My husband and I already have two children. He has told me he is done with kids. Meanwhile one of my best friends wants a child but doesn't wish to get pregnant. She does NOT want to adopt. I told her I'm very willing to carry her child. She told her husband and they're very excited about it. Now my husband is against surrogacy and doesn't believe in that kind of thing but I want to give this gift to my friend. How do I tell him I'm doing it without his consent in the process?

My wife and i live with her grandparents. She just had our second child today and he has kicked me out and wont let me come see them or be with them in the residence. What can i do?

I know the woman he had it with and still see her around town. She is super friendly so I smile and greet her. I am afraid my uncle's wife who he is back with is going to blame me if she or their kids find out I know this ex-mistress. I am not personal friends with the mistress though my step-mother is and my Dad likes the woman a lot which scares me.

Almost all of the women I know who are married with kids do everything for their family. The husband goes to work, comes home to his dinner that his wife made him, watches some tv then goes to bed. He'll cut the lawn once a week and take out the trash. One of my friends barely sleeps. She takes care of her kids during the day then goes to work at night when they sleep. She maybe only sleeps 2 hours per night. Her husband has it easy, relaxing and only worrying about work. The one time he washed dishes she made a big announcement on Facebook that he helped her out. Why are women doing everything.

Hi I was wondering if anyone had any advice or know any resources I can utilize. I am in an unhappy marriage with 1 toddler and want to divorce but I am trapped. I'm currently unemployed and cannot find a position with the hours I need because I don't have any help from my family or partner to care for my young son. I have put him in daycare but the hours are typically very short. I feel very lost and depressed because I feel like I have to stay with this jerk because I don't have to funds to leave. Anyone have any advice? I'm open to different suggestions.

Hi, I was with someone for a year and I recently found out that he was engaged to someone else while we were together. Now he is married to that girl. We broke up a month before he left because I knew long distance would not work but he went back to get married and lied he had to move back home with family. We continued to talk long distance and shared how much we missed each other. Then one week find out he blocks from everything. I was so shocked because would not expect this. Through a mutual found out he was getting married. He also sucks at erasing all tracks because found a wedding page and saw his engagement pics from last year, while we were together. He is now back and has not made any attempt to apologize. Maybe he has tried but I blocked him because I know the truth and there is nothing he can say to justify the way he played with my emotions. Just recently found out he unblocked me on fb and poked me to get my attention. I blocked him there too. I don't know how to move on with this. Should I call him and get this off my chest? Even though I cut ties now, he knows where I live, where I work, he has made no effort to apologize he knows how bad this hurt me. I don't know how to get over this trauma. Please advise. sorry for my lengthy life story. I know there are bigger problems in the world but I feel broken knowing that the person I once loved betrayed me like this.

Usually you see low socioeconomic status women dating low socioeconomic status men. Such as men who work at Taco Bell dating women who work at McDonald's, etc etc. or unemployed welfare reliant men dating other unemployed welfare reliant women. And you also usually see middle class men dating and marrying middle class women. Guys who work as a plain boring office job doing sales making 50k a year or a police officer married to a woman who's a teacher or a desk assistant making 35k a year. And then you see guys who are CEO's, lawyers, doctors, engineers dating and marrying women who are also lawyers and doctors and engineers

First just so you guys know divorce is not a option for me personally so I only want help fixing it. So don't tell me it's beyond repair or to just leave because it will not help me. I feel like me and my husband are very snappy and rude to each other for no reason. I want to completely start over and be the loving life he deserves but he is making it impossible for me he is still rude no matter how nice I am. How do I lead him into the new kinder marriage I want us to have.

I just filed for divorce from my husband. There's no emotional support we've tried counseling. We haven't had any intimacy since September. He sleeps on the couch every night. We have two children a 2 and 10 year old. He suddenly doesn't like my cooking and won't eat with the family but instead cooks all his mothers recipes at around 9PM at night. This is not showing my children what a healthy relationship looks like. I have known for awhile we needed a divorce and I finally filed. I took today and tomorrow off just to process everything. I'm depressed and sad. He's already moved in with his mother. Is this normal? I've heard so many women say they were so relieved when they filed for divorce. I don't feel that way. How did you deal with the first few days after filing for divorce?

Not always but he lies a lot. He'll tell me something and then later when I bring it back up, he forgets or change it. He also lied to me about an illness that he once had and it almost "killed" him. He also lied about cheating. He lied to my family that I cheated on him and left him once with my boyfriend?! Purposely just to get me in trouble. He tells me one thing and does another like for example he likes blue but then tells me he likes red and then when someone likes blue, he'll be like "hey! Me too..it's my fav color" and then I'll be like"umm.. babe. I thought you said your fav color is red"? And then he'll say, "no. It's blue".. something like that. I hope that make sense. Or like every time we both agreed to flow together in one direction, he pulls in a different direction. Like we'll both agree to have pasta for dinner and then later he secretly order pizza. I'll be like I thought we both agreed on pasta? He'll be like "I change my mind" and then I'm like "why didn't you tell me? We debated for 2 hrs and then when we finally come down to the decision to make something we both like....you ordered pizza behind my back and didn't even tell me"??. He say nothing. By the way he only ordered for himself and what he likes.. he doesn't care about me. Damn! He's so shady. Is there even a reason to be with someone like this?

Basically I have a feeling my mom is cheating on my dad because sometimes when she is on her phone, and I walk past, she quickly exits the messaging app, Viber, and then clears all her chat history and all. I don't want to be invading her privacy but I feel like I want to know who she's talking to? It's really getting to me and i DONT know how to figure it out as there is no evidence at all. Also, she seems really kind of sneaky and all when she is messaging. I sometimes catch her messaging in the middle of the night (I sleep with her). Help! So, I see a lot of answers saying I shouldn't get in it coz it's not my business, and I totally respect that and that's why I came here to ask. I just wanted to figure out a way to see maybe get an idea of what's going on with out asking. The thank you guys so much though

I married my wife because she was hot, which was amazing at the time, but now I kind of wish I had married a sexy wife instead. Is there any way I can make my wife change from "hot" to "sexy?"

My and my ex are divorced and he pays child support and there is a shared parenting plan. But there isnt a set schedule when he gets them. He stays absent for 7 months with no contact and comes out of the blue and say he coming to get the kids that day. But I have already made plans with them and he come at the last minute and decide to want to get them. Should I cancel my plans for him?

I take pride and work hard to keep our place clean. Ever since we got married (3+ years)and we moved in together, we constantly fight over him being lazy. He doesn't Like to brush his teeth, at least once a day please! He doesn't like to shower, until he stinks miles away. Doesn't pick up after himself after I spent an hour cleaning in the morning. I just feel disrespected. Tired. Exhausted. I don't know how much more I can take of this.