My friends wife blew me a bunch of kisses out of the random. Before she never did this. I was like wtf. Why would this be?

Say, a friend texts you out of the blue, and says that they are having a beer, and steak. Would it be rude to just respond with "ok"?

Hello i know this is very immature of me, but not long ago i had an affair with this woman at work. Her name is Alyssa, We had sex only once back in early January. She's obviously married and i doo feel bad. This turned into drama, alot of people knew there was something going on between us. But no one knows i slept with her, there's 2 people i work with, and they caused soo much drama. They kept putting they're nose in our busniess and it got annoying. They told me that Alyssa could never be interested in a guy like me. Sooo i want to send those 2 people an anonymous text, telling them that i slept with Alyssa. But i dont wanna use my name nor Alysas's name because we dont want us to get in trouble. I wanna drop hits to those people. And even if they doo try to cause drama, they wont have proof its me. But i dont know what to say. What should i say??????? I doo have feelings for Alyssa, i wasn't using her. 300 people work with us anyways

i have a crush on this guy at my job. Im not friends with this guy i barely know him. When im around, i noticed that they act weird. They either smile and look down at the floor or they get on their phones. But either way theyre always smiling. For example, we were in this elevator and my crush stood by me and he said hello and his three friends started smiling and blushing. They didn't speak to me but they were smiling hard and didn't wanna look up at us. Even my crush was turning red and he kept looking at the ceiling. They look anywhere but at me.

i facetimed my best friend a lot this weekend on saturday and sunday the first thing he said when he first saw me through facetime was "you look so good" he's gay so don't say he likes me haha but i was thinking what does this actually mean? like does it mean "you look so pretty" or "you look so beautiful" like what does it actually mean? thanks xxx

I've known these guys for four to five years and I'm really close with them, but I really just feel as if my brother has stolen them all from me. A little bit of backstory, I'm currently 14 and a male. I met these guys when I was really young on Minecraft. We played all the time, we joked around, we'd build, even do some dumb role-plays sometimes. Everything was fun, but my older brother would get on sometimes. It was okay with me. He got to know a lot of my friends and they knew he was my brother. Flash forwards some years and we talk through Discord. My brother isn't in the Discord server, and forces me to let him in as he's older. He starts talking to them and lets them know that he's my brother, he hadn't been in the Discord server before. Before I know it, he's much closer to them than he was ever before. At some point I'm kicked from this group, the people I've known for 4-5 years kicked me because I was the "annoying little brother" apparently. One of my other friends invites me back, angry at the other friends for kicking me. After that, my relationship isn't the same with my other friends. My brother is way closer to them now than I ever was and tells me not to include myself with games and role-plays they all do because he simply doesn't want me there. I feel left out and abandoned by my own friends, the only time they even mention me in Discord is to ask where my brother is. I don't know what to do, but I don't want to tell my friends about how I feel either.

Me and this guy have been friends for almost a year now he's usually always in a good mood and all... until I bring my friends around. (This started a month ago) My best friend who's a girl btw, when ever we all hang out together he's really rude to me And hardly acknowledges that I'm there. They currently talk all the time now but I think I'm out a friend. Me and him never fought, I'm confused to what's going on. Could it be because he has feelings for my friend but that wouldn't make sense of why he's being rude to me? Me and him still talk and he's nice to me when we're alone it's just around her he's like this.? Anyone got any advice?

I really don't try to fit into my highschool. Part of me just wants to avoid the drama. Kind of a loner and I don't talk to people much. I don't participate in any sports or after school activities, but I do have a job. I'm so lazy too so that's why I do much for my school. Is this normal behavior for a 17 year old.

I have a French group project with two of my friends. We have till Tuesday to finish it, and we only had about a week to work on it. I had a horribly busy week, as in I was only getting to bed around 1 am, and waking up at my usual 5:30. And then I still had school. I told them I would work on it this weekend, which I definitely would do, because I have a free weekend and I stick to commitments. When I go onto the online presentation, they ve finished everything a couple days ago. Now I might lose credit, and I m still willing to do work. what should I do?

I feel bad for constantly turning my friends down when the ask me to hang out, but I just don't feel up to it and I don't know how to tell them that. A few of them have made it clear they're mad at me, they say I'm being rude. That's exactly why I don't want to hang out with them though. They never consider how I feel. I struggle with depression and as of late it's been really hard to even just get out of bed. If I try to explain what I'm going through to them they'll turn it around and tell me how much worse their life is. They are so negative and it's not what I need right now. I just don't feel up to hanging out right now. Every advice column suggests I ditch them and get new friends. I have a hard time making friends and I've been friends with this group for a really long time. They mean a lot to me. When I'm feeling more like myself I actually enjoy giving them advice, it makes me feel good, like I'm useful. I'm not sure what I should do, if I should suck it up fake a smile and go out anyway, if I should distance myself, if I should try getting them to listen (how?), or if there's some other way I should handle this situation. At the very least how can I politely turn down their offers to hang out without upsetting them?

But not how you would think. I want friends that will skateboard with me cause I want to learn. Who will go to abandoned houses with spray paint. Who will go to mountains to take risks with me. I want to feel alive, and lately it's been to hard. I need new people. What can I do?

I used to have this friend, we'll call her Casey. We met online and we were pretty close, used to Skype and stuff. We finally met when it was my 23rd birthday party. She had nothing, but bad things to say about my best friend and that kind of made me have an issue with her in the first place. Fast forward over a year later, I got a boyfriend (which she is engaged and has been with the same guy for years so she wasn't trying to steal him from me). She was seemingly quite miserable back then because she began stalking my activity on Instagram. She saw that I was posting flirty comments on a friend's (who I adored, but whom didn't like me back that way) and went behind my back and messaged my then-boyfriend and told him. She said I was obsessed with this other guy and that I was probably just using him so that I could have a boyfriend (WRONG! I genuinely liked the guy). That guy had decided he didn't want to be "second place" and broke up with me. I was really hurt after that and cut Casey out of my life. In early 2016, I decided to make those issues water under the bridge and I forgave her. We began catching up again and being friendly. In early 2017, I had made an anonymous messaging account and shared it with my FB friends. I started getting really mean/harsh anonymous messages. I had delete HER, as well as a few others that seemed fake, off my friends list and the anon. messages stopped. I had blocked her for a bit and unblocked her fairly recently. I got a message from her last night, randomly asking why we're not friends on Facebook. How would you respond to that? I kind of want to be like "No offense, but why would we be?" Another part of me wants to say "Well, we haven't talked in 2 years and I don't really feel the need to." I'm 28, she's 26. Any idea how to handle this or respond to her? Or should I just ignore her/delete her message?

So my fiance is 31, Her personality strikes a good balance between responsible and I like to have a good time which is great. I encourage her to spend time with her friends whenever she can because I know that she enjoys them but the problem is that I despise her friends, they come from a small town and they are all pretty much the same there is only one I can tolerate. The others are all older then us by 5-25 years but none of them are adults. Their goal every weekend is to get drunk by noon and then stay that way all day. The group lives on gossip and there is at least one member who is always fighting with all the others. One of the friends knows that I have completely different political beliefs then her so she spends a good deal of her time trying to get my fiance riled up. I try not to intrude on their friend time but I do get invited to join and they only reason I think that she is friends with this group is because they included her when she was going through a rough patch in her life. I absolutely do not want to come between her and her friends but from what I see they are kind of a toxic relationship. She gets drawn into the drama, though she is never the cause and when she hangs out with them all they do is drink. I want to say something but I don't want to be an asshole, I'm not sure what to do. They aren't close but they are and I think that she would take great offense if I said that I didn't like them. I've tried to get her to make other friends but to no avail

my one friend, well he's not really my friend, but, he says he's gonna vote for Trump in 2020? But he smells like real bad and Lonnie the girl he was trying to talk to poured her coke on him last week?

So I started school couple years ago & now I graduated. I recommend her starting school and she's upset that she's starting without me. The thing is I told her let's start together. She didn't want to. She claims she doesn't remember me saying that. This isn't the first time I went back to school either. Is she a real friend? Or am I a bad friend? I feel like some things in life doesn't require someone to hold your hand. Even if I didn't tell her to start with me. Do I have to? I even remember her telling me why are you going to school for that? That's not your passion.

I have a friend who is obsessed with what other people earn and spend. She constantly talks about getting a mortgage (she s 25 and isn t in a position to do so yet) and continually criticises how other friends spend their money or how they don t save enough. One friend is currently working part time and she took it upon herself to send her jobs, even though the woman didn t ask her to. She then criticised her saying she doesn t think she applied for them, how could she be ok to be on such a small amount of money etc. She started sending me jobs when I started college, and I also hadn t asked her to. A lot of them were not suitable, one was in China (I don t speak chinese) and then interrogated me on whether I heard back after applying etc. It seems really controlling and there s no fun in hanging around her anymore. She just obsesses about money and finance and frankly concerns herself in stuff that is none of her business. I do not feel comfortable speaking to her about it, because I know she will get extremely defensive. What should I do?

I dropped her because she was toxic to me, stressed me out to where I wasn't focused on my schoolwork, and she was always saying things behind my back. It took me until my senior year of high school to let go of her and realize these things. I admit I have said things out of anger about her to others, but I managed to move on and stop talking about her. She continued to say things and even after a year, she won't stop. She tried to apologize and I told her "I moved on" and she got angry because I won't be her friend again so she tried to break my boyfriend and I up. He ignored her of course and told me about it. One of my friends still has her on twitter and apparently, she posts stuff about me on there too. She tried texting one of my close friends that she wants to "apologize" again. I don't want to talk to her because I know she'll just act the way she did the first time and I want to just leave this all behind me. We're not even in high school anymore, so you'd think she'd get tired of talking about me. Every time she would say stuff behind my back, I just ignored it instead of saying things to her.

My friend was raped/sexually assaulted recently and i want to know how to help him cope. Any ideas?

At my job, I always try to be respectful and friendly to everyone I work with and have garners a very good reputation with my coworkers. However, I have recently noticed that I've never been invited to any of the get togethers (game night, movie night, etc). Additionally I've noticed that whenever I message any of them just to say hey, or ask about the schedule it takes them days at a time to message me back (In one case weeks). What hurts even more is one of my collegues that I've gotten to know pretty well since they were hired always tells me that they don't mean to ignore me and that they appreciate how kind and frendly I am, but I am starting to have my doubts. Having had to overcome a two year depression where I lost a large part of myself, taking the time to be open up and be friendly with new people has been one of my best achievements since. Nonetheless, I feel as if I am being taken for granted. Do I have a right to feel this way, or am I drawing a far too negative conclusion about this.

Okay, this sounds really mean, and I want to clarify that I don't think I'm better than anybody or anything like that. I'm a junior in high school, and I feel like I'm surrounded by idiots. My friends at my school are more acquaintances because I don't like most of the kids at my school and they're the best in the situation I'm in because I attend a magnet school and my actual friends go to my zone high school, but anyways, these kids are making poor decisions like underage drinking, getting High at school, doing things like LSD and Xans...you get the jist and just not applying themselves, and they're a lot smarter than they act. Like, we'll be in class and they'll sit there and play on their phones and worry about their image on social media rather than focusing on their futures. They're from wealthy neighborhoods and have everything going for them and everything given to them, yet they're just lazy and they're convinced that they're just "having fun" and "living life". I hate the idea of seeing people I'm around throwing their lives away just because they want to have fun, I feel like I'm surrounded by idiots and I've stopped hanging with them outside of school and slowly distanced myself from them. My questions are, am I wrong for thinking this and am I wrong for leaving them ?

I was born on November 8, 2003 and my friend was born on January 26, 2004. That would make me a year older right? since we were born in different years. He is saying no but I think yes. Who is right?

Now ex-friend. But What does it mean when your quiet/calm/easy going friend becomes very happy and energetic like how you yourself usually are, after betraying you? Was she hating all along? Is she doing it to get at you?

My boyfriend has female friends. And I'm totally okay with the one's I've met, but there's one who I don't know who he hangs out with when I'm not around. I trust him and am happy for him to hang out with his friends regardless of gender, but this situation seems to bother me. He hangs out with her at a makeup store ( he has no interest in makeup/ has never gone with me to a makeup store). I want to be able to trust him and his friends, but the dynamic between them needs to change now that he's in a relationship. I'd never try to control who my boyfriend is friends with, but I'll absolutely set boundaries—without them, everything is a gray area and someone always gets hurt. It's absolutely nothing personal. I want them to know that me putting up boundaries has nothing to do with them. It doesn't matter who they are, I would do the same thing with anyone. It's not about pushing them out, it's about protecting everyone and trying to make expectations clear. Just because I lay out a few rules doesn't mean that I don't like or trust them. 'm actually happy that he has female friends who have stuck by him and probably had influence in the kind of man he became. I just wish I was friends with her too and I'd like to be. I feel like staying away from your boyfriend's friends is totally uncool. I want all of us to hang out together and have fun.

My friend and I play a lot of video games online, and we chat in q party. I was playing a game, and he was playing another game, so he messaged me if I want to play than he is online. I said okay. Than he sent me a party invite a few minutes later, and said he was kinda bored so he wanted to talk to some one. I said okay. There was a 10 second silence, so I was like "are you gonna talk? Than he told me something funny that happened, and than left the party. He loses connection slot, but when that happens he joins right back, but he hasnt.

I'm experiencing a "no sound" problem with my Bausch Radio jobsite 360D, everything else is filunctioning, radio's sound cones in for two minutes then the sound cuts off until I turn tge unit off then back on again. Any ideas, I am handy at repainting any and everything, including cell phones, b I t this radio will be my first attempt, YouTube has a "teardown" of a radio like this unit so I know how to disassemble it?

During lunch at school, I read whatever book I'm reading and girls always laugh at me and tell me i'm a loser and then run off telling me that I should kill myself because I like to read.

I quit talking to him completely I just blocked his number and gave him no explanation what so ever, I just feel like it's my life and if the people in it need to add value in my life (and vice versa) or else I don't need them. Is this the right move or am I wrong?

I lost my wallet and I think that happened because I was too tired when I went out. I told to my coworker I lost my wallet and he said I'm such a good person and I trust people too much and maybe I told someone I had money. So I thought he was saying I was naive without saying that word and I asked him if he thinks I trust everybody and he said no. I was offended because in the past maybe 50 people told me I'm naive and I don't know what to do. I refused to be friends with the last person who told me I shouldn't trust everybody and I told her I didn't trust her. I offended her because I wanted to. Now I decided I don't want to be friends with him but I didn't say nothing. After he few days I was silent because I didn't want to talk because I was paranoid about talking and saying the wrong thing. So my coworker asked me if I was sad because I lost other money and I told him I never lost my wallet and that was a joke. Do you think I should say no if he invites me to go out with his friends? Once I said yes but now I don't want too anymore because I don't like what he thinks about me and being friends with people who wants to help me never worked out. But I'm sad I have to send people away. English isn't my first language.

I'm a guy and I met this woman from work back in early 2018. I found her very attractive and I had a big crush on her, she always knew i had a crush on her and she was really cool about it. we would always talk, she would always stare at me and she would blush when she would talk to me. I felt so Much Chemistry and connection between us, the problem is that she was married and she had kids. but later a lot of coworkers reported me and my friend for always talking and flirting at work. we got in lots of trouble eventually drama began, so my supervisor told us to stop talking to each other to avoid drama. I noticed she had got very stressed out with everything that was going on at work, me and her would still talk behind everybody's back and she even promised to have my back. one day I gave her a $20 gift card to a coffee shop for Christmas and she accepted and then she said thank you. but a few days later she told my supervisor that I bought her a gift, and that my presence is affecting her job. so my supervisor obviously got very mad at me and removed me from the floor, and put me in a different area with a different schedule far away from her. I noticed when i saw her in the hall she would look always look down. She would still stare at me from a far. she deleted me off Facebook about a month ago , but recently I noticed that she blocked me on facebook a few days ago. why would she bother blocking me?????? I never try messaging her again any ways

I quit talking to him completely I just blocked his number and gave him no explanation what so ever, I just feel like it's my life and if the people in it need to add value in my life (and vice versa) or else I don't need them. Is this the right move or am I wrong?

One of my very good friends who is 15 years old just shared in a group chat that she had just eaten a bell pepper for the first time in her life and that it "tasted like thick leaves". This is not super surprising because they only things I've ever seen her eat are Nutella on white bread, popcorn, popcorn chips, smart food, piarates booty, Lindt chocolates, cheese pizza and water. This is not an exageration at all. These are the only things I've seen her eat. How can I explain to her that this is not acceptable. Also she doesn't know how to tie her shoes. She is fifteen and cannot tie her shoes. It's also worth noting that she is in no way physically or mentally handicapped. She just lives this way. How do I tell her she's wasting her life????