I find myself trying to believe that maybe she was just a friend & that maybe there was nothing going on between them even though I know that's far from the truth. Why can't I just accept what's right in front of my face? I still keep trying to tell myself that he's not that kind of guy & that he's never do that to me & I just can't even picture me but I know what the truth is deep down inside.

My brother has a traveling job and gets to visit us the family on his off days. Doesn't he want to have sex on his free days? he literally stays two weeks in our house to visit. We live in different states. I wish I was in love and married, I would've been in bed all day long lol maybe I am virgin that's why I think about sex all time. Even whenever I see couples going to shopping centers and driving on Saturday and Sunday. I go on shopping on weekends because I am bored at home.

We are a soon to be family of 5. Our home is about 1200 sq ft. We do as we can. It's what we can afford and we like the neighbors. We aren't in a place where we can move. Our kids are still young so I think it will be ok. We should be able to move before the oldest is a teen. I just want to know how other families have done it as storage is very difficult.

to know how he would like to get off, what his fantasy is, what he wants, is it really cheating to be getting off with the hot pieceofass at work? Obviously after the wife has a sheets-gripping O, she has no interest in her husband's pleasure, so is it really cheating? Me and the girl at work (the hot pieceofass) get each other off every Tuesday, and so I ask myself this every Monday.

My ex-husband and I have been hooking up sexually for about 6 months, we officially divorced about 3 years ago. When we first started having sex I was completely honest with him about me being involved with other men & going on dates, when I asked him if he was he said no. In about January we stopped talking but then he reached back out to me in February & he asked to spend my birthday with me & also asked me to spend his birthday with him, our birthdays are a week apart. Just two weeks ago I seen him & we had sex without a condom, I told him that I had been with a guy on my birthday & just the week before, however he still chose to not use a condom, when I asked him if he was single or had been with anyone he told me no. I found out that he has in fact been with another woman & the same days he would text me & ask me to come over but I would say no, she was with him on those days. I am not upset about him being with someone else because I have been with someone else, I am upset about him lying about it for months, I don't understand why he would lie to me when I was nothing but honest to him. Should I confront him?

Let's say a guy who is 39 years old is married to a old out of shape woman is 55, but she has good income and was there for the guy through an injury. The woman has a daughter with another man, who is not in the picture and the daughter has with very low self esteem. She is 19 and when her stepfather says you're so beautiful the boys are missing out, she blushes and says ahhhhh, thank you, you're so sweet. She is always eager to talk to the stepfather too, mainly because she likes his compliments, and his attention. She even gets his opinions on her clothes, and hair. They have become like best friends.

My FIL--who is worse than most MILs--recently told my wife about a woman he dated many years ago. He went on and on about how she was the one, and how my wife would've loved her. My wife has extremely moody and irritable since that conversation. She did some digging and found out she got married several years after they had met. My FIL gets on my wife's case all the time about me. How he doesn't like me and this and that. Well, I don't like what he told her about how this woman was the one, like he's completely dismissing my MIL who has passed on. Sure, they got divorced and everything, and she's no longer living. And not to mention she kind of disappeared from my wife's life. But to say that another person was the one and how my wife would've loved her. Doesn't he realize that if things had gone differently and he ended up marrying this woman, my wife may not even exist? What do I say to my wife, the mother of my children now? I know this whole ordeal is bothering her, which is why she decided to do some searching in the first place.

I did'nt tell him about that fact because I did'nt wanted to make him feel awkward in front of me and also it was before.. but now he found out... But He feels uncomfortable in front of me and has stopped facing me, and only talks in phone... I somehow managed to ask his wife about his behaviour then she said that he is very upset but has'nt mistreated her but on asked very hard he opened up and said he feels uncomfortable in front of him (friend) as the feeling of his wife banged by his friend pops up in his mind whenever he encounters his friend. Nor has he misbehaved with me , just does'nt meet me like before, So what can I do to make him feel comfortable as he is a very good friend and he helped me in many ways and sacrificed a lot for me?

Childfree - Does not want to be a parent, but seeks to have otherwise normal sexual relations. When I was 30, I think I was the only man in my workplace without children. Not having children as taboo (in the USA anyway). The families of the women I dated hated me for it. I moved to Asia for nearly eight years. It seems like nobody has children in Singapore. You can go for days and not see a single child. I got married. I moved back to the USA last year. Nobody asks my wife and I why we have no children. In fact, we live in a condo. There must be 300 units here. If there are ten couples with children in this complex I would be surprised. It might have been OK legally, but in popular culture in the USA being childfree was taboo. Even today, the constitution says you can pick any religion you like, but in the USA you have no freedom of religion socially.

I have been told it is unusual but my ex wife and I are on friendly terms. She has remarried and I try to stay out of her life as much as possible. We did not have any children. However a very unusual problem came up. Her job where she works is being eliminated. This would be a financial disaster for her. The company told her it has openings in other parts of the company if she get some specialized training. The open job that pays the best is Web Page Designer. She priced that training locally and it is very expensive. She ask me if I would give her that training on credit. I told her I would give her that training and I don't charge friends for helping them. There is however another problem. She doesn't her husband to know that her ex husband (me) is giving her the training. She wants me to pretend to be someone else with a different name and give her the training. I am not sure I want to do that. I would like to help her in her time of need but I am afraid this will explode in my face. Any suggestions on how I can get her the help she needs with out causing a problem for ANYONE. Perhaps I give her the training and insist her husband be in every training session to see nothing improper happens. THANKS for your advice.

This happened three days ago & I haven't seen or heard from him since. I never replied back to his "bye" text or tried calling. Should I try reaching out to him & asking for an explanation or should I just leave it alone & consider the relationship over.

She has been a great wife and mother to our son, but had I known this I never would have married her..so I feel our marriage is a sham.

This morning at work me and a few female co-workers were discussing a few things and the subject of gift giving came up. I mentioned that I was not the best gift giver and told my wife years ago that I prefer the not try and drop hints but instead give me a list of things she'd like and I'll pick one or two of them for either Christmas, her birthday, or mother's day. The girls I was talking to said that was insensitive of me and I just need to be more attentive to what she was saying. They were like, "that's just how women do things." Well, when I told them that men hate hints and "that's just how we do things." they didn't like that. Again, they told me I just wasn't very attentive to what my wife was saying to me. If you want a new coat then say that instead of saying, "it really is chilly when I leave for work in the morning." Why do (some) women think that men are suppose to read their minds? If I tell you what I want then that's what I want.

I'm about $15k behind because I haven't been able to pay the full amount and now I haven't paid at all for 3 months. I had to pay a lot to get my license back after 2 dui's and I'm broke. My ex filed a complaint with the attorney general and I have a hearing coming up. Also how do I get my ex to quit asking when I'm going to pay? She texts me a lot and I feel harassed. I can't help that I'm low on funds right now.

we had sex every week and I'm fed up with the same body

This happened three days ago & I haven't seen or heard from him since. I never replied back to his "bye" text or tried calling. Should I try reaching out to him & asking for an explanation or should I just leave it alone & consider the relationship over.

So basically we are ment to be getting married in 5days time. But I don't know if I should still marry him He said it was a once off. The thing is a thought he love my sex cause we do it for like 3 hours some days. Idk what to do

Yesterday I finished my night shift rotation. My wife wanted us to go to a restaurant but i was exhausted and opted to sleep instead. I asked her to package some food. When I got up at about 8pm I tried to call her asking about the food as there was none in the home. She responded no and said she was busy and blocked me off social media and her phone number. I was trying to call her to ask her to return our car so I could at least go shopping and buy food. She ended walking in at 11pm. Her father lives with us and he later explained it was a buffet and they couldn't get takeaway a d that the food was bad anyway. I think he was trying to make me feel better. I was angry and hurt that after all the years that I went out of my way to bring her food, she couldn't go out of her way for me. She mentioned something about not wanting to spend her money on me and proceeded to tell our 1 year old son "see that man, he is a complaining man and don't be like him"... I feel like I'm not even accepted by my own family. Some coworkers don't like me either. I don't always complain at all. I usually look after myself and make sure I have food. Tonight I'm asking myself what is the point of me being alive if no one likes me? Only my parents really care about me. It seems like a lot of people would rather not have me around.

Even though I am divorced I am still on friendly terms with my ex wife and her parents. We did not have any children. Her parents are very much into sports but they do not have much money to attend sporting events. I have a box seat at the local stadium and I sometimes invite her parents to watch a game with me as my guest. They really enjoy watching these games with me and are very grateful that I remained friends with them. I did not know it but my ex wife's new husband is also a big sports fan. He must have heard my ex wife's parents talking about going to games with me. He told them he thinks he should be invited to come along with them to these games and they told me about his request. I asked my ex wife's parents what they thought about that idea and they asked me not to invite him as they don't like him. Has anyone ever heard of a husband wanting to be with his wife's ex husband. THAT IS JUST WEIRD. Does sports make people do strange things? I don't think I will invite him to join us AND I don't want to intrude into my ex wife's life. I wish her and her husband the best life in the future but I don't want to get involved in her life. Does what I am doing seem like a reasonable thing to do?