I m sharing a room with both my sisters. I m 20, and they are still in middle school, and the older of them doesn t know what personal space is. She always takes my stuff, always. It s been going on for years, but I m getting fed up with it, I m suffering so much from it, I m getting into a craze every time I catch her. I ve told her millions of times to stop taking my stuff. I ve told her gently. I yelled. I told my parents. Nothing helps. She doesn t give a ****. If she needs something, she opens my closet and takes my stuff. She takes my bras, my socks, my favourite clothes and ruins them or dumps them somewhere around the house. She uses my shoes. My coat. Omg, it s so annoying. I can t stand it. I don t know what to do. The only thing I can think of is locking all my stuff, but it s not really possible. I wish I could have my own room or my own flat, but it won t happen any time soon. All I want is for her to respect me, to at least ask for permission. I don t know what to do!

My dad has been dating this vitamin c deficient rodeo clown for about 3 years. She lied about him beating her and got him arrested. He still went back to her. My father has 4 pictures (In frames he bought) of them. I had to buy a frame and force him to put one picture of us together up on the wall. He has one picture of me on Facebook, he has 189 pictures of this fogged up alcoholic with or without him (I counted) My dad hot me a bed to sleep on when I'm at his house, our house/cabin is very small so we only have one big bedroom. Miss. Black lung got here, I was kicked out of my bed and forced onto the couch. I asked him if he loved him more than her and said "both equally" I asked why, because ya know children come first, he said "because you can't fulfill all my needs, like sex and companionship." This thing got "sick" when I say sick I mean she coughed and had a temp of 99. She drank and smoked all night. My dad said she was very sick and I needed to check on her, which I didn't because **** her. I, myself , on the other hand, am sick. I passed out in the bathroom. I can't tell my dad because he thinks I lie about that. I feel like I have to be dying for him to value my worth. I remember when he used to say it was me and versus the world, and when he used to say never go to bed angry and throw a pillow at my head to make me laugh , he doesn't do those anymore. I want my dad back. Please help.

Hey, my kids have been taking nonstop about t series. I'm wondering if I should step in, because I think it might be a slang for a drug.

My sister/niece is only 12 years old, i'm technically her aunt but my parents adopted her from my older sister. I know it was wrong to read through her journal, but lately, the way she's been acting has me worried that she's depressed. When I look through her journal I see her drawings of slitting her wrist and writing things about death/dying and how insecure she feels. I came across stuff about her questioning if she likes girls and her writing stories about gay sex. I just feel like she's so young to be thinking about sex right now in general, but I guess she's in that age group where puberty begins...I'm just really worried. She doesn't talk to anyone about these things and she keeps EVERYTHING to herself. She's quiet and barely talks to anyone at all. I feel like if I was to say something to my mom then I'd just be ruining her trust. I wasn't even going to bring up that I read it at all, but I'm seriously concerned. She's been through a lot with her mom and dad not really being in the picture and I just wonder if that probably has something to do with it. Idk what to do, I probably should've never read it to begin with.

I have trouble with my family... my brothers and I don't get along at all we are always arguing and we hate one another. My parents are all ways fighting my mom told me and my Irish twin today that they (my parents) will probably get a divorce once I'm done with this school year... I don't know what to do if they split should I go with my mom or dad? I think my dad cause my mom already pays for all of her own stuff... if I would move with her I would just be a burden... I feel empty recently I'm so confused... my dad said that my mom has failed the family, she seems really broken.. I hardly see my dad and my mom cause of there work please help me

Are lazy people often lucky if they marry the right person and become rich? I do not know this uncle well and only see him at funerals and reunions but he apparently inherited his in-laws company and lives on a multi million dollar estate despite never working hard. He also is emotionally abusive my mother says.

Nobody in the adult crowd likes her even if they love her since she is family.

I thought honesty was a good thing but my father is upset I do not lie like him. He especially lies in his marriage even though my mother does not have the temper with him anymore that she did when she was sick. So is it bad not to lie some? I don't mean being too honest like being cruel to people but being too honest like answering honest questions that do not hurt others. For example on Christmas Eve this year my Mom lied to her mother to get out of having to see her brother Christmas Eve by saying she had in-law obligations. When my grandmother saw me and said "what time are you going to see your Dad's family tomorrow" I replied that they are out of town so we are not seeing them until New Year. I did not know the lie my parents had set up and thus I answered honestly that they were out of town. My Dad was disappointed in me and thought my mother was though my Mom said not to worry about it. Thus, it is lies like that which my father is disappointed I do not join in on. So should I train myself to lie or is honesty a good thing.

I am a 13 year old female in the United States. My mother will, when not on her medicine (which is half the time) will yell, call my father and I named, and hit me. She has slapped me, and once scratched up skin. She has also caused a scratch on my neck which bled. She then babies me afterwards to try to soften the effects.

So i was home and every day i see her come by my mailbox and just grab all my mail and take it to her house and i have no mail at all.. i can't confront her because i'm anxious

So i recently finished school and finally got a job. I work as a waitress and am forced to wear flats barefoot for 8 hours a day. When i come home, and take off my shoes immediately it stinks! My little brother keeps telling me i smell like Doritos Corn Chips! Lol. I didn't havr this problem in school, at least not as strong. How do i make my feet smell less? Is it possible?

We were on the cruise for a week and I only saw my family at dinner and at the ports. I spent most of the time with my cousin and I feel guilty because my sister didn't get tickets for the rest of my family when we went ice skating.

I am 22. I am man. I have autism. I read slowly and I write slowly. Father die when I was little. Mother hate me. I am only one child of her. She say I am stupid. I can not learn to ride bicycle. In school I can not learn. I can not work and I can not have monet. Mother say she is tired and she is old. She want to send me to group house. I do not want to go. I am afraid.

Well, I sit at work everyday, sacrificing my passion and dreams and just sit wasting time as a receptionist, only so I can get some money. And what happens? The money is taken from me by my dad and he tells me he will return but he never does. Because of that, I am going broke. I am literally broke just the day after I'm paid. What do i do? Should I pressurize him to give me some money at least for my interests?

My wife has one sister and this sister is older than my wife. The resulting dynamic here is the older sister thinks she can tell my wife what to do and when. Not only that, my wife sister think she can tell her entire family what to do and when. I could be in a conversation with her parents and her sister will but in to correct something her parents said. Her sister also seems to think that her siblings' spouses are superfluous and that she can do anything she wants anytime. The times I have confronted her sister about things she has done, for instance trying to interfere when I was dealing with a behavioral issue for one of our kids, she went right over to my wife and told her what happened. All my wife says is that her sister "sometimes doesn't realize what she is doing when she does things like that." But my wife also realizes that her sister can be intrusive. While I would love to verbally rip this woman apart and hurt her badly, adults don't do that. How do I deal with this situation ?

So I work at a fast food chain and I'm a senior all because I took my paycard back from her purse (I asked her if I could just keep my paycard bc we was saving $$$ for a car but she didnt trust me and kept making excuses) she's charging me $200 for every paycheck (I get avg $300/paycheck) she used to pay me 125 but suddenly increased her "rent" so my tax refund came in last month and I let her have my check while I keep my tax refund so 4 some reason she prohibits chromebooks in my room she ends up breaking my school-issued chromebook so I take the bus behind her back to walmart and buying a chromebook of my own so I try to keep her from noticing but she somehow ends up finding it taking it to the school I lied and said it was a loaner so she takes it to this dude who I hate bc he isnt easy to get away with so I screw up and he calls my mom and we end up arguing he comes up w/ a dumb deal about I get to keep it at home but I can only have it 4 a few hrs (wtf) so I end up somehow going over my time limit idk how so I ask her for the chromebook so I can take it 2 school (my school cb isnt fixed yet) she tells me im wearing it she had somehow suckered my receipt from my pants and took it back to the store and got money ($200) and bought a bunch of shoes and socks and boxers AND I just paid her my so-called rent this morning so I only have $50 I got extremely upset and stormed out of my house and by the way she's planning to kick me out the minute I graduate in June (which is actually legal, since I'm 18) and I don't really have a place to stay/sleep beside my mom (my sister's house is too far from my school and job which is just 30 minute walk between school and work) and I can stay w/ my ex's mom but I dont feel like dealing with my ex and her complaining

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All I did was put my hood on so my hair doesn't stick up. He called me that the day before too because I wanted to walk downtown with a friend. I think my family hates me. They always criticize me and never nearly as much as my three siblings. It makes me feel as if I am an extra in the house. Because of what they say I have gotten depressed multiple times and I always say it's not their fault when it almost always is. I don't want to go through counseling again. It doesn't work. I want help from someone that actually cares for once. Give me a reason to exist.

So I live across the country from my family. My parents are divorced and live in separate states. My father had a heart attack last year and of course is in his 70s. My mom is mid 60s and probably wouldn't tell me something is wrong even if her house were on fire. When I lived close to them things weren't super close maybe the occasional visit etc. but now that is more of a once a year type of around the holidays thing. With their getting older I just feel guilty that I don't spend time with them. This is made worse by the fact that my industry is particularly demanding and jobs related to what I do aren't available anywhere near my family. I even turned down a highly lucrative job in Singapore because I knew that the once a year visit might become something like a once every two or three years type of thing. Having to make that sacrifice has cost me relationships but to me the family thing is more important. How do I stop feeling guilty for being so far away?

wth i'm 17 and he's 20 and last night i went out to this party and i was drinking a little and i told my family i was going to a party but i guess they assumed it was at a house when it was in a club with college kids anyways so i was just talking to this guy in a corner and i see my brother and i didn't know he was here and he comes up to us, pulls the guy off me and shoves him away then starts yelling at me saying why am i here and what am i wearing and shouting at me. and i'm really embarrassed at this point because people are staring so i yell at him because he's a hypocrite he's been sneaking out and partying since he was younger than me and i'm like i'll do what i want he's not the boss of me then he and while i'm saying this he's dragging me out of the party and then he slaps me on my face. and i stopped yelling and fighting because i was so shocked, even as kids we wouldn't hit each other. i just stood there and tried not to cry and he didn't say anything either then he was like let's go home and we went home without speaking to each other. this was last night i haven't seen him since i've been in my room all day now that the shocks gone i'm so mad at him and scared i don't even want to see him. what's wrong with him why would he do th He is never like that. Even when we played wrestling and I said ouch he stopped and asked whether I was alright?though he knew I usd to do it just to win. I don't know what is wrong with him now?i am mad at him but I am scared as well

He chose the wrong crowd and didn't even call me when I went thru cancer. He showed no affect. He started a business 5 yrs ago. Could he have a plan to ask for money for his business.Could he have changed and cares for me now?

First of all Id like to say that I have the potential to have a good relationship with my dad. We have similar personalities (both hate sports and love video games, youtube, music, concerts, movies, food...etc) BUT he is way too controlling. Note that I am a TWENTY year old man. Whenever he has to go to the store I HAVE to go whether I want to or not. I am not allowed to sleep late, as I have to "report" to him by text every morning that I am awake before 9am. I am not allowed to pick bedsheets or clothes that are brightly colored as he says they're "gay". I am not allowed to have long hair and I must have proper hygiene. If I don't want to go fishing or participate in activity, too bad I have to do it. He also puts parental controls on the internet and I am not allowed to watch YouTube videos unless he's there. He only started letting me stay home alone about 4 months ago. My curfew is 7:30pm, not a minute later. He makes me wear a tracking device every time I leave the house to make sure he knows where I'm at. I am not allowed to have friends over that he does not approve of. He also controls what music I listen to. HOWEVER I have brought this issue up to my dad and he did point out the fact that I do not have a job or go to college or pay rent. He said that if I were to get a job, start college, or learn to drive those things would change, but I still think he's too over controlling! I would like to point out, yes I AM LAZY but I do help out. On Mondays I do volunteer work at an Elementary school, I babysit once a week, and I am in charge of chores such as dishes for every meal, bathrooms, mopping, sweeping, trash, mail, cleaning the kitchen and living room and helping my dad out with various household appliances. I also do my own laundry, so it's not like I'm a mooch... I would also like to point out he controls many more things about my life and GRADES me on my chores. But I am a pretty easy going guy so I put up with a lot but honestly it's getting tiring. We do hang out a lot and we go to the mall together a lot and we love to try out new restaurants, go camping, etc but I think we could be even closer if he just let me have some freedom.

he left my 11 year old niece in the house with loaded guns everywhere, semi auto rifles/shot guns, to check on my grandma. I used to watch my grandma, spend the night at her house before she was in nursing care. I woke up one evening and she was gasping for air. He can't stand up to his mom. I called and told him she was having trouble breathing and I just wanted to give him a heads up because I was thinking about calling an ambulance. The first thing my dad asked me was "well how does SHE feel about taking an ambulance?" she was being stubborn like always. He replied "WELL YOU CANT FORCE MY MOTHER TO GO IF SHE DOESNT WANT TO!!!" I called anyway. My dad later told me I had done well by her and he was glad I was there. Well this time he just runs out to meet her at the hospital. Doesn't tell anyone ****. my mom goes with him instead of staying home with my niece, or calling me or my brother to watch her. When he gets home I tell him he should really secure his guns or call someone to watch my her, like I called him to make sure he was informed about my grandmas state when she was on my watch. He replied "I'm the one with the 2 college degrees, who are you to tell me what to do in my house. You're not man enough, and the only reason you called me about grandma is because you weren't man enough to make the call on your own and you needed my help." I shouted and called him out on his bullshit, he got really scared and called the cops, only to back out and cancel the call

I'm a 20 year old male. I study acting, while working in a network marketing company. I live in Greece and as you know the economic crisis here is almost killing people, but I'm raising enough money to afford my mother's needs. My father left me when I was 2 years old and he doesn't want me to contact him. The only one I have in my life is my mother. She's suffering from lung cancer. She's fighting with her illness for 2 years now, but the doctors say that there's not much hope left for her staying alive. What should I do if she dies? I have no one. I'm working like a dog to keep her alive. I can't live alone. Don't tell me to find a girlfriend for myself. All women will leave you at a certain point. Our extended family rarely contact us. I can't imagine my life without my mother. I'll be terribly alone.

So, my auntie and cousins came to visit my family for 2 weeks, they are from Alaska and we are from California. They got here yesterday and are staying at my grandma s place and it was so exciting to see them once again! Today was the second day that they ve been here and tomorrow is Monday which means I have school... I don t want to let school take up half of the day of me spending memorable time with them. I need all full days to be able to play with my cousins and shop with my auntie but school is taking that opportunity away from me. I feel mad and frustrated with school, especially when my mom and aunties are out shopping without me while I suffer in school. I know school is a big deal and huge impact to my future but I just feel like school is taking away my time and hours away from my family. It s so annoying when I m thinking about. Half of the day of spending time with my auntie and cousins is not enough!!! I want to go out and do fun things too with them. I asked my mom if I could have an early dismissal during 6th period but she said "no". It s not fair!

So since My parents marriage was arranged my dads mom never liked my mom and I was so depressed that I found out my mom told me my paternal grandmother called me crazy and disabled and my grandma only loved her other grandchildren and she never wanted my dad to marry my mother so he listened to her and moved in with her and I was upset that my dad doesn't live with me anymore so he starts treating my mom bad. By then my mom wanted to move to a different city and I never made good friends and went through bad relationships and I had some good friends at my old school. Now I'm in high school and I started having a crush then he started hurting my feelings and I was so insecure about my crush liking someone else because I think he was just flirting with e so he can play with my feelings. I never had a good life in my new city and I never saw my dads family again and now that I know that they don't treat me like I'm in their family and never invited me and my mom and brother anywhere and it makes so sad and angry :( my mom thought my paternal grandmother was responsible for this and she only dislikes ,y mom because she's from a different country. I've been struggling with anxiety up till now.

So the other day I got into an argument with my husband and I guess in the moment he called my father to tell him. I never share my problems with my father just because of the way he is. I send him a message saying goodnight I love you and he took forever to reply. Knowing him he was upset, he told me he thought things were good and he wishes things like this wouldn't happen and that now he doesn't know how to feel and that he feels bad for what our son feels. My son wasn't present in the argument. I never share any problems with my dad because his sensitivite and I just don't like to burden him. I feel like he's disappointed in me and that just makes me feel lonely. How can I explain to him that he shouldn't worry or feel the way he does. I love my dad but when he gets upset he will distantes himself from me that really hurts

Im 15 &I'm scared of the future I'm scared of dying &I often think about what its going 2 be like when u die which is rotting and being dirt &being forgotten & then it's like u were never here I randomly think about it sometimeswhen I'm in bed I think of how I could die in mysleep or someone could shoot me through my window &im scared 2 go to sleep but I force myself 2 move past it & to stop thinking about it &my grandma wants tomove to Texas in the next 1-2 years but what about my mom she can't even keep a job she'll gethired and be soexcited but won't go in the day she starts we both have social anxiety Icould move in with my dad & his wife but I don't really want to live with 3 very young siblings if I moved in they'd have 4 kids to take care of and idk if my dad's wife even likes me but my dad says I'm welcome to move in but I'd still have 2switch schools &I love my friends &my sister would want to move to Texas with my grandma so mypets would probably be going 2Texas except for my fish because they're mine unless mydad doesn't let me bring them and my dad already has a dog and would have 4 kids to take care of so I don't think he'd let me keep oneof my cats or a dog if I could keep one of my pets also I want to get help with my social anxiety from a school counselor because no one has time totake me to a counselor but I get nervous &I don't and both times I have been to theguidance counselorsoffice they really don't seem that nice but I'm also sensitive so maybe it's me

Everytime she gets mad at me, which is over me just saying something in an annoyed tone or even in a normal tone, and I try to explain myself or say that she always does this she always says "everything s my fault isnt it" and I have to attempt to calm her down. My dad tells me to be nice to her since she has ptsd but I dont think thats an excuse to do that at least once a week to your kid. Its annoying and she says she wants this family to be happy but I dont think she does..

I m 15 and I live with my grandma and grandpa my mom visits often like pretty much everyday she doesn t live here because she can t stand my grandma or my aunt my mom doesn t really have a home she carries her stuff with her and either stays a her bfs my brother or her friends house and sometimes she spends the night here anyway my grandma asks the same question over and over even though I already answered she almost never lets me have friends over she says she only has one day off and she doesn t want to look after more children but she s off Sunday I want them over on Friday or Saturday and we don t even bother her my grandma has depression and she takes Xanax and when she runs out of Xanax she goes to my mom s ex bf to buy more and she only ever really talks to me when she s drinking but when she s drinking she s such a snob and says she hates my mom to my mom when you try to talk to her about things she s like I do SO much for you which is true but I need emotional support too but she s always the victim and we never go places and she wants to move to Texas in like 1 or 2 years but what about my mom and I don t want to leave my friends and my school I could live with my dad but I don t want to live with 3 very young siblings and even if I did move in with him I would still have to switch schools I don t want to leave my friends but I can t stand my grandma either she s so so sooo stressful and when she s having a bad day she s such a b**ch

Long story short, my uncle, my dads brother, put his hands under my shirt and rubbed and played with my breasts when I was 8. I'm 21 now. He lived with us and stayed in my room with me along with his daughter. I never said anything not because he threatened me because he didn't but because, his daughter and I was close and he is all she has and I didn't want anything to happen to her. I didn't want to ruin her and my bond. And I didn't tell as well because I made myself believe it didn't happened.. I put myself in denial. I don't know how to tell my parents to this day.

So, my parents have been divorced for 10 years. My dad was a drunk, and my mom just yelled a lot. All they did was fought. Well, my dad became sober about 5 years ago, and is the dad I wish I had back than. Anyway, my mom gets pretty often. Probably more often than I know, seeing as I dont live with her. I happened to visit her un announced while she was having one of her episodes twice. I've really pressed her about going to rehab, but just gave up. She says shes only been drinking on the weekends lately, and she seemed to be doing pretty good. I needed to borrow her dog nail clippers, so I called to see if I could go and get them. She didnt answer my calls so i went to check on her. She was passed out drunk. I woke her up, and asked if she was okay. She said yes. I knee she wasnt, so I kepped pressing her. She finally told me that she loves my dad, but she hates him for not getting sober when they were married. I see were shes coming from, but I guess he had to hit rock bottom first. In his defense, she took the house, that he worked so hard on, and $50,000 in the divorce, which I know she feels guilty about. I told her she needs to quit drinking, and that I'm going to throw all her alchohol out (which I did). That's the first time she told me how she feels about my dad. Should I even say anything about it to my dad? I know he feels a lot of anger torwards my mother, so I dont know how he would react. Or should I just keep my mouth shut?

For years I was sexually abused by my older brother. To make matters worse, my mom knew it was going on and did nothing to stop it or protect me. I'm now married and have children of my own and expects me to pretend like nothing ever happened. She wants me to go to family events and pretend like we're one big happy family. I don't feel like I can do it anymore and keep the facade up and all the secrets. I'm wondering if I would be justified in cutting off contact so I don't have to pretend anymore? Thanks for listening

I turned 16 on March 15th and my parents gave me $500, I honestly don't now what to buy with this money so I started thinking maybe I should buy food, like go to nice restaurants because when my parents buy me food it is very limited like McDonald's or Hardee's or Burger King. My parents said I can buy whatever I want with it, would it be weird to go to a lot of nice restaurants everyday until I have no money left?

I'm 19 and my mom is very protective and makes me share my location with her. She thinks I'm going to work but they let me leave early so i can go on a date. Is there a way to pause location so it looks like I'm at work or someway to stop sharing that she won't know about?

My parents just told me they want to move houses. I will be a senior in high schools next year and I m scared that my credits won t transfer over. I m not that nervous about friends, I don t have any at my current school but I m still nervous because it s my last year soon and they want to move. I told my friends and one of them offered to let me live with her for that last year but my parents won t let me. Will I get in trouble if I decide to stay? Should I stay with my friend? I have a job and she said her mom will let me stay with them as long as I can pay for my own things I don t have to pay rent. Or should I go with my parents and hope for the best? please help!

My dad took my phone forever. In a nutshell, he told me to give him my phone and I reseted it because I didn't want him reading my texts and invading my privacy. He got really mad and beat me with a stick and took my phone away. 5 months have passed and he still hasn't given me my phone back. 2 months ago I asked him if he could give me my phone back and he said I wouldn't get it back until I turned 18. I understand I shounldnt have done what I did, I apologized and have since acted responsibly to earn my parents trust back but my dad just doesn't want to forgive me. I wrote an essay giving him reasons as to why he should return me my phone and showed my mother. She shook her head with disappointment and left my room. What should I do to have my phone back? I have already apologized, I have acted responsibly and I have kept my grades high. I don't know what else to do.

My husband gave my ex sister in law money for my niece. I had already told him she was a bit too friendly with him and I don't like the attitude. He didn't tell me this till my niece mentioned it to my brother. And he said it to me.

I am 24 and fell out with my Dad after getting arrested. I am due to go to court on Tuesday and my plea deal is 3 months jail plus probation after. He is a police officer and was told I had been arrested and we fell out after that. He said I had embarassed him, brought shame on the family and was a bad influence on my younger brothers who are 17 and 14. I told him I was an adult and didnt need him judging me. We haven;t spoken for ages now and I feel bad just in case anything were to happen to him or me in the next few months. I still feel angry with him but am thinking maybe I should go and try to talk to him before Tuesday?

I am a year from graduating and getting a bachelors degree and I plan on studying medicine (as an undergrad) afterwards. I have always wanted to be a doctor but given my circumstances, my parents told me I should study something else for my undergrad and so I did and am about to graduate soon. Usually parents want their children to pursue medicine etc but mine don't. I feel really sad because I don't have the support system like others do. All i want is to study medicine to use my knowledge and skills to help people and do good for the aociety woth my passion and love i have for others yet I feel really down that my parents dont seem to support that idea. What do you think I should do? Study medicine regardless of no support system or don't study medicine and be a teacher or whatever.

Hello everyone, I want to ask if it is possible to run away from my current country to USA. I am 22 years old from Middle East. I really really want to run away because I have no freedom and I can't even go out with my cousin. My mum never allows me to do anything on my own. I wanted to find a part-time job while studying in college but she refused to let me go to work while studying. I CAN'T LIVE LIKE THIS ANYMORE!! and there are so many stuff that she never allows me to do. My dad is not living with us. He unfortunately lives with my step-mother, haven't seen him for like 2 years or more. Both my parents are strict just because I am the only girl between 4 brothers. It is so freaking frustrated to see that my mum allows my big and small brother to go out with their friends and they come back to home at 3-4 AM. Please I am begging ya'll I need to escape this hell, I can't live like this anymore.

I was at my mother in law Jill's house. I really like her and I think she feels the same about me. When guys complain about my mother in law, I just smile and think how lucky I am to have a great mother in law. She was showing me her family photo album. It had pictures of Jill when she was in high school and college. To say she was beautiful then is an under statement. She was gorgeous. I told her she must have had guys waiting around the block to date her then. She said Yes, I had a lot of dates when I was younger. I was really wild then. OH MY GOD. That was not information I wanted to know. I guess we were closer the I thought. I decided to NEVER mention this to anyone and try to put it out of my mind. I will NEVER talk to her about her younger days. This conversation will just be our secret. Please tell me if this is the right way to handle this? How do I get this out of my mind?