean i was probably so she probably told my two friends friend as well of his girlfriend to block me so how can i fix it i really want this back and I hard with from my friend the ex boyfriend told me they broke up 5 year go can this cause us to pick up fight because of her ex boyfriend slap her? And i tired message on instagram and facebook they are just being mean & either way i tried my best..... I have tried so many ways on facebook but i think because it this girl name Courtney twised the things to Jessica to tell Henry girlfriend how can i find out what best way to ask on my fake account

What's the best way to get someone whos crushing on you to put you in the friendzone; without becoming a complete asshole? Also i'm a male.

So I started school couple years ago & now I graduated. I recommend her starting school and she's upset that she's starting without me. The thing is I told her let's start together. She didn't want to. She claims she doesn't remember me saying that. This isn't the first time I went back to school either. Is she a real friend? Or am I a bad friend? I feel like some things in life doesn't require someone to hold your hand. Even if I didn't tell her to start with me. Do I have to? I even remember her telling me why are you going to school for that? That's not your passion.

Im a senior in highschool and have had my best friend for over a year now. We used to always hang out and have sleepovers and everything until she put her boyfriend over me. We hung out 3 times this whole school year while last year and in the summer we hung out every weekend. The only time I see her is at lunch. And she recently started inviting a girl who betrayed us both in the past to sit with us. I told my friend many times I'm uncomfortable by it and don't want this girl sitting with us. This girl lets call her B. Last year B and I were really close until she turned her back on me and told me she wanted nothing to do with me and made up nasty rumors about me. So you can see why I wouldn't want B sitting with us. The whole time at lunch my best friend and B talk and don't include me in their conversations and it's like I don't even exist. Today we went to get prom tickets and I went upstairs to get my money out of my locker and next thing I know my best friend and B were gone. And I'm just really upset that my best friend would ditch me like that and she's now ignoring me and I don't know what to do or what I did wrong.

Do the crips have a web page? my one friend, well he's not really my friend but, he said he joined on the dark web, but then they smoked him out

I know I've made a mistake, and I was hoping to get feedback on whether this mistake is a dealbreaker or something I can fix. I owe thousands in taxes. $12k actually. I have an ex/close friend who makes about $100,000 a year. I've helped her through the death of several loved ones and Helping her get out of an abusive relationship. We help each other out - she helped me with several small financial emergencies last year (she gave me about $5000 in total). I called her last week to see if she would give me the money to pay my taxes. She was reluctant, so I offered to pay her back, possibly even with interest. She said she needed time to think about it, and I got slightly angry (I was drunk when I called). I told her "I see how it is." She didn't reply, so then I hung up on her. I had told her how freaked out this thing had me, and that I felt like I'm being forced to choose between suicide or prison. I just couldn't understand why she didn't want to help me, especially since she has so much money. I recognize that I made mistakes here, so I've been trying to get ahold of her to see where we stand. She's not returning my calls or texts, which she has never done before. She has always wanted to help me when I'm in trouble, just like I've helped her. I don't get it. I know I'm in the wrong, but I can't believe she'd just toss a long friendship away because of a drunken phone call. Is her reaction commensurate with my mistake? Is this salvageable?

I went out with this guy and we left our coats in the car when we went to the arcade. So when we were leaving out it was cold outside. And I told him it was cold and he put his arm around me.

A going-away party can be a very sad event. Generally, it is goodbye for good, especially if it is a friend instead of a family member, for God Himself could never, ever, for example, drive from Nashville to Atlanta (61,504 miles one way, absolutely too far) and take a friend out for lunch or ice cream. A long distance move is essentially the same as death. So why don't people cry or show emotions at moving-away parties like they do at wakes and funerals, knowing it's goodbye for good, 45 to 60 years if they are lucky to see them ever again at all?

So, I have a lot of followers on my Instagram. Around 7k. And peooke at my new school are always coming to me and asking me "omg u have 7k? How? Did u use those 3rd party apps?" The truth is, I have used nothing. My old school had a lot of students and I was really popular. Anyways, people here and constantly asking me about it and even bullying me sometimes. What do I do? What's the perfect comeback for this?

I may sound like an asshole saying this, but I think my friend faked having cancer to get attention from people. Here's my reasoning, if you're having a conversation with her, and you're not talking about her, she'll chip in and say something like, "you know, I used to have cancer" and then everyone starts feeling sorry for her and the conversation shifts to her. Secondly, when I asked her a few questions about her time having cancer, she never mentioned what stage she had, she never mentioned all (or some) of her hair falling out, she just said that she had leukemia when she was 8, and went into remission after. However, part of me maybe believes that she had cancer (but a lesser stage maybe) because she told me that when she had cancer, her parents did everything for her... and it shows. She's my roommate, and can't do **** properly. She doesn't clean or buy household necessities, and when I talk to her about it, she'll say "I forget a lot because I used to have cancer." Sometimes, she'll go to the extreme and act suicidal or send suicidal texts to people, then she'll say, "I would never kill myself, I had cancer, life is too precious." So, I'm very skeptical of her whole "I had cancer" story. She also doesn't support any cancer survivor groups on social media. *She's 20

I had a friend and I became very cool with him but over the years I seen a darker side to him can be manipulative, very jealous and has a problem with someone if they don't share the same ideas as him so I cut him out of my life. Was I wrong?

I do not want to quit. They act like the boss of me, are rude, lecture me a lot. Act arrogant and like they hate me. I'm very nice and I'm trying my best at work. They talk to me like I am stupid a lot too. I think they are liberals idk.

I went out with this guy and we left our coats in the car when we went to the arcade. So when we were leaving out it was cold outside. And I told him it was cold and he put his arm around me.

When we hang out, he pretty much only wants to do what he wants to do. He often doesn't even consider what I want to do. Also, he just seems kinda rude in general.

We are going back to a place we used to live for a ten year reunion with a bunch of people we knew. I know that we would have a blast if she came but I feel weird telling her to come on a family trip. My family is about to go on a road trip and my best friend wants to come with us. I haven't seen any of the people we are meeting there since I was 4. Should I tell her to come or that it's just for family? Thank you everyone for your opinions. I think I know what I'm going to do now.

I went out with this guy and we left our coats in the car when we went to the arcade. So when we were leaving out it was cold outside. And I told him it was cold and he put his arm around me.

The women i keep running to in a string are mean girls and b I t c h e s where I live? They tend to hang with jerks. Their guy friends are the same and selectively picked out and are arrogant douchebags. These women are mean for no apparent reason. If they hang around you it is typically over an ulterior motive and then they would turn on you if you don't follow through. One got me bullied and harrassed over me not following through. They tend to think it is funny and get their jerk guy friends to start stuff or fight you. She would say anything to those punks she hangs with and they would cause you problems. They would speak, then blank you about a week and then speak to you like they never saw you in ages. They tend to not want to get to know you unless their is an ulterior motive, they aren't opened to conversation unless they have a game plan. Is there any tips on not getting a mean girl or a b I t c h?

I'm a 30 yr old female and I feel pathetic even asking this, but I'm just that desperate. I've never been great at making friends. Always been a bit of a loner. But now as an adult it's even harder. All I do and for the most part all I have time to do is work. On average I work 50-60 hrs a week. I feel so lonely and isolated. How do busy adults make friends?

Well me and my best friend are trying help our other best friend and he doesn't want to get a new job even though he wants one and we are out of hs. We offer him jobs and he not interested in any he said, he likes to cook and we tell him look work at Denny's or Red Robin but he lied to us and we both known him for 11+ yrs. also told us he trying, the case is he really not trying he to comfortable with his job 3 days a week and he waste his money on weed and stuff and when we call him he just doing nothing playing games watching tv when he can just apply places online. We care about him. He just not trying even when he says he been trying since last year his excuse are the same and we tell him there nothing to be ashame of but we don't know how to help him. He doesn't even have his driver license and since last year we told that he need to get it and yes we fail but we keep trying but he not

Every time I hear it , I feel sad. Are there no true friends left in this life? Is everyone a fake?

I have problems with a lot of people. All kind of ages. People my age, younger, a lot older, a little younger and a lot younger. I argue with my friends sometimes. I even argued with 1 of my friend's mom for talking about me from what I was told and she denied. We eventually talked it out. For a long time my friends and family told me to leave some people alone. I told them how my friend's parents talked about me according to my friend, students at school picked on me, people I thought were my friends but they talked behind my back, ect. I tried my best to ignore them but as time went on I decided to take things into my own hands. I called 1 girl I was friends with. she denied talking about me until I screen shot what my friend told me about her and sent it to her. She then admitted to it and apologized. I feel better after that. I spoke to another girl who I just became friends with again. We talked it out. I feel better now. So when things bother me I talk to people about it. 2 women who I went to school with I have no contact with them so their is nothing I can do about it. Now I understand why I was told to leave some people alone which is to prevent much bigger problems from starting. I just didn't want to keep thinking about things that happened years ago if that makes since. When I have problems with my parents I talk it out. Do you agree with me? What do you think I should do in the future?

I want to ask my friend to masturbate with me. How should I go about it.

I lost my bestfriend mentally. He left me for somebody else. I feel hurt a little bit, how long will this process go on? any advice?

Hello! I am part of a little group with 2 other friends. As of a couple months ago I started feeling like they didn't like me or think of me as an actually friend. They are always posting about how much they miss each other on Instagram and stuff (not me though), don't invite or "cancel" when we are supposed to hang out, the only time they really talk to me is to say how much they miss each other, it's makes me feel terrible. I have known them for around 4 years. I confronted them about how I felt and while one said they didn't mean to make me feel that way, the other told me I was an idiot and that it's obviously more important to go see the other friend. She told me to stop being so "******* sad" over it and to just move on which really hurt me because I didn't think she was taking me seriously. Anyways I told her that I really just wanted to fix whatever misunderstanding but she completely ignored me and told me I sound like a bitchy 13 year old emo (??). Anyways around 2 months go by and she is finally saying sorry, except she isn't. She told me it was dumb to fight and all but then tells me that she wants to punch me in the face whenever she rereads the texts. She didn't even say sorry once in her "apology letter". Should I forgive her or apologize bck? I don't think I did anything wrong but maybe I did. Like I said I've known her for 4 years so she's been a big part of my life and has been through a lot with me but maybe it's best to drop it?

The short version: I've known this girl maybe 8-10 years. We've only met in person, ONCE. In early 2015, we had a falling out after she stalked my IG activity, went behind my back and told my then-boyfriend I commented flirty comments on the photos of a guy I was friends w/ back then (a guy who didn't even like me back, but whom I had liked for 3 years). My then-boyfriend broke up with me and that's when I cut this girl out of my life. In 2016, I decided it was water under the bridge and that life is short, so I forgave her and we re-connected. Then, 2 years ago, I made a Sarahah account where people could send you anonymous messages. I got multiple MEAN anonymous messages and since I didn't know who I could trust, I deleted her and blocked her. The messages coincidentally stopped. We haven't spoken in 2 years. Last night, I was minding my own business and I get a message from her (I had her blocked for 2 years. I finally unblocked her within the last month or two..very recent) asking "Why aren't we friends on here? :( :( " I wrote back finally and said that it's nothing personal, I tend to keep my circle small these days. I asked her how she's been. She read it over an hour ago and didn't reply. What's her problem? Why did she bother asking if she was just going to ignore me as soon as I replied to her? lol maybe I didn't give her the answer she wanted. I'm 28, she's 26. She also met my best friend ONE time and then talked major crap about her. NOT okay. She also allowed her fiance to call me a "whore" back then because of the IG photo comment issue and she agreed with him.

My friend and I just became friends again. Her sister was my best friend for a long time We stopped being friends because 1 morning she sent me 2 songs from YouTube. 1 of them I said I didn't like it. I was only being honest. The other one I was only joking by saying "I never want to hear that song again." It was only a joke. I didn't think she was taking it seriously. She got mad by saying " I don't know how we became feiends," "keep moving. Don't come back, "I don't know how we became friends," " and you're mean just like your friend Justin" I kept apologizing. I obviously was trying to make her laugh but instead it was the complete opposite. I was so upset that I called her a racist (I definitely didn't mean that because she took me places when I didn't have my car and license) and I told her she can't go to heaven if she doesn't forgive. I didn't think my joke was that serious. 1 thing I love to do is tell jokes to make people laugh. A couple months ago I asked 1 of my friends if he spoke to her about us being friends again and that I was sorry. He told me yes and that her and her sister didn't say anything. I guess since her and I wasn't friends anymore her sister didn't want to either her sister didn't contact me back until today. A couple days ago I connected her mom. Her mom 'never messaged me back. To end this story I messaged and sent her a voicemail to again apologize and that I didn't mean what I said. We became friends again just last night.

For context: My bf and I used to hang with this group in college. After graduation, we all stayed local and they slowly stopped inviting us to things unless we made the first move. We are pretty social and outgoing, but they just kept excluding us to the point where it was very one-sided. It always felt like we had to make the plans...now they all hang without us. It sucks feeling rejected when we thought we were friends. Not sure what to do...any advice would help, thanks!!

so each yr me and my friend always get gifts for each other on our birthdays and this yr ive already gotten her her gift and my bday was 2 wks ago and I'm still waiting on mine. on the day of my bday she said she'll get me one but hasn't. so should I remind her again or wait at least a month? or not even bring it up?

My best friend Jack dated Jill (fake name) for three years. They broke up when we started college, and he came out as gay. Jill and I never got along. I was protective of Jack, she and I would always argue and pick on each other. Even now, Jack is close friends with her, and asked her to be his roommate. Thing is, I basically live with them too. We're in the same apartment complex, and I'm always over to hang out. But Jack's finally meeting guys to date, so Jill and I wind up sharing alone time. Until one night when we were watching a movie and ended up sharing a joint. At one point, we dozed off with our heads together. When we woke up, we had a long conversation that was actually cordial, and felt meaningful. But then she got that smug look on her face that I always hated and made some playful comment like "I know I drive you crazy." And then out of nowhere she pulls my pajama pants down and proceeds to give me a bl*wjob. Yeah, that left me speechless. Afterward, she just curled up against me and we dozed off again. Woke up in the morning while Jill was already up and getting ready for class, winking at me before she left. Now I'm still dumbfounded. We've always hated each other, where did that come from? She's my best friend's ex, what's happening?

My ex recently broke up with me, saying I was great but he isn't emotionally ready and too stressed for a relationship. Not too long ago he said he still had feelings for me, but didn't want a relationship. a few days ago I was joking around with some of my guy friends and he kept looking at me, and came up to me and confronted me about them and what they were to me. What does he want from me? an answered requested the age, we're both 17.