I was in a parking lot with my older, married guy friend. He was going to give me a ride home. He was trying to open his sunroof, when the piece that opens his sunroof (he has a quite old car) fell off and onto the ground, in between my legs. I kid you not: without hesitation and without saying "excuse me" or anything, he reached his arm in between my legs and reached down to get the piece off the floor. I can't lie, I have a slight crush on him (but I'm respectful) and I was worked up for DAYS after that. Why would he do something like that? He could have asked me to pick my legs up real quick or he could've said "excuse me", rather than just reach down between my legs lol. What made it innocent was his 10 year old son was in the backseat, but I doubt he was paying attention. He was about 5-6 inches from my crotch, mind you. Anon, about him? Yes. But this really happened lol.

Would you still want to marry somebody if you found out they're still in love with a married friend of theirs? They have never done ANYTHING with the friend, they're just in love with them, yet they respect the friend's marriage and family and has never said a word to the friend about their feelings. They're with you because they DO love you and want to spend their life with you, they just don't know how to get over the friend. How would you be second choice if the person they're in love with is married? And always has been?

It happened three years ago, I met another female online we would write dirty stuff to one another which my husband kind of knew about. We had a plan for all three of us meet up and to have sex together so he gave me permission to keep talking to her. He didn't know the extent of it though. It went further than just discussing our plans and flirting. It evolved to us touching our selves and talking about some dirty things. I feel horribly despicable undeserving of my husband and I carry the guilt and self-loathing with me every day. Some days it's easier than others but when we fight I feel it the worse. I just can't find the strength to tell him though as horrible I know that is. I also fear one day she may reveal it to my husband and so I worry about that too. When I start to worry I distract my self and though that fear isn't as prevalent, the guilt still is. I really don't expect an answer I just felt like if I vented it would some how help the weight that I feel. Thanks for reading

So I (23/M) have been with my wife for a few months now. We dated for years. We had falling out when we were in the earlier stages of our relationship due to some dishonesty and immaturity (the dishonesty being her and the immaturity being both of us to a large degree) so we went our ways for a bit and got back together. And we have been together since. Problem is, my mother is a little overbearing. Even during our first relationship she never liked my wife. I'm not sure why, I've been in a few abusive relationships before sure, but my wife has never been violent nor anything of the sort. She second guessed everything she did even before the falling out, even to calling me multiple times a day and just bagging on her. Keep in mind I had moved out and had been out for abt a year and a half. Even on our wedding day she was telling me to just wait and have it at a later date, to the point she did it up until we were at the court house. Recently the wife has lost her voice and has been sent home a few times for it (retail, ugh) and my mother has told me she doesnt believe she really has list her voice. Should I believe my mother about everything she thinks, should I cut ties with my mother and move towns (we live in the apartments further down the hill from her)

Due to females spending habits and unreasonable needs, wives have a history of depleting funds in an account. And in an event of a divorce, the account becomes 100 percent hers. Look what that gold digger did to Emmanual Eboue. So men, would you trust to share a bank account with your wife or even girlfriend?

Me and my husband have been married for 2 years now and we've never really opened up to the idea of having children. We were just in love and enjoying our moments together but lately I feel like our marriage is incomplete. Having a child sounds like the most amazing thing in the world and I don't know how to really tell my husband because I'm shy especially when it comes to anything sexual. Any advice?

My husband and I were playing Super Mario Party, when i had the opportunity to steal someone's star or coins. I stole the computer's coins instead of taking my husbands star or coins. The next game, he stole my star. He could have taken the computer's star or another player, but he betrayed me. Do I divorce him? Or should I rematch him and screw him over at every opportunity?

So It has come to my attention that my dad and my mom divorced when I was 20 in 2005. They still talk to each other every few weeks or so but basically my mom cheated on my dad and my dad got angry at my mom. Their marriage was never a happy one. Now they're friendly to each other but that's it. On the other hand my grandpa and my grandma were married for 54 years before she died in 2000. They were a happy couple. My grandpa was a Marine who fought in WWII so sometimes he got asked about his personal life in interviews and when talking about grandma he wasn't sad. I mean you could tell he was missing her but when asked about her he told "she was a great girl,we had a 54 years honeymoon... and.. I think she finally took as much of me as she could and checked out" but when he said that he laughed. It was a bittersweet laugh. They met in high school,she didn't like him at first but after he returned from the pacific she began liking him. He became a family doctor and died in 2015. My point is: from what I've seen in my family it's harder when you divorce your spouse or when she leaves you than when she dies,you agree with that? My theory is that if your spouses dies it's horrible,but you still have good memories,if she leaves you it hurts more. One person left the other by choice,my grandma didn't choose to die. What do you think?

I was recently married and I have a friend getting married at the end of the summer in the caribbean. My husband and I even before we were married agreed we would celebrate our 1st anniversary and 30th bdays by taking a vacation since we will probably want to start trying for a baby by this time next year. Prior to her making arrangements we expressed this to her. Her response was well you can still do somethin which is correct but not what we planned due to the timing of her wedding. She asked me to be in the wedding and we were in public and being caught up in the moment I agreed. Now I feel like since I agreed I m stuck because idk if she would understand if I declined at this point but I do feel like I m putting my original plans on the back burner. I also feel like she hasnt been considerate of guests time and money being dedicated to her day. On top of having a DW she wants a destination bachelorette party. Also she recently asked after I told her I couldnt make the bachelorette party if I had filed my taxes. I took this as an insult like I should be ok and use my refund toward her wedding even though that may not have been her intent. Right now for my husband and myself we are looking at about 3k for 4 nights so this would be our vacay for the year besides a few weekend getaways here and there. So long story short should I talk to her or just try to be the best MOH possible. On top of all that my husband is also graduating from a graduate program at JHU this year which was another thing we wanted to celebrate, but if we go we most likely wont be able to have an out of the country vacation until the following spring or summer. I know it sounds elementary but we enjoy celebrating the little things.

Should I divorce my husband? He took my star in Super Mario Party when he could have taken anyone else s star. The ultimate betrayal.. So do I divorce him?

If your 2 married parents say their going to split up does that mean they are getting a divorce?

So lately i have been the one trying to have sex with my husband but he says hes to tired, or just stays watching mivies in hes phone and then i get all mad because its always me wanting to start .... we have one baby... whh is he acting like that ? And any tips of what i should do .. ? Also its rare if he kisses me he only kisses me when hes gonna leave to work. ..

Just wondering how the court usually goes about it or if anyone has gone thru a divorce and had to pay or were receiving spousal support payments? My brother was married 7 years to his spouse if that helps any, also he has a truck that's under his name that isn't paid off but his soon to be ex wife is seeking ownership. Even if she did get to take the truck she would be responsible for the payments right?

What do you do if you don't feel the love you like to feel.

It was great sex , long distance , only met twice , I'm the most attractive woman he's ever had , I don't get it , no explanation .

I dont mean this in a rude way AT ALL, I m just struggling trying to decide whether I want to stay with my Navy boyfriend or break it off. I want to know why such a tough lifestyle would be something a woman would want? if you can counter argue the cons and be very specific, I d appreciate it!

7 yrs of marriage, 5 yrs old one kid. Husband shouts in every 4- 5days, calls me idiot stupid, I keep quite and cry and dont hv guts to say anything in return. What do I do?

I have been with my boyfriend fro 6 plus years and he hates that's I am so 'busy.' Within those 6 years, I've obtained my Masters, received a lot of promotions in my jobs, as well as other job opportunities. I'm good at what I do but yes, I work very hard at it. Anyway he always says how I focus too much on my career on not enough of time him and I. For instance, he works at the same job as me but as the janitor. He is very smart but he never got a college degree. Sometimes at the end of my day (this is his first hour of work) he wants to talk but I just want to get work done. He says how I am always so focused on my job and he is 3rd or 4th. But then he doesn't go out of his way for me like making me feel special. Maybe he calls me a lot but he hasn't bought me a gift for Christmas in over three years. He hates how I am always doing work but I make almost twice as much he makes for the year. He approaching 40 years old and he wants to be with me but at the same time he can't stand my 'routines' as he calls them and thinks I'm so outside 'reality.' How do I handle this? I spend at least 2 to 3 hours on the phone or in person with my bf talking